UPDATED: If you need help, or if you want to help…

in Church of Bloggessianism, James Garfield for Sainthood

UPDATE! I’ve lost track of where we are but we’d Donated over $10,000 of toys in the first 24 hours & it’s been snowballing since then. My blog only shows 700 comments per page before making you click “newer comments” so here’s a sHortcut: click here for comments 700-1400, here for comments 1400-2100, here for comments 2100-2800, and here for comments after 2800.

Remember in 2010 when I gave out gift cards in the name of James Garfield (the taxidermied boar) to the first twenty people who told me they didn’t know how they were going to afford toys for their kids this year?  And it was awesome until  it became very apparent that there were more people who needed help, but then you guys came to the rescue and suddenly there were $40,000+ worth of donations from strangers to strangers?  That was awesome.  And exhausting.

Then in 2011 we worked together to sponsor Project Night Night Bags (a bag with a security blanket, a book and a stuffed animal) to 750 homeless children.

In 2012 we helped get Project Night Night Bags to 1,000 children who were homeless, or were displaced by Hurricane Sandy.

Last year we donated tens of thousands of dollars of bees, oxen, and llamas around the world, and again supported Project Night Night.

This year I say we do it all.  It’s been a good year for some of us.  A bad year for others.  Give if you really can.  Take if you really need.

You can click here if you want to donate $25 to sponsor a Project Night Night bag for a homeless child.  Or click here to help end world hunger and poverty by buying the ass end of a pig as an honorarium for someone you don’t like.  Because who is going to complain about getting a helpful pig ass in their honor for Christmas?  No one worth going to the mall for, probably.

Or if you are struggling to buy a single present for your child then do this…make a wish-list on Amazon (SEE UPDATES BELOW) and leave a comment below (with the age of your child, a link to your wish list, and anything else you want to share).  I’ve made money this year in affiliate ads because you guys have supported me here, so I’m giving back to help those who need support this year to get by.  So that means that – even if you don’t have the money to donate this year – if you supported this page in any way, then the donations from me are also from you.  Literally.

A few words of warning…I only have a limited amount of money so I can only help a limited amount of people.  If you choose to share your wish-list then gift-givers will be able to see your name and city, but your actual shipping address is kept confidential with Amazon.   Also, if you choose to be a gift-giver and pay for something on someone’s wish-list please know that I can’t verify anyone here so you have to go with your gut.

I’m in the middle of family visits, deadlines, and book edits but I’ll try to keep the comments updated as much as I can.

PS.  I just bought a live sheep and a bunch of Project Night Night bags in your honor.  Merry Christmas/Hanukkah/Kwanzaa/Festivus/GoodGravyGiving.  Thank you for letting me be part of such an amazing community.  You have no idea the difference you make.

PPS.  If you’re looking for something wonderful and inexpensive for your child I cannot over-recommend books.  Books were some of my best friends and still are, and they can take you miles away.  If you need suggestions, GoodReads has a great list of 100 Children’s Books to Read in a Lifetime.  Some of those books are like coming home again, and all are available for free at your local library.

PPPS.  It seems only fitting to end this with the taxidermied boar who inadvertently started this whole ridiculous thing.

James Garfield and I love you.
James Garfield and I love you.

UPDATED:  I’ve tried to buy several things on several wish lists but keep getting a  message telling me that there isn’t a verified address to send the presents to, so I’m just going to assume that I’m an idiot and instead I’m sending Amazon gift cards to the email addresses as noted in the comments.  Maybe someone smarter than me can tell me what I’m doing wrong.  Also, if you want to leave an email address in your comment you can but I won’t share it unless you actually type it into the comment box.

UPDATED X 2: Make sure you update your amazon profile to have a confirmed shipping address set up for your account.  See the comments for pointers.  So far almost everyone doesn’t so people aren’t able to ship to you.  Giant thanks to those who want to send me money so I can pass it on, but so much would be eaten in fees and taxes so it’s better for you to donate directly.  I’m sending gift cards for now but I suspect people will fix their profiles soon to make it easier.  And thank you for such an amazing response.  I love you guys.

UPDATED X 3: GOT IT!  Okay, the reason why we’re unable to ship to lots of you is because Amazon makes you select a shipping address for your wish list in a really complicated way.   I made a graphic to show how to do it but it’s 1:30am so forgive my typos…

shipping

December 26th update: I’ve lost track but you guys have donated well over $75k to helping struggling families during the holidays, including giving over $32k Night Night bags to homeless children, and donating to end world hunger and poverty.  I don’t even have the words, y’all.

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  1. I love that this blog post is becoming my own holiday tradition. Although, I don’t think hubs appreciated the bees as much as I thought he would. I’ll get them for my mother this year.

  2. Every child in America needs a copy of “The Book With No Pictures.” It’s the ultimate read-aloud book.

    That is all.

  3. So sweet Jenny! I got laid off this holiday season so I won’t be donating this year, however I will use some of my new found time off and volunteer at some shelters and such. Happy Holidays to all!

  8. Donated some bees for Heifer Project through Worldbuilders because I really wanted to see Patrick Rothfuss kiss a llama. It was worth it. Appreciate your efforts as well!

  9. Jenny, you helped me out over the summer when I was barely hanging on. I can’t say thank you enough times. Your generosity of spirit just another wonderful facet of you. Thank you for helping out so many other people as well.

  13. thank you so much for compiling this page.
    now i’m off to play eeny-meeny-miney-moe to decide who gets the ass end of a pig honorarium.

  14. I have only one wish this year. That the non-profit crisis hotline I volunteer for http://www.responsehotline.org/ whose funding has been cut yet again, gets some much needed donations. If you can, it would be wonderful if anyone can stop by the site and donate a little. Thank you so much. (and for the record, even though we’re a “local” hotline we don’t ask or care where you’re calling from, we’re there to listen and support anyone who needs someone to talk to, whether you’re suicidal or just need to vent.) <3 Thank you <3

    (Donated. Thank you for being awesome. ~ Jenny)

  15. You’re amazing and this blog restores my faith in humanity on a regular basis. One of these years, I’ll be able to donate, but until then I’ll draw warm fuzzies from everyone being amazing!

  16. Donated some bees to Heifer Project because my mom always supported them and she passed away this year from pancreatic cancer. Plus, I wanted to see Patrick Rothfuss kiss a llama for Worldbuilders. Totally worth it. I think you should ante up and volunteer to kiss something as well!

  17. I love you. And that crazy ass James Garfield. I’ll never forget the day we all told you to GO BACK AND GET HIM FOR GOD’S SAKE! There was a very special reason he was waiting just for you.
    MERRY HAPPY EVERYTHING, JENNY. xox

  18. Also, now I want bees. For myself. Which may or may not be ill-advised. Although I am the only non-stung survivor of The Swarm of 1972. (Someone disturbed a nest.)

  20. Im keeping my eye on comments. I don’t have much but I’m here for the tribe. Ill throw down on the first wish list i see. Children of the church of bloggess shall NOT go without!

    (I love you guys. I’m guessing it may take a bit of time for people to make a wishlist. I’ll be covering as many as I can myself but if you see some in the coming days and want to help that would be amazing. ~ Jenny)

  22. Oh and I am not wishing for anything, besides maybe a healthy dose of vodka to tolerate the in law drama on Christmas but that’s probably not the kind of wish one should make on Christmas.

  23. Project Night Night has become a part of my annual giving since you introduced me to them.

    I love the Amazon Wishlist idea

  24. My daughter was diagnosed with autism this year and I was diagnosed bi-polar, so out treatments and medications have severely drained us financially. She is six,and so super excited for Santa.This is her wish list. http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/wishlist/2N4PE61MTDG5F/ref=cm_wl_huc_view

    (Thought it worked but it bounced back and you didn’t leave your email address. Can you leave another comment and I’ll just email you a gift card? Thanks! ~ Jenny)

  25. Im keeping my eye on comments. I don’t have much but I’m here for the tribe. Ill throw down on the first wish list i see. Children of the church of bloggess shall NOT go without!

  27. I’m a mom of twin eleven-year-old girls, and I’m newly separated from my husband – he decided being married was too hard. I’m struggling to make ends meet as it is (I get no support from him whatsoever when it comes to feeding or clothing my girls), and Christmas is looking rather bleak this year. My girls have their lists on Amazon here: http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/giftlist/9H6TTKM6YL5U/ref=cm_go_nav_recip_gl?
    http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/giftlist/3CTR6KY6HSFO4/ref=cm_go_nav_recip_gl?

    I love your book and your blog, Jenny – and I think you have a heart of gold! Thank you!

    (Couldn’t get your address to load so I just emailed you an $80 amazon gift card. ~ Jenny)

  29. I’m not sure how to go about it, but I would really love to give my friend a leg up so she can have a nice Christmas with her little girl. She’s a young single mom, struggling to pay her bills and take care of her daughter, and one of those cautiously optimistic, always trying to believe the best in people types. I’m a broke student so I can’t help her as much as I want to, but if anyone has any ideas, I’d be extremely grateful.
    Get the warm fuzzies from these projects each year, Jenny. Thanks for putting the pieces together.

  31. Project Night Night bag sponsored. However, I’m pretty pissed that I finished all my Christmas shopping before I became aware that it was possible to donate the ass end of a pig to people. I hope I remember this for next year …

    Happy Holidays, Jenny, and thanks for being you (and for following me on the Twitter, because it sometimes makes people think I’m cool).

  32. Love that you are using Heifer, my family is now used to having chicks and ducks in their stockings. Thank you for being caring,vulnerable, hilarious you. Peace.

  33. This is an awesome opportunity. I’ve been struggling. 2014 has sucked for a myriad of reasons, the most financially draining being my father passing away and the travel back to San Angelo and missed time from work and my second oldest being run over by a semi truck (he’s doing great and walking again, we’re very thankful!) and the two months off from work nursing him. I haven’t bought a single present yet and having even one gift per child (I have four boys) or a great birthday present for the one who had the accident (Christmas baby, 12/22, he’ll be 12) would be awesome. I’m going to put a list together right now. It would be a blessing. If presents for four children is a little greedy, my friend of 25 years is battling a rare blood cancer and has a go fund me page for her cancer treatment. Despite our best efforts, it has not gone viral. I’d love to make that happen. https://www.giveforward.com/fundraiser/5qv5/neesh-s-cancer-fundraiser?utm_source=facebook&utm_medium=fb_wall&utm_campaign=dsp_dt3

    (Check your email. I sent you a $160 gift card. ~ Jenny)

  34. I saved one of the James Garfield cards that I put on our mantle every year. One Project Night Night bag donated in honor of the great JG!!

  35. No Amazon wish list because I don’t have children. But I have enormous student loan debt and started a GoFundMe account to see how many good people there are in the world. I will be donating to various animal shelters on behalf of those who donate to me – that is my gift and your reward.

    You can donate here: gofund.me/f04e9o

  36. I just saw my post which I thought didn’t go through, went through, so I’m seriously not asking twice, lol.

  37. If anyone has a little extra to donate, please consider the agency I work for: Crisis Services in Buffalo, NY. We have the county suicide hotline, a mental health outreach program, a homeless program, and my program – advocates for victims of domestic violence, sexual assault and elder abuse. We got hit hard by funding cuts this year and had to cut staff and services. Anything helps! Thank you and Happy Holidays!

    https://www.gifttool.com/donations/Donate?ID=2021&AID=1940

  38. This is the first Christmas that we’ve ever really struggled and I was so hesitant to ask for help. But here I am. My husband is a disabled vet who got laid off a few weeks ago and I’ve been walking around just hating the holidays this year. Your post gives me hope, whether or not I receive any help for my kids, because there’s people out there like you who give a damn. Thank you. http://amzn.com/w/280WS10CHWIX6

    (Just sent you an $80 gift card. ~ Jenny)

  39. Jenny,
    In 2010 my family benefited from your generosity. This year, we can’t do much, but I donated to Response Hotline in comment 14. Thank you for being you. You’re amazing.

  41. I don’t usually do this, but this year we have no money for gifts at all. I have 2 kids who have been a great sport about it and know that we can’t do anything so have asked for nothing.

    My Gift List for Krysta (female) 12yr old
    http://www.amazon.com/registry/giftlist/2R1XY6R0WIKT0

    My Gift List for Parish (male) 13yr old
    http://www.amazon.com/registry/giftlist/2JZD408474RX7

    (Couldn’t get amazon’s wish list thing to work properly so instead I just emailed you a gift card for $80. ~ Jenny)

  42. I’ve loved this blog since I woke up my husband late one night snickering over Beyonce. Thank you for restoring my faith in humans and providing a safe spot to go when I am overwhelmed and need a smile.

  44. Crossing my fingers and counting on a job offer before the holidays. If so, I am totally gifting someone a pig’s ass!

  45. This is my girls’ Santa list. Due to my ongoing illness and a broken car,we haven’t been able to get a tree or do our usual art & cooking projects. I was hoping to be able to get them each one thing. Asking for help is so hard, but any little bit would help. Love to all who are struggling right now. 2015 will be our year. -Jen
    http://www.amazon.com/registry/giftlist/2U4PP5WIV7M9G

    (Couldn’t get it to send properly so instead I emailed you an $80 amazon gift card. ~ Jenny)

  47. Jenny, you are so amazing, and this post has made me bawl. We are in such a hard financial place this year that even the smallest gifts seem out of our budget. My son is 10, and loves to read, draw, and is very much into engineering, robots, Minecraft, and science stuff. This is his Amazon wishlist:
    http://amzn.com/w/53M35NKW8IPF

    So much love to you and everyone in this community. <3

    (Problems with Amazon so instead I emailed you a $40 amazon gift card to help with presents. ~ Jenny)

  48. Julie — I don’t see your a link to the Amazon wish list? If you’ve now posted 3 times, make it a 4th for good measure 🙂

  49. My wish list is for lots of kids in Nairobi, Kenya. My BFF and I have been raising money for this school for five years now. It’s just us, no organization, but that means no overhead! Kelley has connections in the school, has been there and verified its needs and worthiness. The dollar goes far there, so just $5 will make a difference in a child’s life. Kelley and I believe that the only way out of poverty is through education. If you are interested, please visit our Go Fund Me page, http://www.gofundme.com/hcvf58 . For more on the school, check out the Facebook page, https://www.facebook.com/StellaMarrisCommunityEducationCentre?ref=aymt_homepage_panel .

    Thanks, Jenny, for all you have done for this broken Texan. Live long and prosper. 🙂

    (Donated. Thanks! ~ Jenny)

  52. This community is amazing! I will be donating what I can. Thank you all for keeping me laughing throughout the year!

  53. 4 boys, 15, 12, 11 and 7. Here is their wish list: http://amzn.com/w/29LIZW9QJ62JB DS Game for the 15 year old, microscope for the 12 year old, camo bedding for the 11 and dino toy for the 7 year old. Books for all. 🙂

    (I couldn’t get your link to work so I just emailed you a $160 amazon gift card. ~ Jenny)

  54. This is amazing. 😀

    No wishes from me, but unfortunately no donations or help either. Poor hubby has been off work for over 6 months (stress/depression/anxiety), and probably will be for another 6.

    However, a suggestion for those not wanting/needing a wish, but can’t give. Homemade cards to those that might need some love can really help, especially this time of year. (Did that once to a few folks on the street. Many hugs to be gotten. But my person phobia prevents that now 🙁 )

    Another suggestion for older families, our whole family (mom and Dad too) have little money, so we draw a name out of a hat and get something small for one person ($25 – $50 limit), and IF we can, small homemade or penny gifts for the “stockings”.

  56. I have a friend with a serious brain tumor who could some use help. I know moneys tight for some but of y’all could retweet or post his gofundme page that would be awesome! http://www.gofundme.com/c84wts ill return the favor with the hashtag #gravyforall! Also sorry for the multipost, im on my phone!

  57. Such a great idea. Thanks for using your platform to make a difference!! Today my son brought home a “wish list” he wrote at school (the link below will take you to a picture of it). My wish is that all of us could learn how to really see each other just a little better. I think your blog helps people do that.

  58. I have suffered with depression for many many years. I am on good meds, see a great therapist and am able to see the light again. I reached out And started volunteering for a cat rescue called Vancouver Orphan Kitten Rescue. We are 100 per cent No Kill, 100 per Not For Profit and 100 per cent Volunter run. I applied as a Foster on a Wednesday and had my first pregnant kitty on the Friday. That was 3 years ago and my family and I have fostered 124 pregnants, abandoned, surrendered, sick, and/or neglected cats and kittens. Vokra provides aide to almost 2000 cats PER YEAR!! II believe working with these amazing volunteers and the kitty’s saved me as much, or more than, the meds/therapy. My foster cats bring me joy and laughter and light and a purpose. Our organization runs on donations and adoptions fees and we’re always in need of funds. Our biggest debts are for vet bills and cat food. If you or anyone is able to donate 5, 10 or 20 dollars you will help thousands of felines in need. Vokra is a registers charity and the link will take you to thier donation page but if you’d like more info feel free to check out thier site at Vokra.com. The donation page is at http://www.orphankittenrescue.com/donate. Thank you for doing this again Jenny! You are a miracle worker every day. You bring light and joy and love to so many people!! Happy Holidays!! Xoxoxox

  59. Who does Project Night Night love? The Bloggess and her readers!! Thank you guys for stepping-in to help us at the holidays again. It breaks our hearts to think of children in homeless shelters at any time of year, but certainly at the right now. Tomorrow, we are putting together big boxes of Bloggess Bags (our Night Night Packages underwritten by Bloggess readers) and off they will go to kids awaiting them. We love ya Jenny. We love ya readers.
    P.S. We made a special page on our website once we saw this post. 🙂

  60. Sending a night night and wishing I could do more — thank you for having such tremendous heart.

  61. Purchasing a night night bag–thanks for all that you do, Jenny! I also want to post on behalf of my brother and sister-in-law. My nephew, who had been struggling with depression for most of the year, committed suicide right before Thanksgiving. He was only 17. They are devastated, and struggling with finding a way to memorialize him. They are also both on extremely limited funds, and have set up a gofundme account to try to raise enough money to take a simple road trip and spread some of his ashes every place he lived. If you are so inclined, here is the link to her site. Thanks, everybody!

  64. I just realized I hadn’t added a shipping address to my kids’ wish lists, also…I forgot to mention…I in no way am asking for everything on them, just things I WISH I could get for them. I added my email and updated the shipping address on the lists…Happy Holidays!

  65. I just did a Night Night bag in honor of a friend who lost her 4-year-old grandson last year. Then, a gift of goat’s feet in “honor” of the bitches who fired my daughter two weeks ago. I’m not sure which about the second one makes me happier – helping people who really need it or secretly thumbing my nose at those assholes.

  66. Jenny, any idea why there isn’t a shelter in San Antonio connected with Project Night Night? Anyway, thanks for the push to get outside of myself. Depression is drawing me down, but I think it will help me to help others.

  67. I just submitted a donation to Heifer International. Not enough for a whole pig’s ass, but a little something towards one! Thank you so much for doing this each year and encouraging us to all come together and do something wonderful. Happy holidays!

  68. This is not for me. This is for my son, who has three sons (ages 2, 3, and 8). They have been struggling all year and have no money for Christmas. And worse, this year I am as broke as they are (possibly broker, if that is a word). I don’t think I have ever felt more useless than I do right now. I made a wish list. Any help would be appreciated. I hope to be on the other side next year!

    My list link: http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/wishlist/20O6P4DV8M49B/ref=cm_wl_huc_view

    (Just sent you a $120 gift card. ~ Jenny)

  70. I can’t believe I am doing this, but this year has been horrible for our family. Job loss, plus so many things piled on top. If someone would consider looking at the lists for my two, I promise to pay it forward next year. As it is, I have just started working again this week, so next year WILL be better, and I WILL pay it forward. This is my daughter’s: https://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/giftlist/2S5QFCJU55QF6/ref=cm_go_nav_recip_gl?
    And this is my son’s: https://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/giftlist/2SNL304IEB8EK/ref=cm_go_nav_recip_gl?
    Thank you.

    (Just sent you a gift card for $80. ~ Jenny)

  71. our family has grown by 2 in the past few months via foster care. I would love to be able to do more in terms of gifts for our 7 year old foster son, who had endured more than any child should. He came to us with essentially nothing, and I want toakd this Holiday season magical for him. His wish list includes Legos, a brio wooden train set, and he LOVES to read (Babymouse and Junie B are his favorite book series!)

    (Just sent you an $80 gift card. ~ Jenny)

  72. This is amazing!!! I personally am out of gifting money since I found out a domestic abuse survivor and her 2.5 yo have nothing for Christmas. I “adopted” them with a few friends to help their Christmas. We’re all single parents with low incomes but every kid needs a Christmas and every person needs to feel like someone cares, so we’re making it happen 🙂 I threw a list together if anyone wants to help us Hi. Check out this list: https://www.amazon.ca/registry/wishlist/1MZ071ASC8Y1H/ref=cm_sw_r_ip_wl_o_Nf7Jub05N6BEW

    We didn’t know our friend and neighbour was hurting so bad because she was always helping us. Time to reach our hand out to her.

    Merry Christmas yall! I hope everyone feels important and special this year 🙂

    (I’m not in Canada so I don’t think I can send anything but I’ll leave this up in case someone with a Canadian account can help. ~ Jenny)

  73. Thank yiou for posting this tonight Jenny. It’s been an ok year for us up until last month. I was working but started to get real sick and had to leave several times early to go to the ER. So I lost my job. My Dr thinks I have lupus and hopefully the test results will be in tomorrow. The pain just gets to be too much sometimes and I breakdown. I have 5 amazing kids, ages 17, 10, 7, 2 and 3 months, and they aren’t going to have much under the tree this year and it’s really depressing me. If anyone can help it would be so appreciated. I made an Amazon list real quick. A book and a toy/craft/diapers for the youngest 4 and a book and a shirt for my oldest. Thank you for reading. I hope you all have an amazing holiday.
    http://amzn.com/w/1OD1J68ELCFS9
    candylynnkelly@gmail.com

    (Just sent you a $200 gift card. ~ Jenny)

  74. Donated to Project Night-Night and bought a share of a goat. I’ll be keeping my eye out for an amazon wish list too, not sure how much I’ll be able to give for that but I know I can help in someway. Thank you and James Garfield for accidentally starting this a few years ago 🙂

  76. The generosity and gratitude of people never ceases to amaze me.
    This is me, throwing my hope out to the universe, hoping someone can help us. I have three kids, ages 3,6 and 7. The past two years have hit us extremely hard. My chronic illness and medical bills, student loans, and just daily bills. I’ve put together a wish list for my girls because my son is young enough that I can wrap his own toys and he will be excited, but my girls know and I want so badly to give them something, but I simply can’t. I hope someone out there will be our blessings. Thankyou.
    New Wish List
    Link: http://amzn.com/w/2B42P0IAQ874P

    (Just sent you a $120 gift card. ~ Jenny)

  77. :http://www.amazon.com/registry/wishlist/C1S8B6OXTB2V

    I’ve never done anything like this. But it’s been a rough year. And I’m definitely coming up short. Which wouldn’t bother me so much, but my son is 9 and I think this is the last year he is going to believe in Santa. But the fact is he does believe. And I know he is going to be disappointed with how little will be under the tree .As it is, his birthday was just a few days ago and it was a struggle pulling that off ( cake and a gift at this time of the year). I know alot of people are going to be linking their wish list here, but I thought I would give it a shot anyway! I will be a faithful reader no matter what though. There have been many times where I have come to this blog and you’ve posted the exact thing I needed to hear ( read). So thank you for all of those times!

    (Just sent you a $50 gift card. ~ Jenny)

  78. I am happy to pick some items off a wish list or two. Thank you for bringing everyone together again this year for a chance to get help/ give help as needed. If more of this happened in the world what an even greater place this planet would be to live in. Happy Holidays (whichever you celebrate) to all.

  79. This is so awesome. I would like to give a shout out to Don Re in this forum. He’s a St Louis police officer who participated in Cops 4 Kids. The kids are given some money, but Don kicked in some of his own, and asked his FB friends if they would be willing to contribute. Many did. I did. I don’t know how much he ended up with, but I hope this sweet little boy ended up with the shopping trip of a lifetime. I hope your readers who post here for help get the same response. I hope it’s OK for me to post this, because I post this in the spirit of the season–Peace on Earth, Goodwill Toward Man. Don Re is an amazing person. If everyone in this world was half as good, we’d have a hell of a great place to live.

    http://www.stltoday.com/news/multimedia/image_893bb2c5-95f3-5b10-b627-10f3f767e940.html

  81. This year has been really hard on our family. My husband lost his job and hasn’t been able to find another and my paycheck doesn’t even cover our bills. Honestly the only reason we’re not homeless is due to our landlord who lets us pay a little of our rent every payday. I’m not asking for much just that my son, 4, and my daughter, 2, need a couple warm things for winter and they love reading stories. Thank you Jenny for setting up something so beautiful so that my kids might have something on Christmas morning. Here is the link to our little wish list. https://www.amazon.com/registry/wishlist/1YD7IB8RUWB2Q/ref=cm_sw_r_an_wl_o_qk7Jub1380EWT

    (Amazon isn’t giving me your shipping address so instead I just emailed you an amazon gift card for $80. ~ Jenny)

  82. I would love to be able to donate but I’m barely making it by. I’m in the middle of a divorce and on the other side of the country from all of my friends and family…. Not really able to do anything for Christmas this year… since i’m struggling just to pay basic utilities. BUT I hope one day I’ll be well off enough to donate to a lot of these great places!!
    To all the people that donate… you are amazing and the world needs more like you!

  83. I can’t wait for the year when I can afford to do this. One of my favorite posts every year.

  84. I don’t have any biological kids, but I’m a school social worker at an inner city elementary school and I consider all of my kids my babies. I’m also a grad school student and am basically living off of school loans, but trying so hard to provide for my kids the things they desperately need. Some of my kids bathe in the bathrooms before school because they live at a shelter or with a relative and are overlooked… I have been buying soap, toothpaste, etc. Sadly, my supplies are dwindling and I’m barely scraping by as a grad student. My kiddos are the best…they’re in 1st – 4th grades and are so resilient and bright, despite the challenges they face at home and in their communities. If anyone would like to contribute to their healthy hygiene (or a few other fun items I added in that I know they would love), I would be so incredibly grateful.

    http://amzn.com/w/1EKLFVP537I48

    (Thank you for all you do! I just emailed you a $200 amazon gift card. ~ Jenny)

  85. Thank you for putting this up! I just bought honeybees for a special birthday gift. I was trying to think of what to buy to go with another present I had already bought and this was perfect!

  88. Actually everyone in my family has been basically paid for early (the joys of being Jewish I guess), but we did have a pretty big unexpected expense when my service dog had to have emergency surgery. Unfortunately he didn’t make it, so we have been trying to ask for donations to get his final expenses paid off which were more than I, as a disabled person, make in a year. gofund.me/hk77n0 Just in case anyone wants to help.

  89. Also, all the talk of honey bees makes me feel there is hope for humanity. I love this page!

  90. I’ve been donating to Project Night Night in the names of my siblings since 2011. They all can get themselves what the want. Donating to charity is nicer.

  91. I learned about Project Night Night from you, Jenny. My daughter’s Brownie troop is donating 12 bags they put together using money they earned this year during cookie sales. I am so proud of them for voting to support it.

    If anyone is looking for another organization to support, I would like to suggest a non-profit in Sacramento, California, called River Oak Center for Children (http://www.riveroak.org/index.html) which helps children at risk, troubled teens, and families through mental health services, social services, behavioral therapy, and family counseling. River Oak’s programs are crucial to so many children and families with limited resources. My mother works for River Oak, and we adopt a family each holiday season with the goal of fulfilling the needs and wants they place on a wish list. I am proud to say we have been able to do that again this year, but River Oak can use support year-round. If anyone is interested in donating, please visit http://www.riveroak.org/GetInvolved.html. A sincere thank you to anyone who takes the time to research this organization.

    Happy Holidays!

  92. I would like to ask for something not for me, but for an old employee of mine, or rather her children. She was murdered this Thanksgiving by her husband, after attempting to flee and seek help for domestic violence. Her death leaves her two biological children (ages 1 and 4) and her stepdaughter (age 13) without a mother. The children are currently in foster care and cannot even return to their home to retrieve their belongings because it is where the murder occurred and is therefore a crime scene. Kelsey was an amazing mother and was attempting to secure a safe and violence-free future for her children. It breaks my heart that she will not be able to do this for them, and I know that she would so appreciate any help that could be given to helping these children during their first Christmas without her. Here are links to the story: http://journalstar.com/news/local/911/lincoln-woman-was-beaten-shot-husband-charged/article_6ecfe23a-8237-5038-9c38-53b4d239b5b2.html as well as to her GoFundMe page: http://www.gofundme.com/ifgzrc?fb_action_ids=10152436527021540&amp;

  94. Are people going into their list profiles and adding an address? I have not been able to send a gift to anyone. It is accessed through a dropdown menu called “List Actions”, then select “Update List Profile.”

  95. @Linda (#58), I tried to send your grandson some Magic Tree House books because my daughter loved them so much, but it seems there’s no shipping address on your wishlist. I only have the option to ship to my own house. If you add an address, Amazon can keep it secret for you, but we can still send things to the boys.

  96. I also tried to by something for someone from their Amazon list with no luck. Can we send you money via PayPal to contribute? I’d contribute to something to help someone who needed to buy presents for their family via you buying Amazon gift cards…

    (I love that you offered but if you sent me money it would get eaten up with fees and taxes so it’s best to just wait and see if they update their profile with shipping or send an email address. I wish this was easier but it’s so nice that people want to help even when it isn’t easy. ~ Jenny)

  99. What a beautiful tradition of giving back! I’ve followed your blog for years and you are one of the most genuine blogger I “know”. You also have the best readers- love your comment section! So much love going around here tonight.

    My daughter is almost 2 and we’re quite tight this year but I’m going to try my best to make Christmas special anyway. Her wish list is here – books are her favorite thing in the world! 🙂

    Hi. Check out this list: https://www.amazon.com/registry/wishlist/T94HHFK4PRDC/ref=cm_sw_r_ip_wl_o_VB7Jub0MYBE25

    (Just emailed you a $40 amazon gift card. ~ Jenny)

  100. My niece could use just a few things – her mom is single and on disability. I do what I can but the little stuff makes a difference.

    http://amzn.com/w/27C0MNQEB57OJ

    (Couldn’t send through the wish list so I emailed you a $40 amazon gift card. ~ Jenny)

  101. I sent a flock of ducks as a special holiday gift for that person that is impossible to buy for. I’m keeping an eye on wishlists, as well. <3 My favorite time of the year.

  102. I love shopping. I just had a blast plowing through wishlists, sending ass ends of pigs and bees and goats and getting a mess of night-night bags. I went through 4 years of some of the hardest times I’ve ever had to and don’t know how I made it through but this year; I can give back. So I did! It feels AMAZING to be able too! Jenny, this is the best idea ever! You ROCK!

  103. Girl. You are an inspiration on every level. I don’t lie. I want to give you such a squeeze. Please stay on our planet for as long as you can stand it. You are truly one of the good ones.

  104. Purchased a Hope Basket and a Flock of Chickens on Heifer – been meaning to do this for a while, so Jenny thanks for the reminder. Like many here I have had a rough year but I still have my job, and my house and my cats and am financially stable so am happy to give to a good cause.

    To those who want to help but are lacking funds, your best donation is time, babysitting, caring for a sick or elderly person and giving the usual carer a break, helping someone with cleaning or gardening, walking a dog, all those kind of things. I know someone who makes up little voucher books for her loved ones to cash in over the next year, it even includes hugs 🙂

    Even just sitting and talking with someone and being there for them can have major impact, the little things matter more than we realise sometimes.

    Proud To Be on TEAM BLOGGESS!!

    (you should make that a tshirt if it isnt already LOL)

  105. I have three wonderful kids, my daughter, who is 6 and my sons who are 12 and 15. Times are extremely tough right now. Our car unexpectedly died and we had to use our Christmas money to put a deposit on a used one. My boys don’t want much and understand how rough things are right now, but my little one just doesn’t understand. Any help would be appreciated and I will pay it forward as soon as I am able. Link: http://amzn.com/w/CDB3DKZ68GWU

    (Just emailed you a $120 gift card. ~ Jenny)

  106. I am slightly broke this year and skimping a bit on my own Christmas shopping (for my family, not for myself), but I was able to sponsor a Night Night Bag. I like to help when I can and that was a great way to do it. Thank you, Jenny, for posting this.

  107. What a wonderful thing you are doing! For us, Christmas this year is going to the cats. We have fifteen wonderful felines who are being relocated to a cat rescue in Colorado next month, where they will be able to find loving furever homes. We are also trying to raise money for this huge endeavor – which we have discovered is not all that easy at Christmas-time! If anyone can help, or just share this link, we would be so grateful, and so would the kitties (especially the one who is grabbing the mouse right now). Thank you again – the world needs more of this!
    https://www.youcaring.com/helpmycats

  108. Jenny,
    You’re not doing anything wrong in not being able to actually SHIP anything out.
    The person that creates the Wish-List has to actually enter a preferred shipping address after the list is created. Amazon will NOT publish their address for the sender to see, just the name and city and state.

    The instructions for creating lists are somewhat convoluted, but they are here:
    http://www.amazon.com/gp/help/customer/display.html?nodeId=501088

  109. Jenny,
    Here’s the copy & paste version of their instructions.

    Note adding an address in step three!

    Create Your Wish List

    You can create a Wish List profile and add items to your registry to keep track of the items you’re eyeing.

    To create a Wish List:
    1. Hover over Wish List at the top of any Amazon.com page and select Create a Wish List from the drop-down.
    Note: If you’re creating multiple Wish Lists, go to an existing Wish List and click Create another Wish List under your profile name.

    2.Click Create your Wish List. Your Wish List will be available and you can change its name by hovering over the list name and clicking the Edit list name link.
    3.Select Edit list profile from the List Actions filter at the top of your list to update your default shipping address, birthday, personal description and preferences.
    Note:

    The shipping address you select will remain confidential. Gift givers will only see the name, city and state.
    Amazon will only use your birthday for Wish List birthday reminders chosen by the customer and to generate information on the site.
    You can designate whether your list is for organization and have the option to provide organization’s website URL details.
    You can update this information again anytime.
    4. Click Save and browse for an item.
    5. Click Add to Wish List under the Buy box on the right-hand side of any item’s product detail page.
    Note:

    You can add items for sale by Amazon.com to your Wish List, except out-of-print books, out-of-stock products, cell phones with service plans, items that don’t have release dates, and items with quantity restrictions.
    You can add items available from sellers to your Wish List. Potential purchasers will see See Buying Options instead of Add to Cart next to the item, since the same copy of the item may not be available later.
    Note:

    You can repeat this process to create multiple Wish Lists; there’s no limit. Your default Wish List is the one that items are added to when you click Add to Wish List. For more information on moving items between lists, go to Edit Items in Your Wish List.

  111. Grabbed a couple Night Night bags and donated some bees for my husband. (He was super-excited last year. We’ve even considered getting Mason Bees ourselves.) Thanks for the kick in the ass/reminder about these great causes.

  112. My comment is still “awaiting moderation’ (under ‘hjmsmith’ above) and I’m thinking I shouldn’t have used my wordpress account to comment. Let me know if I need to fix something please. Also, you’re all wonderful. All this love has made my horrible, awful Monday a little less awful.

    (It’s not you. It’s me. Working my way backward. Just got to it. Sent you a gift card. ~ Jenny)

  113. This has been one of the worst years ever for me and my little boy.
    I was 20 weeks pregnant in January and lost the baby, another beautiful little boy named Emery, 5 days before my son’s birthday. I left their dad not long after. I checked myself into the hospital for suicida thoughts in March. My ex, my daughter, and ex-friend all lied in court and said I was a danger to my children so my ex got custody of my son while I was hospitalized. My heart is still broken from so much betrayal.
    I finally found a job I really like. I’m still struggling to pay bills though.
    My dream gift for my son is a tablet. I had one that we would read on the Kindle reader app and it was amazing. My little guy LOVES to read. He also likes to play games. (Did I mention he’s almost 7?) My favorite that I’ve seen for his needs is the Kindle Fire HD 6″. 8 or 16gb. Green. The grown-up one doesn’t have a case and is just over $100. The kid version is closer to $150.
    And I’d really like to get my daughter some drawing pads and some sketch and colored pencils. I have no idea how much those cost.
    Can you help me?

    (Sent you a gift card for $80. ~ Jenny)

  115. Thanks, Jenny! I’ll check back and see if people update, because I’d love to buy some books for some of the folks who say they want to buy something but can’t. You’re the best–thank you for using your powers for the good!

  116. My husband had to change jobs this summer and now barely makes enough to pay our bills, and I can’t work due to craziness [a.k.a. Asperger’s-induced anxiety/panic attacks]. We’re unable to buy anything for my brother’s kids for Chrismukyule* this year [*we’re a multi-religion family]; it’s especially hurtful because my husband and I are their only uncle and aunt [so no gift from us is conspicuous]. I am crocheting them each a personalised ornament, but kids don’t really care about stuff like that. I usually try to get them each at least one book and one science/learning-type toy, but I had been hoping this year to get each of them a box set of books [since I don’t think anyone else ever buys them books]. If anyone could help us, we would be so grateful. They are 10, 7 [8 in Mar.], 5 [6 in Feb.], and 2.

    http://amzn.com/w/73UGKCSWWSFT

    (Just sent you a $160 gift card. ~ Jenny)

  117. ACK! Apparently my default shipping address does not carry over to the wish list. I have now checked the “gift address”, which I think fixes it. Thank you so much!! (sitting here crying now)

  118. Annnnd I’m in tears.
    I was sitting here, feeling at a complete loss of what to “give” this year and this post crossed my feed.
    So I click around and land on Project Night Night. And click there a little and they donate to a shelter in my city. And it just so happens I have 3 brand new snuggly as heck blankets and a few plush animals I made (I sell them and am CPSC compliant).
    So I’ll be calling in the morning to arrange to donate.
    You made my heart happy again.
    Thank you.
    Now I’m gonna go ugly cry and snot on my sleeve.

  119. Donated to the crisis line Metz mentioned above

    You sent a mobile payment for $20.00 USD to Response of Suffolk County, Inc.. A message has been sent to the recipient asking to accept or deny the payment.

    Please note that it may take a little while for this payment to appear in the Recent Activity list on your Account Overview.

  121. I have 5 kids. I work very hard all year. My husband has uncontrolled seizures that started when my youngest turned 3. We barely keep our head above water. I receive no public assistance of any kind because I am just above the poverty level. I pay my bills and barely have anything left for groceries. I pay high premiums and copays. I have no credit card debt, but I do have a mortgage and one car payment. If anything comes up, it comes out of the grocery budget. This is hard for growing kids. I have 2 teenage boys, a teenage girl, and 2 elementary school age kids . (boy and girl) We spend a couple of days a month with specialists trying to pinpoint my husband’s seizures. my oldest daughter and youngest son have ADHD. I suffer from major anxiety. Trying to keep my family going takes a serious toll sometimes. I’m doing my best to raise well mannered, well rounded, respectable kids. I feel like I give everything of myself that i can. But there are no programs for people who are not on public assistance. There aren’t many options for people like me who make too much for assistance but too little to make ends meet. I can stretch a dollar very far, but at Christmas it is impossible to stretch it far enough. I do not ask for help. I just do whatever I can to make it fun or special. But if there are any angels out there who wanted to help a worn out, stressed out mother of 5 that has no other options, I would be eternally grateful. I hope someday to pay it forward when I am in a better place. My kids are boy,, 17, Boy 17, Girl 14, Boy 11, and Girl 8. I put together a wish list, but it is truly just a suggestion. My kids are not picky and are grateful for all they have. http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/wishlist/2CVNGZ0Y52QTR/ref=cm_wl_rlist_go_o

    (Just emailed you a $200 gift card ~ Jenny)

  123. Megan AND frzndaqiri UPDATE YOUR WISHLISTS WITH PERMISSION TO SEND TO YOUR ADDRESSES PER Eve’s MESSAGES ABOVE PLEASE AND THANKYOU.

    LOVE,
    JAMES GARFIELD AND VICTOR’S CREDIT CARD

  124. Panya, if you don’t think they would care about ornaments, maybe make them stuffed animals instead? Ravelry.com has over 300 free crochet stuffed animal patterns to choose from and a lot of them are palm sized or smaller. There are things like hamsters and bunnies, but also My Little Pony, Totoro, Cthulhu, Jiji the Cat, and Baby Groot. Give it a look.

  125. FYI for Amazon purchases – if you use smile.amazon.com, then Amazon also makes donations of a %age of the total purchase price to a charity that you choose from a long list of organizations (at no further cost to you). You can also wait until you’re done adding things to your cart then just refresh the page as smile.amazon.com and it’ll switch to the page where you can identify what organization to donate to, without losing the items in your cart.

  126. I hate doing this, but this year has been tough for us, and your blog has made me smile when I was struggling to find a reason. A couple of times I went back and read from start to finish when I needed something to make me smile or get me out of a deep funk. Beyonce always made me laugh out loud.

    A little over a year ago I was in a near fatal car accident. I could go into tons of detail about it, but mostly it’s too emotionally exhausting to go over, and lead me into the worst depression of my life. My identity was wrapped up in being able to provide for our four kids, I’ve been primary breadwinner most of our marriage and a work horse. We pretty much lost everything and wound up over 70K in medical debt due to the car accident, after insurance paid everything it would. We negotiated that down to 36K, but it’s still an astronomical amount for us, especially with me out of work. With my health shot and then an IUD failure leading to an unplanned pregnancy when we thought we were done at four, it’s been a rough year for mental adjustment. Probably the most painful part for me was that I’d FINALLY convinced my husband I should seek counseling for depression (he’s terrified I’d be put on meds that would have terrible side effects like his sister had) and the baby, though wanted despite not being planned, derailed that.

    I finally found work after an 10 month recovery and search only to step on a nail, get MRSA, and wind up in and out of the hospital for 3 months, my treatment complicated by my pregnancy. Obviously, not being able to work meant not keeping the position, and by the time I could reliably walk no one wanted to hire a visibly pregnant woman who was due at Christmas. One of my husbands 3 jobs closed up unexpectedly, without paying anyone, and another over hired for the holidays and after 5 weeks of few to no hours, finally let most of the staff, including my husband, go. Luckily his other job is enough to pay the bills, but Christmas is tight. I know there are others worse off, we’ve got a roof over our heads and food on the table, but if anyone wants to buy a gift for our three boys and daughter (and pray that this baby who is now over a week late hurries up!) we’d be very grateful. Or if you know someone in the Upstate SC region who wants to buy some barely used tires (our van engine exploded less than 3 weeks after we put on new tires) we could afford to buy some gifts ourselves.

    http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/wishlist/2Y6BDHBPYVZDR/ref=cm_wl_huc_view

    (Just emailed you a $160 gift card. ~ Jenny)

  127. I am not in the position to help out monetarily at this point but I did want to say thank you to you all for restoring my faith in humanity. The Bloggess, you started this ball rolling and continue to see that it keeps going. Thank you. And, a heartfelt thank you to you all who continue to see how they can give to those in need. This is what Christmas is all about, y’all.

  128. I just wanted to add my thank you to the pile.
    Thank you for this and your blog. Right now I’m “happy” and I did the bees thing but thank you for being here when I’m not so happy or broke and can’t do things like donating bees (and not even feeling like getting dressed!). I click on your blog everyday. You bring to words how I feel sometimes so well that I’m amazed there is someone else out there who gets it.
    Thank you!

  129. Comment #78 here. Thank you…oh, Thank you. And your sweet readers continue to contribute and fulfill items that I know my kiddos would absolutely love, and some that they very much need. Getting teased at school for unbrushed teeth or unwashed bodies is crushing for them. This community is amazing. My heart is so full right now. -Kristen

  131. Oh my, thank you. Tears of gratitude and joy here, and not just for the gift card. I found your blog a couple years ago when my depression got really bad and it just helped. YOU helped me, with your up-front and humorous approach to this horrible thing I struggle with every day. Thank you, thank you, thank you.

  133. Jenny, I don’t have anything to ask for, and it’s frustrating to not be in a position to give this year, but I think it’s pretty fuckin’ awesome that you’re giving as much as you do. I know you’re a big time celebrity and all, but a couple thousand bucks (and counting) is an incredibly generous show of caring, and I can’t even articulate how impressed I am by everything you do. As stupid as this sounds coming from a 38-year old man, you are kinda my role model. At first it was for “business” reasons of wanting a blog/career like you’ve built, but over time I find I want to be more and more like you as a person.

  134. Hi all! Desperately poor & hoping to get any help this year…underemployed grad school single mom w/19 years’ experience living with a child-abuse-induced traumatic brain injury. Just learned my IQ dropped 72 points from high school until now…having to switch careers from medical writing to advocacy & mediation due to word finding & memory issues. Trying to shine a light–I know I’m not the only one with this condition! Look at all the issues football players have with repeated concussion injuries…and children & young adults in abusive situations have NO padding. No one deserves this…anyhow, trying to be advocate, not victim. Any & all help is GREATLY appreciated!! Thanks!!
    Link: http://www.amazon.com/registry/wishlist/1IXQE8TAGDN2O

    (Just sent you a gift card for $40. ~ Jenny)

  135. Sent an amazon gift card towards the cause. Does your fan mail email address still work? Just making sure it went to the right place.

    (Jenny@thebloggess.com? Yes, but I only check it once a few times a month. I’m terribly irresponsible. ~ Jenny)

  136. We have had a tough year. I am amazed to be alive after a year of horrendous medical issues. My girls are wonderful and amazing and grateful. They said that they would like a surprise for Christmas from Santa.I know that they would love some board games to play together and some hats and gloves and socks. My 12 year old loves to read, my 6 year old loves to draw. It is hard to post this but I would love to have something for them for the holiday.

    http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/wishlist/38UW7IGU663ZM/ref=cm_wl_huc_view

    (Just sent you a gift card for $80. ~ Jenny)

  137. No words can express the emotions I feel right now. Relief. Love. Joy. Awe. A major weight has lifted itself off of my shoulders. You are truly amazing. Thank you. From the bottom of my soul. I am stunned and grateful.

  138. I made comment number 55 about the non profit cat rescue. It’s a Canadian organization and I’m not sure if a) it was appropriate to link them and b) if it is ok if anyone can donate if they are not from Canada. I will certainly remove the post if it’s inappropriate or the link isn’t viable. I only posted t because the volunteers there are truly selfless and work all hours to help save these cats and kittens. The volunteers there, if given the choice of money for
    Themselves or money for the cats, would choose the animals. Let me know if
    I should take it down and if you (or anyone else) does make a donation, thank you. thank you from the bottom of my heart!!

    (Totally okay to link. Anyone who saves kitties is alright by me. ~ Jenny)

  140. My kids, while older, have been troopers these past two years. We lost our home, moved in with my mother, their dad has been ill and I have been fighting to overcome my agoraphobia. I crammed 4 years of High School math into my head in under two months, figuring out the angle of a slope almost did me in, and got my GED. I forced myself to go out and find work and did so only to be thwarted by the inability to leave the house the next day. The thought of walking onto the factory and being bombarded by the noise and all the people walking around me and behind me had me throwing up. I couldn’t do it and I failed. Their dad has been ill and after four months was finally diagnosed, after being told he had everything from acid reflux to appendicitis, with a bad gallbladder that has to be removed. That’s happening the 19th of this month. He’s actually having two surgeries that day. One for the gallbladder and the other for an ongoing bladder issue. As of right now, thanks to a friend that gave me a gift card for my birthday on the 9th, they each have a new winter coat for Christmas. That’s what they needed and what I could afford. I have made a wishlist for them on Amazon because they deserve something other than something they need. They haven’t complained once about anything and knowing we are broke told me not to worry about Christmas. My oldest even told me that I better not spend my birthday gift on him. I did put frivolous things on there instead of things they need like boots (too expensive for a wishlist) or clothes because every kid needs a bit of fun. They both need a bit of fun and time not to worry about anything other than what chapter they are on or if that was their last life. They are both boys and are 15 and 17. (yes, I know older than the small children so I will totally understand if they are above an age limit) Anything on the list having to do with tanks my oldest would love. Anything book wise my youngest would love. Anything game wise either would love. All of us would be grateful.
    http://amzn.com/w/2YY703GRNTM70

    (Just sent you an $80 gift card. ~ Jenny)

  141. Meh. Comment 57 not 55. I’ll stop talking now!!😉

    (My fault on the comment numbers changing. Some go to moderation and you don’t see them until they’re approved and it messes the numbers all up when you refresh. Sorry! ~ Jenny)

  143. Thank you so much, Jenny! For the card, but even more for being such a wonderful person. I have to be up early and I should really go to bed but it is such a wonderful experience sitting here and watching such love and magic transpire before my eyes – I don’t want to leave. I am in awe . . THIS is how we change the world! Thank you!!

  144. My son is 6 and I’m feeling really crappy because money is so tight this year and I can’t really afford to get him nice presents. I don’t want to go into details publicly but things have been really rough and I’m battling severe depression which makes it that much harder to give him a good Christmas. Here is a wishlist I made for him, he’s reading the Magic Tree House books right now so I mentioned the Bailey School Kids books and he said he’d probably like them. Also he loves to catch butterflies (he caught over 20 in one weekend alone) so I thought a field guide would be cool. And he loves Legos. I know they’re are people out there worse off than me and I know I’m not explaining my situation but I would really appreciate any help. Also, if I may ask for something for myself? I’d really love some cheering up so if someone wanted to send me a Christmas card… I haven’t gotten any this year. Thanks in advance and I’m sorry this is such an awkward post. https://www.amazon.com/registry/wishlist/12MKXA40CE0T3/ref=cm_sw_r_an_wl_o_qo8Jub1MD4KMG

    (Just emailed you a (singing) gift card for $40. ~ Jenny)

  145. i had just lost my job and I got help that year. I was grateful but stupidly I still feel embarrassed about it too. You were very kind & encouraging to me over the following couple of years when I reached out to you. I’m doing tons better now. Thank you for being you. That is to say, a bright light in the darkness.

  146. I don’t know what to really say other then time are rough for us, just like most the people asking. Husband took a pay cut to keep his job and my hours got cut. Problems with tires, husband’s back, and a molar falling apart in my mouth has sent all the money we save for Christmas to unexpected bills. So this year I had to explain to my 7 year old her only gifts under the tree this year would be from Santa (which we got at the dollar store). Our 1 year won’t notice much but I was sad I couldn’t get them anything nice this year. I’m lucky that I could get a few things at the dollar store for them but I would love to be able to surprise them with something nicer. It’s not the worst story but it’s still sad for me. So here’s my wish list of I could buy them anything.

    http://amzn.com/w/3873F2AP34VZW

    Lil is in to mine craft, doctor who, and twilight from my little pony. She’s a size 7/8 or 10/12. She loves art and creating and building things.

    Kat will be 16 months on christmas. She loves music and things with lights. She’s a size 18-24 or 2t.

    I work for gymboree so I get a discount there if anybody wants to send gift cards for that. The girls could use some new clothes. You’d think they wouldn’t need them with me working at a clothing store but I can’t even afford it with my discount.

    I asked for help the first year and helped the next two. I’m hoping next year I can help someone just as I was helped 3 years ago and maybe this year. Thank you if you can, and if not the on you for those you could help this year. MERRY CHRISTMAS EVERYONE!

    (Just sent you a gift card for $80. ~ Jenny)

  147. I feel so awkward even doing this here. I have two boys and we are recently on our own. I’m doing okay. The kids eat and have a safe, warm place to sleep. They are such kind, compassionate kids. I feel lost. Their dad is nowhere in their lives anymore and there just isn’t room for extras. They don’t ask for much. Ever. It breaks my heart at times that a 3 and 6 year old know so much so soon.

    You are doing so much. And we aren’t going to starve. Please help those that have nothing first.We have food and a roof and we are so incredibly thankfully for that small comfort these days.

    http://amzn.com/w/2SMXLVL9SES5P

    (Just sent you a gift card for $80. ~ Jenny)

  148. Jenny, I’m so grateful I’m all teary and snotty faced and hopefully going to go into labor. My husband works nights, a big burly security guard who’s now crying at work because I called him, scared him making him think I was finally in labor (I never call unless it’s an emergency) and he was so touched by your kindness. He wanted me to say, things like this keep him hopeful, that someday soon we’ll be back on solid ground and be able to help out the people around us instead of needing help ourselves. Without that hope, it’d be far to easy to give up. Thank you tons, and merry Christmas to you and your family.

  149. I just wanted to let you know how much I appreciate what you do and how you’re willing to share your life with all of us. You have helped me embrace my own sense of crazy and love who I am. My family is scraping by this year so I’m unable to donate this go around. I hope I can join with the rest of you next year! Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays!

  150. …and then I cried and woke my husband up. That’s how the story is going to end of how The Bloggess saved Christmas. Thank you for the gift card doesn’t really express how much it means to me.

  151. Jenny, you’re amazing and you always inspire me to be a better person.Life can be so tragic sometimes, but it’s always an opportunity to step up and help out. Thank you for the reminder. We can get so caught up in our family drama during the holidays, we forget the most important things, like helping others. Here’s the story about Christine, a woman who recently lost her husband and is battling kidney disease and she’s afraid her son might be left parent-less: http://www.myfoxla.com/story/27576707/widow-waiting-for-new-kidney-worries-her-son-will-be-left-parentless

  152. This is pretty fucking HAWSUM, Jenny. I wish I could help. I just got my kids’ gifts covered by a last minute gig, so I feel incredibly relieved that my sons will have a few presents under the tree. I wish I had the money to fulfill some people’s wish lists. 2015 will be better, and I will.

  153. Ok, so my baby isn’t here yet, but he will be very soon. I’m due January 22, if I make it that far. My husband has been working his butt off, but we are really struggling. I have Epilepsy and Dysautonomia, plus Bipolar, OCD, and a long list of other “fun” things. I cannot work, and have been fighting with Disability for a while now. They see no need to help in a timely manor.
    We have a crib, a stroller, and a car seat. Plus a bunch of used clothes. But, that is it. I could use as much help as possible. So, in desperation, I am posting here. Merry Christmas!

    http://www.amazon.com/registry/giftlist/1ZJTNNACFUMLR

    (Just emailed you a gift card for $40. ~ Jenny)

  155. Jenny, I am in shock. Thank you so incredibly much. The stress you feel when you cant provide some very basic things for your children overtakes every aspect of your life. I really just don’t even know how to express how much this means to me.
    Heather

  156. I am a single mom to an amazing 10 year old with autism, adhd, asthma, seizures, CVID and a bunch of other medical issues. We have been barely getting by since I made the decision to move to Denver so that he can recieve better medical care. He is such a sweet child despite everything that is going on with him. I have been waiting for a stipend to come in from school so that we can finally get a place of our own and there seems to just be one delay after another. He still believes in Santa and it kills me that the odds of me actually getting my money in in time to be able to get a place, let alone presents, seems to be getting worse. He has been through a lot lately and deserves to have some good happen for once. I made a lst of things he has specifically asked for and some things I know he likes and will love to get. The peanut ball would be great for helping him relieve some stress and I know he will love it. I added options for some of the things he likes such as the art suplies. I know it is a big list and I by no means expect him to get even a quarter of whats on there but I am greatful for any help I can get in making sure he has a good Christmas. http://amzn.com/w/2NOAWQPHTG1K2

    (Just sent you a $50 gift card. ~ Jenny)

  158. Anathica, I would love to send you a Christmas card, but I can’t figure out how to do that. If you or anyone else would like a card in the mail, please send me a mailing address (or email, if you’d like an e-card) at cerilee@hotmail.com so I can get something to you.

  159. I was pointed here by a friend. Im a long time Bloggess reader, but lately have been concentrating on school and rebuilding me and my kids lives. Its our first Christmas in a new town, new apartment thats so much smaller than where we had to leave from. Their father left them 3 years ago, and hasnt spoken to them since. He doesnt support them, contact them, or anything. I recently graduated from college and found a wonderful job, but getting us into this apartment drained every cent I saved and its taking all I make to pay bills and manage to at least get a tree. Ive struggled so much to make Christmas good for them, and theyve understood but I want to surprise them this year.

    My son is 13 and super into Minecraft and video games, and my daughter is really into reading and fashion. Their father always promised to get them each their own Kindle when they started doing well on AR goals, but I could never afford to keep his promise.

    This is Aryns list http://www.amazon.com/registry/giftlist/284CEF0718NIS

    And this is Brads http://www.amazon.com/registry/giftlist/10G2NO3VW3T3A

    I know these are games they want very much, but refuse to ask for because they know I cant afford them right now and it makes me so sad. I let them each pick a few things off Amazon to share with Santa. These kids have been the hugest motivating factor in me getting my associates, they deserve to have some happiness. When your 13 year old son brings you a plate of mac and cheese because you are studying, and your 12 year old daughter washes the dishes so you can keep studying, you know you have amazing kids. And I want them to have the Christmas they deserve.

    (Just emailed you an $80 gift card. ~ Jenny)

  160. My God, you guys are amazing. I’m all kinds of sniffly and I love you all. Those who asked for help and those who helped and those who left kind words when that was all they had to offer. I am so incredibly lucky to know you. Thank you for giving me my Christmas present.

    It feels really unfair for you to thank me because we’ve had those “how are we even going to keep our house” years, and being able to give to people who need help is like being able to give to the me that had some very thin Christmases. The stress can be overwhelming but I can also tell you that in the end I don’t remember any of the presents or lack thereof. I remember my family being together and that’s what your kids will probably remember too.

    I don’t know how much more I’ll be able to give because I think I’m pretty close to my limit but if you want to leave a wish list (MAKE SURE THE SHIPPING IS RIGHT OR IT WON’T WORK) or your email address in the comment section others might be able to help. Either way, know that you are loved and that there are some really excellent people in the world… This comment section is proof of that.

  161. Last year an amazing human (no names!) helped me out of a financial bind when I was at my absolute lowest.
    I did my utmost to pay it forward – donating copies of my children’s book to area hospitals and to toys for tots. Both my son and I volunteer at our local animal shelter (and somehow wound up with a special needs kitten and puppy…. who is now 80lbs of moose)…
    This year things are moderately better for us both. We moved back to Texas, and away from toxic “family.” I got a great job, started a new business, and we appeared to be on the right track. My business will not generate an income until March (yay for beta?!)… and then I lost my job.
    I battle depression and anxiety daily, but I’m in a better place than I was last year. My son inspires me to get up each morning, to get things done.
    I am keeping us afloat with freelance work, but did have to file for bankruptcy.
    My son (almost 6) is all too painfully aware of what financial struggles look like – and he doesn’t ask for stuff. He watches commercials and gets excited over toys, or expresses interest in a bike, but doesn’t ask. A commercial for a blanket with eyes came on today, I asked him if he liked it. He sighed, “No, mommy. It costs money. We need to buy food.”
    At his age. It’s sad. What truly broke my heart is what he actually asked Santa for… he asked for our two dogs to come back from heaven (both lost to illness last year), and he asked for a daddy. Both things I cannot give him. He knows this, but he also has that beautiful belief that Santa can make miracles happen. 🙂

    He’s an amazing, amazing child. Compassionate beyond belief. Hates to read books for some reason, but loves to make up and tell me stories! Would live off of Pirate’s Booty if he could! 🙂 He loves dinosaurs, Transformers, Ninja Turtles, being outside with me in our veggie garden… he is my little miracle.

    I hate writing this actually – it’s… not me. I stand on my own two feet, without any family assistance. But this boy – this child who is my source of strength. Oh how I want him to feel just a bit of magic this year.
    I understand we are in a better spot than many, and for this I am honestly thankful.

    http://amzn.com/w/1K4CWLPI2M70X

  162. No idea how I missed this amazing exchange the past few years, I’ve spent the past couple of hours catching up on prior years, shedding lots of tears and getting back some much needed perspective. I am so excited to be able to buy bees, chicks, trees and a project night night package..they will make perfect gifts for a few folks who have everything they need. And I’m sure I’ll help out with someone’s wishlist, it’s been a rough few months financially but I am blessed to still be okay. Thank you SO much for doing this again, and for posting it on Facebook where I couldn’t miss it again. (p.s. My early Christmas present to myself was your C Rock travel mug…it gives me something to laugh about at work.)

  163. There ARE some really excellent people in the world – this entire post is proof of that. Everyone here is amazing and I am just so touched and happy to be a part of it. I would rather be on the giving end – and because of the kindness here, I will be! THANK YOU!!!

  164. I IMMEDIATELY thought of you when I saw this artist’s whimsical portraits of anthropomorphic birds resplendent in Elizabethan, Baroque and Edwardian attire. Check it out! (as described by and found on Archie McPhee’s blog) http://www.katrinarhodesartist.com

  165. I am raising my 7 yr. old grandson. I am disabled and can’t work and his dad is an army vet with severe PTSD and bi-polar illness. We get by but money is terribly tight and not much left to buy Christmas. It’s usually me helping others and I’ve never asked for any help but this year has been a doozy! He loves books and anything Minecraft. http://amzn.com/w/1576LHV14U83

  167. This is the best! Also, for those of you who have your regular wishlists up and connected to the kid wishlist you linked…I may have sent you gifts, so don’t think you have a stalker. Or think you have a nice stalker. 🙂

  168. To #27, I tried to buy your girls something off of their lists, but it’ll only let me send them to me. Please update your address and I’ll try again.

    Lydia

  169. Jenny. I ordered Thera Ledet comment number 156 the Groot Figure for her son but shipping says it will not get here until after Christmas which sucks. Would you email her and let her know in case she doesn’t see this?
    Thank you for giving me the opportunity to do this and hoping everyone has a good Christmas.

  170. I’m sat here on a cold winter’s morning in london and I’m in tears. This is amazing. I want to help and I can – a little- but I can! I’ve sent something to any wish list I can find with a shipping address but there weren’t many. It isn’t much but if it’s one thing extra it’s a gift from Santa all the way from the UK with love.
    Add shipping addresses please!! Xxx and merry Christmas

  171. I love reading these posts, and love reading everyone helping each other out. We moved this year, from Fort Hood, TX to a small town in Arizona. We, my husband and 3 kids, live in a two bedroom apartment. My husband works full time and goes to school full time(getting GI benefits.) We depleted our savings when my husband didn’t have a job at the beginning of the year, and our big move. We are living paycheck to paycheck, and praying our van makes it to tax season.

    We will be making Christmas from a church friend buying our kids a present, and help from family.

    I’m writing this to say thank you for all who help people struggling to make Christmas for their kids. It’s heartbreaking to feel like you can’t afford to give your kids presents. Especially when they still so strongly believe in Santa.

    So thank you all you Santas! <3
    God bless and praying for you all

  172. Hi y’all, I’m hoping you can help. This is for my niece (10) and nephew (8). Basically, due to, well, how do I put this? Their mom is having serious issues, and just lost her job. My nephew, James, is now living with my mom (his grandma), away from everyone he knows. His sister, Lizzy, is at home with her mom, but her year has been seriously rocked, too. Anyways, really rough year for both of them.

    I’m not in a financial position to get them more than one present, and neither is my family (including their mom). I was just hoping for more for them, after the year they’ve had.

    I made an Amazon wish list for each of them. Please don’t think I’m asking for everything here – these are just the things they told me they wanted for Christmas. The video games on James’ list are ones I picked out. He, uh, is used to playing Xbox 360 games rated M (like GTA 5 – yes, he’s 8), so even HE doesn’t know what an age-appropriate game looks like. So, if there’s any kids games you could recommend, I’d really appreciate that, too. He does have Mine craft.

    Here are the lists. Hope I did them right:
    James’: http://amzn.com/w/MWS3CVH4WO1A
    Lizzy’s: http://amzn.com/w/3JGHJLAH7AOXP

  174. Jenny, you are an awesome person who leads others into being awesome too. I would love to help again this year but I just lost my second job this year due to depression issues. 20+ years as a nurse and I just don’t think I can do it any more. Anyway, thankfully my adult kids and my grand kids are all good for Christmas and so far things are fairly ok for me too.

    I do have one thing I’d like to ask for myself though:

    If any of the tribe would like to email or if they live in the Portland, Oregon area and would maybe like to go out for coffee (or wine!), I’d love to have someone to talk to that isn’t related to me. My email address is dani.ever62@gmail.com. Hope this isn’t inappropriate but it’s hard to meet new people sometimes and I figure talking to fellow Bloggessians would be the best place to start.

  175. Donna – I wish we did. I hope you find someone fabulous to talk to, drink wine with and giggle alongside.
    Kristina – have chosen a few things from your list for Lizzie and James (but both sent to Lizzie for ease) Merry Christmas to them and to you

  176. If we’re allowed to nominate other people’s children, I’d love to nominate my week old god-daughter. Her mama is my best friend and she’s struggling to make ends meet over her new baby’s first Christmas. She’s a beautiful amazing woman trying to cope through those scary first weeks of morherhood, and I’d love for help brightening her holiday season. I made a wish list for her daughter that includes things she needs like cloth diapers and special little things like board books to read to her new baby.
    Rowyn’s Wish List:
    Link: http://www.amazon.com/registry/wishlist/VHID2J0THORX

  177. Things have been really tight for the last few months. We welcomed our son in November and I worked until the Saturday before he was born. My midwife wants me out an additional month more than I planned. I was only working part time but it covered daycare for elder son – a situation we were forced into in September when free family daycare became unsafe.

    My work is not paying for any sort of leave as I’d been told they would pay 60 percent of my wages. We’d saved for the inevitable discrepancy in income but not enough to cover a total loss. To say Christmas will be modest is an understatement. I had to make arrangements with our auto finance company to offset a payment just to keep the other bills from falling too far behind. My husband has been doing work from home when he can to save on commuting costs so we can have something under the tree for the kids.

    I put together a small list for the boys here. The eldest is 2 1/2 and loves to read, build with Legos (Duplos) and anything that has wheels. The baby is well, a baby and we are fortunate to have many things from his elder brother.

    http://www.amazon.com/registry/wishlist/RMOA0R6DWEMF

    (Either your items were all bought or you don’t have your boys wish list set as public yet. Just FYI. Thanks! Jenny)

  178. We’ve had a hard year here with my husband unemployed for half the year and myself and my son dealing with chronic illness, so I can’t donate unfortunately. But, I want to share a story about being on the receiving end of anonymous kindness. Three years ago, we were foster parenting two little boys, ages 1 and 3. We were able to buy all the gifts for them and our son at once, so I placed much of it on layaway. When I went to pick them up right before Christmas, I found out that someone had anonymously paid off the layaway amount! It was so, so heartwarming and such a blessing! The thing that still warms my heart about the whole situation is that this layaway angel didn’t even know those gifts were for two little boys who had known more pain in their short years that most know in a lifetime. Luckily, those sweet boys are now adopted into their forever family and will have a lifetime of sweet holiday memories.

    Thank you for all you do, Bloggess! You are like that layaway angel, giving without expectation of return. Your kindness touches us all. The happiest of holidays to you!

  179. Well, see how you are Jenny… wonderful. Mostly I give to Heifer – love them goats! We made it to the other side of long-term joblessness; homelessness, and we are still adapting to our new normal. Thankful for those who helped see us through our rough patch. Grateful for the likes of you and this extraordinary community. Merry, Merry, Happy Good Gravy, & Joyful Festivus For the Rest of Us 2014 to you and yours… all of us. xo

  180. I do my best to donate to the causes closest to my heart…

    That being said, my mother is the dietary director for a nursing facility in West Texas…

    …after the passing of my father,…our entire family was dreading the first Christmas without him….but, she (being an amazing woman) decided that we needed to create new traditions.

    Thanksgiving Day? We are there — this is our family. We actually contact and ENCOURAGE family members to join us for a meal — at no cost to them. Our family is happy to absorb the cost and we volunteer our services to cook, serve and enjoy the residents and their families before we clean up.

    And, for Christmas?
    EVERY single resident in the facility receives a gift. EVERY SINGLE RESIDENT.

    It has become an amazing labor of love — we save up throughout the entire year and do our best to ensure that we have sufficient supplies.

    There are a few residents who have caring family members who will pick them up on Christmas morning and spend a few hours with them and then deposit them back at the facility.

    But, there are dozens who have no visitors…noone to care for them. We stuff gift bags full of hotel-sized toiletries, combs, brushes, socks, gloves, scarves. Fruit, candy, crackers, snacks….and we crochet and knit throughout the entire year to try to ensure that every single resident gets a personalized gift from one of us.

    I know it may be difficult, if not impossible to help — if you have the ability to help, the amazing residents at Nolan Nursing and Rehab will benefit from your gift….and, if you feel the need to gift others closer to you ….. then I encourage you to seek out a nursing and rehab facility in your area. There are some amazingly beautiful souls and fantastic stories nestled in these lovely people.

    http://amzn.com/w/30KB94RS53529

    (Love this idea but it says there are no public items on your list. Not sure if they were all bought already or if you just need to fix your settings so that people can see the wish list. Just an FYI. ~ Jenny)

  182. This isn’t for me or my (as of yet unborn/uncreated) kids, however, I am Creating Stuffed Hippos for kids at my local children’s hospital who have to be there on christmas day. I’m also making blankets I have created an indiegogo campaign, and I’m just trying to get enough money together to cover the cost of supplies seeing as I’m a very recent (3 days ago) college graduate. Anything helps, even a dollar.

    Also, All Hail James Garfield!

  184. Would you send an email Christmas card to my amazing 10 year old autistic son. His name is Alex. My email is spncrombrg@hotmail.com. We’ve had a bad couple of years. I suffer from depression,aniexty and PTSD and do the best I can. Things are starting to turn around for us. My son is amazing. He took his money he earned from recycling bottles and bought all of his friends gifts from the dollar store for Christmas. Last month when I told him I was sorry I couldn’t give him more. His response was life was great and in his eyes it is. We lost our home and then our truck. My son and I share a bedroom and moved in with a family friend. My son thinks that sharing a room with his mom and living with a family friend is the best thing that’s ever happened to him. I told him that there was no Santa claus this year and while disappointed he took it well. We talked about gifts being slim this year and that it is more the thought that counts so emailed cards to him would be awesome and make both our Christmases. I struggle with the guilt of not being able to do a lot with because of the depression and he deserves so much. Thank you

  185. This is hard for me because every year we struggle to make sure our kids have memories of joy, laughter and Santa spirit under the tree. To prepare we always have a “toy clean out” and we also pick a family from the giving tree at school to donate to so the kids can feel the true spirit and joy that comes from giving.
    Earlier this year however, my husband was stationed over seas and so our bills doubled trying to support 2 lives, so to speak, on the same income. Over the summer I had to uproot the kids from our home at Ft. Hood and move back to Ohio to save money and try and make ends meet. In that process I sold most of their toys because space was so limited. There are a few things they have been asking for in the moving boxes that I just keep saying “they are in there somewhere” not having the heart to tell them the truth. We are far from Army resources this year, making things harder. I was able to purchase 1 small gift each for them, but that’s it for under the tree. We focus on family, but still… it breaks a momma’s heart. They are also confused and worried went we aren’t giving to the giving tree this year. I don’t know how to say “I can’t afford it” so I found some extra money in our last check to do 1 child this year. It was too touching to me that they cared so much still. I had to do it.
    If there is anyone out there willing to help my children, all I can say is “thank you” and am virtually hugging you from the bottom of my heart. And Jenny, thank you to you and all of the others for your kind hearts, love and spirit not just in the holidays, but all through the year.

    My son Aidan is 12 and my daughter Bella is 5. Caerbrigit@gmail.com

  186. Umm… hi there.
    I hate to ask, but this year has just been… crap. I know there are people in a lot worse positions than us, but dear goddess this year has been rough. The house that we rent is up for sale, and between the landlord not keeping up with repairs, energy bills we have massive arrears to, getting behind with rent, and people traipsing around the house and judging (I’m really twitchy about visitors), my nerves are shot.

    I have severe recurrent depressive disorder, fibromyalgia, migraines, diabetes, and degenerative disc disease, all of which have been impacted severely this year by the additional stress. I just feel like I haven’t been there for my family like I should be. I’ve had to be in bed a lot, and haven’t been able to do as many active and crafty things with them as I’d like.

    My eldest at 10 has done brilliantly this year academically, but has struggled with how his autism and ADHD has impacted his social life as he grows up. My heart aches for him, and he just absorbs the extra stress around the house like a sponge, I just want to give him some carefree fun kid time, where he doesn’t have any worries. He’s been trying to learn to swim this year, with support from my parents, but he could really do with specialist support. He gets so frustrated and upset at himself 🙁

    My littlest at 3 is your typical busy 3 year old 🙂 His life is getting impacted too though, as I struggle to get outside, and my partner is stuck looking after me all the time. He should be in a toddler bed by now, but he’s still in his cot 🙁

    I just… hate this. My partner is trying to transition, but can’t afford hair removal, or travel to support groups. We’re both out of work, and my partner is limited with potential for work as it needs to be from home in order to help me (my primary carer) and to help look after the home. We can’t afford a car, so we’re stuck.

    This year, we’ve had to really pare back for Christmas. The kids have main presents, but not extras, not what we usually do. It’s hard for my eldest to accept change, and he keeps asking for things we can’t afford. They both need new shoes, haircuts and all of that, but it’s getting put off and put off, and I feel like such a shit mum.

    I’m so sorry to ramble, but somehow I feel safe to do it here. We’re struggling, but we will survive this, I know that deep down. I’ve posted a link to our joint family wish list below. It has some basics on it, as we’re struggling for the food bill, and some dream items I’d love to get for my partner (we both had to forego birthdays this year) and it would make all the difference, so I hope people don’t mind. Anything would make a difference right now. I’m trying to pay things forward by providing an ear on local support boards for people struggling, and doing what I can, when I can. I usually like to donate to local food banks at this time of year, but with struggling for our own food I’ve been unable to do that this year. If people would like to do that in our name, I would really like that, and I’d love to know if you’ve done that too. Otherwise there’s also Oxfam Unwrapped where you can buy things like goats, teaching for women, farming education, clean water for those in other countries who are desperate.

    http://www.amazon.co.uk/registry/wishlist/2FD12A33TMKP5

    http://www.oxfam.org.uk/shop/oxfam-unwrapped

    Thank you if you’ve read this far, and once again, thank you Jenny for making me laugh in the hard times, and for finding the right words so many times. And for this, always for this xx

  187. OH MY GOODNESS YES, please. Single mom here – self-employed – 15 year old daughter who is AWESOME and amazing and keeps me going, frankly. We had a huge housing crisis here this month which was solved through some generous friends who raised rent money for us. But I could absolutely use some help with the kiddo’s Christmas list. Here it is! http://amzn.com/w/2DE6RR48VYARI

  188. Jenny, you, and your community here, are just amazing! Much love and Merry Christmas to each and every one of you.
    I will donate what I can, and in the mean time I just bought 4 copies of your book from Amazon, Jenny. I love it so much I want to spread the fun and laughs to my friends and family.
    Thank you so much for the wonderful laughs and for being you. You are wonderful!

  189. I haven’t anything to give financially since I have my fair share of issues (read that as mental illnesses, plural), but if anybody is feeling really lonely this holiday season and would like a personalized, snail mail card, please email me at queen_elizabeth_tudor@yahoo.com with your address (and maybe some information about yourself – whatever you feel comfortable sharing) and I will try my best to get you a card in the mail by New Year’s at the latest. I used to work for a fine stationery company and could probably run a store out of my apartment, as I have so many boxed cards (I really loved the product and bought soooooo much of it).

    In the meantime, go Team Bloggess! You are all amazing. Especially you, Jenny, for getting us all started with the sharing, and the giving, and the crying, and the loving. 🙂

  190. Hi Jenny! Just donated $10 to Project Night Night. Plus this year I gave a bunch to Toys for Tots – it’s great to give back and give thanks!

  192. It’s 5:41am and I am bawling. These people amaze me, awe me, and inspire me. So incredibly blessed to belong to such an incredible tribe. Can’t even begin to express what it feels like, after 50 years of being “weird”, to find a group of people where I not only FIT IN, but also feel welcome and loved for my weirdness. This is a TRUE religion to me, and I know I have finally found my HOME and my FAMILY. May you all be blessed as much as you have blessed me…OVERWHELMING!!!

  193. Is there anyone on here who could use some beads to create a gift, or to give as a gift? I’ve donated as much as I can, but I run a little bead shop on etsy and I’ve got lots of bits and bobs, one offs and packaging leftovers. I’d love to send little packages to create a bracelet or earrings or some such, to people who could use them. Shoot me an email to riata.dal@gmail.com. https://www.etsy.com/shop/DrBead

  194. You are so awesome! I didn’t start following you till this year and I think this is great! It has reminded me that I have been blessed this year and can afford to spread the cheer.

  195. Night night bag given and one wish list item. I have been there too, recently, and an so glad to be able to help others

  198. $25 to Project Night Night and $10 to the Ferguson Public Library and $20 to my local food bank and I’m getting ready to scroll through the comments and find someone to buy a gift for from an Amazon wishlist. I don’t have a lot, but I have enough to share a little and I love doing so, especially this time of year!

  199. It’s probably too late but we’ve had a rough year with my husband being out of work for a few weeks and me struggling to get enough clients in my home daycare. We’re behind on nearly everything and depending on food pantries at local churches. I feel like a failure of a mom because I have to tell my kids no so much. I have twin 7 year old girls that want to be famous fashion designers one day and a 3 year old boy who is obsessed with helicopters, tools, and wants to be a construction worker. Thank you for doing this, Jenny! https://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/ref=cm_reg_rd-upd?ie=UTF8&id=1VNK69X661CG5&type=wishlist

    (I tried to send something but I think you’re missing your shipping or haven’t made the list public. ~ Jenny)

  200. JodiSonoda (#72) I AM in Canada, and would love to send something on your behalf to your
    “adopted” family. Amazon.ca doesn’t seem to have your shipping address. Please update your account, or provide your email address so I can gift an Amazon gift card your way. (And thanks, Jenny Lawson, I’m a new regular to The Bloggess this year, and loving it)

  202. Sierra (#29 above) – One free thing you can do for your friend is offer to babysit so your friend can run errands, do chores, or simply take an uninterrupted bubble bath with a glass of wine.
    If it’s possible (I don’t know your schedule/location or child’s age) offer to take the child for an outing — the park, a high school basketball game or holiday concert, caroling, etc. Teach the child something you know how to do — juggling, karate, yoga, flute!
    Help the child make a holiday gift for mom (lots of dirt-cheap ideas online…anything made by a child is a treasure…especially with a handprint.)

  204. Jenny you are amazing and inspiring. I have donated to Project Night Night and challenged everyone I know to do the same. Thanks for everything.

  205. I was helped in 2010 and I’d like to ask for help again. It’s just your basic single-mom fiasco; I work as a university secretary and we’ve had some very good years, but this year my department’s budget was slashed and my hours were cut to less than part-time. We’ve been scraping by — moved to a two-room house, got rid of the car, stopped doing anything but going to work and school — but it’s been really hard on my son. (Connor, by the way. He’s nine and has his own hashtag and title. #bestkidever. I’m not even the only one who uses it, which should tell you something about how awesome he is.) I got a second job recently, all hail the big empty universe, but I won’t be paid in time to do anything for Christmas other than make excuses and pretend the calendar is wrong. “What? Christmas? Don’t be silly, it’s March, go back to bed.”

    If it’s okay to ask for help twice, his wish list is here (assuming I know how wish lists work): My Gift List for Connor
    Link: http://www.amazon.com/registry/giftlist/1W9AR2LV0BIZH

    Thank you for doing this. It was amazing to have help when I badly needed it, it’s been wonderful to watch how the event has changed and to help when I could. You’re — I mean, Jenny and also everyone else — good people.

  206. Do you think it would be possible to have someone send a letter? Holidays are a lonely time for me because I spend them by myself. I can’t safely see family and while normally it isn’t a big deal, this holiday season feels extra hard and big. My email- brittisgood at Gmail dot com. This is so vulnerable to ask this.

  207. Thank you for this post. $50. to Project Night Night and endless hugs and love to you and your family.

  208. These young people need support. They are adults but still very young and have no one to help them launch into the world. This is for older former foster kids and/or homeless young adults.

    http://www.emich.edu/magic/

  209. I’ve tried this three times already and I am in tears because I can’t get it to work. Would anyone be willing to just send a letter/card? Holidays are lonely for me because it is unsafe to see any family. Normally I am fine but this year it is hitting me really hard. I’ll mail you one back too if you would like. This feels so vulnerable and scary to ask for this. It feels too much. My email is- brittisgood at gmail dot com.

    (If I did Xmas cards I would mail you one but since I never have stamps I’ll instead tell you that I adore you and you’re incredibly special. ~ Jenny)

  210. Jenny, thank you for doing this. I have enjoyed going through the lists and being able to send some items. It feels good to give back. Dianne, your link isn’t working.

  211. I am in Canada and would love to contribute to the lady who posted earlier, but Amazon tells me they can’t send to the given address – judging from the posts above I’m not alone – if you have her email address please pass it on 🙂

  212. (I also tweeted the short version of this; sorry for the repeat if you see it there, too.)
    A lot of AFP’s fans couldn’t afford her book when it came out last month, so we rallied — some people bought multiple copies and sent them out as gifts, some people sent on their copies once read. We mostly used massmosaic.com to take the pressure off any single person having to match up the… I can’t think of a better way to say this, sorry, but to match up the “haves” with the “have nots”. (I don’t have to feel like an asshole for saying that, right? Because we were all about the sharing, and lots of people who were gifted a book even passed it on to someone else who didn’t have one to read….)

    ANYWAY. It was super useful, and just needs someone to create and broadcast a group for people to post their needs in so anyone who can help out can find them. You might want to check it out, Jenny, or any of my fellow Bloggessianists. (I’m at the JUST CAN’T ONE MOAR THING AGH FUCK HOLIDAYS DONE NOW DONE DONE DONE HIDE CRY stage.)

  215. Bought some things on amazon for Megan on Rowyn’s gift list. (#176) Hope it helps bring her a Merry Christmas. I love what you and your community do, Jenny. Have a wonderful holiday.

  216. Just donated a Night Night bag as a Christmas gift to my mother. She watches my precious little girl every day while my husband and I are at work, so I thought it would be nice for another child in the world to know the love of a Bebe too 🙂

  217. Donate to Project Night Night. Done. My holiday to-do list just got shorter. It’s awesome here in the bloggessphere.

  218. @aliciayoungplus3 — sent some toys your way. Tried to do a mixture for all your kids 🙂 Happy Holiday!

  219. The more I read, the more I love.
    Your big heart was evident through your entire book and continues to shine through here.
    Thank you for giving us an opportunity to help in a small way. xo

  220. so proud to be a member of the church of Bloggessianism. Nice to be accepted even though I don’t like gravy. Going to help as many as I can.

  221. I’m a long-time lurker here, but I had to comment on this one. Last year, I donated through your blog. This year, I work at a school with a big high-needs population. At the holidays, staff get together to “sponsor” those kids who have the greatest need. My pick was a little girl who loves Frozen and coloring books and whose family was in real difficulties.

    I took my (slightly bratty) 16 year old cousin shopping with me to buy gifts, and it was honestly the best part of the holidays. That selfish little teenager turned in to a thoughtful, enthusiastic and engaged girl who was really excited about the opportunity to help someone have a wonderful holiday. She picked out every toy with care and made sure we also got clothes, school supplies and other things that would help the girl and her family well beyond the holidays.

    That experience was the highlight of my holiday season. My cousin probably got more out of that than she has from receiving the many gifts I have given her in the past. It really reinforced for me how much giving is what this season is all about. Just wanted to share.

    Thank you for everything you do, Jenny, and for letting your readers be a part of it.

  222. Done and done. Sponsored a bag at Project night night. I’ve worked with homeless high schoolers who talk about their little siblings and how they wish they could protect them. Hopefully this will help.

  223. Bought the ass end of a goat in my fiancé’s honor 🙂 Gonna check out the Amazon wishlists now. Thanks for doing this!

  224. Project Night Night, done. Heifer was already on my list – and it makes me smile that the Blogessphere (FU autocorrect that is too a word!) is helping to save the world, one pig butt at a time. <3

  225. Ashlynn is my 8 year old daughter who still believes in Santa and the magic of Christmas. This year has been tough, as I have been out of work since being laid off in December of 2013. We have also taken in my FIL, who is disabled and unable to work. However being able to watch the close relationship between my daughter and her grandfather is priceless. Unemployment ran out in July and we barely squeak by each month. We have enough for “the 4 walls” but nothing extra and make too much for transitional assistance by $50/month. I’m not asking for much, but anything will help. We are a family that always helps others and it’s tough to be in the position to be asking for help for ourselves. I would just like for Ashlynn to still be able to believe – in Santa, in miracles and in the goodness of others. Thank you in advance and we appreciate ANY help given – it will be passed on four fold when we get back on our feet.

    http://amzn.com/w/32WEFWO0D2YB6

    (I had to share…I went to get two small things from your list but by the time I went to order one of them had already been purchased in the minute it took me to log in. Made my day. ~ Jenny)

  226. You are all awesome. I donated chickens in honor of my parents and mother-in-law this year because we are all blessed and don’t “need” anything. My mother-in-law liked the idea so much she donated a flock of geese and got my sister-in-law to donate too. Keep paying it forward awesome people.

  227. Thank you for reminding me of the gift of sharing. Donations to Project Night Night and Heifer International in honor of my hardworking mother and father.

  228. Brittany – I just sent you an email. With a more proper one to follow later today. I hope you have a wonderful day.

    Jenny – I’m just speechless. You are truly an angel to us all. Much love to you and yours this holiday season.

  230. I am scrunching up my face and hitting “post comment”- If I don’t ask, I can’t get help, right?

    I’m the 40 year old single mom of a 14 year old daughter. I’ve lost three weeks of work due to a nasty eye infection called periorbital cellulitis and a corneal abrasion and I’ve been in an out of the emergency room and doctor’s offices and I’ve spent our grocery budget on prescriptions to keep the pain and inflammation at bay. I’ve had five ER trips and five antibiotic IV drips and I keep refusing inpatient care because my daughter needs me and well, there’s no way I can afford inpatient care. . It’s starting to look a little bit better but the pain is still keeping me down. I’m going to be on antibiotics for at least two more weeks and the pharmacy has been gracious enough to sell me a few at a time. I’m worried I won’t be able to finish the pills because I won’t be able to buy them.

    We already didn’t have much but this cuts into all of our Christmas- and my daughter is old enough to understand that we have less this year- but the hospital bills will be here and the time lost from my job is going to hurt once Christmas and the end of this month creep up on us. No going to work= no paycheck. My job isn’t in jeopardy, but our holiday and our pantry are.

    This is her holiday wish list: 5SOS, shoes, books- I asked her to put it together this morning:
    http://amzn.com/w/SNW3IK3DMOE6

    I appreciate this being read. And I will keep an eye out to see if there is anyone that I can help in any way.

    If you need a Christmas card because whatever reason. Please reach out. I’m happy to send you one.

    Thank you, thank you, thank you.

    Much love and many blessings,
    S

    (Hey Sara! Yours is the first wish list I clicked this morning that had shipping set up right. Yay! Sent a book and some poetry stuff from your list to test it out and they’ll be there by the 18th. One present won’t get there until after Xmas but the other two will get to you this week. ~ Jenny)

  231. sarawr Please update your address on Amazon. It will only let me send the gifts to me 🙂

  232. Donated to Project Night Night and I’ve also sent a message through Amazon to sarawr up there, since she doesn’t have a shipping address enabled. Thanks for helping to un-Grinch so many readers, Jenny!

  233. I’ve a sneaking suspicion that some relative will be receiving the gift of bees and other animal parts via Heifer this year. Thank you for the reminder!

  236. This has been a rough year for us financially. My son is 2.5 and has autism. He’s in therapy and preschool and is doing amazingly well, but those are each running over $12,000 a year. Since I had to leave my job to take care of him, finding an additional $25,000+ a year is impossible. Goodbye savings! Goodbye investments!

    It’s totally worth it, though. He’s sweet and charming and smarter than I am already.

    http://amzn.com/w/128MW65VWMZTF

  237. sarawr I was unable to get the whole list. I wish I could have. I hope you and Connor have a wonderful Christmas. I will be thinking of you both.

  238. You guys are amazing. Amazing. Thank you so much. I can’t even… there aren’t words for how grateful I am and how happy my son is going to be. I would love to send pictures of his Christmas morning if any of you are into that kind of thing and not, um, creeped out by the enthusiasm/oversharing.

    Thank you, thank you, thank you.

  239. One Night Night Bag purchased! Good News! Heifer just sent an email to their donor list. For the next 36 hours, all donations will be doubled! That’s two pig butts for the price of one!

  240. Erin, just sent Ashlynn a couple of items from your wishlist. Hope you and yours have a very Merry!

  241. I’m so loving this and you’ve inspired me to donate and volunteer my time this year and season.
    I don’t have much to give financially but I’m healthy and able and can give of my service.
    Here is my link, I feel so weird posting this as my kids don’t go to bed hungry and have a roof over their heads but gifts will be scarce this year for us like so many. Due to layoff and hospital bills and taking in family, life just sometimes throws too much at once. The kids understand though and haven’t asked for much, I cried a little when one just asked for a new blanket and pillow.
    I hope everyone has a very merry and joyful holiday season.

    Thank you for always making us laugh and grow in love!

    http://amzn.com/w/2V5HV60Q7J74V

  242. Heifer Int’l has a donation matching program for the next 36 hours, so now is a perfect time to go buy a pig’s ass in honor of your least favorite relation! (I myself went for a flock of ducks, but only because I’m not mad at any relatives at the moment).

  243. You guys are better than enchiladas filled with magic.

    FYI…today I tried a few amazon wish lists and the people who fixed the shipping problem seem to be good to go.

    A few pointers for givers…when you buy something from their wish list it disappears from the list so they don’t get a ton of the same thing. It doesn’t show you what’s already been bought so just because you see a list with lots of stuff still on it that might be because the person has received presents but hasn’t deleted their list yet. Several people listed lots of things in case someone wanted to buy something specific and they plan on deleting their wish list once they receive a few things.

    A few pointers for giftees…check to make sure your list is public and make sure you’ve chosen your shipping address as outlined above. It’s fine to put several things on your wish lists for your kids so that people can have options but once you’ve gotten a few presents for each kid you can delete the rest of the wish list to let people know you’re covered and they can go on to the next person. Also, some have asked if they can add kids clothes to their wish list and yes, of course you can. Last thing…some of the things you choose might be sold out so check back to make sure your wish list stuff is available. Additionally, look for the items labeled “Prime” because they’re usually available for delivery before Christmas, and for those of us with a Prime membership we can mail “Prime” items with two-day shipping without paying for shipping.

  244. Omg did not mean to share link twice, I wasn’t done before I hit send and thought I could cancel it. I’m so sorry for that.

    (No problem. I deleted the double-post. I’m trying to catch those as they come in but the comments telling me about them help. Thanks! PS. I sent two things from your registry to be delivered by the 22nd. ~ JennY)

  245. What a wonderful, thoughtful person you are, Jenny! And, yes, it definitely helps depression to get outside myself and think of others. I have already donated my set-aside funds for Christmas because I totally forgot about your Night-Night bags and pig’s asses, but I did forward gofundme requests to my Facebook account and will definitely purchase the pigs ass next month. I need nothing myself and have only love to give and this I do, as much as anyone would like. And love to you, Jenny!

  246. OMG You guys, Christmas is going to happen at my house for my beautiful daughter and I have you to thank for it! I can’t thank you enough! I am smiling so big, I wish you all could see it! Thank you! (Exclamation point abuse!)

  247. I donated honeybees in my husband’s name (he keeps bees in our backyard) and a flock of chicks in my sister’s name, who’d like to have her own chickens but she lives in Anchorage and bears would probably eat them. For real.

  248. Sara at 8:07 comment 230 – I got you covered. Hope it gets there for the holiday. Peace out.

  249. Jenny, this is one of my favorite things you orchestrate. It’s like a real-time, instant gratification Angel Tree! I’m a single mum with 3 teen boys. We have everything we need, even though things are often a bit juggly. We were able to travel to reunite with far-flung family for Thanksgiving this year, which was fantastic. After spending $ on that trip, though, I honestly wasn’t sure how I was going to pull Christmas together. But things always have a way of working out, even when I don’t trust that they will. This time, I just decided to trust, and sure enough, over the last few weeks, the money has indeed shown up (plus some!). I don’t do extravagant Christmases anyway, and I want my kids to understand that even when we feel like we have nothing, we always have enough to share with someone else, even if it’s only a little bit. So, Juleah B, there’s a small gift on its way now, and we pre-ordered one that will come later (because I love unexpected packages in the mail and stretching out celebrations). My kids were delighted to share with a fellow Minecraft nerd. Merry Christmas! 🙂

  250. Dang it- Jenny did not see your comment that you had taken care of Sara @comment 230. Sorry for the overlap

    (It never hurts to help too much. ~ Jenny)

  253. Threads like this make fill up the happy place in my soul. Thank you for posting this and to everyone who is donating.

    Erin @ 225: Happy to help spread some holiday cheer to you and Ashlynn. I hope she enjoys her toys and you all have a Merry Christmas!

  254. Oh! I also noticed that Amazon won’t ship to a wish list address for item sold from some third-party sellers. If it says “Offered by Amazon” or “Fulfilled by Amazon” it’s probably OK.

  255. Donated to Project Night Light and my employer matched it 100%. Thanks Jenny for bringing awareness to such a wonderful charity.

  258. One night night bag purchased. Wish I could do more, but money is tight this year. Thanks Jenny for reminding all of us to give.

  259. Jenny, you might want to consider blacking out the address in your wishlist shipping address image..

    (Thanks, but that’s just my PO box. Better safe than sorry. 🙂 ~ Jenny)

  260. I didn’t track numbers of who I helped. I have sent some items to Megan, Kristin and someone with the last name of Schuster. I will try to be better.

  261. You make me laugh AND restore my faith in humanity.
    This year was an difficult one for us. My husband was in a car accident at the beginning of the year, then was laid off. He was out of work for 199 days (yes, I was counting). For months we’ve been watching our savings dwindle to almost nothing. Im happy to say he landed a job that started yesterday & we’re all breathing a huge sigh of relief. We will have a Christmas this year & we dont need any help.

    I just wanted to say thank you for this because I have been on both the giving & receiving end of help – and while its easy to give help, its hard to ask for it. Youve created a community full of kindness & thats an amazing thing.

  262. I was struggling to find a present for my ex-in-laws. When their son decided he didn’t want to be married any more, they picked me. I think a pig’s ass would be perfect. Off to donate now!

    Thank you so much for everything you do. We’re it not for your humorous take on some very painful subjects, I would not be able to make it through some very difficult times. I love you, Jenny.

  263. Jenny-I have never in my life felt so happy as I do right now. I clicked on two different lists and helped families for Christmas. I am a very fortunate woman in so many ways. I often yell at myself for feeling so lost when I have so much. But later this year when the anxiety gets overwhelming, I will look back and think on this day and remember Depression Lies and someone needs me at Christmas. And I will continue onward. I look forward to next Christmas so that I can help again.
    Thank you. Thank You. Thank You.
    And Thank You to all your readers who give someone like me a chance to be a giver.

  264. I tried to post earlier, but it didnt show up: ( I have been working exra hours this December, only to be told by the corporate company that someone made a mistake and our checks won’t be sent until after Christmas (we were supposed to get them 2 days before). My daughter has been through a rough year, I apologize for not wanting to leave details, but anything would help me so very much. Otherwise, she will be going without! http://www.amazon.com/registry/wishlist/1ZHYGF3S4Y90

    (Your original post was approved a few hours ago but it can get confusing. 🙂 I sent a few things. ~ Jenny)

  265. I’m a mum of four kids 8 and under, two girls and two boys. My husband lost his job last spring and remains unemployed, although he has been so fortunate to have been able to find odd jobs here and there, from assisting disabled people in the community to helping on dairy farms to even preaching Sunday sermons to pastor-less congregations in our area. I’ve a Master’s degree in literature and have found myself somewhat unemployable, at least in my field; I have been doing daycare from my home while my kids are young. Money is tight, and many of our gifts this year are homemade. We don’t do Santa with our children partly because they’d wonder why they’ve not gotten much for Christmas when all their friends seem to have everything they wanted and then some. It hurts to ask, but if anyone could help with even one item on my wish list, it would be so very, very appreciated. https://www.amazon.ca/gp/registry/ref=cm_reg_rd-upd?ie=UTF8&id=1J2AEI2IHDYF0&type=wishlist

  266. I’ve been reading your blog since 2011, which is when I learned of Beyonce the BMC. You are one of the most powerful writers I know, which of course, when depressed, sounds like I’m saying you talk too much, but depression LIES (something you taught me).

    Never has a writer inspired me to action, to cheerfulness and to hope as often and as deeply as you have.

    I hope you have a fanSTABulous holiday!

    PS I link to my wife’s blog because she’s awesome, FYI, not plugging myself. 🙂 I mean if I plugged myself, like with that deflated Paris tree, that could get ugly. This PS may have said too much.

  267. I was feeling not-so-very-Christmas-y when I read this post and realized that there is one person that means the world to me that I have never found a Great Gift for. Her gift this year will be the knowledge that a family will have animals to start them on their way to a better life. Nothing would make her happier than to help someone else.

  268. Sarawr, I sent you a gift, but it might not get there till after Christmas. Happy Holidays!

  269. Hi Brittany (#206) check your email, I’d like to send you a card. If anybody else would be cheered by a card in the mail, please email me I would love to send you one: emeraldearring (at) yahoo (dot) com

  270. Love this idea so much.

    Emily (#235), a couple things are on the way for your boy. Merry Christmas.

  272. Thank you. I can’t say anything more than thank you for saving my daughters Christmas. I am humbled beyond belief at people’s generosity and I don’t know what else to even say that would be enough to convey my gratitude. Obviously I am rambling.

    Merry Christmas, Happy Holidays, Blessed Kwanza, and Happy Hannukah.

    Side note: I have deleted my daughters wish list as she has gotten more than enough. Thank you all!!!!!

  273. Sent gifts to the last 3 people I saw on the list (looks like some new ones have been added since then.) I think these gifts will be enjoyed more than spending money on more-expensive gifts for my family, who will enjoy a less-pricey gift just as much.

  275. Erin -(comment 225) please hug Ashlynn and wish her a VERY Merry Christmas from Santa’s helpers. Amazon box on its way.

  276. Hi there, all of you amazing folks! I’m a little late to the party, but I’d like to throw my kids’ wish list up here as well just in case. Our little family of four is squeaking by, but it’s definitely been a really rough year, living paycheck to paycheck like a lot of others. I had carefully planned out a meager toy budget for Christmas this year and was waiting for this week’s paycheck to split $150 between both kids for their presents while hoping and praying the heating oil wouldn’t run out till next week. But of course, this morning we woke up to a freezing cold house. As I sat here, plugging in the electric space heaters and piling some extra blankets on the kids’ beds with tears in my eyes, trying to decide whether to call the oil guy and cancel Christmas or go shopping and hope for warm weather for another week, I stumbled across this.

    I hate to ask for anything, as I know there are so many more people out there who have it way worse than we do – I volunteer with the local homeless shelter, so I know I should be grateful for the fact that we have this home, and warm clothes, and food on our table (or even a table to put it on), and a Christmas tree, and people who care about us, etc… but there comes a point where the juggling is just too much and something’s got to give.

    In any case, thank you so much for doing this, Jenny. You and your readers are all amazing, wonderful people, and it’s so beautiful to see real proof that there are some really great people in this world. Merry Christmas to all of you – your selflessness is inspiring!

    So yeah, here we go:
    http://amzn.com/w/38ZB50HSLPBRB

  279. Not for me but for my very good friend and her family (my godschildren). She’s a disabled single mom and has fibromiagia and mental heath issues that she works so hard to get under control. Her children are wonderful, kind and compassionate. They don’t have much, so I know that anything would be appreciated.

    Family wishlist: http://amzn.com/w/TWWYX2C9F8YV
    Mom’s wishlist: http://amzn.com/w/3OYKQKS9O0MON
    Godsdaughter’s list: http://amzn.com/w/1MIVN2D9HP77F
    Godsson’s list: http://amzn.com/w/3P74XD9IN85ZH

    PS. If you change the http://www.amazon to smile.amazon then you can also pick a favorite charity for Amazon to donate part of your purchase price to.

  281. Mom to three young children: Aidan is almost 4, Alice is 2, and Charlotte is 9 months. Our list isn’t long, but we could certainly use the help. I know there are others who are in worse shape than us so please give to them first. If you should make it this far down the list of comments though, my children love books.

    http://smile.amazon.com/registry/giftlist/13EVT2IJ6BN4R

  282. This is so fun! I’ve bought off of three Amazon lists and this has been more fun for me than buying my own family’s gifts. Thank you Jenny, for letting me play Santa.

  283. OK, for the record, I got to comment 115. I’m having to take a break because I’m in tears. For those who are struggling to pay bills, check out ModestNeeds.org. They can’t help everyone, but they do amazing work helping to keep people out of poverty and homelessness. If you have some money to give, consider looking at them as well.

    Also, this year has been horrible: In the past 6 months I’ve lost 3 family members and someone who was like a second father to me when I was a kid. Two of my friends had to put down animals and then I lost one of my beloved girls. I hate 2014 and have been pretty down. This thread makes me feel better. I’m going to make some donations in honor of those I”ve lo

  284. Not sure what happened to the rest of my comment. At any rate, I’m going to make some donations in honor of those I’ve lost. I hope everyone here gets the help they need.

    (Also, to clarify, one of my girls is one of my 15-year-old cats. It’s not as painful as losing a child, but it still hurts every day.)

  285. Jenny, you are one of the reasons that keep people and their dreams alive. I love what you do each year, you know that. I AM NOT asking for anything, I could given our circumstances but you doing this is just as special if not more. Reading these things (like the red dress comment I tweeted) gives me great joy. No life threatening diseases, my college kids are coming home, my shelter dog snuggles with me and we have a small house that we live in. We have enough for food and that’s enough. Wishing Happy Holidays to you Jenny to all of your fans (which includes me!!) Love and Peace

  286. Looks like lots of the wish lists are working now. Yay! Sent a few wish list presents to 10 families this morning and all went through. Two more pointers: Some people who’ve asked for donations have received enough and have deleted their wish list so that the next family can get help, so if you see some wish lists missing when you click that’s often a good thing. Also, if you’re making a wish list avoid things that aren’t fulfilled by Amazon because things from third parties can’t always be sent because of shipping address issues.

  287. I have a 16 year old son who says it is “Okay” that I can’t get him anything for Christmas this year. Breaks my heart. After 10 years in an increasingly abusive marriage I took my ex-husband to work and then went to the courthouse and filed a domestic violence protective order (which he violated twice and was arrested). I had to move out of the house we had lived in and loved for years because it was a rental and I couldn’t afford it. Before I moved I was on a ladder and fell and shattered my spine. The good news is that I am still walking. The surgeon had a man with the same fracture just an 1/8″ inch over and he is paralyzed. I know I am lucky to be walking around, even if it is with two titanium rods and 24 screws in my back. To make it worse, family agreed to take care of my son and two dogs while I was still in the trauma unit, and then gave away one of my dogs. So now my son and I are in a tiny apartment with one of our dogs and we are starting our lives over. I am so blessed by my son. He is helpful and wise beyond his years and I regret that the past year has been so much hell that he feels like he is no longer a child. He is an excellent trumpet player, an aspiring writer, wants to go to college to become an RN and he is handsome, intelligent, kind and has an amazing sense of humor. I don’t need anything for myself other than not to miss out on helping my son have Christmas. Thank you if you can help.
    https://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/ref=cm_reg_rd-upd?ie=UTF8&id=ZAHR7LGAPG17&type=wishlist

  288. PS. If you encourage people to go through Amazon Smile to place these orders (smile.amazon.com) then a portion of the sale will go to the charity they select. We can get real meta with this giving shit! xoxo

  289. Sara with the 14 year old daughter, I ordered her the Listography book – it’s one of my favorites! I’m sure she will love that. I’ve had cellulitis in my eye before (I was about your daughter’s age) and it was incredibly painful and scary. I hope you’re mending well, and Happy Holidays! I wish I could send more!! xoxo -Kristen

  290. Katrina (280) My daughter loves Bubble Guppies so I knew I had to send you one of the DVD’s. I also sent a backpack. Merry Christmas,

  291. This is getting me more in the holiday spirit than anything else this year. My job gives us an Amazon gift card in lieu of a holiday party/luncheon, which is helping me stretch the amount I can spend on people’s wishlists.

  292. We’re a happy family of 5. We had a baby boy join us 7 weeks early this time last year. My 2 girls love him to pieces and he’s made this momma’s heart swell with more love than I though possible. With my unexpected hospitalization when I was pregnant because of complications I had to quit my job and while it wasn’t a glorious job it meant the difference between surviving and the threat of bill collectors. Now that I stay home with my kids it’s been a little tough on the pocketbook. My wish list for my kids is attached. My girls love crafts and my 5 yr old has a lot of talent and imagination. God bless you Jenny for all the humor you share with everyone, I’ve snorted more than once while reading your blog. I wish everyone a wonderful Christmas filled with love, laughter and good company.
    http://amzn.com/w/2W6GX5F3WGD7R

  293. To Jenny and Anonymous: THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU!!! The Stella Marris kiddos in the Mathare Slum of Nairobi (comment #49) thank you! For children with literally the clothes on their backs, your generosity means everything. Bless you, every one! <3
    shelly@shellybaldwin.com

  294. PS Jenny, you know I write, do you have the address where I could write to soldiers who have no family or just want new friends to wish them a Happy New Year? I don’t have money for gifts but I could do this!!! Suggestions from anyone please?

  295. When I saw your instruction, I was wondering what you were thinking providing your address. A quick search showed it was your old Pearland address, so dangerous stalkers will end up in the wrong city.

  296. I hate asking for help. Really hate it. My two little girls are all set – they have grandparents who have overbought presents for them. But my 20 year old daughter, Olivia, has been a rock for me this year, all while battling a lot of her own health issues as well as going to college full time and working part time. I can’t afford to get her much of anything this year, so I’m putting my Amazon list on here. I would love to give her the necklace, which is the first item on my list, because she’s an amazing daughter and I don’t think I tell her enough how much I appreciate her.

    http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/wishlist/3578F3621VIWT/ref=topnav_lists_1

    (The necklace will arrive by the 19th. It’s beautiful. ~ Jenny)

  297. Apologies for the Debbie Downer post, but 9 days ago, my mom passed away from complications from dementia . 9 days from now is Christmas. Low on funds, I wish I had $$$ to give right now. I never thought I would be grateful to be laid off. Between mom being gone & my screwed up back, arthritis and fibromyalgia, I’m a hot mess. I’m collecting unemployment at least. A coworker’s wife called. They are members of the local Mennonite church. They will be over to our house to sing on Sunday. Thankfully they say they stay outside the house, because they would probably shit themselves if they saw all the pagan stuff in our house. Yeah, that made me giggle.

    My sisters took mom’s clothing & dropped them off at the nursing home so any of the ladies there that need more clothing can have it. I imagine that’s giving. If there’s shoes & more stuff in the walk in closet, I’ll drop them off the battered women’s shelter. I have a bunch of soaps & shampoos from various hotels I’ll drop off as well. At least I can make someone else’s life a little bit better.

  298. Melodie #41 – I sent an item from each of your wish lists, your son’s should arrive on the 18th and your daughter’s on the 24th.

    Sassafras #82 I’ve sent a couple of books which should be delivered on the 17th and 18th.

    Happy Holidays everyone! Big thanks to Jenny for allowing people to help other at this time of year!

  299. I had a whole eloquent response typed out (trust me; it was poetic and probably Nobel Laureate level stuff) but it got eaten. I just wanted to say that I’m stoked to be able to help this year. I have nieces & nephews – blood relatives & chosen family alike – and they’re lucky. For the most part, they’ve never had to wonder where they’ll sleep or what they’ll eat & they’ve always had Christmas. I’m disabled and didn’t have an income for 2 years but do receive disability benefits now. And it’s not much, but it does mean I can give back. I can help others have a little bit of joy this year. And you, Jenny, rock. Because you bring a bunch of different crazy people together in the name of a festive dead boar to make Christmas happen for more people. That’s as close to superpowers as I’ve ever seen. (Except for my SIL potty training her youngest daughter. That was borderline miraculous. You can’t always win. ^_~)

  300. Most of the wishlists still don’t have an address 🙁
    Also, jenny, regarding #72, one CAN send gifts or gift cards to Canada. It’s your same email address and password. You just have to sign in again to the site. You can also buy things from the French Amazon, the UK amazon, etc.

    #72, I’m trying to buy something but there’s no address. 🙂

  301. Would you post a gofundme link?

    (You can leave a link if you like. I think most people are focused on raising for kids here but you can always ask. 🙂 ~ Jenny)

  302. What you are doing is a wonderful thing. I wish everyone could also, if they can afford it, give a toy to their local toy drive. I know in our area they don’t have enough toys for all of the kids in need and it breaks my heart to think of any kids waking up on Christmas morning with nothing. If everyone gave just one toy all those kids could have a good Christmas. Last year our Christmas was very hard with both my husband and I not working and trying to provide for our kids and now that we are back on our feet we have been trying to help all that we can but can only do so much like everyone else. So seeing you do something like this brings me to tears because it is so beautiful. There are also shelters that always need help with donations for those who would like to help our 4 legged friends.

    (Excellent points. Also, if you want to give but don’t have any cash shelters are always looking for old towels, blankets, that you might otherwise throw away. ~ Jenny)

  303. (Please white out anything with even a partial home address on it…specifically the “existing address” field in last night’s post. There are so many weirdos out in the world with time on their hands.)

    (That’s just my public PO box. But thanks for caring! ~ Jenny)

  304. You guys, I have received so much already, may I ask that instead of helping me further you help my friend? Her name is Meagen. She’s a mom to three amazing kids (12-year-old Laizren, 8-year-old Jordan, 4-year-old Darcy) and her husband works a harsh factory job to keep them afloat. She stays at home and keeps her kids engaged, active, and happy through absolute rafts of shit sometimes. She paints fantasyscapes all over the house so it’s like a wonderland just, you know, so they feel like they live somewhere special. (Current project: she’s painting their entire hallway with Zentangle-style dense designs.) She and her husband are in the middle of some excruciating but very necessary home renovations and she’s really worried about making Christmas happen with that expense taxing their single income.

    I think she’s hoping to make her own post later, but she’s (hah, such irony) overwhelmingly busy today getting her daughter’s glasses from our neighboring town, keeping her preschooler engaged in holiday activity, working on the home repairs, and painting her husband’s Christmas gift by hand. Her wishlist is here: http://amzn.com/w/DGDW3R4Y6D2P

    She is truly wonderful. She drops everything to help me out of a jam at least once a week, she never has anything but kind words for anyone, and she’s fantastically talented and dedicated to her family.

  305. I know, I’m 284 and then realized I didn’t link to the wish list so I’m 287. Don’t know if you can delete the one without the link (then I don’t know what number I would be). Guess I had brain freeze or something. I just fell in September so the injury is recent, maybe knocked a few of those screws loose…… 🙂 Anyway, sorry for posting twice, but I had to get the link in there.

    (Already fixed. Deleted the one that didn’t have a link. ~ Jenny)

  306. this blog has become my happy place… thank you all for being you. Happy [fill in your favorite greeting here] to all.

  307. I just want to say how beautiful all of this is. I don’t have anything to spare at this time, but I will be setting some money aside for next year <3. We've struggled a lot ourselves, but are not currently in need of anything. Happy Holidays to everyone, and especially Jenny for changing so many lives.

  308. We’ve had a bit of a rough year – new house; new baby; two totaled vehicles; one PITA insurance company who wanted to deny our claim after their guy hit me head-on fully in my lane and we are STILL trying to get thru the settlement on that (it’s been 8 months); hubs job transfer that involved empty promises of a pay raise to go with the new extreme commute; and my mother’s husband left her for some flousy, so she made the 14hr drive out here to live with us while she attempts to get on disability – So, yeah, rough. I keep holding out hope that our insurance claim will settle and we’ll have money to get caught up and be able to breathe a little on the financial end of things, but I don’t see it happening before Christmas.

    We have 3 children – boy 12y; girl 7y; boy 10mo – and Wish List on Amazon for some items they want but we’ve been just unable to make it happen, at least for the next few weeks. http://amzn.com/w/YMFCVU4SGDU7

  309. Thanks for the clarification – going to fix all my wish lists. And thank you SO much for the gift card. You are amazing in so many ways.

    Baby is 4 months and I’m sure you know how much just daily supplies add up for an infant. Merry Christmas!

  310. @Erin (#225) — It’s not much, but I was happy to be able to get one of the smaller presents for your daughter. Hope you have a joyful holiday!

  312. Katrina (280) – be on the lookout for Blueberry Girl. Should be there Thursday. Happy Holidays!

  315. Katrina 280- sent two adorable little backpacks, but the butterfly won’t arrive until 12/29 or 1/2/2015! Maybe it fell off santa’s sled 😉 Best wishes!

  316. Blessed this year with the birth of my first son. Can’t imagine kids without a warm snuggie… Project Night Night bag donated!

  317. This request is not for me even though we have been doing a lot of struggling while dealing with the VA regarding my husband’s medical retirement (100% combat disabled) and transition to the VA. My request is for those Veterans that may not be as lucky as we are and don’t have such amazing friends/family to help them through the hard times.
    Veteran suicide rates are ridiculously high. The VA support system has been proven to be failing miserable at linking at-risk Veterans with resources that can help. Because of this, there have been many organizations formed to try to do what the VA refuses to do. Unfortunately, there have also been many bogus organizations set-up using at-risk Veterans to scam caring, giving people out of money and keeping that money for themselves instead. There is ONE organization that I trust and that organization is GallantFew, Inc.
    They are amazing. They assist with suicide prevention by trying to link up at-risk Veterans with local mentors that will stay by their side and help them through the hard times. They try to provide financial assistance when they can to those at-risk Veterans who are only at-risk because of financial hardships. They really do go out of their way to try to decrease the Veteran suicide statistics. However, all of this takes money and there never seems to be enough to go around. If everyone just donated $1 or volunteered just a few hours of their times, there is no telling how many of these heroes lives could be saved.
    http://www.gallantfew.org/
    Merry Christmas or whatever holiday your family enjoys this time of year!

  318. Seeing this restores my faith in humanity. Even if nothing gets purchased off my wish list I still think what each and every one of you are doing for all of these people is amazing. I am blessed to be mama to 5 wonderful crazy kiddos 16, 14, 10, and 8 yo twins. And of course 2 fur kids. I have been out of work for almost two years due to fibromyalgia and depression all the while battling for disability pay. This has been the hardest holiday season ever. Our family has suffered the loss of two loved ones this year, Uncle Johnny and Papa Doug may you rest in peace. Everyday is a struggle but even still I know we are more fortunate than most. We have a roof over our heads, food on the table and most importantly each other. Thank you for all you Jenny for all the laughs you’ve provided me and for always showing me I am not alone in my struggles as a mama and as a woman. and thank you for creating such a wonderful opportunity. Thank you to all your awesome readers and secret santas out there. You are truly amazing people. Merry Christmas!!!
    http://amzn.com/w/3D0DDCXCO7Z9O

  322. This is wonderful!!! I did the Amazon ‘secret’ santa – because while I like the organization donations – I much prefer to work on an individual level. 1 person making a difference for another person.

  323. I love this community and these posts are beautiful. I’ve tried many times to explain to my littles what the ‘spirit of Christmas’ is supposed to mean, I think this is it.
    I’m really uncomfortable posting this but everything happens for a reason, right? Usually I’m the one who gives, not receives, and I think I prefer it that way! Christmas is going to be tough this year. My husband is the sole provider for us and is a carpenter. Recently our home was broken into and many of his tools were stolen. We’ve replaced what we can, but it was a huge hit.
    It would be great to have some extra help so my kids (4 year old girl, 7 year old boy, 9 year old girl) have something under the tree.
    http://smile.amazon.com/gp/registry/wishlist/11B7RDAVJ5C3R/ref=cm_wl_rlist_go_o?

  324. Jenny, thanks for inspiring all of us to do good!! I am grateful that I am able to donate this year. I’ve been a recipient of Christmas donations in the past and it feels great to be able to give back. I kicked in for a Night Night bag, what a great project!! Thanks for all you do!!

  325. Steph, merry Christmas!
    I apologize bc one of the ponies might not be there in time (I ordered two though). Tell your daughter that pony is slow. 🙂

  327. Julie #313 I’m in Canada too, I was able to click on the wishlists on here and purchase things through .com 🙂 It’s just in US dollars that’s all !
    waves from West Coast

  328. Emily (with the 2.5 year old autistic son), I bought you the bike and helmet you had picked out but Amazon says that the helmet won’t ship until January or February. If you would like to pick out another helmet that is in stock I would love to get that for you (I can cancel the other one). I’d hate for your son to get a bike for Christmas that he can’t ride until January or February because he doesn’t have a helmet. 🙂

  331. I’m completely overwhelmed with everyone’s generosity – you folks are truly angels! I can’t even put into words how grateful I am for making our Christmas so much brighter! I’ve taken my list down to let others get some help that they need. Thank you so very much, everyone. I’m looking forward to be able to pay it forward as soon as I can. 😉

  332. I just want to say that this is the most amazing thing EVER. Jenny, the gift card was the best blessing I could have asked for abd then to realize people were buying things off the wish list before I could had me completely moved. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. I’m not a religious person but I at least have restored faith in humanity. Thank thou everyone!

  334. Melinda @ 291, you have a few things coming your way. Hope you have a great Christmas!

  335. Jenny, thanks so much for doing this. I’ve had ups and downs since I was laid off three years ago but got through them thanks to the kindness of some good friends. I’ve bought a Night Night bag. Everyone deserves some warmth and kindness. It is wonderful to be able to pay it forward a little bit.

  336. Actually, Melinda @ 291, I can’t access your address on the wish list, so I can’t send anything so far. Post a message when it’s updated and I’ll complete the order.

  337. I’m leaving my 17 year old nephew’s wishlist. He has been in foster care since he was 13 and is about to age out of the system in June. My sister is deaf and addicted to heroin and has never taken care of him. We are working with CPS to get him moved out to our home in hopes that he will make it here before he turns 18 so he can get an education. His wish list isn’t big or fancy. He told me he needed some new clothes because he didn’t have much and that he really needed help studying for his GED.
    We are doing what we can for him but his need is so great. I would greatly appreciate any help you guys can provide.
    In the name of the Bloggess, Beyonce the Chicken, & James Garfield, AMEN! 🙂

    http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/wishlist/1J48I443NYIGC/ref=topnav_lists_3

    (FYI…Looks like some of your stuff is from a third party so you might want to select stuff that ships from amazon so it’s available to buy. Thanks! ~ Jenny)

  338. Sorry . We are retired , no pensions and w Medicare payments taken out we are hurting . I have 3 other Grands whom I also don’t have gifts for . I used to give and volunteer and give now as much as I hate to asking I need to do . Nothing huge but at least a book for an 17 an8 and7….. namaste

  339. I’ll only be able to give in small ways, but once I get my paycheck I may be skipping here and there in a few of these wish lists…I’m calling it a celebration of the fact that my own shopping is FREAKIN’ DONE.

  340. My wife has been on maternity leave and, as she is the main breadwinner, we have been barely scraping by the last few months. She just went back to work, but she has been so heartbroken over the fact that we just can’t afford to give our boys gifts this year. She doesn’t know about this, and I would love to surprise her with the gift of being able to provide for her babies.

    Thanks!

    http://amzn.com/w/F6H1Y8X36OU7

    (Looks like you don’t have a shipping address selected yet. Check out the post to fix that so people can send things. Thanks! ~ Jenny)

  341. Last year, our 10 year old son had almost decided there was no Santa. His last test was to put his Christmas list on a digital post-it note behind his password-protected computer profile. He figured if Santa was real, he would see the list and get him what he wanted. He didn’t realize that every time he left the computer, he left his profile open so I was able to see his list and take care of his presents. Obviously Santa was real because we couldn’t have known what to get him. This year he did the same thing. When I checked his list though I was upset to find the only thing he really wanted was a PS4 and Little Big Planet 3 (and two pc games to be downloaded through Steam that might not even work on our old computer.) I realize this is a huge ask, but he knows we are hanging on by a string. If someone can help us keep the magic of Christmas alive for one more year it would be amazing. He also loves Minecraft so I added some more things he would like to the list. (My email is Random111@aol.com if anyone needs it).

    http://amzn.com/w/2ZF5YHPP2MXC5

  342. Ooh, quick question – should we get gift-wrap on the Amazon orders or just send them as-is?

    (I’d say “as is” because that way the parents can see what the present is first. Otherwise it’s hard to know what they’re getting. ~ Jenny)

  343. I’m the mother of two fantastic little boys, ages 6 years and 6 months. Shortly after our baby was born, my husband decided he was being neglected and found himself a girlfriend. He is living with her now, spending all kinds of money on a motorcycle, tattoos, piercings, etc. It’s a fight to get money from him and I’ve even had to ask my parents to help out when I can’t quite pay for day care.

    Both boys are precious, but obviously the 6 year old is more aware of what is going on. He loves to help with his baby brother and he is a huge mama’s boy. One of the sweetest things I’ve ever heard was when he told me one day recently “you know when I love you the most? When you smille”. Obviously he’s seen me teary eyed a lot the past few months, but it’s getting better.

    He’s hearing from older kids that ride the bus with him that Santa is not real. He’s already dealing with the fact that his daddy is living with someone else and is seeing her kids more often than he sees his. I’d like to keep the magic of Santa and happiness alive for him this year, he needs it and deserves it.

    I was able to get a few things for the boys already, but here are few wishes. If he could only get one thing off of this list, the PS3 controller would be great. We only have one controller and if he had another, he’d be so happy if I could play Minecraft with him (he’d have to teach me, though)! He LOVES Minecraft!! Soccer cleats would be a close 2nd!

    The baby is pretty good on toys because they were a lot less expensive to buy. There is no such thing as too many baby socks though!

    Thank you and bless all of y’all who are helping make Christmas special for so many people!!!

    http://smile.amazon.com/gp/registry/wishlist/1RVC5G7KIXB3D/ref=cm_sw_em_r_wsl_9wgKub03V4N41_wb

  344. This is such a wonderful thing you’re doing. I like to give donations in honor of family members. I do it through Heifer International. One year I “gave” my dad a sheep. He was not thrilled. Oh well. I would be happy if someone donated a sheep to a village somewhere in my name so a family could have a means to survive when we have so freaking much here that we have to rack our brains & search for something the people on our list don’t already have. This year the school was doing a toy drive for a nearby school so my daughter & I went out and bought as many toys as our little arms could carry to school the next day. I wish I could do more.

  345. Wow. Thank you so much to everyone who pitched in for my kids! So amazing. I want to give back if I can. If anyone else is lonely this year, feel free to send me your address and I will mail you a handwritten letter. I mailed one to Brittisgood above this morning. msaliciaa at hotmail dot com

  346. My name is Michelle, and I run Charm City Animal Rescue. I know you’ve asked people who have children to post their wish lists, but I wanted to suggest that some people cannot have kids. So they adopt awesome little furballs that are currently in the care of rescues like ours. We have nearly 100 cats, many whom are special needs, waiting on a home. We’re struggling to open our area’s first adoption center, and could really use any help with food, or any of the fun things on our wish list. We’ve got 2500 sq ft to work with, it’s just extremely hard to raise the money for fun stuff when you’re so overwhelmed with vet bills.
    Also, Jenny…you are the best. Every single night, when I’m done with an insane day of seeing animal abuse, neglect, surrender, etc., I come here for your words of nonsense and hilarity. I know you probably don’t know your impact, but you have a mighty big one in many lives. Thank you for your honesty all the time, your generosity, and your incredible sense of humor. <3
    http://amzn.com/w/RK133J7TGDXR

  347. I’m so thankful for the chance to get my kids something they’ve asked for for Christmas. I’m a single mother of four and going to grad school. Things are so tight right now but I know they will get better and then I plan to pay it forward. http://amzn.com/w/177V4G11ZCXD8 Thank you, thank you for even considering us.

  348. I really appreciate your kindness and compassion! What a great way to make someone’s season a little brighter! 🙂

    I did want to mention that I am concerned about gifting animals:
    http://freefromharm.org/agriculture-environment/10-reasons-to-say-no-to-animal-gifting-hunger-orgs/

    (Transparency is important. Heifer does offer sustainable farming, trees, send-a-girl-to-school, small business loans, etc. if you want to focus on non-animal stuff. I think a lot of people like the idea of animal because so many of us depended on animals we raised in the past, but it’s important to look at the details. Goats were assholes for us because droughts caused too little grazing ability, but chickens were a godsend. I think it depends on the area and situation. ~ Jenny)

  352. Skinny Malinky, I think I fixed it. I made it public and even added my address again under my name instead of my husbands. I hope it works. Thanks so much for your kindness!

  354. I just put my Amazon Prime to good use. I matched up comment # where I could.

    Stephanie B
    #303 sarawr sent to Meagan J
    #280 Katrina L
    #235 Emily R
    #230 Sara U
    #225 Erin D
    #263 Stacey P
    Lylah D
    Kristen S
    #140 Brandi P
    Amanda F
    #146 Nichole P
    #156 Thera L
    Elizabeth P

    All have boxes on the way. Should arrive Dec 18. Merry Christmas!

  355. This year I can’t help but I also don’t need help. Except I did need some help it turns out.

    I’ve had a terrible two years, the worst two years of my life. Things have happened that were so bad that it has just been living in hell. It’s made me question everything. But the worst of it has been that it has almost completely stolen my belief in people. That’s been the hardest.

    This … I remember the original James Garfield miracle happened and to tell you the truth, it’s been one of the things that I have had on my list of people-really-are-good-remember-that. It’s literally helped me get through my life. A list of good I’ve observed so I remember that humans are this also.

    So I’m sitting here in tears because you are all making me feel so good. Those who are here asking for their children: you’re amazing parents and relatives and friends. You are an inspiration to doing what needs doing. There is strength in the asking. And the stories you have shared have made me feel much less alone, although I’m sorry any of us are going through it. I am so proud of each and every one of you.

    Those of you giving: you are amazing. You are reminding me with every one of your comments that there are truly good people in the world. I cannot thank you enough.

    Those of you with words of encouragement: I am one of the many benefiting from them. Thank you. They help.

    To everyone going through hard: we’ll all get through this. We have it in us.

    Jenny: I can’t express to you how much this means to me. Thank you. Another page in the Bloggess chapter of Good I’ve Seen Done. Thank you.

  356. @bloggess- I’ve updated my wishlist. 🙂 THANK YOU guys soooo much!!!! @Kim (#348- Emailing now!)

    (Works now. Just sent a little something. Thanks! ~ Jenny)

  357. Would love to send a blanket to Shayna, but cannot ship 3rd-party items to gift registries. Shayna, please update your list with Amazon-shipped items, or add an Amazon gift card to your list!

  360. Katie and Catherine and everybody else who contributed, THANK YOU!!
    Jenn G – I added a different helmet that is available now. http://amzn.com/w/128MW65VWMZTF
    Thank you SO much for your generosity. Seriously, to all of you. I cannot begin to tell you how much this means to me and to my son. I can’t wait to see how excited he gets on Christmas!

  361. Reading and crying and wishing we could help more-I will donate our used items in lieu of giving money or new items this year since it’s what we can do. Our kids are more than taken care of for Christmas thanks mostly to extended family. We have had a good year with a new and stable job/income for my husband, so even though some things have attempted to knock us on our butts lately we are getting through it and will be fine. Jenny, what you have done with the little corner of the Internet you inhabit is freaking amazing and I am so happy that you are so brave to share your life and struggles with the world-that in itself is a very scary thing and inspires so many others to be courageous as well. You’re saving lives. Seriously.

    I am saddened that the world is such that we have to do these things and that there is such a need, but am also so grateful that folks are more and more able to use their public mojo for good. Thanks for being an awesome example of that. <3

  362. Kim L (#349) — I just wanted to say how great you are! I mean everyone here is great but I think your offer was especially cool. This whole thing is really improving my day! Thanks all! Happy Holidays!

  364. Davida-thank you so much, you have no idea how touched I am. I promise that I will repay this favor some day and make someone else feel as grateful as I am right now.

  365. hibernationnow.wordpress.com – I wish your site had a contact form so I could be sure you got this. Email me at my name (at) yahoo (dot) com to follow up. I’ve reached out to some vet friends to see what letter programs for soldiers they support/suggest and will let you know ( and post here ) as that is also a fantastic idea. 🙂

  367. Jenna (#336), I sent some pants and flash cards for your nephew. It’s not a lot but I hope it helps. Merry merry to you and yours!

  368. Danielle #346 – I got the robot set. MERRY CHRISTMAS! You are such a great momma! I am so proud of you for raising your kids and going to grad school. Graduating from grad school allowed me to be able to give this year. Keep it up! You are doing great!

  369. Emily (#235), there’s a couple of prezzies headed your way for your little dude! I hope he enjoys them.

  370. We ended up having a little more in our gift budget at the end of this year than we need (husband and I are foregoing gifts to each other this year), so I’ve just be going into random wish lists and buying gifts. What warms my heart is that more often than not, the gifts have already been purchased by y’all. Getting the “this might be a duplicate” warning is proof of how awesome this group is! Group hugs all around!

  371. You’re awesome, Jenny. I wish things were going well enough that we could help out. We’re no longer homeless, but not in a position to purchase gifts. Our daughter asked for one thing, which we managed somehow, although we’re struggling with bills. (My husband’s company is giving the employees 10 days off to celebrate Christmas with their families. This means after this Friday (which is rent money) we have no income for other bills/gas/food.)

    Normally I don’t mind not getting anything, but this year I kicked off a photography business and to progress and provide for my family I really need a new camera. Up to now I had been using a point and shoot (which was ok, but doesn’t do what I need it to do) and have taken portraits for friends, but my camera is limited, and now it’s broken (someone borrowed it, returned it broken). I have a portfolio now and with a push I can get people to pay me enough to help our family pull ourselves up (I know this because I’ve put myself out there and get inquiries frequently–which I am now turning away because of the camera situation). I chose photography because I’m good at it and because if I have a business unto myself then I can support my daughter and myself should anything happen to her daddy (he just had his third heart attack…he may or may not be around to provide for us). This would be a gift for my family, and not a hand out, but a way to help me help us.

    We’re good people. We believe in “paying it forward.” We had some people come to our aid when we were homeless and when we have the funds we buy food for people who need it, we donate clothing to shelters, we give a few dollars when we can to my daughter’s class so that a child whose parents couldn’t afford it can have ice cream on ice cream day. We do what we can when we can…and sometimes when we really can’t, but we’re so thankful we’re not homeless. (My husband encountered a homeless man at the dollar store, asking for change…it’s cold here. He didn’t have much and was very thin. My husband, even though we didn’t have “extra” money, went in the store and bought various kinds of food for the man to keep him relatively healthy. He had concerns for our safety, which is why he didn’t invite the man over. If he lived alone he would have done that too.)

    https://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/ref=cm_reg_rd-upd?ie=UTF8&id=1G3DTQZ3PLIA&type=wishlist

    There is my wishlist. I’ve comparisoned shopped. This is a low end camera, but way out of our range right now. I’m heartbroken. It’s a lot of money…but if a few people could send giftcards…it would really help us so much. In comparison, the cost of this would get us through one month. The camera itself can help us the rest of our lives. (And someday when I upgrade and move on I will donate this camera to someone else who needs one.)

    Sorry this is so long. I’m trying to stay positive for my family, and also freaking out about the upcoming two weeks with no pay. Thanks for reading if you’ve made it this far.

    (You might consider adding a few amazon gift cards to your wish list so that people who want to donate but can’t afford that much can help chip in. ~ Jenny)

  372. Oh Jenny! What a wonderful woman you are. I couldn’t afford to make any donations last year but this year things are looking so much better. I have 3 kids and they are going to have a good Christmas this year. Luckily we have money left over after shopping so I purchased 3 night night bags in honor of my munchkins -Stephen, Carolena & Logan.

    It breaks my heart to think about any child being without at any time of the year. I’m glad that I know at least 3 more will have something warm, safe and snuggly this year.

    So proud to be a member of this maxing community! Free gravy and chocolate for all!

  373. Cara-thank you so much, my son tested so highly on his school tests that he got accepted into a robotics club and that’s why he wanted that so badly, so he could work on them at home too. He will be OVERJOYED thank you, thank you. And beyond your gift your words of encouragement left me in tears, thank you. Merry Christmas and bless you.

  377. Christie – Please update your wishlist to add a registry address. See the Bloggess’ updates. I tried to buy something but it wouldn’t let me choose a registry address.

  378. I hate that I’m having to throw my name in here. I had been so worried about my sister not having anything for her son that I forgot to worry about the fact that I don’t have anything to give to mine. He’s only one, he wouldn’t even remember. He’s just happy to sit with me and watch cartoons, or chew on the cat.

    I had really thought I would be working by now, and I know I’m lucky that my son’s father is with us and working, but trying to survive in California is almost impossible on a single income. Add to that the fact that I haven’t been able to see my mom or sisters in over 5 years; I’ve got a niece I’ve never met and my mom has never seen my son outside of pictures. It’s been hard. Still, we have a roof over our heads and food on the table, so I’m grateful for what we have. I’m not super worried about the toys on the list, but I had my heart set on Christmas pajamas and new shoes for my son.

    His name is Wyatt, he’s one year old as of last month.

    Here’s my wishlist. http://amzn.com/w/1LV74SCYD6YTR

  380. Steph (307) the Magic cards and Monster High doll are on their way. Hope things get better soon!

  381. Donated to Project Night Night and played Santa for some folks with wish lists. Hope you all have a wonderful Christmas!

  382. You are quite inspiring. and you do make people better, every day. and also? I just want to share this…

    http://uproxx.com/webculture/2014/12/people-who-bought-boxes-of-sht-from-cards-against-humanity-were-actually-surprised-to-receive-sht/

    at the bottom of the article it says, “UPDATE: According to Cards Against Humanity’s Twitter feed, the boxes cost $5.80 to produce and mail, and they donated the $6,000 proceeds to Heifer International.” I don’t know why, but I totally get the warm and fuzzies that poop proceeds go back to cow butts. That’s full circle y’all!

  383. I love this Jenny.

    I wasn’t going to ask for help, but I broke down because I can’t even find the cash for milk right now. I gotta be honest, my boys want a tree, and a Christmas, and I’ve gotta pull my head outta my ass and start asking for help. A single mama can’t do it all on her own.

    So here is their list: The Boys
    Link: http://www.amazon.com/registry/wishlist/2B3W86U43LJPB

    My oldest is autistic, and really into the idea of time right now. Any help would be welcome.

    Thank you Jenny for making a safe place to ask for help.
    Xo Kim

  384. I’m taking things to the women’s shelter in Utah, and just donated a ton of dog toys and treats to our nearby rescue so they have things to play with while they wait for love. Next year I’ll have to do this too! Great idea!

  385. @Jenny – Just checking which email (never gotten an emailed gift card and I want to make sure your gift isn’t missed in spam) that was sent to. I’d hate for your help to look like it was ignored. 😀

    (Thanks for the heads-up! Apparently I left off the m on the end of your email so it bounced back. Just resent with the correct email so let me know if you don’t see it. Thanks! ~ Jenny)

  387. That was so much fun! Just shipped off some presents from one of the Amazon wish lists. Thanks for giving us this opportunity to share the joy Jenny!

  388. Love seeing everyone responding to all the wishlists! I wonder what it would take to get an amazon smile page set up through the Bloggess for everyone to shop through to keep the rewards coming? Anyone have any connections with Amazon? How can we make that happen? You might need to be an actual charity, but maybe someone somewhere knows how to help out!

  389. Hi,
    This has been a terrible one for me and my daughter – hell given that I live in Christchurch New Zealand where that awesome earthquake that’s still screwing us up now happened – it’s shaping up to be a pretty naf decade 😛 This year I have become very ill, I have Fibromyalgia which is normally under control but it seems that either the Fibro has decided to be ten times more awful than usual or I have something else as well. My daughter suffers from social anxiety, which is being exacerbated by the stress of having mum sick. With medical bills coming out my ears there isn’t much left for Christmas this year. I wish I’d known about this earlier, it’s probably a bit late now. And a lot to ask for something when I live at the bottom of the world.

    Look how adorable she is! 🙂 http://bit.ly/1zsP5jw

    Amazon Wish List http://amzn.com/w/2VJY7WLYZ9FJM

    or a New Zealand based store

    https://www.mightyape.co.nz/wishlist/1d23a7e28408aa9739dd14575e412ac0

  390. #342 Christie, the controller is on its way! The delivery dates were between 12/23-1/9. I hope it makes it there by Christmas.
    fingers and toes crossed
    Merry Christmas, Haley! You’ve got a pretty awesome mom to play Minecraft with you!

  392. Boy Senioroments , I am so unused to ask , The parents of said Grands are the new , working poor , not able either and Granny wants them to have something . Glen lives w me most times…. sorry for the 3 part

  393. I have a 8 y/o child with autism who isn’t able to attend school full time, and requires a parent as a full time caregiver, plus my 4 and 6 year old, and a 15 y/o step-kiddo. we are truly thankful for all of the wonderful opportunities life has to offer us.

    http://amzn.com/w/2MI1RVM5IDRTX

  396. Tried to spread the love around a little –

    Heather (264), Elizabeth (329), Stephanie (307), Sarawr (for Meagen – 303), and Katherine (317) – your wish lists are all a tiny bit smaller now. Happy Holidays!

  397. Bought some bees in honor of my family. You are the very best! Thank you for posting links, offering options, and just being you. 🙂

  398. This is Natalie (#322). I am in tears right now. Thank you all so much for your incredible generosity. In less than an hour I had a gift for each of my children purchased, as well as some lovely warm winter gloves for them.
    I’ve deleted the rest of the list, so that others can benefit from this amazing spirit of giving. Thank you so much. You will never know how much this means to all of us. I wish there was something more I could do to express my gratitude for you amazing Bloggessians.

  400. Christie – Some of the items on your wishlist won’t come until after Christmas (the baby socks and the charger for 2 PS3 controllers, so you’ll keep getting packages until January (tell your son that some of the items must have fallen off of Santa’s sleigh on Christmas eve!). But the rest of the items should get there by the 25th! Lots of love to you and your little ones. Have a wonderful holiday!

  401. This is the most amazing thing ever. Jenny, you are using your amazing powers for good – and inspiring me to do the same. I’m checking back for wishlists…

  403. This year has been really tough, but not in a way that Amazon wish lists can help. My 5 year old son has been struggling and I have been struggling as per my ushe. Yesterday was one of the worst days in a long time and I felt so useless as a mother, as a therapist and as a human. Giving up is not an option, but dude, I wish it was.

    Then you brought back that joyous holiday cheer feeling from the first James Garfield Christmas. It saved me that year and I feel it saving me again. I love all the things you do, Jenny. All the ways you give back and inspire. But I love this one the most because it gives us the chance to connect more to each other in this wacky, uniqueacorn community you built and shared with us.

    And then a got a call for an actual appointment for an eval that will result in OT services for my SPD kid. So, like Ice T always said, it was a good day.

    I’m still struggling today, of course. Depression doesn’t go poof when you get a happy. But there was a happy, two of them. That’s something. And something is everything.

    Don’t give up, peeps. Shit be hard, but look at the magic and the love that’s out there in the world. It’s there for you too. You are all fantastic.

  404. Donated bees in honor of my very hard to shop for SIL. Thank you for a great idea and solving the last gift idea on my list! Jenny, you do great things. So glad I am a reader of your blog.

  405. The first link I randomly clicked on was someone in Philadelphia, my home town. Crazy! I hope your students like the basketball – my kids play basketball, and I would love to see others get joy out of the game. Thanks, Jenny!

  408. Do you know what’s freaking awesome – clicking through and saying “add entire wish list to cart”. Did it 4 times. Merry Christmas and thanks for making me CRY!!!!

  409. Oh my gosh, ALL of you have me crying. I posted up a wish list for my niece, Lizzy (10), and for my nephew, James (8) last night. This morning when I checked, you all had sent Lizzy almost everything! I’m so sorry I didn’t get to it sooner – I took her wish list down.

    Thank you so much, ktdobkin, for helping. I can’t even express the depth of my gratitude – I’m overwhelmed. Can you email me at alteredtome at gmail dot com? Or anyone else that helped? I really want to send you Christmas cards.

    I’ve left James’ wish list up. He loves Legos. 🙂 http://amzn.com/w/MWS3CVH4WO1A

    Jenny, all of you, I can’t even express how much joy is in my heart, knowing these kids are going to feel SEEN, and that there’s a whole world of love waiting for them. Thank you, thank you, thank you!

    Also, please email me if you want a Christmas card. THAT I can do!

  411. Elisa (370): it asks for your email address when clicking on the gift cards. You can either provide your email address OR you’ll have to add several lines of gift cards for several amounts. Makes sense?

  413. This is for my best friends’ children. He’s disabled and working on getting disability (worked since he was 14 until he was laid off, then worked until he physically couldn’t.) She works at a grocery store full-time. They are fighting to pay their mortgage, so Christmas is out of them.

    http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/wishlist/2WPU6LXJZ0AJ/ref=cm_sw_su_w

    The kids are 14 and 9 and just awesome.

    Thanks to anyone who could help

  415. Elisa (#370), could you give us your email address? I went to try to send you a little amount towards your camera (I’m sorry it’s not gonna be much at all, but I’m kinda hoping that if enough people just give a little amount, then you can get your camera). However, it’s asking for your email address, even though I’m going by the link in your wish list.

  416. Thank you for the reminder about Project Night Night. I had $25 left in our giving budget and did this last year but had forgotten it for this year. Perfect! I appreciate you for everything you do, say and write.

  418. Jessica@396, I don’t know how..I did have it in when I clicked to add it to the wishlist so I put it in the comment on the cards. Sorry…I don’t usually shop online…or anywhere right now. lol Thank you.

  419. qwertygirl, ahhhhh, thank you so much!!! Please email me at alteredtome at gmail dot com. Christmas cards!

  420. Just wanted to check that me posting a UK based Amazon account was okay? I think you can log out and re-login to the different countries, is that right? I’ve felt bad about posting a large list all day… just wanted to explain that by no means was I expecting everything (or even anything). Just thought I’d post a range of prices. And it’s for the whole household. Ugh, paranoia 🙁

    Also, just wanted to add how inspiring and humbling it is to read this thread, I <3 it. My stamina and writing speed aren't great, but I love to send physical cards in the post when I can get to the post office! Getting post that isn't bills always cheers me up, and I'm hoping others will feel the same. That little 'hello' can make all the difference, I know from personal experience. I don't know how best to set this up for security… Jenny, any ideas?

    And everyone on this thread? Keep on rockin', you're all ace!

    ~Gaynor xx

  423. Kristina, Just got James the hat and an Xbox game listed. Hope he and your family have a wonderful day. You all deserve it. Know that many of us on here are happy to make someone else happy. Best to you!
    Catt

  425. Jenny, thank you so much, there are no words to express my gratitude for what you’ve done here for everyone. Wow, just wow. You’ve inspired me and tomorrow my family and I are volunteering at Toys for Tots for a 4 hour shift. It’s not much and we can’t give financially but you’ve helped me remember to give in any way possible so thank you.

  426. Julie Diers, thank you so much!!! You all are amazing!! I deleted everything from James’ wish list now – you all have MADE their Christmases. Julie, could you email me at alteredtome at gmail dot com? Would love to send a Christmas card.

  427. You too, Catt!! Please email me at alteredtome at gmail dot com. So much LOVE to you all!!

  428. Since it was 1:30 am, it may be that you showed an address you didn’t want to show, in your screen shot. It may be your post box (the one we are not supposed to send live kittens to) or maybe it’s a decoy. In any case I thought I’d point it out. Headed over to donate to Night Night now.

  429. I wish I could buy every single thing on everyone’s wish lists, but things are extremely tight on my end this year. However, I’d love to send Christmas/holiday/whatever cards to anyone who would like one! I’ll leave my email below, and you can send me your address along with what kind of card you would like! (Christmas, Hanukkah, general holiday, etc.)
    (Jenny, if this isn’t okay I will delete it!)
    Email: springlily19@gmail.com

  430. Four years ago my goddaughters, Taylor and Tori, experienced a devastating loss when their father took his own life. As you can imagine, this has been a severe blow to their family. During the saddest and most difficult time, both girls found solace in the discipline and art of dance.

    In the year that followed, I decided to try their mom, a public school teacher, cover the cost of their dance classes. It was one thing I felt I could do from afar that I knew would mean every day would be better for her and the girls.

    This is my 4th annual fundraiser for them. As you can imagine, it’s easy to get donations that first year. But after that it gets harder. Meanwhile the loss is still the same. If you want to help two amazing girls dance and be awesome, please check out the fundraiser:
    http://www.razoo.com/story/Dancefund2015

    I was so thrilled to donate up thread to this community that I thought I’d share this here since it just launched today. Donations are tax-deductible because they fund a need-based scholarship that the girls receive. Thank you in advance.

  431. You are an amazing person Jenny and give me faith in humanity. I had already ordered bees a few weeks ago (love Heifer) but today I donated one Project Night Night bag and one gift off of someone’s wishlist. Happy holidays to you, your family and this family. MUCH LOVE XOXO and thank you for being you!

  432. Thank you for doing this!!! Year before last the kids and I celebrated Christmas without a home. This year we have a place, a tree, and mom’s working two jobs. Blessed doesn’t cover it 🙂

  433. Tried to buy an item for #162 from her wishlist but she doesn’t appear to have a mailing address linked. 🙁

  434. I woke up this morning and was so surprised that I cried. Thank you to those that sent something to my children. It means so very much to my husband and I. I feel like a little bit less of a failure knowing they will have something other than the winter coat they needed under the tree. It takes some stress off my husband so he can concentrate on recovery after his surgery Friday. May everyone, be they giftee or gift giver, have a wonderful and safe holiday.
    Brandi comment #140

  436. I just wanted to let you all know how very much you have lifted my spirits. I still have no idea how I’m going to get anything done for Christmas for our family, but we will be just fine without gifts. This is the first time I have been able to help, even if it was only a little. Thank you Jenny for making this possible.

  438. Elisa (370): Awesome! your address is now to the left of the link to buy. Sorry it’s not for a lot but I hope it helps! To others: DON’T COPY PASTE THE ADDRESS. You have to type it in yourself or it won’t recognize it.

  440. Once again you bring tears to my eyes. What an awesome lady you are, Happy Holidays to you and all your readers.

  441. I am practically in tears here. I hate asking for help like this, but for my kids… I am getting a divorce and my ex made terrible decisions with our money, leaving me with tons of debt as I try to move forward. So I am struggling to give my kids a nice Christmas and have been feeling so down about it. If anyone could help with this, I would be eternally grateful. And even if not, thank you, Jen for this opportunity.You are so amazing!
    Here is the list for my boys, Noah, 5, and Brady, 9. http://amzn.com/w/2B3Z5NYCC2MPC
    Thank you again!

  442. Just donated to Night Night, Heifer, and got a couple of gifts for some wish lists. I wasn’t having a good day until just now, so thank you Jenny.

  443. SisterCarrion!!

    Tried to send you a gift card but for some reason it is only allowing me to send it to myself (which isn’t particularly useful!) Not sure how exactly to get around this? Wondering if maybe adding an e-giftcard to your wish list would work??

  444. Michelle @ 345: please enable an address. Or either I’m an idiot. But I can’t figure out how to ship to you guys.

  445. For anyone able to help out a charity directly: I am a part of Remember Betty – a breast cancer foundation. We are raising funds and putting together care baskets for breast cancer patients currently going through treatments to be personally delivered by Team Betty members. All of the information (as well as photos and videos of the last round of baskets that were delivered) can be found at http://www.rememberbetty.com/the-15-project and the Amazon wishlist for the care basket items is linked there and is here: http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/wishlist/2EHPJIVLOL74G

    Thank you all! <3

  446. Wow, this is a great idea! I hope by this time next year I will be in a position to be on the giving end. I have two boys, ages 8 and 15. The 8-year-old loves Pokemon, and the 15-year-old is a huge Nirvana fan. Here’s my wish list: http://amzn.com/w/2MVTG07Y9K09S
    Items for the kids are listed at the top. You can ignore the stuff at the bottom. That’s just stuff I already had on my wish list and didn’t want to delete and lose.

    In case you want to know more about us: I finished graduate school in 2013, and it took me until just this summer to finally find a regular full-time job. Had to move out of state to do it (and moving is EXPENSIVE!), and then wouldn’t you know it turns out that we were financially better off when we were on welfare? At any rate, I love my new job and hope that things will be better once I get my tax refund here in a couple of months. Unless something major happens, like my car breaking down (knock on wood), I’ll be back next year to purchase a pig’s behind for someone. Happy holidays!

  447. Added a Project Night Night bag and a Basket of Hope to the fray. Also sent a few things for Kristen’s kid’s in Philly! Happy Holidays everyone! 🙂

  449. Who would have thunk a Christmas boar name James Garfield would embody all that is good and wonderful about the holiday season. Project Night Night donation completed. Happy Holidays everyone!

  450. If anyone wants to buy some stuff for a charity – I am a part of Remember Betty, which is a breast cancer foundation. We’re gathering items to put together care baskets to be delivered directly to breast cancer patients going through treatment by Team Betty members and hope to do the next round in January. All of the information about the charity and the project can be found here (as well as photos and videos of the past round of baskets) http://rememberbetty.com/the-15-project/ and the Amazon wishlist for the care basket items is here: http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/wishlist/2EHPJIVLOL74G

    Thank you all! <3

  452. I am a self-described Grinch. I have been that way since my mom took her own life when I was 15. I put on a brave face while my daughter was young but she is grown and has basically been out of the house for a decade.

    Plus – this is the busy time of year for my profession. I would be okay if they just cancel the holidays. It feels like a chore to me to buy gifts for my family who is very comfortably middle class and really doesn’t NEED anything.

    One of my favorite charities is to help a local radio station collect items for a local Youth shelter. It helps this ol’ Grinch heart grow a bit.

    But…but… I have to tell you — NOTHING has given me the feeling in years like I just had when I saw the email notifying me that one of my items is already winging its way to MA to help brighten a little girl’s Christmas.

    THANK YOU JENNY for helping me be a lot less Grinch-y

  453. Sent some things for Stacey @ 214. Hope your little one likes them. Thanks, Jenny, for allowing us to do this.

  454. I am usually a reader/lurker but I couldn’t leave here without posting!

    Erin #225 – something coming your way. Should be there by the 18th. Please tell Ashlynn that Santa is alive and well and he is going to come see her!!!

    This is beautiful – and they say the internet is a bad place!

  455. This isn’t for me so hopefully I can do this without feeling too guilty. My 15 year old niece often shovels the driveway of our elderly next door neighbor. I’d love for her to have a pair of snowboots instead of the sneakers she has to wear (she has a freakishly high instep and can’t wear slip-on boots). We’re in Michigan so you can imagine how much snow goes down in her shoes and how wet her socks get. My sister was saving up for some from Kohls but they haven’t dropped yet to a price she can afford.
    These the kind she was looking at because they zip all the way down and she can get her foot in them.
    https://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/ref=cm_reg_rd-upd?ie=UTF8&id=37STUSWBL78SO&type=wishlist

    Thank you, Jenny, for giving me the opportunity to ask. Merry christmas.

  456. I rarely use the word “blessing” but that’s exactly what this post is. It’s a rent OR car repairs OR presents kind of Christmas. I’ve been waiting to buy my daughter’s winter coat and boots until the after-Christmas sales (we’re in Georgia so it is just now getting cooler and she has plenty of sweaters, don’t worry) so they are priority on this list, but I’d love to give her funny little scientist brain (she is five and has declared that she will be a paleontologist who invents robots to dig up dinosaurs) some awesome learning toys as well. Mega thanks to anyone who is able to help us out. I’m sure there are people worse off than us, and we’ll get through, but the peace of mind from knowing winter basics and maybe a sweet-ass robotics toy are taken care of is the biggest gift I could receive this year. You all are the best (and Jenny L. is our Queen of All That Is Best)! http://www.amazon.com/registry/giftlist/2CIA66T1Z11B1

  458. I just wanted to point out that your picture shows your street number and the first part of your street name. There’s lots of creepy people out there, and some of them are probably good at digging stuff up on the internet. As flattering as having a stalker might be, please be safe! Love your blog and all your awesome good works!

  460. This is really hard for me to do. I’ve always been the one to offer help, not ask for it. The past couple of years have been a bit rough. I won’t go into details but the crux of it is my daughter dropped out of college and moved back home because of her depression and anxiety (I struggle with it myself.) She’s been unemployed for over a year now (but has a job interview on her birthday this Friday so fingers crossed!) and I’ve been supporting the both of us. Making ends meet is getting harder and harder and this Christmas looks pretty dismal. I made a wish list for her, yes, she’s an adult, but her favorite game has always been Hungry Hungry Hippos and we had a lot of fun playing that when she was little. I think it would make her smile to see it again. She loves socks so I added some of those to the list. I did put a couple of things on there for me too. It is a wish list after all.

    Thank you to everyone who is helping those in need. It does make a HUGE difference in people’s lives. We need more caring and giving in the world and I can’t wait until I am back in a place where I can once again pay it forward.
    http://amzn.com/w/D8QAH6B6BEQH

  461. Katrina (#280) Books are on your way but they give me an estimated date of delivery of March!!! I hope it is just a mistake. If it isn´t, I hope you can at least give the book to your kids as a birthday present. Sorry about this. Merry Christmas!!

  462. Cailin, (#454) the boots are on the way to your awesome niece but may not arrive by Xmas. I wasn’t given any options on shipping speeds. Merry merry to you and yours!

  464. Suzy Smith, #412, I sent something for both of the kids. One is coming from amazon and the other is coming from a different seller so you’ll have two deliveries. Merry Christmas 🙂

  465. I know this post isn’t really aimed at me, as I don’t have any children (unless the cat counts, but I don’t think she cares too much about presents either way), but right now my household is struggling to make ends meet, and it’s only going to get worse. I’m not expecting much, especially with so many people in the same situation, but I’ve set up a gofundme page:
    http://www.gofundme.com/iyppeo

    Hopefully this time next year (or even in a couple of months) I’ll be in a position to give more to the community, because I hate asking for anything without being able to give something in return.

  468. So many of the links I went to click on were empty, which was so great to see!! Jenny, this is the best thing ever. Sorry I couldn’t help more, but Heather (440), Rachel (377) and Suzy (412), things should be heading your way on Thursday 12.18. Merry Christmas!!

  469. Shannon Kelly #450 THANK YOU SO MUCH! Your generosity is going to make my son very happy…and me too! Thank you for making Christmas brighter for us.

  470. Michelle @ 345: I don’t think my first response went through. Please add an address to your list or tell me how I can stop being an idiot and send you some stuff. 🙂

  472. I donated to Project Night Night. Love this idea. Bless your generosity to others, Jenny.

  474. Hello my name is Meagen my friend Sara mentioned my family and I above. I have three wonderful children my 12 year old daughter Laizren, my 8 year old son Jordan and my 4 year old girl Darcy. My husband and I just recently bought a house that needs repairs although our income is better than last year due to trying to get our home repaired it seems lime Christmas is going to be pretty bare. I’m a stay at home mom and do my best to help prepair my youngest for school next year and keep all three of them happy and worry free. Last year we were unable to give them Christmas and even though our kids made the best of it exchanging toys to each other with what they already had. But I could see the disappointment in there faces when Santa didn’t come. Luckily this year my good friend recommended this to me. I love to paint,draw and sew so I’m usually making gifts for everyone. I’m so thankful for what’s already been given I can’t wait to see there smiling faces as they unwrap there gifts this year. http://amazn.com/w/DGDW3R4Y6D2P Thats there wish list. Thank you so much for all you help. We truly appreciate every one of you!

  475. My address is updated. My apologies. I thought I had done that, but apparently I didn’t save it properly.
    Thank you so very much…I cannot wait to be able to repay the kindness of strangers.

    My story is #339
    http://amzn.com/w/F6H1Y8X36OU7

  476. To whoever bought the GED items on my nephew’s list: THANK YOU!!! Between you and Kimberly, he should pass that sucker! <3 Jenna (#336)

  478. Kristen #460 I feel so blessed! Thank you so much! Can I ask which item it was so I can remove it? I want to make sure everyone else gets a chance as well. 🙂 Thank you again!!

  479. @JennyOH: Fun stuff for your daughter is on its way and I sent you a note through your etsy email about Old Navy clothes if you get a chance to look. Happy Holidays!

    THANK YOU, Jenny, for setting this up! As always, you’re the bomb.

  480. Dear Jenny and everyone in this community,
    Last year I got divorced after over a year of scraping by while separated and paying for both households. Then I had a horrible time at my old job and felt like I had to leave the work I really believed in and the friends I loved because the office was so toxic for me. I was depressed and lonely and felt broke and alone. I turned to this community and others for humor, support and for a sense that I was not alone.

    This year, I am in a great new job and I just earned my first ever Christmas bonus. I spent my lunch hour sending that bonus to all of you, and it does not even begin to repay you for all the gifts you have given me. Thank you, Jenny, for giving us a way to pay back this amazing community. Thank you, everyone, who has asked for help. Asking for help is hard and requires great strength. Your strength during the hardest times is inspirational. And thank you to everyone else who has donated, bought presents, sent cards or delivered words of well-wishing, encouragement or celebration. You are all amazing. I am amazed. And I know that though this year I am able to help, in future years I may find myself in need again. But I am not afraid, because I know that you and people like you are out there, and there is such a thing as a James Garfield Christmas Miracle.

  481. @JennyOH, #455 – Stuff from Amazon is on its way and I sent you an email through etsy re: Old Navy clothing, if you get a chance to check it! Happy Holidays!

  482. @Julie Diers & @Slinky Malinky Thank you so very much! You’ve blessed our family! Much love to you and your families!! XOXO

  483. So, here’s the deal. I came to school this morning and shared with a few of my coworkers ALL OF THE AMAZINGNESS that happened last night in terms of health/hygiene items for my kids, plus some of their favorite toys to help parents put items under the tree (no menorahs at this school 😉 because of this post!

    Word spread and suddenly I had teachers coming to me telling me that their kinder student doesn’t have a winter coat, or that their 1st grade student doesn’t wear socks with her sneakers. Or that their kinder student is freezing because she’s underfed and doesn’t have any long sleeve shirts to wear under her uniform polo and doesn’t have a blanket for nap time.

    And because I’m a human, my heart broke and I updated my Amazon Wishlist, in case there is anyone out there who is interested in providing a few great kids with some much needed winter clothes for a holiday gift.

    I do want to be transparent that The Bloggess did send me an Amazon gift card, but sadly I spent most of it last night in my excitement to buy hygiene items for the kiddos who bathe in the bathroom before school.

    Thank you, from the bottom of my heart, for everything!

    http://amzn.com/w/1EKLFVP537I48

  486. To Suzy who setup a wish list for her best friend’s kids:

    I got Samson the “Despicable Me” 1 & 2 DVDs, and Alexandra the “Frozen” DVD. I tried to also get her the nail stencil kit, but it said it wouldn’t ship for at least 28 business days. 🙁

    I have Amazon Prime, so it says Guaranteed delivery: Dec. 18, 2014

  487. Sassafras (#472) A few items from your school wishlist are on the way. Happy Christmas! 🙂

  488. Alice #473, Elisa’s email is on the wish list, to the right of the gift card link. You can’t copy/paste it, though. Amazon doesn’t seem to like that, but it will work if you just type in the email address.

  490. I hope I’m doing this correctly!

    It’s been a tough year and Christmas items for the kids are not as much “fun” as usual. I’m biting the bullet and chucking my pride and have created a Wish List for one item each for my son, 14, and daughter, 7. Although I am not able to help financially, I do spend a considerable amount of time volunteering, both at school and with an animal rescue group. I try to give back in ways that I can. Thank you so much for your consideration.

    https://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/ref=cm_reg_rd-upd?ie=UTF8&id=1IAOIO0G41HSA&type=wishlist

  491. sassafras (472)- adorable pink coat on its way. hug the kids for me! merry christmas

  492. If anyone is looking to pass on a bit of holiday cheer My mom is very sick, and has severe depression, she is also on a limited income because of this, if anyone is willing to send her a card or something to brighten her day.I can give you her address j–d@live.ca email me I’ll let you know

  493. Sassafras @ 472: andddd a few more things headed your way. Some of it is coming from the UK so it won’t be there until January. Merry Christmas and God bless you all for helping these students.

  494. I can’t tell if this posted; if so, please forgive the duplication.

    I hope I’m doing this correctly!

    It’s been a tough year and Christmas items for the kids are not as much “fun” as usual. I’m biting the bullet and chucking my pride and have created a Wish List for one item each for my son, 14, and daughter, 7. Although I am not able to help financially, I do spend a considerable amount of time volunteering, both at school and with an animal rescue group. I try to give back in ways that I can. Thank you so much for your consideration.

    https://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/ref=cm_reg_rd-upd?ie=UTF8&id=1IAOIO0G41HSA&type=wishlist

  495. My family isn’t in dire need, but we are struggling this year. (I actually applied for food stamps for the first time in 13 years, which is something I never thought I’d have to do again.) It would be nice to see my girls get a little something more than the few small things we’ve been able to provide.

    Usually I’m the one trolling the craigslist wanted section and talking to friends to give little things here and there. As a family we do at least 1 gift tag off the “giving tree” each year, and we love to “pay it backward” in line at the coffee shop throughout the year. This year we were only able to pass along some hand-me-downs to one little girl from craigslist, which was disappointing to me b/c that’s my favorite part of the holidays.

    There are so many people in worse situations than us, so those should definitely be the folks you help first. But if someone feels the urge to make a couple of little girls smile a little bigger on Christmas, this Mama would be very grateful.

    http://amzn.com/w/MP1QN3J782QA

  498. I’m actually having a difficult time finding wishlists that I can get things from — because apparently so many of them have already been 100% fulfilled! I know it’s probably a royal PITA for you Jenny, but is there any possible way that the posts with Amazon links could be checked and then the post updated if/when they’ve been completed?

  499. #186 Sistercarrion, it isn’t working when I tried to send anything from your wish list, there seems to be no shipping address assigned to the wish list. Please update this so I can send you something!

  501. Its just me and my four year old daughter. We’ve been struggling, this year especially. A lot of court headaches brought on by malicious people have taken a lot of our money. I know there are so many people that need help, but I just want the chance to give my little girl a reason to wake up surprised on Christmas morning. You are amazing, Jenny, fyi.
    http://www.amazon.com/registry/wishlist/3WGALGHYB9HN

  502. Sassafras… Watch your mail, package is on the way!

    And Robin, 121, bless your heart, I hope you have a few stress free hours/days, I too know what it is like to have medical issues crushing you. Chin up, you have angels watching over you!

    And Night Night, can’t wait to see the total of all of our donations!

    I am almost afraid to keep reading, or I might donate myself out of hearth and home!, 😄

    Love you guys!

  504. Jenna #336, package on its way to you!

    Also, Project night night is getting a package and someone in my family is getting the ass end of a pig.

  505. Thank you to all trying to help…I have no idea where to put my email so it just does it’s thing. I’m going to look again, but my email is in the comment section for now. Apparently you have to memorize it and type it in wherever it goes. Copy and paste isn’t working? (Sigh) So sorry. I hated to ask in the first place and now it’s a big pain in the hiney. Sorry, sorry, sorry….

  506. Rachel (currently #337 above, with the 1yo son named Wyatt) — a little something is now on the way from Santa. Guaranteed delivery: Dec. 19, 2014

  507. A good friend of mine informed me of this amazing opportunity to reach out for a little Christmas cheer. I was thankful for the advice and hopeful that this will help make my children’s Christmas a little brighter. I am not a single mother nor do I have a super sad story. We are just a family that has fallen on some extremely difficult times. I am the development director for public radio in my small community and although it is a respectable endeavor, it is a non-profit and therefore not very high paying. My husband has just changed jobs and we are still trying to adjust to the income change. We recently bought our first house, and although that has been a dream come true, it is a bit of a fixer upper. We have had to do a lot of major repairs. We have two beautiful little girls that make all of these little setbacks worth every hardship. My oldest (December) is 11 years old and turning into a sweet young lady that would rather help a friend than herself. She loves to volunteer for everything from just helping the older community to saving a stray animal. There are not enough words in the English language to describe how proud of her and her sister we are. Our youngest (Selwyn) is just as giving. She is 7 years old and a little spitfire! She has definitely kept us on our toes! She loves to cook and bake, among so many other things. She has just recently discovered the wonders of science. Between Decembers heart and Selwyns inquisitiveness, we have been blessed. Unfortunately, this Christmas is not going so well for us. If we could just put the holiday off for one more month, it would be so much better. Unfortunately, life does not always work out the way we would like it and I am taking the time to humble myself and ask for a little help to give our daughters something to wake up to on Christmas morning. I have created a wish list for both of my girls on amazon and here are the links: http://www.amazon.com/registry/giftlist/HB3E0HJUBGZ7 – Selwyn
    http://www.amazon.com/registry/giftlist/3I40SCWL48ZR8 – December

    Thank you so much for your help and generosity. Next year I hope to be on the other end of this and able to donate instead of receive.

  508. @ Caiilin (#454) – I managed to afford a pair of snow boots for the first time this year and my heart went out to your niece because I know what it’s like to not have decent boots that fit when it’s wet and cold. The boots have been ordered and I hope she’ll be much more comfortable once she has them. Blessings, Courtney

  509. Wow. This is amazing. I’m a full-time college student studying to become a paramedic while working a full time job. Things are tight around here y’all! 🙂 I have 2 fantastic kiddos. My 12 year old is autistic with ADHD and sensory processing disorder. All that she wants for Christmas is Skylander’s Swap Force and a few characters. I also have an 11 year old daughter who is amazing. She gets pushed to the side sometimes with everything that her sister is going through, but she’s just such an awesome kid. She helps me out in every way that she can. She has said that all she wants for Christmas is this hair curler. She has very long, stick straight hair that she loves to curl. I’ve put these items on an Amazon wish list. I hope that every single one of you is blessed beyond measure 🙂
    http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/wishlist/3L1K7U557A1CM/ref=cm_wl_rlist_go_o?

  511. Wow. This is amazing. I’m a full-time college student studying to become a paramedic while working a full time job. Things are tight around here y’all! 🙂 I have 2 fantastic kiddos. My 12 year old is autistic with ADHD and sensory processing disorder. All that she wants for Christmas is Skylander’s Swap Force and a few characters. I also have an 11 year old daughter who is amazing. She gets pushed to the side sometimes with everything that her sister is going through, but she’s just such an awesome kid. She helps me out in every way that she can. She has said that all she wants for Christmas is this hair curler. She has very long, stick straight hair that she loves to curl. I’ve put these items on an Amazon wish list. I hope that every single one of you is blessed beyond measure 🙂
    http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/wishlist/3L1K7U557A1CM/ref=cm_wl_rlist_go_o?
    I really hope this comment didn’t post twice because my browser shut down right as I clicked post! My apologies if it did.

  512. No worries, Elisa. Hope you get your camera!
    If you edit your List Properties (see Jenny’s instructions in Update #3 way up top), you can add your email to the “About” box and others will be able to see it in the space above the list items.

  513. The Hooks family is in need after a chronic illness has left the father without work since September. The mother is working night shifts and they just don’t have enough to give their kids the gifts they need. I can’t do much for them as I try to support my husband through school. We want to share what we can, but don’t have enough to make their Christmas truly magical. Any help is sooooooo appreciated! Thank you!

    http://www.amazon.com/registry/giftlist/39XPD2PMNR24S

  514. I would so much rather be on the giving side of this, because it sounds awesome. But truth be told, my husband has spent so much of this year on sick leave (great that he still has a job, but they don’t pay him for not being there of course) that I’ve essentially cancelled Christmas. My older kids understand, but I have an autistic 6 year old who I’m afraid to tell there won’t be a tree or stockings this year because I simply have nothing to put under/in them. Their gift cards from their grandparents are all going to buy much-needed clothing for the cold weather, and I’m extremely grateful for that (as are they), but it’s not as fantastical for the little one who doesn’t get it, you know? I made this list with a few things on it – I hardly even know what to put, because I’ve put zero thought into fun things for a long time. http://amzn.com/w/23A1VIFCKDLX4 I have a 16yo girl, 13yo boy, 11yo girl, and 6yo boy. Thanks to anyone who looks, and Happy Holidays, and next year I want to see a post like this that I can be on the other side of.

  515. I got an Amazon gift card from work and I’ve been happily spending it here on wishlists! 🙂

  516. @Jerilyn — I just wanted to say I think it’s great what you and your family do for the residents. You have a few items coming your way from me, but I know what they appreciate most is you spending time with them – so thank you for doing that!

  517. sassafrass (472) – A couple items for the “kiddos” are coming your way.

    This campaign is such a lovely idea. Thank you for creating it, Jenny.

  521. http://www.amazon.com/registry/wishlist/110TRWSTAX5Z0
    I’m late to the party but hopefully not too late. I’d like to set my pride aside a minute and ask for some help for my family. It’s been a rough couple years for us. We overcame homelessness last year. But things aren’t that great right now. I can’t find a job that I can physically do with my messed up back. My wife is dealing with her own health issues right now and actually lost her job because of it. So Christmas is looking bleak right now. We weren’t able to sign up for any local help because we didn’t have the gas to get there. I made a list for something special for each of our kids along with diapers and a little something for my wife. Any help would be amazing. I’m praying I’ll be able to pay it forward soon.

  522. I am here to post my daughter’s list. She is 2 1/2 and we are having a hard time right now. I am currently 28 weeks pregnant with my second child, and am on bed rest due to high blood pressure and worries about preeclampsia. I will have a preemie soon and feel like she is having such a hard time with these changes. I feel awful that I haven’t been able to play with her like I usually do, but she has been so good. I am obviously not able to work right now, and medical bills are stacking up like crazy so money is extremely tight. Anything would be so appreciated, and I hope next year I will be on the other side of this. Merry Christmas!

    https://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/ref=cm_reg_rd-upd?ie=UTF8&id=1VUKFKGH9KE8Y&type=wishlist

  523. Flocwald340 – please update your Amazon ship to address and add some gift cards so I can contribute to the ps4

  524. I wish that there could be a holiday fairy to come replace my KitchenAid mixer. I’m disabled, nerve damage and RA stole my ability to sign (I’m deaf) which essentially robbed me of all ability to communicate in person and it stole my ability to cook as much as I’d like. My old mixer was inherited from my grandmother and it went up in smoke, literally. The motor burned out. I would love to have a new mixer, because I’ve already burned out the cheap hand mixer I got to tide me over. I decided I’d have to put it off for at least another couple years, because things like buying inhalers so I can breathe took precedence. No idea why 😉

  526. This is so amazing. I am inspired and touched by all the responses to requests for help. I am, unfortunately, in a position where I am in need as well. My partner has many health problems and with transportation to and from doctor’s appts. and helping with her care, I have been unable to earn/save the money for Christmas for three kids. I’m sure some of you will understand when you have to make the choice between rent, gas, and Christmas, the decision is hard, but a roof over our head is most important. I know there are people in far worse situations and this is so hard to do. When we are already behind on rent, I can’t convince myself that spending on things that aren’t necessities to living is the right thing to do.

    With a grateful heart for all everyone has already done and a renewed spirit when I was already near the end of my rope, I post this list.

    http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/wishlist/45PEWXX22NXE/ref=cm_sw_em_r_wsg_UslKub09CE0Y8_wb

  527. @Sara (436), @Sassafras (472), @AmesJeannie (491) you all have books headed your way. Thanks Jenny for doing this!

  528. Kristi (#521) I sent a long Twilight Sparkle (she should be there in 3-5 biz. days) but I couldn’t include a note. Good luck to you and your family during this challenging time. All will be well! Have a happy holiday!

  529. sassafras, my day has been crappy and my kiddos are annoying me, but the idea of ones out there without clothes to wear broke my heart, I’ve already donated to someone upstream and don’t have a lot ourselves, but I had to help out a bit. You’ve got at least one more shirt coming your way for the kids.

  530. Carefree at #459 – hippos, socks, and birdbath coming your way! Merry Christmas!

  531. Well…i rarely ask, but its come to my attention that this wonderful place (Austin Pets Alive) that rescues and finds homes for animals. ..sometimes after lengthy health problems. …had a problem. Their washer has died, lived through its 7 lives. Can we please gather enough $$ to buy them a new washer and maybe a few things that will help these fantastic big hearted people? ?
    http://www.austinpetsalive.org/

  532. In tears here, remembering when this single mom cried herself to sleep because the only presents she could afford to make Christmas happen were purchased from the dollar store with money that was supposed to buy groceries, but I ate ramen noodles for two weeks instead.

    My baby just finished her last semester of college, debt free. I’m finishing off several Amazon wish lists and buying flocks of chickens. Hugs and kisses to all who are struggling to year.

  533. I have been in tears all afternoon. I’m #377. Thank you all so much. I feel like that’s not enough, but thank you!

  535. One bag to Project Night Night. And I’ll be looking for wish lists that Jenny can’t help once she runs out of funds.

  536. Carefree (#459) just sent some socks to your daughter. Best of luck on her interview and Merry merry to you and her!

  537. Anonymous #286 – Assassins Creed is on the way for your son! Hope you guys have a wonderful holiday together!

  538. Kristi (521) a gift is on the way and should be there between Monday and Wednesday next week. I hope you are able to finish your pregnancy as easily as possible…Merry Christmas:)

  540. http://amzn.com/w/31WAS5W6VAZDT
    Hello everyone, I’d like to ask for some help to get my 7 amazing grandbabies something special this year. The boys are 16, 7, 5, 2,2 and 4 months. My only granddaughter is 10. I’m disabled and live off ssi and there’s pretty much just enough to pay my bills. I made a list with one thing for each of them. Bless you all and happy holidays!

  542. I see many of you would like cards sent. I would love to send cards. But since there are more of you than there is of me, I’ll leave my email address and you let me know where/to whom I can write. And if you’ve already told the story here, put the comment number in the email so you won’t have to type it all again. xo

    Seamusandmaggie@yahoo.com

  543. I hate asking for help, but my family has had a really rough year. Our income decreased about 60% and of course, all of our expenses increased — car is falling apart, furnace is on the fritz, everyone needs new warm, winter clothes. I have 3 kids – two boys and a girl (14, 12, and turning-10-on-Christmas). They know Christmas isn’t about ‘stuff’ and they know our financial sitch is precarious, but the thought of having no gifts beyond socks and sweatpants under the tree (if we can afford a tree) breaks my heart. I put together a wishlist for them of mostly books; if anyone has the means to help, I’d be so grateful. We utilize the public and school libraries as much as possible, but sometimes they don’t have what my kids are looking for (like graphic novels). My oldest likes first-person POV books, especially scary/adventure ones. My middle son leans more toward fantasy books. My daughter likes girl-centric books. They all like graphic novels, video games, hockey, Minecraft, My Little Pony, board/card games, and vinyl & plush toys.
    Also, my son needs new boots (he wore my pink-and-white boots all last year and has outgrown them, now his brother and I are sharing my boots), but I know they’re $$$ so they’re on the wishlist more as a reminder/bookmark for me.
    I appreciate any help & hope to be on the ‘giving’ side of the equation next year.
    Thanks. http://amzn.com/w/9BM5E8SAFPT2

  544. My daughter is 13 yrs old and she hasn’t had Christmas for the past 5 years. I was diagnosed with uterine cancer and underwent surgery and aggressive treatment. In the midst of all of it, I lost job and home shortly after. After getting a clean bill of health 3 years ago, I decided to go back to school so that I could better support the two of us. I’ll graduate in May and hopefully I’ll be on the giving side of this next year but I would really love for her to be able to get something this year. She has been so understanding and wise beyond her years throughout this whole process and before she’s too “mature” to experience the joy of Christmas presents, I’d love for her to have one awesome Christmas. Thank you so much in advance for looking at the list and I wish everyone the best this holiday!

    http://amzn.com/w/U8CQQ0RC7T7

  545. I purchased 12 things from 12 different wish lists. I thought amazon would keep up with who’s who, but they didn’t. So if you get a small mystery gift this week, it is probably disorganized me.
    Happy holidays, everyone, and James Garfield hugs for all!!

  546. @Ashley (#518) I hate crying at work:) Thank you, from the bottom of my heart. I can’t wait to pay this forward in January, when I have three paychecks. Merry Christmas!! xox

  547. for comment 144 anathica. I don’t send holiday cards, but I am sending postcards(from Scotland) if you would like one you can e-mail me at kls7@st-andrews.ac.uk with an address you feel comfortable sharing.
    It would only be used for postcard mailing.

  549. Just sent $100 to Project night night. Thanks for doing this. I donate all over the place but this one is kind of special!

  550. Amie #506, gifts for both your girls are headed your way–delivery on the 19th. I went a little science-heavy with your youngest. My mom is a Chemistry professor, so I can’t resist encouraging girls to enter the profession!

  551. This year has been horribly difficult – I lost my job in the spring, my mom spent the summer sick and nearly died in August/September (I lost my best freelance client because I was practically living in the ICU / Critical Care Unit with her for 3 weeks; been scrambling hard since), and during all of this, my marriage broke for good and he moved out in September, sticking me with ALL THE BILLS (knowing I have no job), parenting two teens totally alone, and taking care of my still-recovering mom..all while I’m trying to find a full-time job …at the holidays.
    I’m unable to make ends meet right now and it’s terrifying. There are days where I don’t think I can take another bad thing happening or another stupid hurdle to get basic things like medical coverage or heating assistance. This has all been brutally humbling to say the least…and my kids don’t deserve the last few years of their childhood to be fraught with stress and fear, so I’ve tried really hard to keep them unaware of how tight money is, how much of a thread we are hanging by..but they’re not stupid; they know things are bad right now.
    ANY help with making Christmas exciting for them would be SO SO SO AMAZING. The wish list has their ultimate wishes and practical/sturdy stuff combined – their clothing and shoe sizes are listed too. Link: http://amzn.com/w/2B6BT8WT3NU3L
    I used to be the one doing the helping and it is not easy to ask for help – but for these two kiddos, I’m doing everything I can. THANK YOU SO MUCH!

  552. To borrow words from my youngest (23 y/o), “I can’t even, the feels!!” I received several emails from some of the wonderful members of this mixed-up, messed up, wonderful family of Bloggess devotees. Thank you to all who wrote, I’m working on answering them all.

    I have cried over many of the struggles being faced out there; my heart breaking. But I’ve also been moved by all the love and generosity so prevalent here. I’ve also been reminded that whatever my problems are, l am not alone. I feel so much better than I did last night.

    Jenny, you must be exhausted! It’s beautiful how you help or make help possible for so many people. Please don’t overdo it, we all want you to have a wonderful and healthy holiday as well.

    Love, peace and hugs to everyone who reads this. You are all beautiful and special.

  553. Long time reader, first time commenter…

    We can’t afford to donate to anything this year as my husband hasn’t had much of a steady pay check since August. We’re doing ok as far as Christmas is concerned (we have a lovely extended family) so we don’t need to ask for anything. Just wanted to mention that I shared your post on Facebook in the hopes some of my friends might click through and help out. Also wanted to say thank you for all that you do for others. You make me feel good about people.

  554. Dear Jenny, even though I’m a college student without a steady income, having this opportunity to help out your readers is fantastic, and I’ve already supported some commenters above. BUT if I may make one recommendation: instead of pointing people to amazon.com to make wishlists, steer them towards smile.amazon.com, where the prices are the same, but Amazon donates a (tiny) fraction of the money you spend to a good cause of your own choice. Let’s not only help people but also pass around a little extra holiday love along the way. 🙂

  555. Emily (#500) – your wish list needs a shipping address! We don’t know how to send anything for Savannah without it.
    There are instructions for adding the address, with pictures, in the post above.

  557. For Kristi in OH (Currently #521 above, posted December 16, 2014 at 4:42 pm) with the 2-1/2 year old daughter (Calile?). A few things on their way from Santa. Guaranteed delivery: Dec. 19, 2014

  558. This is a beautiful thing. We’ve been on the receiving end of such a wonderful gesture in the past. We’ve had several rough years. This year could be better but…it could also be so much worse.
    I started reading your blog because you made me giggle. I keep reading because of the feels.

  559. Longtime lurker here but just had to get in on this! I’m having a hard time finding things to buy though!! Lots of lists sold out. Then, I found 2 that weren’t, but by the time I got to the checkout, someone had bought my items 🙂 You all are too amazing for words! (And I’m too slow apparently). I know it’s hard to ask for help, but there are lots of people (like me!) wanting to help, so keep posting!

  560. Hello again. Two things. First – watching how this post has flourished has been one of the most wonderful experiences of my life. I am a grateful recipient of your kindness but even if I wasn’t, what has happened here is the most wonderful Christmas present I could have ever received. That in conjunction with being able to give my grandkids a Christmas . . . I am overwhelmed. And crying again. 🙂

    The second thing . . . if there are still people who are looking for someone to help, I know someone else who is also in need. My aunt and uncle are raising two of their grandchildren and most likely will be until they are adults. They are very low income and live in a small town that doesn’t seem to have much in the way of public programs other than food stamps, etc. My little cousins are 6 (girl) and 8 (boy). If there is anyone who can help, I will put together a wish list for them with my aunt and uncle’s shipping address. They are good people and are giving these kids the good home they deserve.

    Thank you for reading. I am so much in awe of all the good spirit here.

  561. I don’t think my previous comment with my links posted before so I will try again with more details. .. I have 2 children, a 9yr old boy and a 2yr old girl with NF1. Between paying off some of her medical bills that weren’t covered by her insurance and their dad getting really sick last month it has left us in a tight spot this month. If no one can help that is totally OK! Someone sent me here because they knew things were rough this month so I figured I had to give it a shot. Thank you for reading this and I hope you all have a wonderful holiday.
    http://amzn.com/w/1XYWKSUBF3RW5
    http://amzn.com/w/3N705B0N8DFR6

    (It was in moderation so I deleted that comment and published this one. 🙂 ~ Jenny)

  564. Said baby who just finished college is spending her tip money on rabbits, chicks, bees and seedlings. I love that girl.

  565. Thank you Jenny for all that you do and this here is just amazing!! You guys have me in tears and I’ve completely forgotten about work!

    While I struggle mightily with depression, I’m still here and I can still realize how very very fortunate I am. I’ve had lots of financial struggles over the years but not now!

    So, here’s the wealth I’ve spread so far:

    One Project Night-Night bag!

    @Metz (#14) Glad to support the crisis line (used to volunteer on one here in IL)! BTW, do I remember you from the Comments on Cute Overload?? I haven’t posted in years, but I used to be “Gail-the first one” there.

    @Kim (#37) Also glad to support your cause—for the same reason!

    @Augie (#56)–Had a brain issue myself 12 years ago—glad I could help a little!

    @shthisisme (#208)–Wanted to support your cause but I couldn’t see a way to donate online??

    If anyone is looking for any additional good causes, I’ve been donating to Chicago Books for Women in Prison” off their Amazon wishlist. Their website and ‘how to help’ is here : http://chicagobwp.org/how-to-help/. AND their Wishlist is here: http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/wishlist/3JB7QLOISAPLO/ref=cm_wl_rlist_go_v?

    Finally, anyone who would like an e-card, a snail mail card or a friendly email can email me at gail19992003@yahoo.com

    Happy Holidays, Bloggessians!!!! Love you all!!!

  566. I did a big heifer gift for my in-laws and scored a matching, so even bigger. Help the families of the world feed themselves! 🙂

  568. Damn you Jenny, you made me get dust in my eyes and they won’t quit watering. I’m supposed to be a hardass and you’ve got me fucking sniveling. I love you anyway, your spirit and generosity is infectious. May you get all the gravy your heart desires this season.

    Thera, that Physio Roll for your son is on its way, though it’s not due to arrive ’til mid-January for some reason.

    Michelle/Charm City Animal Rescue—fix your address status on Amazon! I had to do some online sleuthing to find an address, I hope the items find you!

  569. I’m feeling better about the world after catching up with all the goodness going on here, and grateful for people like Jenny who use their power for good. 🙂

    I was able to get a few, small random gifts from a few wishlists, and buy some animals “for” my family, which already has so much.

    Merry Christmas to all the requestors and fulfillers here!

  570. OMG, you people!!! When I posted, I think it was up to comment #215 or so—hit Post and voila! I was post #538!
    @Heather (#284)—I sent a little something from your wishlist, supposed to arrive by Monday the 22nd.

  572. This is so amazing Blogess. I am fortunate enough to be in a good place in my life, but I work with survivors of domestic violence and sexual assault who are often in need of support and help. If anyone would like to help us make a few of our client’s holidays a bit brighter (they can use just about everything from gifts for their children to household items, thus a gift card would best for them to choose what they need most) we would be so appreciative. Thanks so much for doing this every year! http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/wishlist/5KTIQAEZBYD1/ref=topnav_lists_2

  573. Victoria B #550, gifts on the way, but some may not appear till after Christmas. Bless you and your family.

  574. Hi there,
    We recently moved from Northern US to Southern US due to medical issues. The transition was harder than we thought and we are still having trouble making ends meet. My husband just found a job, but was unable to find one for the first 6 months we were here, so he traveled back north to do his part time job a few days a month to at least bring in some money. The new job still doesn’t cover everything, but it gets us closer to making all our bills each month.
    My children have numerous medical issues (immune deficiencies requiring weekly infusions, seizures, chiari malformation, asperger’s, mitochondrial disease) and are presently homebound from school due to their fragile health and a severe flu outbreak at their school. They have had their share of disappointments – and this year, our financial situation will bring yet another one to them.
    We truly can’t afford Christmas this year. Last year, we sponsored a family and provided them with Christmas (2 children)….this year, we can’t even give our children Christmas. This is the first year we have been in a situation like this, so asking for this is difficult for me. We do have parents who can help a little, but – if anyone would like to send some Christmas Cheer our way, we would be incredibly grateful.

    In the end, we understand and realize that Christmas isn’t about the gifts and the ‘stuff’ – so, no matter what happens, we will still enjoy the family, the love, the joy, and the spiritual meaning it brings.
    Thanks for doing this for those in need – even if we don’t receive a thing – those who do receive something will be blessed because of your kindness, and that gift – in and of itself – is priceless.

  575. @SqualorHouseGail THANK YOU! retweets and posts to facebook were all i was expecting but any donations given i can promise you were very well received. you guys have gotten me drunk on the spirit of James Garfield (i donated to a few wishlists in your honor) hoping you all have the BEST holiday ever!!

  577. This is Kristi (#521). Thank you so much for the things coming my way. I am so happy to be able to have some things to put under the tree for my daughter. I’m in tears over your generosity!

  578. Ashley, and anyone else who sent something, thank you from the bottom of my heart. And Amazon had a message for me from someone, when I went to answer it it just said “message sent” and I can’t get the original back, so whoever that was, I’m sorry for what was probably a weird blank message, and yes it’s updated. The items left are for the older two, all I could think of for them. Thanks again, everyone, and I love reading all the updates.

  580. Well first and foremost let me thank Jenny again for starting such a wonderful tradition. Secondly a huge thank you to my bestie for telling me to come here knowing how much I needed the help this year. I want you all to know that I fully intend to pay it forward. Knowing this is here I will be saving what I can and do my best to be able to fulfill even one (hopefully more) item off someones wish list next year. Ashley (#456) Thank you for being a wonderful and generous Santa. To all others who have helped me and the countless others this Christmas you are wonderful, amazing people. Thank you, thank you, thank you, a million times thank you. I wish you all a very very Merry Christmas.

  581. This heals me. Donation sent to Project Night Night. Thank you, Jenny, and all members of this wonderful tribe.

  582. Shannon Kelly #529 I’m in tears! Thank you so much for your generosity. I can’t wait to play HHH with my daughter and wash socks! Well, she’ll probably wash her own socks, but you knwo what I mean. One of my great joys is sitting in my yard watching the birds, and I’ve always wanted a birdbath but it seemed so frivolous. Thank you! Thank you! Thank you!

    I’m so glad that I’m a part of this tribe. It makes my heart full.

    Jenny you truly are an inspiration and my daughter and I love you to the moon & back!

  583. Hi, me again. I am just going to put this out here (reference post #559). I am sure my Aunt Jean would if she could but her phone seems to struggle with everything but FB. This is the wish list I put together for my little cousins. If anyone wants to play Secret Santa, you could make a couple of kids very happy – and their grandparents, and their older cousin.

    I know this is late – but it is still worth a try. These kids have been through a lot.

    http://www.amazon.com/registry/giftlist/13PHD2P1LMU2D

  584. Wow. Just wow. Amazing what people can come together and do.

    I heart Jenny and the amazing things she does. I never thought anyone really understood what I was going to, but Jenny and her flock do!!!

    I knocked out a few items on wishlists (those that still had items I could afford to buy at least) and am off to donate to the domestic violence shelter in my town, a cause near and dear to my heart, before I look at the total I have already spent.

    Keep up the awesomely amazing work, Jenny

  585. Hi Linda (#575) A few items from your list are on the way! They should be there by Friday. Happy Holidays!

  587. Bee #535, thank you so much!! Between you and Shannon #529, we are going to have a most wonderful Christmas! Again, I can’t say how much being a member of this tribe has made my life so much better. It’s so nice to be part of a group that just gets it! Thank you! Thank you! Thank you!

  588. To mwebster76 (#445) – I ordered 4 gifts for your family, but one will not be delivered until mid-late January. Please tell the Nirvana lover Kurt wanted to hang onto his pics a little bit longer. Sending you all hugs!

  590. I don’t have any kids myself, but I committed to buy for some kids down on their luck. The only problem is that since I made that promise, I got into financial trouble. I don’t want to disappoint these kids but I have no money, my credit cards are all maxed and have exhausted all my sources in trying to borrow/beg money from my friends and family. What makes it even sadder, is that two only asked for a pair of shoes. The third asked for a book and the fourth (an aspiring chef) has asked for a knife. The twins that asked for shoes are 11, a boy and a girl. The budding chef is almost 17 and she is one of the best cooks I have ever met! The fourth is a boy of 14 and he is hoping to get this book for Christmas. I know you are inundated with requests, so if you can help with any or all of these, I’d be eternally grateful! This is for a sweet family in my neighborhood. The parents have abandoned the kids and they live with a grandmother. This was going to be the third year without any birthday or Christmas presents. Thank you for any and all help you are able to provide.

    http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/wishlist/?ie=UTF8&cid=A7QNVS1PEK28V

  591. I have what is probably going to come across as a really bizarre request — but as a gifter, rather than as a giftee.

    I’ve been hesitant all day to post this because it will probably come across as a little too weird, and very oddly specific. But (a) if you are here in the first place, you’re probably a little off-balance too, and (b) the voices in my head are getting pretty insistent that I do this.

    But here’s the deal… I’ve sent a few things to a few people from a few different wish lists, but am still looking for the one or two really special-to-me ones. (Not that you ALL aren’t special, but, y’know, voices in my head and all…)

    Anyone who hasn’t yet posted an Amazon wishlist because maybe you’re feeling like you are “not really needy enough” — but who has a child meeting the below criteria, please consider doing so. (Be sure to make sure you’ve followed all the instructions above about making sure you’ve performed the proper magical incantations regarding shipping addresses, and that the item(s) you put on the list are fulfilled by Amazon and not a third party seller.)

    I probably won’t be able to fulfill everything, but I’m hoping to fulfill at least one specific something that might be able to make the difference in someone’s life. So here goes. Please try not to judge… (And Jenny, if you find this to be too inappropriate, just delete it out of the moderation queue. I’ll understand.)

    Special-To-Me-Hypothetical-Child — A potential-but-doubtful “STEM” girl (“Science, Technology, Engineering, Math”, including computer science/programming).

    This would be a girl probably between the ages of 8 to 14 who has been specifically interested in “sciency stuff” as a young’in but has reached an age where she’s starting to have her doubts, and could really use a little boost of outside encouragement.

    Specifically she could use a boost provided by having an age-appropriate sciency doodad that encourages her to create and learn — something she could really benefit from and that could build her confidence, something your family REALLY wishes you could provide her, but which is currently outside the price range you can afford this Christmas. (She could be your daughter, niece, goddaughter, granddaughter, next door neighbor… I’ll even consider a school teacher who has a student that meets this criteria, if you let me know the details….Though you’d have to somehow magically get an appropriate shipping address, so I don’t know how realistic that is.)

    I’m being specifically vague on what the doodad is, since it really could be anything… some special kind of Lego set with electronic gizmos, a “my-first-microscope”, or whatever — I don’t have kids, so I’m totally not up on what is out there for this sort of thing, plus “STEM” covers a really wide range of things.

    For whatever various reasons that don’t need to be gone into, I can only fulfill up to a small-yet-hopefully-still-generous amount of in “sciency doodads” — which may or may not end up spread out across multiple girls — so if you do post an Amazon list in response to this, please try to include multiple doodads of various price ranges since the funds may end up spread out across multiple wishlists.

    A little about me, so you don’t think I’m some weirdo creeper or something: (a) 17 years working in high tech; (b) have never in my entire career had another female as an immediate coworker (so yes, that means I’m a chick and not some creepy dude); and (c) my perfect day at work is one where I sit down in the morning and make it through the entire day without having to speak to another human being. Read into (c) as much as you want, it’d probably all be right — after all, I’m here aren’t I?

    Because of (c) I am unable to participate in the many types of STEM outreach my company does, most specifically the annual “Introduce a Girl to Engineering Day”. So maybe through here I can do some of that same type of good, but in a capacity I am actually able to handle.

    I’m going to have to just trust in humanity that any responses to this are really (a) for a girl, (b) currently doubting herself, (c) for a doodad she could really benefit from, AND (d) that your family wishes it could afford this year — but can’t.

    Like I said — I know this is freaky weird and oddly-specific. But there it is.

    It’s probably a long shot but, what the hell, I can at least try. Assuming Jenny lets this clear moderation, I’ll wait a few days to see what crops up here — so with all the posts that will be flying through between now and then, please include “STEM” in your reply or else I’ll never find it! And if after a few days nothing appears, I’ll go spread the designated funds across other “still open” wishlists that have been posted here.

    Sorry this ended up being an entire book. Brevity is not exactly one of my strengths.

    Oh, and one more thing (sorry!) — please do tell me enough background info about the “doubting” part so that “Santa” can write an appropriate encouraging note on the gift tag.

    (FYI…This wish list was from Jennifer who commented earlier today about her 13 year old daughter who hasn’t had a real Christmas in years. She wants a microscope, slide preps, science stuff. http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/wishlist/U8CQQ0RC7T7/ref=cm_sw_su_w ~ Jenny)

  592. @sassafras (482), you should be getting Where The Sidewalk Ends and the first Harry Potter book. Two of my favorite books from when I was younger and I hope the kids enjoy them and it helps take their minds off of anything stressful.

  593. Thank you, thank you to the crazy person who wanted a kiddie drumset. It should be there Friday, and as a person that has a rough case of holiday blues, I am grateful for every gift I was able to give. Thank you all for your bravery in asking when you need it. Some of us need to give.

  594. I don’t have anything under the tree this year, and my kids are pretty understanding about it, considering. I attempted suicide In May and again in June and rebuilding my life since then has been challenging. My 13 year old daughter now lives with her father b/c I lost her after my attempt, and I’m getting her next week for the first visit in 6 months. It’d just be really nice to surprise her on xmas morning. My other kids are older (17, 20, 23) and my 23 year old just gifted me with the best thing over: my very own grandson! He’s 6 weeks old now. I’m so glad I am alive to get to meet him and hold his precious little body.
    Anyway, I’ll link to my wishlist. Everything on there is for my kids, it’s fairly easy to tell what’s for the 13 year old. 😉 The guitar strings are for my 20 year old son who plays the guitar so well but can never afford to buy strings when he breaks them. The birthstone is for my oldest daughter, who just broke up with her new baby’s daddy and who needs a pick me up probably even more than I do this year. There is nothing on the list for my 17 year old son because he doesn’t want me to feel bad for not getting him a gift, so he won’t tell me what he wants.
    Dammit, sorry this is so long! http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/wishlist/71KDM496WLX7/ref=topnav_lists_1

  595. @Sasha (#560) A little something for the 2 year old from the wishlist is on it’s way!!

  596. I feel so hesitant to post here but we’re having a super scarce holiday season here. It’s a post divorce, single mother in college and frantically pulling in all the hours she can at a non profit to pay the bills kind of year. I can barely do that. I’m promising the kids gifts down the road to make up for the lack of ones now but feel like the failure mom for sure.

    They also really just would love christmas cards… we haven’t gotten many this year and the upheaval of the move and divorce and loss of a whole side of family (it was a step parent and that whole side of the family is completely gone from our lives now) has been challenging in the holiday season. my email address is nrg3@pdx.edu if you’d like our snail mail address for cards
    http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/wishlist/RO0R3ROLUW9F/ref=cm_wl_sortbar_o_page_2?ie=UTF8&page=2 This is my sons wishlist
    http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/wishlist/243HQEKTLC5DP/ref=cm_wl_rlist_go_o? and this is my daughters

  598. Jenna, #355, just sent something. Best wishes to your nephew as he prepares for the exam!

  599. Hi Linda (#559/582). I tried to clean out the remaining items in the wish list, but failed on the Barbie because it isn’t available any more. The rest is on its way. Note: The kitchen science kit MIGHT be late. Wishing you all the best.

  601. Kristi (521) A few items are coming your way for Callie, will arrive by 8pm Christmas Eve. Merry Christmas 🙂

  602. For Jennifer N. in Georgia (posted December 16, 2014 at 5:24 pm) with the 13 yo daughter …

    I don’t know whether Jenny is going to let my earlier gigantic post through moderation about my looking for a girl wanting “sciency stuff” which may explain a little more about why I chose your wishlist… but the microscope and basic biology slide kit are on their way!
    Guaranteed delivery: Dec. 19, 2014

  603. I was looking at a few lists and those that put Amazon gift cards on their wish lists, Amazon asks for the email address of the recipient when you click through to order one. If you have an Amazon gift card on your wishlist, please also post your email address if you’re comfortable sharing that info (or perhaps leave it in the note beside the item in your wishlist, which may be a little more private–or at least will mean the people that see it will have to have made a little effort to see it). 🙂

  604. Nancy – bless you so much!!! Odd on the Barbie – it makes no sense that it is available to wish for but not available to buy! Hmm . . . . Thank you so much! It hurts to see what those kids have gone through. I am just really grateful that they at least have stable grandparents – my aunt and uncle are doing an outstanding job.

    This is so wonderful. I feel like this is the best Christmas I have ever had. It’s all about giving and even though I can’t, you guys – you wonderful awesome people – can and have and have helped me to be able to do so. THANK YOU. (wow – those words seem really inadequate right now).

    And now I am crying again!

  605. @Neefer – Check out Jennifer @ 543. Her wish list has some science things on it.

    If literally all of my money didn’t just go away this morning in (oh please let it be) a temporary banking snafu, I’d be buying more stuff today. But when the money is back in a day or two (seriously) I’ll get a few more things for people.

  606. Dad of 5-Merry Christmas from some fellow Michiganders! Should be something headed your way tomorrow. Jenny, thanks for the opportunity to share my family’s blessings

  607. One Project Night Night from me. I feel incredibly gifted being able to make a donation and not feel any sort of burden.

  608. Thank you, everyone. So very much. Blessings to you all this Christmas and beyond. With gratitude and love from Heather (#264). xox

  609. Comments 84 and 482 here.

    Jaw. On. The. Ground.

    This…you guys…Jenny…oh my word. Thank you so much. I’ve read every single comment. I am so, so excited to be able to pass on to my kids’ parents things like winter coats and socks and books and markers and warm blankets. AHHH! Thank you, Thank you!! My heart is bursting!!

    Robin (121): Mini i-Home is on it’s way, by the 18th!
    Corrine (588): A Minecraft plush on it’s way for you, hopefully by the end of this week. 🙂

  610. I wish I could donate but I’m tapped out. Barely covering the bills this month. So I send good tidings to all in honor of GoodGravyGiving. Please know that as you struggle there are people thinking of you, so you are never alone.

    On a slightly different note, I live in the Philly suburbs which made the national news yesterday and today, and for the first time in a long time I felt an instinct to live. I usually feel an extra yank from depression around now. I am so grateful to want to be alive this year.

  611. Just donated some healthy homes and flock of chicks to Heifer, in honor of children of Pakistan, after horrible events there today. Thanks Jenny for finding a way to help balance the scales. You make us and the world better, and you make us laugh while doing it. Merry everything.

  612. I am a public middle school teacher in need of help, please!
    I have lovingly cared for my students for over 20 years- discreetly feeding (daily!), clothing, providing school supplies, and other necessities to children in need or want.
    My adult son is disabled. His father disowned him upon learning of his disability. I have just left court after a 2+ year court battle, only to have the judge decide she was not hearing the case.
    My heart hurts for my child. I have no family, only my son and the thousands of kids I have loved.
    I am trying to raise money to pay off the debts I have and save my house- my son’s only “safe” place.
    I have started a fundraiser at:
    Indiegogo Help a Teacher Care for Her Own Disabled Child *under education

    I promise to continue helping others, more so when I get on my feet again.
    I hope I am not abusing this site. If so, please delete it.

  615. I am in something between shock and awe. I made a wish list for my young cousins with twenty items – every one of them, DONE. I envision my aunt and uncle shitting bricks when this stuff starts arriving – I have no intention of telling them what you guys did. 🙂 Thank you SOOOOOOO much!!

    And thank you again, Jenny, and everyone else who helped with my grandkids. It’s going to be a wonderful Christmas because of you. Bless you all!!! THIS is what Christmas is about!!

  616. Elisa (#370), sent a gift card towards your camera. It’s not a lot but I hope it helps. Merry merry to you and yours!

  617. Adding for a coworker who is having a rough time trying to make ends meet recently. She has the sweetest 8yr little girl that will come to work with her on snow days or school vacations. She saved up and was able to buy the only gift her daughter asked Santa for…a microscope. I know her daughter will be thrilled but it would be nice if she had more than one thing under the tree.

    https://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/wishlist/XMHAG4LESZLC/ref=cm_wl_rlist_go_o

  618. Jennifer 543 I saw that Neefer bought the scope and a girl has to have plenty of slides to go with, so they’re on the way!

  619. @River Valley Cats (comment 105) donated a little so your kitties can make their way to Colorado. Good Luck!

    @Charm City Animal Rescue (comment 345) – please update your wish list to include your address!

  620. I just wanted to say thank you so much again in case I missed anyone or you donated anonymously. My kids will be so excited on Christmas! For the first time since my ex left us I’m really looking forward to Christmas morning! I’m so very very grateful for all of you. You’ve had me in tears all day and I’m sure there are more to come. Danielle #346

  621. Denise, thank you so much! There are truly great people in this world. I hope to be able to give back next year. Kristi (#521)

  622. DinaB (#525), wasn’t sure which items were for which kid (wanted to get one for each) but there are three little gifts on the way. Merry merry to you and yours!

  623. bellissimadarling, Neefer and anyone I have may have missed.

    Thank you all so much. You all are amazing. I don’t even have the words.

  624. sassafras @ 482 – I can’t send anything right now, but I have quite a few books (some of which are on your list) which I can send as we’re doing our annual bookshelf purge (and we have a book problem)
    Message me at randomlistings at Gmail with your physical address if you’d like me to send them your way.

  625. I just wanted to say thank you again in case I missed someone or you donated anonymously. You have no idea how excited my kids will be on Christmas. For the first time since my ex left I’m looking forward to the holiday. You all have had me in tears all day and I’m sure there are more to come when the kids see these wonderful gifts. I’m so very grateful for you all. Danielle #346

  626. This is such a wonderful thing, thank you Jenny for giving us this opportunity to spread the love around. My family is blessed with abundance this year, and it feels so amazing to pay it forward. 🙂

  628. I’m disappointed that I couldn’t actually pick which part of a pig to donate to someone because I’d really like to send a card that says “A pig’s ass, from the testicles to the tip of the tail, has been donated in your honour” so instead, we’re helping to launch a small business.

    Good Gravy Giving has quickly become the go-to choice for our family gift and a co-worker group gift. For all the laughing, the crying, the excited screams that make other bus riders stare at me with frightened eyes. For my poor husband, who sits so patiently and listens while I regale him with the hilarious comments y’all leave. For my clients, who come into my office and are assaulted by vulgar Bloggess posters that still crack me up after seeing them every day for AGES.

    You people. This community. I was waiting for this post, because I really, really, need to be a part of this thing. I appreciate you all.

  629. THANK YOU from the bottom of my heart. My list has all been purchased and my kids will have the Christmas they deserve. You are all the best and I am so touched by the support. This community that Jenny has joined together is simply amazing.

  630. #573 Showyourhope

    You’ll be getting the Transformer figure, the Frozen microphone & a $25 Amazon card. It looks like they’re coming in separate shipments. The Frozen microphone is guaranteed between 12/23-26, so it might cut it close. The others will be before that.

    Merry Christmas & I hope your family is back on its feet soon!

  631. Sassafras #84 3 shirts and 2 blankets coming your way next week to help keep a few more students warm.

  634. I think my computer has a glitch so if this message is kind of triplicated I’m sorry! Technology and I are not best friends. I have been trying for the last half hour or so to just say thank you. You didn’t need to reach out and help “strangers” but you did and for that I’m grateful. I can’t wait to see my kids open their gifts, for the first time in years I’m looking forward to Christmas. Thank you. Danielle #346

  636. @Sassafras, I’ve sent the colored pencils and a Hello Kitty blanket. It looks like the blanket might not make it before Christmas, though (expedited shipping cost more than the blanket).

  637. I was planning on being a pure secret santa, but I just wanted to let Gin (#542) know I bought the Warriors box set 1-6, so I wasn’t sure if you would want to take all the individual books off the list— unless you want multiples.

  638. Thank you for some hope. After saving for the holidays all year, my husband was laid off before Thanksgiving and at this point or savings are depleted and no gifts for our 3 kids yet. This is my children’s wish list this year http://www.amazon.com/registry/wishlist/1RKIU3BCG8SPG

    (Be sure to go in and add a shipping address as indicated in the blog post so people can ship to you. Also, several of your selections aren’t in stock until after Christmas you might want to make a few changes. Thanks! ~ Jenny)

  639. Hi. I’m a mother of 2 fabulous boys and could really use some help with Christmas this year. We spent the last 4 months homeless living in hotels and I’m proud to say we finally have a house to call hom . Unfortunately it took every dollar I had just to move in. My kids have lost everything this year and they have been troopers about it. Both boys are disabled, one has aspergers and the other has a cognitive disability so I’m so proud of them doing as well as they have thru the tough time . I just want my boys to have a good Christmas. If anyone can help please know that they will be the happiest most grateful children in the world. Thank you so much and God bless.
    http://www.amazon.com/registry/wishlist/2KMBKGH7GBZLE

    (FYI…I tried to order something for you but you don’t have a shipping address on your account. See the graphic inside this post to make the changes so people can send you things. Thanks! ~Jenny)

  640. The awesome thing is that I’ve been clicking through to wishlists that have already been bought out. 🙂 I just spent an hour sending something from each wishlist I could get to. I don’t remember who or what but I hope I was able to brighten a few holidays for some families.
    Merry Happy Celebrations to all!

  641. @Courtney(#507). Thank you. I can’t express how much your gift will make this winter more bearable for my niece. I wish I had some further contact information for you so she or her mother could send you a note. As is, we all wish you the very best in the coming year and hope that your generosity will somehow be repaid. Thank you. Cailin

  642. Hi showyourhope (comment 573/574). A couple of things coming your way for each of your kiddos.

    And a couple of Project Night Night bags covered, too.

    Thanks all you wonderful people, for making me cry at work and again when I got home. (seriously, finally just had to put the box of kleenex next to me so I didn’t have to keep getting up to get more) This is one of my favorite holiday traditions.

  643. ShowYourHope #574 – Something for each kiddo in the way. HOWEVER the item for you son shows it will arrive between 23rd & 29th. I am hoping the power of this tribe can will it there in time for Christmas

  644. Bee (#621) I should have mentioned they are a 3 yo boy, and a teen girl and boy. Thank you so much for your generosity. This has been a very difficult year and my wife and I appreciate it. (I know I called her my partner in my last post, but sometimes I’m still surprised at the reality we were able to get married!) So many, many, many thanks!

  645. A little something from Amazon:
    @MollyT (#593)–guaranteed to deliver Dec. 18th
    @Gina R (#589)-guaranteed delivey by Dec 19th
    @showyourhope (#5730-guaranteed delivey by Dec 19th

    Happy Holidays to all!!!

  646. My daughter has been obsessed with how things work since birth. She loves to do science experiments, take electronics apart and make crazy inventions. I dont fully understand it but try to encourage her. She would love some books and science kits for x-mas that I just cant afford.. She has tested in the top 1% in math and reading and I hope she will continue to shine in the STEM fields.
    https://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/ref=cm_reg_rd-upd?ie=UTF8&id=2XQD2UGQ7V50L&type=wishlist

    (I bought one of your book suggestions for your daughter and one for mine. Excellent suggestions. ~ Jenny)

  647. I have to tell you, this has been one of the worst years I’ve ever had. I’ve lost a close family member to cancer and, honestly, it looks like 2 more may be on their way out this Christmas. But reading this, seeing people helping those who just need a little help, just before Christmas is so joyful and so wonderful. I donated to Project Night Night and wish I could do more. Instead, I’ll say thank you on here to all these wonderful people who are doing so much for complete strangers. There is so much pain in the world, but this community shows there is also so much love and compassion. You’re all wonderful people. And Jenny, you’re a clear force for good in this world. The world needs more weird, wonderful, people like you in it.

  648. I just deposited a check and decided all of it was going towards James Garfield’s Christmas miracle.

    Tavi (595), you’ve got something coming for your daughter
    Corrine (588), one of the my little ponies might not make it until after Christmas, but it’s on its way!
    Showyourhope (573), you’ve got things headed your way
    Becky (392), something is headed for you, too.

    Merry Christmas!

  649. I am completely overwhelmed by your generosity Jenny. I was lying awake last night, wondering how I was going to manage Christmas , when I decided to take at look at your blog and get caught up, hoping reading something would distract me from my worries. And there you were offering to help out anyone in need. So I made a small wishlist for my son and posted it here. Not really expecting anything, just because so many people would be posting. And so many people are in need. And when I woke up this morning I had an email from you , with an amazon gift card. I just… There really are no words. You don’t know me from anyone. And you sent me a gift card for my son. I’m just so blown away. Every once in a while I would mention something I read on your blog (or in your book, which, btw, I could barely stand the wait to buy back when I actually had money for things like books. Lol) to the man I’ve been seeing and he said once ” I bet you wish you were friends with her…”, and I turned a bit red and said,”maybe…”. And I may not have ever met you, but the kindness ( and faith… that I wasn’t going to go buy myself something shiny on amazon as opposed to a gift for my son. Lol), that you showed by sending that card, shows me that friendship maybe isn’t about who you see all the time, but who is there to support you when you need it most. So thank you. Thank you so very much.

    (You made me cry. Honestly. Thank you. Those words were a gift that I needed so we’re more than even. ~ Jenny)

  650. Cailin (#454, 640) I sent your niece the boots from your list (see my comment #461) and wanted to be sure you saw that I wasn’t given any options on shipping speed so they may not make it before Xmas. The email says estimated delivery Monday December 22—Friday December 26. I hope they get there in time! I don’t know if Courtney also ordered boots but if you get duplicates somehow, maybe you can return one pair for Amazon credit. Merry merry to you and yours!

  651. http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/wishlist/3N9Z8CPH340QO/ref=cm_wl_rlist_go_o?

    Lost my first message. Sigh. Thanks to everyone for all they do. Husband is unemployed and we took in 21 year old bipolar daughter this summer after she was evicted and we gained conservator ship. She is inpatient now due to violence against us. She can’t move back in here so caseworkers scrambling for placement. 14 year old daughter just wants boots and a Sims game but we can’t even do that. The body blade is on her list because she needs it for shoulder rehab but insurance won’t pay (she’s a runner in track and cross country with an ongoing shoulder problem).

    (Go in and update your shipping – see the graphic in the post – so that people can buy the things on your wish list. ~ Thanks! ~ Jenny)

  652. “…friendship maybe isn’t about who you see all the time, but who is there to support you when you need it most.” Tasha 646

    That’s just lovely.

  653. My wife and I are welcoming our first child in January. I’m excited to make this blog a part of our holiday traditions!

  654. “…friendship maybe isn’t about who you see all the time, but who is there to support you when you need it most.” Tasha 646

    I wish I could “like” comments because this is beautiful.

  655. #47 Juleah B I noticed there were still a number of things on your list, sent one of the books, it’s been shipped on it’s way. Estimated delivery Friday 19th 🙂

  656. Jennifer Jaegers (#638) – I have two boys who are special needs also, one is ASD as well. 🙂 I’d love to gift your kiddos some Lego goodness, but your address isn’t updated for your wish list. Jenny has instructions here to do it. 🙂

  657. First, I just want to say THANK YOU!! When I first posted I really didn’t expect much and….well I am just so deeply touched by strangers generosity. I am in shock and tears, not just for the holiday cheer that has been gifted to my girls, but for all the families experiencing difficult times and receiving such kindness. We live in such a cruel world anymore and it is beyond words how wonderful all of you are. My husband and I spent our last dollars on new coats for our girls this Christmas and we are so grateful that they will get a little more. Santa really is coming this year and I just can’t thank you all enough. My hope is to be in a better place by this time next year so that I can repay your kindness with a little kindness of my own. Again, thank you all so much.

  658. Thank you, Jenny. For the many laughs and for this, today. I loved being able to help a little.
    To everyone who was strong enough to ask for help: you are going to get through this time and get to a better time and place. Believe it.
    To everyone who helped: you rock.
    I grew up poor and know what it’s like to have no Xmas at all so if I can help someone not know what that feels like, well, that’s just good gravy for me. 🙂
    Happy Winter Holiday of your choice!

  659. First off, Project Night Night’s logo is too cute to NOT give. I’m going to attempt to paste it in my comment (wish me luck…). And I bought some bees!! The love and generosity flowing from this page is ginormous! I’m getting all teary-eyed. What a great place on the internet to be! 🙂

  660. “…friendship maybe isn’t about who see all the time, but who is there to support you when you need it most.” Tasha 646

    The feels. OMG. The feels. Merry Christmas Friend.

  662. Tavi (595) – A couple little stocking stuffers for your son and daughter are on their way and should be there before Christmas. I’ve been in your shoes – losing half of a family with a divorce can be devastating. You’re doing an awesome job juggling that, school, and work, and being there for your kids. Happiest of holidays to you, and to everyone in this wonderful community.

  663. @Jenny – the email came through! Thank you!

    To everyone else, I went to get the things in my list and found it empty. Thank you to whomever(s) [grammar be damned] bought the items in it. I shall pass on Jenny’s gift to another in blessing.

  664. Neefer, thank you so much for your kindness! It takes so much off of me knowing my daughter will have some things under the tree. You are a blessing! Kristi #521

  665. You guys are entirely too awesome. Those helping and those asking for help. Just a reminder that you have to go and set up a shipping address on each wish list or no one can send you anything. There’s an image in the blog that explains it. If you’ve done it correctly then on your wish list page it will say something like “Ship-to: Jennifer Lawson, SAN ANTONIO, TX” but with your info, obviously. If you don’t see that then that means you can’t receive gifts.

    Also, if you choose things that are “Prime” eligible or shipped by Amazon they are usually more likely to be delivered quickly. Also, books. They’re inexpensive and if you choose correctly they’re almost always in stock. Search for “scholastic” and you’ll find a lot of inexpensive good paperbacks on amazon.

  666. WELL VICTOR’S CARD IS MAXED OUT BUT THERE ARE STILL FOLKS WHO COULD USE A HAND. HERE’S A LIST OF PREVIOUSLY POSTED LISTS THAT AREN’T EMPTY TO MAKE THEM EASIER TO FIND. I HOPE I DIDN’T GET ANYTHING WRONG; IT’S HARD TO COPY/PASTE WHEN YOU’RE JUST A HEAD ON THE WALL.

    JAMES GARFIELD

    http://www.amazon.com/registry/wishlist/1RKIU3BCG8SPG
    http://www.amazon.com/registry/wishlist/2KMBKGH7GBZLE
    http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/wishlist/2VJY7WLYZ9FJM/ref=cm_sw_su_w
    http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/wishlist/2MI1RVM5IDRTX/ref=cm_sw_su_w
    http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/wishlist/2WPU6LXJZ0AJ/ref=cm_sw_su_w
    https://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/wishlist/XMHAG4LESZLC/ref=cm_wl_rlist_go_o
    http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/wishlist/2MVTG07Y9K09S/ref=cm_sw_su_w
    http://www.amazon.com/registry/wishlist/2QYPBH58DI1IR/ref=cm_sw_r_tw_ws_rnjKub1BTZB0J
    http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/wishlist/D8QAH6B6BEQH/ref=cm_sw_su_w
    http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/wishlist/F6H1Y8X36OU7/ref=cm_sw_su_w
    http://www.amazon.com/registry/wishlist/3WGALGHYB9HN
    http://www.amazon.com/registry/giftlist/HB3E0HJUBGZ7
    http://www.amazon.com/registry/giftlist/3I40SCWL48ZR8
    http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/wishlist/3L1K7U557A1CM/ref=cm_wl_rlist_go_o
    http://www.amazon.com/registry/giftlist/39XPD2PMNR24Sw
    http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/wishlist/23A1VIFCKDLX4/ref=cm_sw_su_w
    https://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/ref=cm_reg_rd-upd?ie=UTF8&id=1VUKFKGH9KE8Y&type=wishliswb
    http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/wishlist/45PEWXX22NXE/ref=cm_sw_em_r_wsg_UslKub09Cwishlist
    https://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/ref=cm_reg_rd-upd?ie=UTF8&id=1LUQ30SA85S96&type=wishlist
    http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/wishlist/9BM5E8SAFPT2/ref=cm_sw_su_w
    http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/wishlist/U8CQQ0RC7T7/ref=cm_sw_su_w
    http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/wishlist/2B6BT8WT3NU3L/ref=cm_sw_su_w
    http://www.amazon.com/registry/giftlist/1XOZR2KGQBT9G
    http://www.amazon.com/registry/giftlist/1EBSOD0OLLU0wb
    http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/wishlist/12XWO28K6EHG3/ref=cm_sw_em_r_wsg_yAnKA7QNVS1PEK28V
    http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/wishlist/243HQEKTLC5DP/ref=cm_wl_rlist_go_o
    http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/wishlist/RO0R3ROLUW9F/ref=cm_wl_sortbar_o_page_2?ie=UTF8&page=2

    (This is fabulous. I noticed that a lot of these don’t have a ship-to address yet, which is why most are unfilled. I’ve sent several gift cards. Hopefully they’ll come back and add their shipping info. Also, if you think the comment section is amazing you should see my inbox. So many people who are grateful to be helped and so many more who are grateful to have a reason to pick out presents for children. You think there are a lot of people helping out but you really don’t know the magnitude of what’s going on that you never even see in the comments. So amazing. ~ Jenny)

  668. One Project Night Light Bag and couple of gifts for Stacey’s child. Merry Merry Christmas! Feels great to give.

  669. I just noticed that several items on my wishlist were purchased. I want to thank you all so much for your generosity. My daughter is very “Science-y” and wants to do something dealing with forensics/microbiology. She will enjoy the microscope and slides so much. I am sitting here bawling like a baby because of you all’s kindness. I promise you that by next Christmas I will be on the donating end. Thank you all so much for being willing to help strangers through some of the most difficult times we can go through. I cannot tell you how overwhelmed and thankful I am. Bless you all so much! Jennifer 543

  670. The love in this space is truly an amazing inspiration! This is really hard for me to do, but my kiddos are the world to me and if there is anything that will make me lay down my pride, it would be them. We adopted our kids through the foster care system. They are bio-siblings and share a really rough past. My son is a sweet, funny, caring 7 (and a half!) year old. He lives to take care of others. He wants to be a police man when he grows up because he wants to “help people who are hurt”. My amazing 6 year old daughter is a born star. We have yet to find anything she can’t do. Right now her passion is gymnastics, reading and singing.

    These kids are no strangers to doing without. There were years that Santa just didn’t come at all. I vowed they would never want for anything with us, but I’m having a really hard time making that happen this year. My partner lost her job last spring and has only been able to find part-time work since. We are barely making ends meet, and I’ve already put off paying as many bills as we can right now. Our car needs repairs and the microwave just bit the dust.

    I know there are probably families out there that are much more deserving, but I just felt I had to throw this out to the universe and the kindness of strangers and see if miracles can happen!

    My list:Kids Christmas
    Link: http://amzn.com/w/1J2849HJCZZER

  671. Thank you so very much SqualorHouseGail! I really appreciate it! I know a few of the items are expensive, so if anyone wants to do an Amazon gift card, those could add up to be able to purchase the larger items too. These were the only things they asked for, and I really want to make this a special day for those kids. Thank you again everyone!

  672. I just clicked on a random link above and noticed that the wisher lives in the next city over from me… such a small world. I hope their gifts get there on time.

  676. Donna Nicola #70 I bought some books off both of their wishlists. It’s not much, but I hope it helps. The two art-related books for your daughter are partially from my best friend as part of her Christmas present. She’s an art teacher and nothing will make her happier than knowing that she helped bring art and books to a child 🙂 Merry Christmas!

  677. I’ve been watching this thread all day. I had to stop giving because I was maxed out, but it just has made me so happy. I mentioned up thread that I am running a fundraiser to help pay for dance classes for my goddaughters. Their dad took his own life after a battle with depression a few years ago and their mom, one of my former teachers, was suddenly a single-mother on a teacher’s salary. She was worried the girls would have to give up dancing because it was costly and they had already lost so much.

    I am lucky that I have lots of friends who have chipped in and help me make this possible. Each year I am shocked when it comes together, but it does because like we’ve seen here today, people are awesome. I think a few of you made donations too, because there are some names I don’t recognize and an “anonymous” listed as well. (If that was you, THANKS! You rock!)

    The girls are old enough now that they understand that complete strangers want them to be happy and want them to keep dancing. And its made them into amazing young women who give back in their own way. They may not have money to give, but they volunteer in the community. They spend a good portion of their summer doing habitat for humanity type projects. And they understand what really matters because they’ve been on the receiving end of it. That in and of itself is a gift of a whole different kind, because its shaping them into humans I am immensely proud of.

    Even a “perfect” world can come crashing down. Asking for help isn’t something to be scared of or feel bad about. It’s a sign of strength – of the ability to look past your own ego and admit that you can’t do it alone. I think that’s pretty incredible.

    It’s truly a pleasure to be able to give. To make the world suck a little less for someone else. It’s a nice reminder of everything good about the Internet and finding your tribe.

    So Happy Holidays, everybody. May there be giant metal chickens and all kinds of goodness in store for you in the coming year.

  678. Hi Anon from comment 645. Your smart girl has a physics kit coming from one geek girl to another. Guaranteed delivery on the 19th. Merry Christmas!

  680. I’ve thought about this a lot, and have a request for a friend. She’s a single mom to a wonderful teenage daughter, who is sadly used to going without. My friend supports herself, her daughter, and now her two ailing parents on her meagre single income, neither her nor her daughter ever complains. Her daughter works hard in school, and helps out around the house all the time taking care of her grandparents. I do as much as I can for them, but I’m 2 provinces away. A few little gifts in the mail would sure brighten this young girl’s Christmas! She loves cake decorating, cats, & reading. If you are able to help a bit, greatly appreciated. Merry Christmas to all, and this beautiful community! You’ve sure made my heart smile today 🙂
    Ps. This is in Canada, not sure if that poses a problem if you’re in the US
    http://www.amazon.ca/gp/registry/wishlist/2N3R137DC27CR/ref=cm_sw_em_r_wsg__wf

  682. Hi, my name is Amanda and I need some help this Christmas. I recently had surgery for endometrial cancer and I am waiting for the results. I am currently raising my two nieces after their parents were put in jail. They are 9 and 5 and when I got them they didn’t have anything but the clothes they were wearing. They have had a rough life and with me not being able to work right now things have been really tight. We are all living with my mother who is disabled and my younger brother who is 14. I included a few things for him on the list. Any help would be appreciated and I hope everyone has a good Christmas. Thank you all.

    http://amzn.com/w/NB2YU45CQGJ7

    (You don’t have a shipping address chosen so please check out the graphic in the post to fix this so people can send you things. Thanks! ~ Jenny)

  685. Given that someone has already been so generous with the wish list items particularly for my younger kids, I feel badly posting this, but I don’t know what other option I might have and this just happened. My oldest daughter’s (16) power block for her laptop just broke. Like pieces snapped off and connectors are not connected, I’ve never seen anything like it. Anyway, this is a bit of desperation on my part because she’s homeschooled and her computer is vital and I don’t have nearly the $ to replace the cord. So I put it on the wish list (https://www.amazon.com/registry/wishlist/23A1VIFCKDLX4/ref=cm_sw_r_ip_wl_o_1TqKub0DDVMNE) even though it’s WAAAY more expensive than I ever would want to ask for, on the off chance that the right person sees and can help. The other items remaining are for her brother; my youngest two are already taken care of – THANK YOU again, everyone. And I hope I don’t sound awful posting again. I’m beside myself with stress and hoping for a miracle.

  686. Astraphell @669 some books coming your way, but one of them said it isn’t in stock until the 21st, delivery on the 24th 🙁 fingers crossed it gets there in time!

  688. Maybe I didn’t do something right so I’m trying again. I see my comment #539 and jujU think Kimi did the address right but nothing has been taken off my list. Please let me know if I did it wrong. http://amzn.com/w/31WAS5W6VAZDT

    (I just bought something on your list so I think you’re good. At least one of your things isn’t available for sale though so you might want to change that. Thanks! ~ Jenny)

  689. Aurorarayne – I don’t know how to do that. I don’t see a wish list button when I look at gift cards. My email address is abczoomom at me dot com, if that helps.

  690. This is Michelle from #345. I cannot believe someone picked me and our address wasn’t up to date. I could just kick myself for assuming it was working. I did fix it.
    Let me tell you how incredible it is to read these stories of how people are helping. I can’t tell you what it’s like to see a comment from a total stranger who has chosen YOU to support. For me, it’s like I’m carrying this huge weight, and someone I don’t know has offered to take a bit of it off so I can breathe. How do we thank Jenny for something like this?

  691. Jacqui @689 – you are awesome! Some of those books were my favorites as a kid and I can’t wait to share them with my kids! Thank you so, so much.

  692. http://amzn.com/w/JXIQU8UTL I have luckily not been in the position to have the need for this before. My boyfriend and I have always been able to scrape together enough to get enough for everyone. However, this year has been a lot harder than the past ones. We have four children, two older from his previous relationship, one girl, 11, and one boy, 10. And there are the two that we have with us year round, a daughter, 6, and son, almost 3. I put two items for each, and am thankful for anything that can be done. We are doing our best and completely do not expect anything at all. Wish everyone a great holiday season. I tried to follow the directions to make sure the shipping address is correct. Hope I was successful. If you have any questions, please feel free to email me at robin.southern.79@gmail.com. Again, thank you for anything that you are able to do. And by no means are the items specific, just things that I could try to find that interest the kids and aren’t too expensive.

    Robin Southern

  694. Two Project Night Night bags donated, and an additional suggestion for folks who may wish to give something larger in honor of a person who would otherwise receive a pig’s butt: you could give your lactose-intolerant frenemy a Cheeses of the World gift basket donation (a share of a goat, a sheep, a water buffalo, and a heifer) from Heifer International (http://www.heifer.org/gift-catalog/animals-nutrition/gift-of-cheeses-of-the-world-gift-basket-donation.html)

  696. I am still so amazed at the kindness of others. I am having a hard time sleeping because I can’t stop thinking about the generosity of others. Is this something the blog does every year? If so, I want to make sure to remember next year to pay it forward. Kristi #521

  697. @ Cailin (#640)

    I just feel honestly blessed that I could help. Thank you for your kind reply – there are really no thanks necessary, but I don’t mind you having my email address if you would like it! It’s gentlemanscribe@gmail.com. Wishing you all a peaceful holiday season, Courtney

  698. @dottysdailydeals We’d love to buy the dinosaur set (and maybe a few other gifts) that are on your list! However, this shipping address information needs to be updated so we can send it to you. I accidentally marked it as “purchased elsewhere” in trying to figure out the whole gift list thing. Please let us know a shipping address so we can send it to you! If you need to, you can contact me at astolman12 at gmail dot com.

  700. @Kristi There are links in the main post to past years giving. I just sent a couple of books your way – they should be there on Friday. Whoever this Pete the Cat is, he must be pretty cool. Now please get some rest. Preeclampsia is no joke. Merry Christmas.

  701. IMPORTANT! My blog only shows 700 comments per page and we’re over that so please click on the “NEWER COMMENTS” link below to see the newest lists and thank yous!

    PS. I just ordered another 30 items off of new lists. Most will get there before Christmas but some aren’t in stock so a few may be New Years Eve presents.

  703. It’s so awesome to see this post going up again. This year has been rough but I suspect next year will be more so. My friends need help more than I do right now. They had a fire on November 12th and they lost their home, and most of the things in it. The house is still being gutted and it’s going to be at least 6 months before they are able to live there again, depending on what the insurance company does. Then, on December 6th, the mother (my friend) had a stroke. She was not alone, and thus was able to get help quickly, but they have a long road ahead of them on that front too. There is no Amazon wish list, and I wouldn’t dare put one together on their behalf. MeiLin is an author, though, and here is her Amazon listing – the sale of books will help down the road: http://www.amazon.com/MeiLin-Miranda/e/B0045JRNC0/ref=sr_ntt_srch_lnk_1?qid=1418796183&sr=8-1

    Or you can donate to their paypal through jj@velverackbar.com

  704. This is so frakking amazing!!! The Bloggessians are the coolest bunch of wackos I’ve ever had the pleasure to be a part of. I know how wonderful it feels to give. As I mentioned on my original post (#49), my friend and I have been supporting this school for a number of years now. Kenya only provides public school up to 8th grade. After that, students must go to boarding school to complete their education. Four years ago, we committed to a group of kids to pay for their boarding school until graduation, about $250/year for everything. This December, my student graduated. I don’t think I was this proud when I graduated!!! Knowing that we have impacted the futures of these kids is a mind-blowing and humbling thing. I see the same feelings being shared here in this group. Thank you, Jenny, for being the rallying cry for all of us who help and who need help. You truly rock. And thank you to all of you who care enough to ask and who care enough to answer. Faith in humanity restored. 🙂

  706. Dear Jenny,
    It is heartwarming to read your page especially with all the givers and all the humble askers. I, too, have something to ask but it is not for me but for my friend’s best friend Charlie’s surgery. Charlie is a sweet loving good dog who has to have an operation to remove a cancerous leg. This will help him to live many more years. Please, anyone who has ever loved a dog, feel free to give and help make the goal amount. Thank you so very much. Here is the link:
    https://www.indiegogo.com/projects/saving-charlie–5#pledges

  707. http://amzn.com/w/JXIQU8UTL I have tried to get my address working for the wish list. Contacted amazon and was told that I will receive a call back in 1-2 days. If anyone wants to purchase a specific item, I was helped by @tracyrusso , in that she sent a gift card through amazon. If you choose to do the same, please know that it will definitely be used for the gifts on the list. Thank you so much for the gift card, Tracy.

    Robin Southern

  708. Debi Jean #700, I am trying to get the address fixed. @tracyrusso suggested sending gift cards. If you are uncomfortable with that I understand. I would use it for the specific item you wanted or however you wished. Feel free to email me at robin.southern.79@gmail.com. Thank you.

  709. Chrislikespie- My daughter is going to be thrilled to receive the physics kit! I am going to put it under the tree addressed -From one geek girl to another- and let her know that there are people like you out there in the world who care enough to gift a complete stranger. I seriously cant wrap my brain around you gifting her like this, thank you a million times over!

    Jenny, That book is so cool! My daughter spent quite a bit of time looking at it at her school book fair and I know she really wants it! I am so excited to share with her that a kind, wonderful and funny author bought it for her, she is going to be blown away! Thank you, Thank you, Thank you!!

    (accidentally) Anonymous 645

  711. Amanda Fletcher #513…I bought two things from the list, but it says the estimated delivery is 1/15 – 2/20. So just know Christmas is a little extended this year. Sorry they probably won’t make it in time!

  712. I’m sitting here sobbing. On my bed so the kids don’t hear. This made everything so much bigger than my tiny corner of the world that I’ve been stuck in. I don’t even know what to say. Thank you. Beyond words.

  713. I’ve been following for a while, but didn’t realize what a generous community this was! I posted lists for my four children 3-16, details are on their lists. If we are fortunate enough to be chosen, please disregard the larger items on my “long-term” wish list – the children’s top Christmas wishes have been marked “high priority” and I tend to window shop Amazon when insomnia strikes. Anything would be a blessing, we don’t qualify for any of the big programs due to a few lost documents for which they are sticklers.

  716. Stacey (214) – I told my mum how angry it made me that your paycheck will be coming late (mistake or not, it’s terribly bad form for an employer to do that, especially at this time of year), and she decided it would have to be you that we helped. Best wishes to you, your daughter, and all those close to you. Reading back over the comments here, it looks like your little girl will not be missing out at all.

    I’m glad to have been a part of this, it really feels good to be part of all the giving (even if it was mostly mum!)

    A message from Australia to everyone out there, givers, receivers and fine Bloggessian folk: Merry Xmas and enjoy the gravy!

  717. @rtmiss I’m in Christchurch too! But lucky enough to not be badly affected by the quakes. I tried to get you something through mightyape but it asked me for the shipping address. Can you check out if you have do something like you do on amazon to get your address as the shipping address?

    Failing that, is that your real name on mightyape? If so, the phone book only has a couple of ChCh possibilities. If you let me know your suburb so i know which of them you are, I can mail you the presents myself. I hope that doesn’t sound too stalkerish!

    And I hope you and your family have a great Christmas and that things improve next year.

  719. Jenny I updated the address.@ Anonymous I think ya meant me #681 thank you from the bottom of my heart feel so blessed that someone chose me may God bless you for puttin a smile on a childs face this season Merry Christmas and again thank you for giving me hope

  720. This has been nice to see. I hope to be in a better place next year and able to contribute.

    My oldest has struggled with mental health issues and it has made her unable to be with us this holiday season. Traveling to visit her has taken its toll on my finances and I hope to be able to give her younger siblings a happy holiday without her here.

    She asked for clothing, about the only thing she can have where she is at. Her 8 year old brother has asked for a chemistry set and her 2 year old brother loves interactive toys, especially trains.

    I hope the wishlist is set up correctly. My list does not have the update option. I did make sure that I have a primary address chosen though. Please let me know if something does not work.

    https://www.amazon.com/registry/wishlist/1QYO6I0A155Q9/ref=cm_sw_r_an_wl_o_jXtKub079MCJH

    (Looks like you don’t have shipping chosen for this wish list. Look at the graphic on my post to see how to fix that. ~ Jenny)

  721. Hi all,
    I have been reading this blog for several years now, but seldom commented.In the spirit of this topic I am asking for help for my uncle. Actually, for the children he is helping in Poland,..

    My uncle has ‘adopted’ an orphanage in Poland, Bodzewo. He goes there 2 or 3 times a year, with a van full of donated stuff. Second hand clothes, toys but also cleaning materials, beds, sheets etc.

    We live in the Netherlands, and the drive is around 1500 miles. He has a cheap van, 650.000 kilometers on the clock, that is in desperate need of updating.
    With € 14.000 he can buy a new secondhand van, keeping him in business for the next 10 years. There, alas, is no money to buy this van.

    We (family) all help, but those donations are not enough to get us to that amount. If you would like to donate, that would be great, but I understand that this is tough, and Christmas for the children close by is also important.

    What he would really want is to go viral with this message https://www.facebook.com/KinderhuisBodzewo/photos/a.428565327203540.99801.414687605257979/815192691874133/?type=1&fref=nf&pnref=story Which is in Dutch, sorry,…

    If you spare a donation this would be great, but promoting it for him on your social media is free, and could help him even more,…

    So please, share, tweet, retweet, pin, or like this message, to get the word out.
    Thanks in advance,
    Roeland

  722. Oh my goodness, I can’t believe how awesome you people are! I want so badly to be on the donating end of the stick but this year has been a rough one for our family. My husband has only recently found steady work and I’m job hunting…I recently had to quit college my senior year, putting my Bachelors degree on hold because the drive and never-ending fees were just too damned expensive! We have three boys to buy for but no money to do so since we’re playing “catch up” with the bills. My poor husband is working nearly sixty hours a week and it seems like it’s never enough…

    If anyone would like to help, we would be insanely appreciative!!!

    Brynn’s Wishlist (Age, 15)
    http://smile.amazon.com/registry/giftlist/AAHYDMHR8OW7

    Macsen’s Wishlist (Age, 4)
    http://smile.amazon.com/registry/giftlist/35L0948UT5E7C

    Ian’s Wishlist (Age, nearly 3)
    http://smile.amazon.com/registry/giftlist/334L4ZOSCULN0

    Holy cow, I just have to say it again. You guys are AWEsome!

  723. You guys are aMAZing! Though I would really rather be on the donating end, we could sure use the help this year. I recently had to quit school in my senior year of college b/c the drive and never ending fees were too expensive. Though I quit school to start working, I have yet to land a job. My husband recently found steady work and things are slowly starting to improve, but he’s working nearly 60 hours a week and it seems we’re still just trying to get caught up. In the meantime, we have three boys with Christmas requests. If anyone wants to help out, we would be beyond thrilled…like “trying to do backflips” thrilled!

    Brynn’s Wishlist (Age, 15)
    http://smile.amazon.com/registry/giftlist/AAHYDMHR8OW7

    Macsen’s Wishlist (Age, 4)
    http://smile.amazon.com/registry/giftlist/35L0948UT5E7C

    Ian’s Wishlist (Age, nearly 3)
    http://smile.amazon.com/registry/giftlist/334L4ZOSCULN0

  724. First, the link, then the story: http://amzn.com/w/C0HORFYKWIR4

    My younger brother, and his wife, who have custody of his children from his past relationship and have a daughter of their own need help.

    He worked for 12 years at the same restaurant, earlier this year it closed. He found work at another one that was just opening. A few weeks ago they decided to close down for the winter (we live in a small riverfront town.)

    He is frantically looking for work, but has not found anything. He also is not receiving unemployment yet, as the state of VA works very slowly.

    I didn’t find out until late last night that they were dealing with all of this (i knew about the lay off, but thought he was getting unemployment.)

    So, I am asking for their kids, boys T and C who are 11 and 9. T is in 6th grade, on the middle school basketball team, and a straight A student. He loves sports and video games. He was born when his parents were very young.

    C is 18 months younger than T. He is also a sports fanatic, although he seems to be more a baseball kid. On his last report card he got As and one B.

    Their Mom left my brother when C was 15 months old. My brother fought for custody, as we were all raising the boys together, and the Mom was not in a good living situation. He won and has had them since.

    They have an almost 3 year old daughter, H, who has autism. She is the most adorable baby with beautiful curly red hair, but has some sensory issues.

    Her favorite thing in the whole world is Mickey Mouse. Sometimes the only thing that will calm her is an episode of Mickey Mouse’s Clubhouse.

    I know this is a long shot as I asked for help for my best friends’ kids, but I didn’t know about things with my brother.

    About my brother. He’s 31 and his wife is 26. She is an incredible Mom and StepMom to the kids.

    My brother has overcome a lot of stupid things he did as a teenager to become an amazing, hard working, incredible Dad.

    Thank you all for reading all of this and for any help you can offer.

    Hopefully, next year I’ll be able to help people. This year was horrendous for me (i’m disabled, but work as a reporter. I hurt myself, seriously, this year and spent 2 months in the hospital and a nursing home. then, when I got out, I was hit by a car and injure. It’s been rough.)

  725. Jenny, this is my first year reading your blog regularly and I am so blessed to see these acts of kindness and generosity!

    Anathica #144, I am sending a little something for your son, and two books (including Jenny’s) from your wish list. I figure those are like cheer-you-up cards that keep on giving.

    Everyone, thank you for your bravery in asking and generosity in giving. Have a blessed holiday season.

  726. Listen….

    I posted yesterday about my dilemma where I work for a corporate company who whoops won’t be getting Christmas paychecks out on time, and without that money my tree was pretty much going to be empty. I’ve picked up extra hours all month, hell I haven’t SEEN my kid many days just so she could have an amazing last “Santa” Christmas (she is in the 4th grade, I don’t imagine she will believe next year). I went back to work, worked Allll day, then went to bed. I am sitting on my couch this morning getting ready for another long day, and I wake up to realize MY ENTIRE WISH LIST WAS BOUGHT FOR ME. ENTIRE. ALL OF IT. I don’t have words…..

    I do have tears, I do have Grace, and I do have an unbelievable amount of gratitude. You are all incredible people, you have no idea. The list was more than my kid could ever imagine, so I am SO stoaked to share the gifts with other girls I work with to give to their babies- they are going through the same thing I am.

    I just wanted to say thank you. A million times. SOMEONE EVEN BOUGHT HER THE WARM JACKET I HAVENT BEEN ABLE TO YET.

    When I get my check, I am looking forward to giving back in some way. Project Night Night is high on the list, although it will be after Christmas.

    Merry Christmas to each and every one of you!!

  727. Message for sistercarrion, post 186 – I don’t think your address options are working. I’ve tried to buy you a couple of items but the only addresses I get options for are from my own address book. Even when I tried to buy you a gift card instead…
    Could you check it out?
    I was keen to help the only UK entry I could see 🙂
    xx

  731. I live in San Antonio, TX I have 4 children. I’m a single mother, I do have a full time job but recently my mother suddenly passed away and I used all I had to cover funeral costs. I am having a really hard time trying to catch up. The kids are having a very hard time dealing with the loss of their grandmother she was very close to us. I’ve attached a link to our WishList. What your doing here Jenny is so wonderful and selfless you are a true angel. I have followed your blog since forever I have your book on iBooks. You bring such laughter and a sense of normalcy to my life. Thank you.
    http://www.amazon.com/registry/wishlist/WOO79QJ3UVX3

  732. Tracy Russo- thank you!!! Pete the Cat looks cute, and I can’t wait to read it to her. I can promise you that I’m taking it easy, as my doctor hopes that I make it to at least 32 weeks. The kindness of those on here will help a ton with that so my daughter will have things to occupy her. Thanks again! Kristi #521

  733. I posted earlier, I posted a thank you from the bottom of my heart, now I’d like to post for someone who would never ask.

    A dear friend of mine has 3 sweet kids. She is a single mother trying DESPERATELY to get along with their father so they can have him in their life, but he gives her not a dime for them. She is crying every day from stress about how she can afford presents. Maybe you would like to help her too? I made them a wish list, items will be shipped to me and I will wrap them and bring them over to her. She…would….die. And she would never ask, but she deserves this and NEEDS this, so I will ask for her : )

    http://amzn.com/w/11VMZ71FF1CB9

  734. This is one of my most favorite blogs to read. Any time I need cheering up, I come here. I often think that the looks I get from my Calvin are the same looks Victor gives you when I try to share why I am laughing hysterically. He just does not get skewed humor like that I guess. Happy Holidays Bloggess!

    Its always a shot in the dark and anything is always appreciated. I do not normally do things like this. But one of my kiddos would appreciate anything. His tablet recently got stepped on and he has been focusing on his legos. He wont complain but I would love to get him another. Here is the link to my wish list. Anything on there is fine and appreciated. If not, thanks for listening. Here is the link. I have other children but the youngest one is the one that still believes in Santa and all that. http://www.amazon.com/registry/giftlist/3088D69E1HNBO The other kiddos (if anyone is interested, however, I am just asking for one http://www.amazon.com/registry/giftlist/26RL2MPS9IF15 and http://www.amazon.com/registry/giftlist/26XR60EWMBH5X

  736. @Darin (#733) Please add your email address for electronic delivery of gift cards? Or put it in the comments here?

  737. I was originally commenter #510 and was put on the list of wish lists that hadn’t had any activity. I have already tried to fix the shipping issue with Amazon. I think I did it but would someone check it? I want to make sure that this isn’t keeping anyone from helping my girls. Thanks so much! Merry Christmas and blessings to everyone in this amazing community.
    http://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/ls/ref=aw_wl_ov_rfn?filter=&lid=3L1K7U557A1CM&reveal=all&sort=date-added

    (The code is wrong. This is the correct code to go to your page: http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/wishlist/3L1K7U557A1CM ~ Jenny)

  739. @Suzy Smith (#722) A basketball, football, and plush Mickey Mouse are headed to your niece and nephews. Should be there by Dec 19!

  740. DinaB (#525), the speaker and art set are shipped but the Deluxe Pounding Bench may not make it before Xmas. I don’t know why; I’m pretty sure it was in stock and a Prime item so I don’t know what’s going on with that. My email says estimated arrival by Dec. 29 and when I ck. the order on Amazon it says Dec. 26 is the delivery estimate. I hope it makes it in time but I’m sorry if it doesn’t!
    Congrats on your marriage!

  741. I just wanted to come back to say THANK YOU so much Jenny. There are a whole bunch of new board books on their way here thanks to you, and I know how incredibly excited my daughter will be to find them under the tree. Books make her so happy (and it makes me happy that she loves books so much already), so this will be a special Christmas despite the tough year that preceded it.
    I’ll pay it forward someday, and I can’t wait. 🙂

  742. Thank you SqualorHouseGail #634 for your generous contribution to my Indiegogo campaign. You have given me some much needed hope!

    Thank you Jenny for Christmas Blessings and Hope!

  743. I’m at work in tears. This is amazing! I wish more people knew the wonderfulness in the world still exists! You all should be made into Saints in the Church of Bloggessianism! Or at least get first dibs on the gravy with triple servings!

  747. Stacey at #214 I sent you a few items. Looks like they should make it there by the 22nd-24th.

  748. Kara #478, fabulistas #480, Melissa #578, and of course Jenny (and the rest of the community) – I can’t begin to thank you all enough (particularly without tearing up at your generosity, and I’m at work, so…) Happy holidays and a million thank yous from my family.

  749. Jacqui @ 679 – Picked a few things from your list but Amazon said they might be delivered at the end of January? I think I don’t understand Canadian Amazon. Regardless, maybe they’ll ship tomorrow or maybe in a month. Canadian Amazon has a rural delivery spiel I haven’t seen before, so I’m assuming this means they’ll be arriving via water/snow buffalo. I swear I’m not making fun of Canadian Amazon. I grew up in rural Southern US, so that’s certainly a glass house. I’m actually just baffled. 🙂

  751. Anonymous (641), Melissa (642) and SqualorHouseGail (644)….thank you so much. You are amazing! I’ve never gotten to see the ‘flip side’ of this equation (I’m always the giver) and, having received – it’s humbling – but heartwarming.
    In a time when there is SO MUCH BAD happening in our world, things like this restore my faith in humanity.
    Jenny – you are amazing. Bless your gigantic sized heart. I can’t wait to come to your blog next Christmas and pay it forward!

    http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/giftlist/1XOZR2KGQBT9G/ref=cm_go_nav_recip_gl?ie=UTF8
    http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/giftlist/1EBSOD0OLLU03/ref=cm_go_nav_recip_gl?

    http://www.showyourhope.com

  752. Jenny – thank you so much for organizing this, you’ve done such a good thing here! I feel really connected across the globe in a way I never thought possible. In light of recent events in Sydney and Pakistan, it’s so nice to send something small but positive into the world.

    @rtmiss: I sent you the Inktense Blocks. Wishing you all the best for 2015.
    @sassfras: I sent you the age14 pink coat. I hope it makes one kiddo’s Crimbo.
    I chose the fastest shipping options for you both, so you’ll get them asap.

    @sistercarrion: if you can sort your shipping address out, I will send through a couple of items.

    @ Brittany: Hang in there, cherub. I’m sure that every one of the people who have posted on these comments would wish you a Merry Christmas if they could… x

    With love to all the Bloggess supporters for the holidays!
    BeffyDee (UK)

  753. Suzy Smith (#723) Mickey things on their way for little H. From one girl with curly red hair to another, I hope it helps. Merry Christmas to you and your family!!

  755. BeffyDee (#726) Hmm… should be working ok, I shall check it out. And thank you so much! xx

  756. I think my list was one that the link was wrong, hopefully this is the right link now:
    https://www.amazon.com/registry/wishlist/53M35NKW8IPF/ref=cm_sw_r_ip_wl_o_O5yKub0VGKPGH

    Just a little backstory, my son Tommy is 10, and is a bright, funny, and sweet kid who has been through a lot this year, and has still managed to be such a trooper. I am currently disabled with MS and RA, and my 11 year marriage to his dad is falling apart, which has torn his little world up. He has stepped up and become such a huge helper to me, taking over all the chores that his dad did, that I’m not physically able to do. I am currently unable to work, but am a full-time college student, so my SSDI and school money is our only resources. Money for Xmas is non-existent right now, my bank account is hugely overdrawn, so even when I get paid on the 23rd, I’ll still be in the hole.
    Tommy has been so sweet and understanding that it breaks my heart, and I just want to give him some kind of Xmas, and some normalcy. I totally understand if I’m too late for this, but think what this community is doing is amazing, and you all rock so hard!! ❤️❤️❤️

  758. Shoot! Jenny is there a way to edit my comment (Janis #748) I just realized that we won’t be “home” for Xmas and thus if anyone sends a gift for the boys it will probably get returned. 🙁

    (Amazon usually doesn’t require signatures and they leave everything I order that doesn’t fit in the mailbox on my porch so if you can have a neighbor pick up the gifts so they don’t get rained on they should be okay. You can also put a temporary hold on your mail while away and pick up your mail when you get back or change the address to wherever you’ll be at Christmas. ~ Jenny)

  759. Hey, just wanted to pop in here and say thanks to everyones’ giving spirits and to Bloggess for bringing us all together. I was diagnosed last October with Lymphoma. I am a 33 year old single mother, never smoked a cigarette in my life. My son’s father passed away while I was pregnant with my son five years ago. I have been in the position to need more than I’d care to admit. HOWEVER. I spent 2 weeks hospitalized when I was first diagnosed and my cousins had me and my son move directly in with them straight from the hospital. My boss and coworkers took up a monetary and gift card collection for me as well as donated 300+ hours of PTO out of their own saved up personal time. I want for tons of things but all my needs are taken care of (my son’s goes without saying). I am happy to say that I don’t need the help this year and I am grateful every day for the people in my life helping me through chemo. Happy Holidays to everyone, gift givers, gift receivers and those who can’t afford to give this time around (I”ll do better next year, promise! I’m kicking this cancer’s ass so hard right now).

  761. @BeffyDee , have sorted that now, for some reason it was set to ‘none’ with the delivery address! All fixed now (I think!) And waves hi to a fellow brit! xx

    For other people who may have tried responding to my list (#186), I’m sorry I mucked up things! I’ve had really bad fibro foggy head for the last few days, and the eldest is having a hard time in the last few days in school, and yeah, forgot to check shipping. D’oh!

    Much love and squishy snugs to all on these comments (and Jenny of course!), you’ve really cheered my heart with what has been done here. xxx

  762. Jennifer Jaegers, you have 4 items on the way. Expected 22nd or 23rd. Hope they make it in time!! 🙂

  765. heather v aka aich PLEASE fix your ship to address! i just tried to send you stuff but…no address, doll!

  766. I can’t believe my entire list is about empty! You all are amazing people and I can not tell you how much brighter this morning looks compared to yesterday. It’s awesome how the kindness of strangers can change your whole outlook on life! I added to my list two things for my cousin’s kids, I hope that’s ok. They are struggling and working so hard to get ahead. I watch their children as much as I can to help out, sometimes over 14 hours a day on the weekends so they can work doubles. Yesterday the baby’s zipper broke on her snowsuit and I don’t think they can afford a new one. I found one that’s on sale and added it to my list to see if maybe I can get a replacement for them. Thank you all so much, you are the best Christmas angels EVER! Danielle #346

  767. Alice #466, I didn’t forget to thank you, but I think I may be looking in the wrong folder (or my spam filter was extra hungry?), I didn’t see an email from you. You can reach me at strangerbirdvintage at gmail (If you’re still reading the comments…and even if you’ve moved on to someone else or if you’ll never read this, just your offer to help warmed my heart <3)

  768. Happy holidays everyone! This whole thing makes me feel warm and fuzzy. I wanted to post on behalf of my little sister who was diagnosed with breast cancer this past summer at the young age of twenty eight. Her year has been hell but through it all she slogs on and is a ray of sunshine to her family and friends. If you are so inclined, you can visit the fundraiser we have set up for her to help her with medical costs: http://gfwd.at/1vlMFho

  769. Patricia, #730….I sent off the children’s book and the Bath & Body Works spray to you <3

  770. julebabs | December 17, 2014 at 8:24 am

    I sent a little something off of Tommy’s list and I chose it based in part on it being something you will probably do together. I hope things get easier for you. And one of my favorite people in the whole wide world is my brother Tommy

  771. First – Jenny – I fixed the address thing – here is the link again in case the other post goes away – http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/wishlist/3N9Z8CPH340QO/ref=topnav_lists_2. Thought I had last night, but I was working off my iPad, which leaves some things to be desired. Second – thanks to the Bloggessphere for reminding me about what Christmas is all about! I would ask for all your prayers, good wishes, finger crossings, etc. – at 2 today we have to make some tough love decisions involving my oldest daughter, and no matter what we do, our Christmas season is going to be awful in so many ways. This isn’t the first holiday that she has ruined, and won’t be the last (I haven’t had a birthday in years because she sabotages it somehow). For those who look at my 14 year old’s list – she’s a Whovian. I plan, once hubby is employed, to begin slowly buying things to redo her bathroom in all Dr. Who.

  773. We were blessed and humbled by someone sending our family some help through this blog for Christmas of 2010. Now we are in a position that we can pay it forward. Thank you for doing this, it’s truly amazing. My only issue is that I made the mistake of reading through comments while sitting at my work desk! Had to leave for a bit to collect myself….

    Thank you for allowing us all to remember and be a part of what Christmas should be about. xo

  776. You people are awesome! Well, WE people are awesome. Because I’m one of the people. Anyway, please consider supporting AbleCloset, a nonprofit that provides pediatric special needs equipment to children with disabilities. See http://www.ablecloset.com for more information. We have just one employee – me! – and if we could spend more money on buying equipment and less on all the office supplies we buy from Amazon, we could help a few more children. Our Amazon wish list is here: http://amzn.com/w/5DUIL7QXZ4WG. Thank you!

  777. I love you crazy bunch of awesome people! This year, we have been meeting our bills but not much left over. My daughter is hilarious and awesome at age 3, is obsessed with Frozen! Any assistance with making her Christmas amazing would be so wonderful.

    Her wishlist is under her name Juna Satterwhite and my email address is JanaSatterwhite@gmail.com

    http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/wishlist/WP4E12LH7A51/ref=cm_sw_su_w

    Many thanks. We shall pay it forward.

  778. I don’t have kids (thanks for nothing, body), so I don’t need childrens gifts… but I also can’t participate because of financial stress in my life. I haven’t been able to buy anyone gifts for about three years, so I get it.. It warms my heart so much to see the Family of The Bloggess come together for the holidays and help each other. It shows true love and compassion for strangers, Jenny, the Force is strong with you. Happy Christmas, everyone.

  780. No need for anything for myself, but my dear friend CarrieAnne lost her husband to suicide a few weeks ago and she and their 15-year-old daughter could always use help covering expenses. CarrieAnne has problems with her heart that makes it difficult to now look for or keep a job, although she is slowly making her way through school. Donations can be made through the gofundme that I set up for them: http://www.gofundme.com/h9yhb4. We met our initial goal so the funeral and grave site expenses were taken care of, but now they have to figure out how to live.

  781. I have a friend who is unable to buy winter tires for her wheelchair. I didn’t even know they were a thing! We are in Minnesota and they would really help her be able to get around much easier. The set is about $300. I’m collecting money to give to her visa pay pal at LADYIVETTA@GMAIL.COM

  782. julebabs – you have 3 items coming your way for Tommy! Have a very Merry Christmas!

  783. I just wanted to say, as I sit here and read some of these comments, it really puts some things in perspective for me. I may be in a rough spot right now, but others have it worse. I will be praying for so many people now, and thankful for so many people too. I hope everyone is able to have a wonderful Christmas!

    Kristi #521

  784. GODTEL Ministries has been providing food, clothing, and shelter to the homeless of East Texas since 1977. Now they need to move out of their current building in Nacogdoches, TX to a new location in a different part of town. They’ve applied for multiple grants from charitable organizations, but haven’t been approved for any so far. Below is the link to their GoFundMe page. Please consider giving as every bit helps. Merry Christmas everyone!

    http://www.gofundme.com/isb3gg

  787. Julebabs #750, you have a 6 pack of minecraft toys and some kinetic sand that should be there on Friday. Hope he enjoys. Merry Christmas from Georgia!

  788. Man, I love this community. It warms my cold, bitter heart to see this go on every year.

  789. Hi Janis (#748) — Saw your note and thought it fate, as I recently decided to major in ASL Interpreting. What a beautiful language and culture. Wish I had more to share, but be on the lookout for a few gifts coming your way on Friday, 12/19. Happy holidays to you and your family!

  790. For those wanting to help but without the financial means to do so… there were several people who posted early on that they would be so grateful to receive a card or an email, that what they needed most was not to feel alone. I’m on my tablet or I’d hunt down the post numbers…there were quite a few follow up comments with email addresses posted. And, HUGS to everyone. Gentle hugs to those in physical pain, (along with some healing energy), huge long lasting holding you as tight as I can “you are safe and loved” hugs to those that need them.

  791. People like you guys are what it is all about! I love this post/comments more than I can say!
    My hubby and I are both going back to school and are living on loans right now. If it weren’t for my parents, our holiday for our 3 small kids would be sparse, if not obsolete. My parents have been generous in helping us at every front but I know that many people are not as lucky as we are. Thank you for taking care of all these people!

  792. @sistercarrion (post 186)

    I’ve done what I can from your list. I really hope that others will be kind to you too…
    I entirely failed to put any messages in with my items – they all seem to be coming from different suppliers and it got complex. I think most of it should be with you before the big day.
    Anyway, I just wanted to say Merry Christmas to you and your family. I wish you only good things for 2015.

    Sent with much love, Beth (BeffyDee) xx

    P.S. And thank you again, Jenny. This is truly aces! 🙂 xx

  793. You are all amazing. I run a nonprofit working with orphaned kids in Tanzania (kids from the oprhanage my two children were adopted from), and we would so appreciate any donations this time of year. We have a HUGE amount coming up and it’s going to be one wild ride! We curently care for 36 residential children, soon to be 42, who need sponsorship, plus support about 30 children in the community living with relatives. The Bloggess, it would mean a lot if you could post about it through @thegoodbloggess – someone on your team had offered to do so last week but it never happened http://www.tinyurl.com/tstgiveandreceive – thank you for everything you do, Jenny!

    PS. It’s my birthday, so anything you can give would be an especially amazing gift!

  794. Juleah – (julebabs #750) – You should be getting pants, the Gloom game, and a Minecraft stuffy for Tommy on the 23rd or 24th. Merry Christmas!

  796. This is so kind. I’ve been out of work for 2 weeks and kinda freaking out. Plan to skip Christmas and celebrate 3 Kings Day in January. In hopes (read:prayer) that money will come in by then and we can hit the dollar store. My kids are little, still innocent to not know exact dates, so it won’t be missed. If you feel inclined, we’d be grateful. Wish List
    Link: http://www.amazon.com/registry/wishlist/JXUJ6EN2HAYI

  797. Amanda (681)…I just sent a few small things for your girls, arrival on Friday. Merry Christmas!

  799. This community is so amazing. I very luckily don’t have children. But all i really want for christmas this year is to be able to divorce and leave my emotionally abusive husband. Ive been trying to save money but it is really hard when I have the only income. This is the link to my go fund me http://www.gofund.me/fjgfcs. I created to see if my friends and family would help.

  801. Juleah – (julebabs #750) – you should be getting 3 items for Tommy on Friday the 19th!

  803. @Amy (714) Your kids are all way cooler than me, I grabbed a little something for each of them. I’ve also really enjoyed hitting up other lists around here. This is the best feeling.

  804. I know you’ve heard this a million zillion times but you are amazing (total class act.. I won’t spread that around it’s okay 🙂 I have 3 girls who lost their dad (my husband) in July, 2 days shy of my 15 yr olds birthday.. he was murdered over a ridiculous argument & the person responsible only received 3-4 years.. so yeah there’s that.. my husband was laid off a few months before he was killed & we had been struggling then & well lately it feels like the walls are closing in on all of us.. My older daughters, 15 & 17 refuse to accept any gifts this year because they want their little sister, Lilly Anne to get something.. family or friends are non existent so it’s been rough.. it’d be great to be able to give my girls something, anything.. but my oldest actually made Lilly’s wish list.. So now that’s I’ve shared my heartbreak like so many others I just want to say that there has to be light at the end of the tunnel.. I say that over & over again because without that hope there’s not much else.. God bless everyone who helps on here & especially to all the struggling moms & dads.. Love to all
    http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/giftlist/TR9D9AAMU1YQ/ref=cm_go_nav_recip_gl?

  805. Juliebabs #750. Sent two gifts from Tommy’s list. One looked like it would arrive this week, one might arrive after Christmas. Merry Christmas to you and your son!

  806. Stacey 732 – some gifts on their way! I hope your friend has a very Merry Christmas

  807. I cannot give this year. When Heifer and ASPCA called for my yearly donation, I had to turn them down–and burst into tears after hanging up. Things are just really rough this year, y’all. But, at least I have my health, I have friends, and I’m not homeless (yet!) Happy Holidays to you, Jenny, and to all of you. The fact that so many of you are giving to strangers warms my heart. Giving with no expectation of return is the true spirit of the holidays.

  810. @Janis (#748) I just tried to get some things for your boys, but you will need to link a shipping address to your wish list. Amazon won’t let me complete the purchase without it. There is a tutorial way up in this comment section that will walk you through how to do it! 🙂

  811. I’m a long time reader but I’ve never commented until now. Your post, both this years and years past, has always had me thinking… but this year the lightbulb went off. What a lovely teaching moment this could be for my 2 older boys ages 8 and 5. We usually go to Target and let them pick out small gifts for each other but this year we talked about project night night and how we could really help 2 kids who probably won’t get a christmas and don’t have a nice home or bed to sleep in…they both hands down wanted to forgo presents for each other and give to project night night! My older son emptied his hard earned $15 dollars from his piggy bank to give. It warmed my heart to see what the power of giving can do to my impressionable little men in this Christmas season. So thank you for always making me laugh and inspiring me to do more this holiday season!

  812. hi everyone, I’m a single mom to a four year old boy whose dad is not really in the picture. I am disabled from an injury I got when I gave birth to my son. As a result, I am unable to work and I’m on SSDI as my only income. My bank account was hacked twice this year and I have not been able to get my finances in order ever since. If anyone is able to help out with a gift for my son, I would be eternally grateful. I am trying to give him a normal Christmas because it’s not fair to him that I’m in a tight financial spot.

    Thank you so much for the opportunity to be a part of this. I look forward to being able to pay it back soon!

    The link to his wish list Wish List
    Link: http://www.amazon.com/registry/wishlist/ZVIF7UP41R6L

  813. I know this might get lost in the shuffle of people who have things far worse than I do. I just got my first job after 2 1/2 years of unemployment due to taking care of a sick family member. It’s not steady work right now, only a few days per week, but they’re telling me I’ll have full-time hours after the holidays, if they decide to keep me on. I’m shamefacedly attaching my Amazon wish list because I know lots of people don’t have as much as I do (a friend who took me in out of an abusive situation and let me live rent-free until I can figure out my mess of debt and helped me get food stamps and driven me around an unfamiliar town so I can do job interviews until I’m making a living again has been a blessing), but… I’ve moved from state to state 3 times in the last 2 years. I gave away, donated or threw out nearly everything I owned so that I could travel more lightly. I haven’t bothered to celebrate Christmas because I didn’t have money for my basic needs, much less buying for others. I don’t know what else to say; I don’t want to expect something because I might not deserve it as much as many others; I do know I’ll be here next year looking for someone I can help, if my job luck holds out.

    https://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/ref=cm_reg_rd-upd?ie=UTF8&id=1Q7SWHUL6XL8H&type=wishlist

  814. emaylerocks #733 – Sent gifts from the first two of your wish lists that show they will arrive this week. From the last list, none of the items were available. I would be happy to send a gift card so that this child is not left out. My email is lizamohr1@gmail.com. Merry Christmas to you and your family!

  815. I just want to thank everyone again. Ann #549, thank you for the science stuff! My daughter is going to love it! Just a thank you doesn’t feel like enough, but from the bottom of my heart, thank you! -Amie #506

  816. @Queen Elisheba (#769) I just tried to buy a few things for you but it seems like you don’t have an address registered that I can send to! I’ll check back soon to see if you update. I have prime shipping so if I’m able to order something for you, it should get there by Christmas 🙂

  817. Janis (comments 748 and 751) – had picked out some things from your boys’ list, then luckily came back and saw your note about not being home to get the presents. I’d really love to send these somehow – when will you be back? I am happy to hold off on ordering until you’re sure you’ll be home to get them.
    (I worked for many years with a DD student in a substantially separate classroom, and so am very excited to send along some small art and ASL items – always loved using those things, wish I could send more!) : )
    If you can, please comment again and let me know when a good time to send these along might be – maybe they can be Happy New Year presents… : )
    Merry Christmas!

  818. Eric from Everrett, WA, socks & a gift card coming your way. Gift card tomorrow, socks friday.

  819. Thanks to your inspiration, I just emailed a friend for her daughter’s wishlist. Her family’s had a string of medical problems and we all know what that means.
    I’ll be addressing it “To one geek girl from another” as one of the commenters above said.

  820. My husband’s been unemployed for 6 months now. I have a decent job so we’re managing – barely – but we’re hanging on & hoping he finds work soon. Our kids are all grown so we’re lucky – at this age, Christmas for us is more about enjoying family time with each other than giving gifts. In spite of our troubles & meager bank account this year, we are still incredibly lucky & I know it. Just purchased two small gifts from one of the wish lists posted here; wish I could do more but I did what I could. What a blessing you gave me today – the chance to help a child continue believing in the magic of Christmas! THANK YOU, Bloggess dear!

  821. This is such an amazing thing! I have been struggling to figure out how to get my children gifts since my husband lost his job and I want to sign up. We have 4 children who have wishlists on Amazon. 6 year old boy- http://goo.gl/UToQSj , 4 year old girl- http://goo.gl/yQBpdB , 3 year old girl- http://goo.gl/UlD35I and a 4 month old boy- http://goo.gl/qmX2AU . If anyone is willing to help, I would be so grateful. My email is claudiakinkade@outlook.com if you would like to contact me privately.

  822. We just got an emergency custody of a 17 yo boy today and don’t have the money to get him Christmas presents. We are struggling ourselves, but he has no family & we were the only ones willing to take him in. jess2092@yahoo.com.

  823. I have created a wish list for an amazing young couple who had a newborn in October. They are working hard but struggling with a baby and an elderly relative to care for. Her wish list was very simple basics for the baby. Diapers, feeding items etc. I have added a stroller and pack and play because I know she wants them but is too polite to ask. Roslynn is a beautiful little girl with beautiful parents who volunteer their time for so many. The shipping address is a work address to insure a safe delivery. This really is a fantastic circle of compassionate people.
    http://www.amazon.com/registry/giftlist/1NH2ZPN49Z8VX

  824. @julebabs #750, there’s a Lego set on its way to your son. It’s currently out of stock until 12/22, so I paid the extra for 1-day shipping to make sure Santa can get it under the tree in time. Your story about broke my heart – what a sweet boy you have. I hope this helps in a little way. Merry Christmas!

  825. esktop=1 http://www.gofundme.com/c84wts?forcedesktop=1

    I second giving a little to this guy. He’s been out of work for a yet due to not knowing what was wrong, now he cant find a job in I.T.and thishad been working freelance from .home. He can barely keep afloat with bills right now, not to mention the added medical testing costs. Even $5 can go a long way toward the 3 medications he takes daily, as without insurance one of his medications exceeds $200 a month. Please think hard about helping or at least sharing his link during this holiday season! Thank you guys and gals!

  826. Here is the link to my wishlist. http://amzn.com/w/OOHJDQU9RW91 Normally we are able to help others, but ran into some financial troubles the last half of this year and we are struggling. We have 7, 8, 12, and 16 yr olds to get for. My daughter wants to start sewing her own dresses and matching ones for her dolls and my son, who is on the autism spectrum (he’s 8) is obsessed with airplanes, school buses, and things to build. He really wanted the Marvel disney infinity kit, but they didn’t make it for the regular wii 🙁 Jenny, you and your readers are amazing.

  827. @BeffyDee Aww, Beth, thank you so very much! This will make a big difference to this year. Was already a bit wobbly today, so thinking about this has me welling up, but in a wonderful way! I really hope to be in a position next year where I can do the same for someone else in turn. Many cosy snugs, Gaynor xx

  828. Queen elisheba #769, I could not find a shipping address on your wish list? I would like to help out!

  829. To Janis 748: Your children will be getting the Melissa & Doug Easel Accessory Set. Don’t worry if you won’t be home, they will leave it at your door. Just ask a neighbor to bring it inside until you’re back again. Happy holidays from Oregon, pelicanlake71

  830. Putting my Amazon Prime to good use!
    Hippy (709), Jennifer (717) and Annie (506) keep an eye out for a package from me!

    Much to love everyone on here, and Jenny for orchestrating it!

  832. What a beautiful way to have my coffee this morning, reading all of the love bring shared here. Thank you Jenny for this amazing tradition! What a lovely community you have built! I am sending light and love to each and every one of you! WhenI get back to my computer, I will see what I can do to help. Happy Holidays everyone!

  835. @pelicanlake71 Thank you so much!! My 7yo is a crazy little artist and will LOVE this. I made some arrangements after I realized my temporary absence so hopefully it will all work out with the mailing. 🙂 Thank you & Happy Holidays to you too.

  836. Janis #748, three items from your wish list are on their way! Sending these in memory of my parents.

  837. Queen elisheba (#769)…. Either you do not have a shipping address linked to your list, or I’m doing it wrong. Could you check, please?? My cart is loaded and I’m ready for my turn to play Santa.

  838. @sassafrass, sent you some socks, gloves and the Little House on the Prairie set because those are some of my favorites. Bless you for what you do – my husband teaches inner city high schoolers and I am made so sad sometimes by what the kids make do without.

  839. Hi Jenny and the Bloggess community. I’ve checked this blog regularly and have gotten many smiles and had my bad days turned around by the posts made here. I saw this blog entry and thought, why not see if someone would be willing to help us. I’ll keep it short, but here is our story.

    2014 has been both a difficult year and a year where I’ve been the happiest ever. My son, Grayson is 2.5 (3 in March). We left an abusive relationship with Grayson’s father early in the year. We lived in a domestic violence shelter as we had no money to get a place of our own. That was the hardest thing I had ever decided to do, but also the best decision I’ve ever made. We lived in shelter for about 3 months before striking out on our own. Long story short, we’ve since moved closer to family and put a few hours distance between us and my son’s father. We have fought to get a protective order for the both of us as well as fought to find an attorney who would help us with the custody issue and allow us to pay a little bit each month. We live paycheck to paycheck, and aren’t even getting by there. Right now my electric and water is in jeopardy of being cut off and I’m paying my rent about 20 days late this month. We found the least expensive place we could, but it is requiring us to commute 30 minutes each way for daycare/work. We go to court again in January for the non-payment of support, but who knows when I’ll see any of that.

    So, we are in need. Sure we could use some presents under the tree, but we also need diapers (pull-ups) and groceries. I feel like such a failure as a parent for not being able to support my child and I more, but we are so happy to be together and out of that situation.

    Any help you all are moved to give would be more than Grayson and I can imagine. I love this blog, and these amazing people. Bless you all and thank you in advance.

    Here is a link to a few things Grayson would love.
    http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/wishlist/2ZTFVX0LRVYPR/

  840. Anathica (#144) – Sent you the butterfly book and also the Enders Game and Hitchhikers Guide series’ from your own wishlist. I don’t have any kids but I know what depression can do to a person. Books have always been my secret happy place to make sure to indulge a bit yourself. Also the Hitchhikers Guide books wont be there till after Christmas but you can always give yourself a New Years present. Merry Christmas!

  841. My dear friend, Tricia, was having trouble even getting groceries to feed her babies this month. She asked a friend at a local store and she has food. Now, she just found out that the puzzles she bought used for her kids Christmas presents were missing pieces. And one puzzle box had a book inside and no puzzle! I put this quick list together for her because, after telling her about this, she felt bad that it would take away from someone else’s chance for a Christmas. She is a fantastic mom and her kids, Ruby age 4 and Ryker age 2.5, deserve a few more things from a secret Santa. If I set it up correct, it should ship straight to her address.
    List for Ruby and Ryker
    Link: http://amzn.com/w/GZ5G63J2473Z

  845. Donated to Anon’s son #286. (I think?) Best of luck to you and your son in your new, safe, environment. I am so sorry about your family not understanding the need to keep your dog safe and well until you were home and able to care for him (her) again. Best wishes. Rachel

  846. Julebabs #750, some Adventure Time toys are on their way to Tommy. Sending these in memory of Father Francis Cox.

  847. I could really use some help this year. In February of this year I found my boyfriend in a coma when I returned home from work. After 28 days in the hospital, he was finally released with a diagnoses of kidney failure, diabetes, and a slew of other unfortunate but kind of private issues. Since Feb, we have been in and out of the hospital five times, twice being extremely life-threatening. With all the added medical costs and him being out of work for pretty much the whole year, I have been tested mentally and physically by working two jobs and taking care of him and all his doctors appointments. This Christmas, I am taking him to meet my entire family for the first time but now, we cant fly because we have to bring car loads of medical supplies with us and I barely have enough money to make the trip and still pay out bills let alone buy any presents for our families. Any help with gas money or bill money would be amazing and a true blessing. We have a go fund me account that friends helped us with in the beginning but that only covered one month of medicine. Thank you to anyone that takes the time to read this. God bless and have a Merry Christmas.

  848. @DarthMama (781) – Thank you so much, these kiddos will be so happy!! And you made this single mom happy too. 🙂 Your parents would be so proud of you for doing such an awesome thing.

  850. Hi all –

    Hopefully this works this time. I was trying to post from my phone but it wasn’t working. I am a single mother of three kids – 2 boys ages 5 and 6, and a baby girl who is 1 (14 months). I live paycheck to paycheck, floating my bills most of the time. It doesn’t leave much for Christmas and my darling kids deserve a Christmas this year. Here is my wish-list link. It’s a random collection of things but only pay attention to my children’s items. 🙂

    http://amzn.com/w/2YJ4JBKIF8XAW

    Salazartm@tiffin.edu

    Thanks & God bless.

  852. @Suzy Smith #723–I couldn’t afford a lot, but some Star Wars legos are on their way 🙂

  853. Brandi #140
    My husbands surgery is Friday. I’ve been sitting here wondering what was wrong. I just felt off. Then I realized, even though his surgery is Friday, I am less stressed because of the kindness off Bloggonians. So for my kids Christmas and one less worry for me, I thank all of you again. I wanted to make sure this was seen since it went to a second page. Strangers can make a difference in someone elses life. Ya’ll have made a difference in mine.

  854. Hey, guys, I have a tween adventure novel i’d be happy to send a signed copy to your kid. i will even personalize it. facebook message me on my author page Margo Solod with an address and i will priority mail you a copy.

  855. Astraphell (669) there is a leotard on the way for your daughter. My two kids are gymnasts and will be thrilled when I tell them that a little girl will have a leotard sent from them with love.

  856. I am going to ask to rally the troops one more time, this time for my friend Jim. Every year Jim dresses up as Santa Claus. He goes to a number of daycares and schools, as well as doing special events at several businesses, and he will make a special appearance for anyone who wants to take photos of their kids with Santa. He does it all for free. And he makes a really good Santa – he already has the hair and beard for it. 🙂 At home though, he and his wife are on a fixed income and didn’t even put up a tree this year because they don’t have anything to put under it. He told me “I can’t afford to buy anything for my grandkids this year. I have Bella staying with us and I can’t even something for her.”. Bella is his youngest granddaughter. She is four years old and a total cutie.

    I made a wish list. I know it’s kinda long but he has about a dozen grandkids. If he could at least have something to give Bella, I know he would feel a lot better. Santa was never meant to be empty-handed!

    Jenny, once again, thank you for starting this big beautiful ball rolling. And thank you to everyone who has kept it rolling, getting bigger and more beautiful as it goes. I feel so lucky to be a part of such goodness – and next year I plan to be on the giving end.

    Here is the list for Santa’s grandchildren. http://www.amazon.com/registry/giftlist/LM3ZKPQCJEE2

  857. @#725 – Sent one of the gifts off the list. Hope that helps your friend and her kids enjoy their Christmas!

  858. I am asking that my friend that is battling Stage III Non-Hodgkin’s Lymphoma receive any gifts that I ask for. Together with his wife they are fighting and surviving but could use any help anyone can offer. http://www.youcaring.com/medical-fundraiser/help-for-jp-grace/208120

    They live a quiet life in west Texas and this diagnosis was a huge shock for them. His treatment has been aggressive and left him tired and very sick. Bless you all for what you’re doing.

  859. Danggit, everyone here is making me cry. Thank you, Jenny, for your post — it really brought some sunshine into my day. I’ve been having a rough December since my kiddos will be leaving in less than a week (less than a week!!!!) to spend the next semester studying in India. I had thought I would be able to join them in mid-March, but life has happened and I will be away from them for several months. I have been wallowing in self-pity/panic over this; for at least a few minutes today, while scrolling through lists trying to find the best way to help, I went past the self-pity/panic. Thank you.

  860. stacey 732, looks like your friend’s kids are the right age for my book, and if they like shiloh they should enjoy it. do you have a more complete address than the one on amazon? there’s no street number.

  861. i never know how to start when I’m asking for help. I’m a stay at home mom to a wonderful 4 year old boy with autism. (there isn’t any daycare in our area that really handles his type of issues. And frankly since he’s nonverbal I’m terrified of sending him to one since he couldn’t tell me how he was really treated.) My wonderful husband works in home health care taking care of men with traumatic brain injury. He loves it and it’s really fulfilling for him unfortunately it doesn’t pay much so we’re having a very rough year. At this point I’m hoping his check next week will allow me to get raiden anything to open but I wont know until after I’ve seen his check and paid bills. So I here I am asking if anyone can help. I’m also going to add the link for the wonderful program in our area that he goes to for speech therapy. They dont charge us anything ( or try to deal with insurance that wont cover any therapy) and they have helped raiden so much with the beginning of not only speaking but truly communicating. Thank you to anyone that can help.

    http://amzn.com/w/1QEZXQRP0U4YY

    http://www.scottishriteclinicduluth.org/foundation/

  863. Jennifer #543 – Two gifts for your amazing kid headed your way. One may be a little late, but they’re coming. Please tell her that someone in New York thinks she’s awesome, and has an incredible mom, too! Wishing you the best, biggest, and brightest future for you both!

  864. RE: post #719

    I updated the shipping, apparently it must be done from a desktop not through the amazon app or the mobile site.

    Thank you for letting me know.

  865. Hello I was sent a link to this page from a friend asking me if I would post a reply here. I am a 35 yr old married man with one autistic son and a very hard working wife. I recently just had my 2nd heart surgery of the year and lost my job because of it. I had my aorta replaced with a mechanical one. So money has been very tight in our house barely keeping our heads above water. I made a small list if anyone would be kind enough to help. my wife loves to read and never is able to get anything for herself and we really never have the money to do much so she reads. my son is 15 but is mentally around 8-10 he needs clothes due to constantly growing and loves music and a few other toys. thank you to any and all of you that can help and thank you so much for a page like this.

    Thank You,
    Josh

    http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/wishlist/1NMEYGAIN7IGD/ref=cm_wl_rlist_go_o

  867. Janis #748 – I just purchased a little something for Austin and Micah. My son has ASD as well. I can’t imagine the additional challenges you must face having two boys with ASD and hearing impairment. I hope that my tiny contribution brightens their holiday, and yours. The best gift they have is you!

  868. oh and I don’t expect anyone to get raiden his bed. lol that is just on there so i know where to look come tax time to get it. He killed his bed last week by jumping on it and moving it around his room ( when he was suppose to be going to sleep)

  869. Linda (790)- movies and books are on the way. Because sometimes, even Santa needs a little help.

  871. While I wish we were on the other side of donating this year, we are not.It has been a hard year, we assumed. care of my sister in law,who was in end stage liver failure during the summer. my husband is a disabled veteran and I work part time at Kroger so it took its toll :financially. my Husband is going to be having major knee surgery after Christmas. at a VA in another state and I will be taking off work to care for him and our children, so money is tight. any help would be appreciated.I cannot get the link to work but I made a wishlist at Amazon it’s bhuey35@gmail.com to find it.

  873. I am so blown away by the generosity here! I can’t say thank you enough for those who have helped the Hooks (comment 512) family, as well as the examples set by so many of giving even when you don’t have much. Thank you soooooooooo much! Everyone in that family will have something to unwrap this Christmas. All we need now are some warm clothes for the growing kids to have all of their needs met. Thank you again! There is no way my husband and I could have possibly done this for them. My husband is a student and a soldier. We don’t have much, but we still wanted to see this family taken care of. Because of your giving hearts my Christmas wish came true. Thank you again!

    http://www.amazon.com/registry/giftlist/39XPD2PMNR24S

  874. I just wanted to share a story. Earlier this year, my five-year old asked whether the Easter Bunny was really real. I have always held the policy that I wasn’t going to lie to my kids; if they asked, I would tell the truth. So I told him that no, the Easter Bunny wasn’t real, but it was fun to pretend… so we’d keep on pretending and not spoil the fun by talking about it not being real. I knew from that conversation that Santa wouldn’t be far behind. My husband and I agreed that when he asked, we’d tell him. Sure enough, the question came within a few weeks. I told him that Santa wasn’t a real person, and that his daddy and I were the ones who brought the presents at Christmas time (but again, that pretending Santa was real was a big part of the fun, so he shouldn’t say anything about it to his friends or his little sister).

    Yesterday, I read all the comments here. People needing help. People offering help. People making sure inner-city students had shirts and blankets. People helping send Night-Night bags to homeless kids or pigs’ butts to third-world countries. People working together to make Christmas magical for kids who just needed a break. And I realized that what I’d told my son was wrong.

    When he got home from school, I showed him this post and some of the comments. I told him that I’d made a mistake, and that Santa was real. He might not be one guy with a red suit and big belly living on the North Pole and single-handedly giving everyone presents in one night, but he was a lot of people — parents around the world who filled their kids’ stockings, yes, but also strangers on a message board who reached out for help, and the people who responded to them. WE ARE SANTA, PEOPLE. All of us. And we are real.

    Merry Christmas, Santa.

  875. @Marci (811) Fist:Bump Thank you so much, you have no idea how much you have helped – even just your comment helps. Have a Blessed Holiday 🙂

  878. Ginger #833, a few things are on the way to you. Good for you for doing the best thing for your son.

  879. hello,

    I was sent this link from a friend that asked me to post a wish list here and give a little story avout our life recently
    https://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/wishlist/1NMEYGAIN7IGD/ref=cm_wl_rlist_go_o

    My name is Josh I am a 35 year old man that has been through 2 heart surgeries this year most recent was to replace my aorta with a mechanical valve. so I have been out of work for over a year. The little bit of money we were able to save for Christmas this year was stolen out of her car last week along with breaking the window that was an extra 250 to fix. so it has been a very sad year for us and I’m not sure what we will do for xmas this year. my wife is a very hard working woman that works in a tip dependent work field. we have one son who is 15 and autistic mentally he is 8-10 but is constantly growing and could always use clothes and likes a few toys and loves country music. my wife never gets the chance to get anything for herself due to my lost wages and barely being able to cover all the bills and food. she loves to read more than anything but still loves clothes and purses etc. she works very hard to provide for us until I’m back up to speed. I would like to thank you very

  880. tenntrace (757) – Your daughter has some Weeping Angel socks on the way, from one Whovian to another. 🙂 Hugs to your family in this difficult time, and I wish you a peaceful holiday.

    Amanda (681) – There are a few things from your list on their way. Hugs to your family for all you have been going through. My brother is serving time and I know how hard it is on a family (though fortunately he has no children to have to deal with it as well), so your story hit close to home for me. Hope your family has a wonderful Christmas!

  882. Ginger #833 I also got a few. Wasn’t paying attention to the shipping but it should get there Christmas Eve! Hope Grayson enjoys his toys and books 😊

  883. Suzy Smith #723 – I’ve sent a little something your brother’s way. I hope his kids have a great Christmas! (P.S. The basketball hoop couldn’t be gift wrapped or include a note, so just know it is from a friend in the glorious Bloggess community.)

  884. I don’t have children or a very good sob story, so I will be straightforward. I have been unemployed for over a year. I just now got a minimum wage weekend part time job and am still on the search for more permanent full time employment. I have been on 20+ interviews and have applied for literally thousands of jobs. There is not a lot of call for my chosen field of work in the area where I live, I have very little experience in other types of work and cannot afford to move. I am barely hanging on to the home I own, after exhausting unemployment benefits and my entire life savings.

    All I ask is that people visit and, if they are so inclined, purchase something from my etsy store (link should be in my comment name), just to help me make ends meet. Happy holidays to you and all of the awesome members is the church of bloggessianism.

  885. Just now: Two Project Night Night packs bought on behalf of my own two kiddos. Later: Some shopping from some wish lists. Thank you, Jenny, for lighting this spark!

  887. Oops! I just realized that I told all the people I bought for to check their email, thinking that Amazon would alert them to purchases from their lists. But it doesn’t. I’ve lost track of what I got for who, but if I told you to check your email earlier, then just check your wishlist, because I got you something. Everything I’ve bought has a pre-Christmas delivery date, so it’s coming!

  888. Ginger #833 & grayson, my mother called me a scrooge, here’s to proving her wrong. merry christmas and a happy new year to you both. be well and be safe.

  890. I have three furry children. A 13 year old American Eskimo, an 11 year old ginger tomcat (missing most of his teeth), and a 2.5 year old tuxedo lady-cat. My husband had back surgery a couple years ago and has been fighting to stay consistently employed as a truck driver. We are expecting a settlement from the work injury, but we don’t know when that will come. We need our whole roof replaced, and I am starting college in January so I can go get my degree. I have food allergies and it will be difficult for me to find things to eat on campus. I will get to wander from building to building in the lovely Michigan winter.

    Please take a look at my list. It’s practical, and all things that would greatly assist us in getting by. I need new winter boots, and my furbabies need things that really add up after a while.

    http://amzn.com/w/6A0Z39M139EP

    twitter: @jensings

  892. First, I want to say thank you to everyone who has gifted those of us who need help this Christmas. It means so much to be able to give our kids something. Even though the holiday isn’t supposed to be about presents it’s still nice to have them, so again I say thank you. Thank you so much from the bottom of my heart and I’m sure from everyone elses as well.

    Second, I didn’t want to sound whiny or share my sob story. I will tell you that we are a family of four living on a single income. It’s hard, but it’s not the worst. We get state assistance with food and insurance, but no monetary assistance. On to the boys:

    Christian (6): He’s my eldest. He likes being able to say he’s smart. Quirky little kid and has some sass (but still sensetive) to boot. I don’t know where he got that… Honest. Sometimes, he gets teased at school for being “weird”. I try to tell him not to worry and who ever is teasing him is just jealous. Like most kids these days he likes video games. When he grows up he said he wants to be an astronaut and a builder so he can make jobs in space.

    Christopher (4): Is my cuddler. He’s going to be a lover for sure. He likes to stick close to me and is quick to flash a smile. Constantly laughing or trying to make someone else laugh seems to be his goal in life. Hopefully, he won’t turn into the class clown when he gets older. He follows his big brothers habits closely and even stopped eating cheese (sigh) because of it. Naturally, he also enjoys video games. They don’t have Playstations or Xboxs, but they play Minecraft on the PC.
    That kinda sums up my two. I think. I’m sure I forgot some stuff but I know you’ll forgive me.

    http://amzn.com/w/MIM7VOICKTRA

  893. Kate #768 I just wanted you to know that I picked out that scent in particular because that is the scent my mother would use. The kids say it all the time that they miss that scent. ❤️ She had a heart attack and died suddenly last month on Nov 2nd
    I picked that book in particular because about 10 years ago one of my daughter lost all of her hair due to an autoimmune disease called Alopecia. That book is about a little girl just like her ❤️ From the bottom of my heart thank you so much. For your generosity.

  894. Ginger K #849 – sending something for your sweet boy.

    Jenny, thank you so much for doing this!!

    Merry Christmas, everyone!

    Carey

  895. Last October I suffered a stroke (I am 34) and since it has been a roller coaster with my health and financial situation. My wounds healed, my memory became clear again as did my speech (I knew what words I wanted to say but they weren’t coming out correctly or I couldn’t remember a word I wanted to use). My heart didn’t recover it was left enlarged and with a low infraction rate. I’ve had two surgeries this year one to get a pace maker, the second was to move it because it wasn’t properly placed the first time. I’ve been to the ER a number of times, twice because my lungs started filling with liquids it has been hectic. I currently live with my girlfriend of four years, her disabled mother, her brother who need a place to stay for a bit and her teenage son who doesn’t work at this time, along with my daughter when it is my weekend/school break. After my stroke I was left unable to work so all of the bills fell to my girlfriend to take care of. Due to our financial situation we aren’t able to buy any gifts this year.

    My daughter is eight years old and is a big tom boy, she rather be playing in the dirt or with spider man blocks than with a doll. She is like any kid and is hyper, chatty and energetic.She does normally live with her mom but I get her for certain weekends, school breaks and every other holiday. Her wishlist http://amzn.com/w/36W4NDYXDZ1A4

    My step son is seventeen, yes he is a little older but to me he is still a kid and he is working his hardest to better himself. He is like any teen who mainly hangs out in their room and only comes out for family game nights, to eat, ect but he is a good kid and is great with his niece and nephew. He is not in high school, he received his ged last year and is currently attending classes at the local community college to go to school to become and EMT. The classes have been difficult but he has been doing well with them and looks forward to helping people. His wishlist http://amzn.com/w/R8Y572EJKYA5

    This wishlists mainly have needs lilke PJ’s, socks, ect. Thank you for your consideration.

  896. I was hoping to be in a spot to help people instead of asking, but we were barely going to be able to do our own xmas and minimal at that.. and then I got a disconnect notice on our power bill that I was hoping would hold out until after and it was 800.00. So, there goes christmas unless there’s a miracle of some sort. I got them some clothes earlier in the year that are already wrapped so we have a few things. but toys and the stuff the teen child asked for are on this list. http://amzn.com/w/KPIJQNFJ2Z0Y we have already taken our load of old toys and clothes they dont fit in to the shelter to aid the people who are there, and if there’s anyone you know who could use some mens small clothes in decent condition for xmas please let me know as my oldest son has outgrown everything in the last 2 months and I’d love to brighten someones day with them… but thats all I can offer. sadly. I dont expect much but I figured it cant hurt to put it out there. I love this community so much and I love the acceptance and love that Jenny has cultivated with her readers. you are all a bunch of super stars. Merry chirstmas to each and every one of you.

  897. @Shannon #811
    From a fellow Shannon in NY…a game, puzzle, and book are on the way! Should be delivered by the 19th.

    Hope you and your son have a wonderful Christmas!

  898. Megan #743, you are a bona fide angel! Oh my gosh, I can’t begin to express how grateful we are–I’m still shaking and teary-eyed! I almost felt guilty asking for help after comparing our situation to the other awful stories shared on here but, oh, you’re gonna make three sweet boys so, so happy for Christmas! Bless you and have an incredibly merry Christmas! ~Angie, #721

  899. OK, I don’t want to do repeats and apparently lots of other people got Ginger K while I wasn’t updating the page, so I’m not sure what to do now. Ginger, would you let me know if you still have a need? Thanks!

  900. @Tavi #595 the Harry Potter box set is on its way to your daughter. Any little girl who loves Harry Potter is a sure friend of mine. Merry Christmas!

  901. I’m not sure if I am doing this correctly but I am going to try. I have 3 kids that have had a really rough year. Tanner 17,Isabella 15 and Savannah 1. During my unexpected pregnancy with savannah, I was in and out of the hospital. I had extreamly high blood pressure and Savannah was having heart problems. When she was born she spent 3 weeks in the hospital for her heart and was on heart medication for the first 4 monthes. Due to all the hospital trips and savannahs stay,my husband missed a lot of work and we were put back quite a bit financialy. We have been trying to catch up but just cant seem to. Expecially now with new expenses, (diapers,wipes,baby stuff,etc). Now we just found out that my husband will be laid off as of Dec 31. Their company is closing down. Any and all help is greatly appreciated. Thank you sooo much for your generous heart. Merry Christmas and God bless.
    http://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/ls/ref=aw_wl_lol_wl?ie=UTF8&lid=200H6F7RCHTPE
    http://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/ls/ref=aw_wl_lol_wl?ie=UTF8&lid=RSPTBNEETBEU
    http://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/ls/ref=aw_wl_lol_wl?ie=UTF8&lid=25NN5TF3IUZRN

    what I am really looking for are stockings and stocking stuffers.

    We are also trying to get financial help.
    http://www.gofundme.com/ibk3mk

  902. @Carrie that was a beautiful post, My daughter is getting to the point as well where she is asking if Santa is real or not and I think your answer is perfect.

  903. Such a wonderful outpouring of holiday love and support. This is what can make the internet great. I wanted to share my cousin’s story. She has three boys and the youngest has struggled with some serious medical issues since birth, that in addition to some other medical hardships this year has left them really struggling. She’s such a generous person with a positive spirit and always gives when she has anything to spare, I thought I would share this here maybe if a few people can spare a few dollars it will help them start 2015 without the weight of this debt hanging over their heads. Happy holidays to everyone and I hope that anyone who is struggling is able to find the magic of the season.

    http://www.gofundme.com/i4nstc

  905. Arie, if you’re willing to exchange e-mails with me, I’d love to know if there are particular things on your list that you’d most like to get. mommycarey at sbcglobal dot net

  906. Bee (#739) I’m sitting at the hospital while my wife has more tests done and I keep having to wipe tears from my eyes. I know the older kids understand that times are tough and sometimes we have to make hard choices, but I’m so excited to be able to have something special under the tree for them. My daughter will love the art set, she is so crafty (knitting, painting, drawing) and I know that she will be really excited. My son is, of course, into music (he’s at that age!) and will really enjoy the speaker. The baby will be thrilled to have something that is “ok” to pound and bang! Thank you, thank you, thank you!!!!

  907. Carrie 873, I was doing really well not crying, but your comment sent me over the edge! This is my first Christmas as a Bloggessian, and this experience has been wonderful. Courage to all of you facing difficult Christmases – hope the gifts make things a little brighter xx

  908. Shannon892,

    I cant even begin to express my gratitude. Being disabled my medical bills are so high that I’ve been skipping my appointments to make sure we have food and clothes and I don’t even know where else to cut from to make money for Christmas gifts. It was hard to post for help and the generosity of everyone on this site is really amazing. Thank you too to Jenny for putting this all together. Kindness is the greatest gift of all 🙂

    Thank you,
    Shannon 811

  909. cary h.I think there may be some confusion between me and the other ginger. holly was awesome and got my son a book. But the other ginger (with a son Grayson) has got alot of well deserved help.

  910. I randomly clicked on a couple links and purchased some pretties for some of you lovely people! For whom and what I purchased is going to be a complete surprise 🙂

  911. It’s been a rough couple of years. Last year I made all the gifts with bottles, duct tape, and cardboard. This year my account went overdrawn before I could buy anything so I’m trying to cut up old clothes to make something. I hate even putting this out there, it’s embarrassing but I have a pretty good little boy and he deserves at least 1 thing under the tree. This is the wishlist I’ve been keeping for him over the years. Some things are marked higher priority. Thank you in advance to anyone who donates.

    http://amzn.com/w/2GJ3TKZSIR46W

    I just opened an etsy store and I make printable planners and signs, so I’d like to return the favor by giving you a gift certificate to my etsy store if you let me know who you are. There are only a couple things up there right now but my friend and I are working on several new planners and party packs right now, so there is more to come.

    https://www.etsy.com/shop/RockinRealityDesign

  912. I dont think this posted when I tried earlier. Carey H I think you mean ginger (833)not me ginger k. This is the first time I’ve been on anything with so many gingers lol

  913. @gingers hi! my baby girl goes to daycare with an ADORABLE 2.5 yr old named greyson also b-day in march (are you guys in texas?). hes got the biggest eyes and is so damn sweet. your wishlist speaks to me but i dont see anything listed on it. either someone beat me to it or im doing something wrong? can you add a gift card or let me know if the list was covered? hang in there!

  914. Ginger K. – sent two items from Raiden’s list that should arrive Friday. Merry Christmas to your family from ours! Be well!

  915. Donated 4 Night Night Bags in your honor. Thanks for all you do! From one of your Strangelings.

  917. Stacey(#732)…. You’ll have packages arriving on the 19th and 22nd! Merry Christmas to you, and thank you for doing this for your friend and her kids. Merry Christmas to your friend…. Tell her to stay strongand enjoy her children’s faces on Christmas.

  918. @gingers (838ish) nevermind figured it out! just got your whole list girl. BIG hugs and kisses to greyson for me, and stay strong! much love and happy holidays!

  919. Josh Jordan #878 – Just sent a few books for your wife and item for your son. Enjoy the holidays and many positive thoughts for your good health!

  920. jonny is 7 Lily will be 5 next month. my husband and I both work, but that is a recent development. He was unemployed long enough last year that we ran out of unemployment money. We went a month with zero income before we both went back to work. Things seem to be okay now, on the outside. Because of that much last spring we are still two and a half months behind on rent and all our other bills get paid only when I receive a shut off notice. we have a great rent company who is working with us and we pay what we can when we can, and we will pay them everything we owe when we get our tax return in March, but knowing we are so far behind, I feel guilty buying presents for my kids. so here is the wish list they made with a few additions from mom.

    https://www.amazon.com/registry/wishlist/1YEL0CK88HB1A/ref=cm_sw_r_an_wl_o_UfCKub07Z2035

  921. Natausha @ 909 — a little something fun on the way. (Spot It! Alphabet) I couldn’t include a note but it should be there by Friday! Hang in there and happy holidays!

  922. My wish list has been fixed to include the shipping address. (Post #500). I just want to say, I have been reading all of these comments, and I am astounded at the generosity shown by complete strangers. You all, my friends, are amazing individuals.

    http://www.amazon.com/registry/wish list/3WGALGHYB9HN

    I fully realize that there are others who are in bad situations as well. Me and my daughter have been struggling this year, however. I am a single parent, her father is an actively using drug addict and is not a part of our lives. The biggest gift I could ever receive is having my baby with me, which is what I get. But due to legal fees brought on by the malicious false accusations of her dad, we have no money for a proper holiday this year. This girl is my everything, she saved me from a life of drugs when I discovered I was pregnant 5 years ago. And I would love to watch the look of sheer delight on her face if she woke up on Christmas morning to gifts under the tree. Merry Christmas, everyone. And I sincerely hope that next year I will be the one helping those in need.

  923. Carey H (903) I sent you and Email. Thank you so much. I know I didn’t put a lot of info about the kids in my msg, but Ihave a hard time even asking and so being articulate was not happening. I’m teary eyed.. I just cant think of anything to say other than thank you. I did put more info on the kids and who had asked for what in the email and update the wishlist with it. and… now I’m rambling. sheesh. anyway, thank you.

  924. Brittney C. (#891) I sent a package your way, it should arrive on the 24th. Happy holidays!

  926. My dad died last week. Between paying for his funeral and having to buy new tires to get to work, I’m pretty tapped out on the Christmas front. Any help is greatly appreciated.

  927. breannaT (919): I dont know if you’d want them, and someone might buy them new for you anyway, but I have a couple of broneys for kids ( 5 & 6) and I have some of the small plastic ponys that are in good shape and I’d be willing to send them to you if you want. Just let me know if you need them and I’ll ship them. ( sorry I dont have the fund to just get them new for you) . my email is wyldstatic at hotmail dot com.

  930. I think the comment numbers are changing. Queen elisheba is now #795. Still looking for your shipping address so I can send some gifts to your kids!

  931. Arie Milne I really could care less about new or used, a check from my grandmother made it possible to get a pony Castle from Santa Claus for Lily and ponies to go with it will be awesome I’m going to go draft an email to you right now.

  932. @teawithbuzz The comments have to wait to be approved so I think they are changing the numbers as they get approved. Mine was 891 then went to 894

  933. @Emily #924 Your daughter is getting rain boots and the Dr. Seuss books delivered Friday, but the yellow jacket (my favorite color) won’t arrive until after Jan. 15, according to Amazon. Merry Christmas from a fellow Oregonian. Also, hugs!!

  934. @ tom.. thanks. I just try to do what I can with what I have, since I’m in the unfun position of having to ask for help myself this year.. I am thrilled to be able to share what I DO have.

    Also, if anyone who sends something from my kids list ( the cook book is for me so you can ignore that) wants I am also a reiki master and I’d love to do a distance treatment for you as a thank you if you’re interested.

    I’m checking lists to see if theres anytihng on them that I HAVE already that is in good shape and that the kids might be willing to part with. I’ll comment when/if I find anything.

  935. yeah they’re changing #’s I was 891 and now I’m 895. Oh well. hoping that doesnt make thigns get buried but what will be will be.

  936. Dear Santa,

    I don’t really know how to start, so I guess I will just swallow my pride and share a bit of our story. My husband has worked as a CNA for the last 5 years, until last April when he was let go, the day before he was to go back to work from paternity leave for the birth of our son. After two months of no job offers, we were out of savings and had leave our one bedroom apartment to move almost four hours away, into my Nanas 9 by 9 spare bedroom. To pay for our room I do all the house cleaning, cooking, home repair projects, yard work, errands and anything else my Nana can think of.

    My husband finally got a job after hundreds of resumes and being out of work for six months; however it is at a bookstore and they only give him 15-23 hours a week at minimum wage. It hardly covers the necessities for our family, let alone thinking about extras for the holidays. He is looking for better, and we hope to get his student loans out of default, so he can go back to school this spring and get a degree that will support a family.

    I want so desperately to give my children a bit of, not only the Christmas comfort, joy, and excitement that every child should get to experience, but a sense of normalcy and stability, we have moved 4 times since Rosie was born, between two states and 3 cities, just trying to find a way to make it, we have always shared a bed, a bedroom, and a very small space, and I want them to have something that is special and theirs alone.

    So, if you are still reading, I thank you, and let me introduce you to my two amazing children:

    • Roswell-Elizabeth is one and a half, she will be two in March; she is a loud, silly, dramatic, creative, and active little girl. Rosie loves My Little Pony, Frozen, music, tumbling, and reading. She isn’t talking yet, but has no problem getting her point across, she is extremely smart, a picky eater, and a doting big sissy! She is obsessed with rocking horses, wrapping up baby dolls in blankets, and perching on anything she can fit her tush on!

    • Sherloch-James is six months old, he will be one in April; he is a sweet, mellow, happy, and lively little boy. Loch loves music, soft things, Frozen, and anything he can grab and chew on! Loch is super excited about food, is crawling, and trying to pull himself up to stand and climb on everything! He loves when his sissy plays with him, and he tries so hard to follow her around. He is teething pretty hard, and that seems to be one of the few things that can upset him, otherwise his disposition is so sunny!

    Here is their joint Christmas wish list <3 anything would be such a blessing and

    That got long, and if you made it this far, thank you for taking the time to read this and get to know my family, that means just as much as anything else! We are grateful for any help you can send our way, to give our children a Christmas they otherwise will not have.

    Love and light from my family to yours,

    Happy Holidays!

  938. Emily (post 500 and 921) – be on the lookout for Doc McStuffins game. Should be there Friday. Happy holidays!

  939. @gingers (838ish) last one promise! bought some stuff in three transactions and tried to update the shipping info on most of them. I made sure the toys would arrive by christmas but not positive about other items. hope it gets to you in time! also there’s still gift cards and diapers left if anyone else still wants to help! merry christmas

  941. BreannaT, I just placed an order for you. I don’t know exactly how the wish lists work, but since I can’t see the items on your list anymore now, I hope that’s how Amazon makes sure people don’t get the same thing twice? Anyway I hope both items arrive in time for christmas. 🙂

  942. Thank you for your blog, pinterest, facebook, your books. The laughter has been priceless on bleak days. I created a wishlist for my daughter, age 8 and my son, age 9. I haven’t been able to purchase gifts yet and don’t know where they would come from. https://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/ref=cm_reg_rd-upd?ie=UTF8&id=38KT4HCGSLA6H&type=wishlist
    As with many people on this list, medical bills have just gotten our family so far behind we can’t seem to catch up. Our daughter had complicated congenital heart defects similar to hypoplastic left heart syndrome, but with the right ventricle and transversed. The great news is, she’s finished all her surgeries and we only forsee having to replace pacemaker batteries as of now. She’s a strong (and strong-willed), beautiful child, outgoing, friendly and giving. Her brother was just one when she was born and has been a constant friend to her, especially during the times we were unable to be around other people for fear of her catching a bug so close to a surgery date.
    Beyond their wishes for toys, what I could really use is clothing or shoes. If any of your readers have children near that age and are cleaning out the outgrown clothing that would be wonderful.

  944. @Jana – 775, a few princess play doh sets coming your way on Monday 12.22! I loved play doh as a kid!!

  946. yay Jenny, James Garfield, and all the Bloggessians! I just donated 2 Project Night Night Bags.

    Reading through all these comments is both inspiring and sobering. So much goodness; so much need.

  947. This is quickly becoming my annual holiday-feel-good-by-doing-good-when-the-world-is-a-sucky-place-for-so-many. Donated for me AND again a gift for my big-hearted and world-weary boss who I adore.

  948. Ginger #838, I would like to set up a monthly diaper delivery for Grayson. I would need your address for that, so if you feel comfortable you can email me saskiacrowell at gmail. Either way I sent you a little something from Amazon and I wish you and Grayson a Merry Christmas!

  949. I don’t know if it will change my name on all of them but I figured I should add my last initial to my name here. My request comment is #894 name – Tom

  952. To “DB” in Oregon — Currently #645 above [Anonymous | December 16, 2014 at 9:35 pm] whose daughter has been “obsessed with how things work since birth” and “loves to do science experiments, take electronics apart and make crazy inventions”.

    Thank you so much for posting your daughter’s list! It’s totally okay if you don’t fully understand the geek stuff as long as you are there to support and encourage her. The most important thing at this age is for her believe in herself, to know that there is nothing she “can’t” do, and understand that anyone who tries to convince her that “girls can’t do that” is just jealous and insecure (and that boys who are scared by her brain are totally not worth her time!). It is not an easy road for women in STEM fields right now, but we are all doing our best to make sure that such struggles become a thing long past for the next generation.

    I’m very happy to say that the “Make: Electronics (Learning by Discovery)” book and a couple of other sciency items are on their way! It looks like they are coming in two separate packages, but both with Guaranteed delivery: Dec. 19, 2014

    MERRY CHRISTMAS!

  954. JANA #775….the National Geographic Kid’s Atlas is on it’s way <3
    TAMMY #794….a few little gifts for your little ones are on their way <3

  955. To Amie in NM [currently #506 — December 16, 2014 at 3:47 pm]

    The chemistry set is on it’s way for 7yo Selwyn! Unfortunately it is being shipped from “Brookstone” and not from Amazon, so I couldn’t use my Amazon Prime two-day shipping. Estimated delivery: Dec. 24, 2014 – Dec. 31, 2014

    If it arrives late, just tell her it fell of Santa’s sleigh and it took awhile for the elves to find it and get it to her. 🙂

    It also wouldn’t let me include a gift note since it wasn’t coming from Amazon. So just do everything you can to keep encouraging her curiosity, and teach her that “anything boys can do, she can do — better!” 🙂

    Merry Christmas

  956. Jennifer Cole #803…Your address doesn’t show up when I try to send you something. Is there a way to fix that? I would also like to send Amazon gift cards for your teenagers, but I don’t know how to do that if gift cards are not on the Wish List…? Any way you can help me help you? 🙂

  957. Corrine at 943: your link lists to MY wishlist (which I haven’t posted for anyone). I suspect it links to everyone’s own wishlists and not to yours.

    I was a little perplexed at first thinking “oh wow, this person has browsed through all the same things I have!” and then I noticed it was mine.

  959. Suzy # 723, list purchased, but not everything will arrive before Christmas. I’m so sorry!
    Kim

  960. I created a list for my son’s best friend Jaime Smith. His mom is a single mom, who has not been able to work for the last 2 years because she has been caring for Jaime’s uncle who fell off a ladder and is now paralyzed. Times are very hard for them, and I help them as much as I can, but I’m a single mom with an autistic son, so I can only do so much. Anything would help. Thank you!!! http://www.amazon.com/registry/giftlist/250FG1KJ75UFJ

  961. ShowYourHope (#573/574)

    I just got an update that your Amazon gift card & transformers figure will arrive tomorrow! 🙂
    The Frozen microphone still says between the 23rd & 26th.

    Merry Christmas!
    Kelcut (original comment #629)

  962. @ 399 spontanologist – Thank you so much!!! I think that sounds like a good plan, it will be exciting for a few more packages to arrive that fell off the sleigh
    @ 389 wonderishmama – Thank you!!!! Actually Haley is my sister. We live in an apartment and I’m having the presents shipped to her house for safe keeping (and hiding!), but he does have a cool mama! 🙂

    To all of the other Secret Santas who are helping make this Christmas special for my boys, thank you so much!!!!!!! I cannot even put into words what the kindness and generosity shown by total strangers means to me……

    I look forward to the day that my boys are older and I can tell them about the year that there really were “Santas” from all over that helped to make sure that this Christmas was great! I love that they’ll know that there are still good people out there in this world and that miracles do happen!

    Merry Christmas, y’all! Hopefully next year I’ll be able to play Secret Santa to someone in need.

  964. I don’t have a wish list to share, while we have six children and things have been tight we’ve been blessed and were fortunate enough to be able to get them each a little something from their letters to Santa this year. If anyone is in a giving spirit, I would appreciate some good thoughts sent my way, however. I’m really struggling with my mental health right now and my depression and anxiety are the worst they’ve been in at least a decade. The only thing I am wishing for is the strength to cope and make it through another day. Thank you so much.

  966. For Kathy in ME [currently #616 — December 16, 2014 at 8:19 pm]

    The “Elenco Snap Circuits SC-300 Physics Kit” is on its way to your co-worker’s 8yo daughter! Guaranteed delivery: Dec. 19, 2014

  967. Amomymous #952 – I am sending a boatload of good thoughts and positive energy your way! You are never alone, and together we will all make it through. ((HUGS))

  968. To Josh Jordan #878, your post touched my heart…keep an eye on your mailbox! Merry Christmas and all the best to you and your family.

  969. Jessica Dunn – have never once commented or done anything other than read (and laugh) here. But I love this process, and your list is shipped!

  970. Lea Parrott — LEGO Star Wars 75030 Millennium Falcon will be shipped and delivered ~ Dec. 23 – Dec. 29. Merry Christmas from snowy Edmonton. xoxoxoxo

  971. Wow, amazing thing y’all are doing. It’s been a crappy end to the last couple of months for my family. Its just me and my nine year old. Riley is an amazing kid, he helps me so much when my old achy body can’t move. I actually had to tell him Christmas wouldn’t be happening here this year. So I’ll throw his under $20wishlist out there. Thank you in advance for even thinking of us.

    http://www.amazon.com/registry/wishlist/2V8P3MU16G0GI

  972. Dear Lea – A small gift for your son’s best friend and a wish for a Merry Christmas to you and your son from snowy Edmonton.
    LEGO Star Wars 75030 Millennium Falcon
    Estimated delivery: Dec. 23, 2014 – Dec. 29, 2014

  973. Amomymous.. I am sending as many good vibes your way as I can. I think many of us can relate. just remember, depression lies, and things DO get better, and you ARE strong enough.

  974. Lea Parrott #949 — so sweet of you to set up a list for your friend’s son. I’ve sent a Lego, but it looks like it won’t be stocked until the 25th, I’m sorry it will be a bit late in arriving. My son loved legos, too, so I’m happy to pass that love along. Wishing you and your family a very merry Christmas!

  975. Robyn #947, please add a shipping address to your wish list so we can help! (See Jenny’s instructions in Update #3, I think.)

  977. One last big thank you to all of the kind people here that have helped purchase off of my daughter’s list. http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/wishlist/1VUKFKGH9KE8Y/ref=cm_wl_rlist_go_o?
    It is perfect timing as my blood pressure has gotten high enough to warrant time in the hospital. I am so thankful that she will have some things to occupy her and keep her busy as family members watch her, and as we adjust to life with a preemie. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.

  978. Lea #948, the coat won’t ship til January but I sent it anyway. The couple of other things I picked out should ship immediately. Happy Holidays!!

  979. Thank you to the Santa who sent something to my daughter and step son! With all of my medical problems I’ve been really depressed this year and knowing they weren’t getting any gifts was really bumming me out even more so than I was before. This not only will help them but it also helps myself and my girlfirend. Thank you! Request post #894

  980. Josh (Anonymous), it doesn’t look like your shipping is set up so it isn’t possible to check out. Sorry 🙁 I posted above, my name is Bekka and I run a nonprofit working with orphaned Tanzanian kids – but I wanted to chip in as well with the little bit I can. Will try another list for now and check back later 🙂

  981. @flocwald comment 340 My son loves minecraft and the minecraft books are on their way and should be there by Saturday. Merry Christmas.

  982. due to someone requesting it I have updated with priority and kids ages and made sure the shipping info was updated. Thank you thank you.

  983. Hello BLOGGESS and readers ! My youngest (13 year old) daughter who told me not to worry ..this year her and her sister were to old for Christmas ! I know she only told me that because I had to have surgery in the fall and now nothing is healing right and I still haven’t been able to return to work. I got thru September, October and most of November with my savings but I never thought I’ be out of work this long ! Christmas will be rough now but I really hate to hear them say this ! In my eyes just because you aren’t little anymore…You are still never to old for Christmas. Thank you for reading and Merry Christmas ! Just to be able to stuff a stocking for them would be more than they are expecting ! Thank you and Merry Christmas ! http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/giftlist/ACQRQQV6CIC3/ref=cm_gl_huc_view !

  984. I am just completely overwhelmed by the response that I’ve gotten here. I have been a blubbering mess all day, and it’s all because of you all!! I can’t even begin to say thank you to everyone for what you’ve done for my family! Thank you all so much! <3 <3 <3

  986. Robyn #948….can you please put in a shipping address so I can send your son some cars?
    🙂

  987. Anonymous, I’m so sorry you are struggling with depression and anxiety. Your strength amazes me, though. I know you cannot feel it, but the strength it takes to reach out and ask for love, when depression is lying and telling you none will be found, you have that strength. You have that courage. And you have the warm wishes of this internet stranger, who is thinking of you and holding you very much in my heart. I hope that you and your family have a wonderful Christmas and that the shadow of depression and anxiety lifts off of you very soon.

  988. Thank you, Jenny, for reminding us that sometimes humans don’t suck. In fact, they’re pretty awesome. This was one of the best things I’ve seen all day.

  989. @ShowYourHope – comforter and sheets on their way for your daughter, from two girls in my house who also love “Frozen.”

  990. My kids are already covered this year but it’s my fiance’s children I’m thinking about. I had several unforeseen expenses this year I was not prepared to pay for and he stepped in and stepped up and helped out. I know money has been tighter for him this fall/winter as his hours at work have dried up considerably and now I find out, 8 days before Christmas, he can scarcely afford presents for his 2 kids. Cue me feeling like a giant heel/worst step-mama-to-be knowing how much he helped me out this year and if he hadn’t, that would be money for his kids.

    I realize these aren’t the cheapest gifts in the world, but they are the things I know the kids have asked for when we have been out window-shopping. I don’t expect that the wishes should be fulfilled but I felt bad not putting wishes for them out into the ether. I wish I were in a position to help financially, but I’m stuck myself until after tax time.
    https://www.amazon.com/registry/wishlist/14MJS1SF73M7H/ref=cm_sw_r_ip_wl_o_XEDKub08Q9XNP

  991. Since the comment #s changed I went back to find the right #s and I saw two comments more that I had missed earlier. (Blessing in disguise!)

    Secret Santa #788 – Thank you for the ASL gifts. <3 We need more interpreters. Good luck in your studies.
    J #816 – Thank you for thinking of us!! I have made some arrangements in case we miss any packages so that issue has been resolved. 🙂
    Marcelledanielle #869 – Thank you so much for sending the gifts, have a wonderful Holiday!!

    Love you all for being so awesome
    Janis (formerly #748 – now #757)

  992. Kristi (958), I remember what it’s like to have a little one and be on bedrest expecting a preemie. Just sent you the sticker book for your daughter. It should arrive on Friday. Sending you lots of warm thoughts that your body will cooperate, and your baby can stay put and keep growing.

    Jenny and everyone on here, thank you for giving me my “Yes, Virginia” moment for the year.

  993. Jenna (#937), just sent off the beanie for Brandon.
    I’m so glad he’ll be taken care of this Christmas.
    Happy Holidays to Brandon and you and yours.

  994. My coworker informed me she put my name on here. I am overwhelmed with the generosity of strangers. My daughter is going to have a wonderful Christmas this year and I cannot wait to see her bright eyes and big smile on Christmas morning when she sees what Santa has left.

  996. @Margaret 840 a transformer and some puzzles are on the way to your friend and should be there by December 19.

  997. An amazing friend just told me about the magic that’s going on here. I hope I’m not too late to get some help for my 5 awesome kids. This year has been tough. I lost my job and haven’t been able to find one that I can physically do or that will pay me enough to afford daycare fore oungest 2. I’d love to be able to give each kid something special for Christmas. We don’t even have a tree yet because the funds just aren’t there. I made a list with somethings that they would like and a couple things we really need. Thank you in advance of you can help. Forgive me for any typos, my phone is crap .

    ! http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/wishlist/ref=nav_wish_list

  998. I just added diapers and wipes to my wish list. I realized that I will run out this weekend and will not be able to buy any next week. My littles are the best sweetest littles. As parents we always want to give them more than we had. I at this point just want them to have full bellies and to smile on Christmas morning. To anyone that helps, I thank you from the bottom of my heart!! May your holiday be amazing and filled with memories. http://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/ls/ref=aw_he_ls

  999. Kristi, Josh and Jenna, you each have something small coming for you. I work for a small NGO and make no money, so I wish I could do more – next year, if all goes well. xx

  1000. @ Jessica Dun #951: The wish list you posted does not have any public items in it for viewing. So either everything was already purchased or the items aren’t public.

    -Rachel

  1001. SisterCarrion.
    Have ordered a book & dvd for the kids, delivery estimate is 22-24th of december, hope they turn up on time!

  1002. Anonymous, it will get better. Sending you lots of love, hugs and calming thoughts!

  1003. jennifer cole #803ish & beckie #870ish, your shipping addresses don’t show up. Jenny has put up a tutorial at the top of the post on how to add your shipping addresses

  1004. @Stacey – 3 things from your list for your friends children are on their way. Bless you for thinking of her, and sharing her with us.

  1005. Tom in Phoenix (#894) I am in Tempe and have some things that you may have for your family (Ipod Touch, older iPhone and lots of pet stuff) Can you get in touch with me and I will meet you somewhere for a Santa delivery? jenw930 at gmail

    Jennifer Cole #803 can you check to see if your address is in Amazon? I am not finding it to ship to…

  1006. I just want to say a GIANT thank you to all of you that have purchased from my wishlist!
    http://amzn.com/w/2W6GX5F3WGD7R
    I told my husband about this and showed him all that has been purchased for our kids. He had tears in his eyes and couldn’t speak. We both feel so very blessed and I can’t thank you enough for all that you have done. You have provided a better Christmas for us than I could’ve ever imagined. You guys are AMAZING!!
    XOXO Melinda #291

  1007. Kate953 – thank you so much. My son is going to be thrilled to have things to open on Christmas morning. I have been so stressed trying to figure out how I can get things for him from Santa and you all have the kindest hearts for helping.
    ❤️❤️❤️Thank you

    Shannon811

  1008. Robyn #947ish….you need to add your shipping address to your wishlist….Jenny has a tutorial at the top of the blog on how to. It’s a few steps!

  1009. Tom (#894), I have sent some things to you for your daughter, and a new jacket for your son. It sounds like you are raising a good man, and I wish him all the best in becoming an EMT. Merry Christmas to you and your family.

  1012. Erin #846, I gave what I can spare to your fund, I hope he recovers soon. Also thank you to the person who donated to the orphanage kids I work with, from the orphanage from which my children (5 and 6) were adopted. The wishlist is at http://amzn.com/w/26MZL086Y5IO3, our page is http://www.thesmallthings.org. We care for 36 (soon to be 42) children residentially from newborns to 9 years in Tanzania, East Africa. All have lost their mothers, most at birth, and most are statistically delayed in at least some of their developmental areas. Tactile toys make a HUGE difference in their success. We also have health items like thermometers, vitamins and aspirators on the list – every bit helps. I love reading these stories as they come out – a poster above was right, Santa is real. <3

  1013. Brenda #996, your link is not working – you need to click on “share this list” and then copy the link from there, not your navigation bar. Jenny, I just realized if Santa is real then that makes you an official elf. I think we should add this to your many (well deserved) commendations and titles.

  1014. To Lisa who was my first sale ever from my etsy shop, thank you so much. I’ve always known the bloggess was magic and this has been a great experience so far.

  1015. Just want to throw this out for anyone who could use it. If anyone needs help with resumes, cover letters or applications, please email me. I am not technically in HR but I coordinate a lot of the hiring in my department. I work in municipal government and know most of the tricks to get you past the screening. I can’t work magic if you don’t have the required skills, but I can help you express the skills and experience you have in terms that hiring people look for. And everybody has skills that apply to the workplace. If you run a household, you have skills.
    Email southernfriedpugs at gmail dot com.

  1016. To Whomever bought the winter coat for Jaime, thank you so much! I called his mom to tell her and she just started crying! Jenny, you are so amazing, and have created such an amazing network of wonderful people. I’m crying! Thank you so much for helping my friend’s son have a Christmas!

  1017. Margaret 801 there’s a package on the way for Ruby, Bekka 794 there’s stuff en route for the orphanage and Ginger 799 there’s a package for Grayson. This post made my heart grow 3 sizes bigger and I feel like Santa Claus. Hope everyone has a great Christmas.

  1018. I just want to say THANK YOU to all of those helping!!! You all are amazing. I am a single mom and I am currently working on my MBA. I haven’t been able to find stable employment in my town despite having a bachelors and another masters degree. I’ve raised my 3 kids by myself while going to school and struggling to stay ahead of the bills. I hope I can show my kids a great Christmas this year. This is their list: https://www.amazon.com/registry/wishlist/2YJ4JBKIF8XAW/ref=cm_sw_r_ip_wl_o_JpEKub0DBSC6S

    Thank you so much ❤️

  1019. Trying to help out the Taylor Harkness wishlist but no shipping address is coming up and I can’t find the original post. HELP! I’d hate to miss out on gifting someone with Outlander!

    (Still hasn’t updated shipping. I sent a $40 gift card though. Outlander is always a good sign. ~ Jenny)

  1021. Hi, Janis (now # 757)!
    The art supplies I had in my cart seem to have already been purchased by other folks, so I happily picked some other items. : ) The “Let’s Learn to Sign!” chart, the wall decals and the therapy putty are all winging their way to your boys.
    Be well, and a very Merry Christmas to you, and Austin & Micah, and your whole family!!
    ~J. (now # 816)

  1022. Hello there. I saw a post on another site about this incredible offer and so I wanted to see if anyone would be willing to help out my little family. I’m Julie, I am 36 years old, am married to a wonderful man and we have two beautiful children. An 11 year old and a 2 month old. My 11 year old is the light of my life, she is so sweet and so smart! She is on the honor roll at school and is a fantastic big sister. My newest little one is our little surprise baby. She was completely unexpected but is such a blessing to our lives! Our family has never been well off, but the last few years we have really struggled. My hubby lost his longtime job a couple of years back and since then has been shuffled from job to job through the temp agency he is working through. He put out applications every single week but had very little luck. When he finally did get into a place, it ended up only being a temp position over and over and over. This caused us to constantly live hand to mouth and we fell behind on all of our bills. I have been looking for any kind of work as well but am having no luck either. I bake and sell cookies around the holiday time to try to supplement what I can but that doesn’t help much. At the moment my husband is working at what seems to be a decent place and they have told him they want to hire him in so hopefully very soon our situation will get better. In the meantime though, we are still struggling badly. We could really use a hand to just get over this last little downswing . All of our bills are at least 1-2 months behind and we owe over a grand in back rent. Thankfully our landlord is willing to not kick us out while we try to catch up, but it is a trade off because he doesn’t fix anything in our apartment so it is falling apart. The ceiling is collapsing in my 11 year olds room and there is water damage leaks everywhere. Our bathroom walls are crumbling, it is pretty awful. We are trying to move out after the first of the year but are having trouble finding a place that we can afford and we need to catch up on current rent before we can save up for a new place. We have been on the list for housing assistance for almost 2 years and are still waiting for our turn. We do get help in the form of food stamps and medical insurance and that is a true blessing. We have a few gifts for the girls for Christmas this year thanks to some kind people who helped get them a few things, but there are a few things that they really need that we could use some help with. I made an amazon wishlist with some things that would really help us out if anyone was willing to lend a hand. Most of the items are baby stuff that we could really use and some household items, Toilet Paper, Diapers etc… The wishlist is here:
    http://amzn.com/w/MOVY70VHHPK8
    I am still looking through and adding things to it, just trying to find the cheapest options there are. Any help at all would be so appreciated. I would be more than willing to provide any kind of proof of our financial situation if anyone would be kind enough to help. Photos, copies of bills etc I do have a PayPal that I set up a while back for my cookies. It is mrsdowey@yahoo.com Any help in any form would be so truly appreciated. I hate having to ask for help but I am so tired of worrying constantly about how we will live week to week. Thanks so much for reading and for considering helping us out. Everyone who has helped out another person on this thread is a true angel! I hope you all have a magical Christmas! 🎁 🎄 🎅

  1023. Jen S. Sorry I am a bit slow I am sending you an email.

    Thank you JW he is a wonderful young man, he was a trouble maker when I first meet my girlfriend but he just needed a soft push in the right direction and now he is doing quite well.

  1025. @Taliacat (854) my daughter will be so thrilled to hear that there are other little gymnasts out there who want to help her succeed! I’m so grateful for your generosity!

  1027. Brenda, #996, purchased a couple of things for you! Hope you have an amazing Christmas!

  1028. Project Night Night donation – and warm fuzzy holiday feelings. Thanks for reminding me of all the good people out there.

  1029. I don’t have children or need gifts but my life has almost completely fallen apart over the past year and I could use help.

    A medical problem left me with permanent damage and a 13k ER bill. My insurance should cover most of it, but I’ll have about 3k to pay.
    Then my 18 year old little brother died in a car accident, my ticket to fly home was 1.1k.
    The day after I got home from California where I was helping my parents and attending the memorial service, my new used car broke. I owe 6k on it and had to drive it 300 miles last weekend (five hour drive in the Midwest winter) to bring it to the Smart dealership because local mechanics had no idea how top fix it). They are telling me it’ll cost about 1.2k to fix and I have to drive back this weekend to get it.

    I’m in debt already and might lose my job because I’m having a hard time leaving my baggage at the door and actually getting my work done.
    I start therapy this week, which should help, but financially I’m screwed.

  1030. Hi, I am newly single mom to a wonderful 14 year old girl. I left her father after years of abuse and I’m still struggling to get on my feet. I work 2 jobs and barely manage the necessities.(Of course the ex doesn’t pay his child support) She is a typical girl and loves all things pink…she also loves painting and drawing. Thanks for taking the time to look at her list. http://amzn.com/w/862DIA9ZO4UL

  1031. Hi everyone, this is such a great idea. My family has been struggling because I’m in nursing school. I’m the usual breadwinner, but being in school I can’t work, I also need the only car we have to drive the 4 hours a day to get to and from school, the gas is killing us. Anyway, the one thing I would really like to get for my children, they are 12 and 14, is a backpack for school. On my list I picked the ones they would most like, thank you so much, if anyone is able to help with this. This is my list, I think I’m doing it right… https://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/ref=cm_reg_rd-upd?ie=UTF8&id=T30MOW6V3ZXS&type=wishlist

  1033. I’m just in absolute awe of the outpouring of love and generosity here in this space. My list only has a few items left. I read through all the comments since mine (I was #669!) to make sure I responded if anyone sent me a message. The majority of my items have been sent anonymously. So it’s true, this is even bigger than what is happening in this comment thread! I was definitely having a hard time with the Christmas Spirit this year, but you have all restored my faith in the general goodness of humanity. I can’t say “thank you” enough.

  1034. Brenda, #996, you should receive a few items on Friday and another on Monday. Merry Christmas.

  1036. Ok I can no longer connect the names to the posts but here’s what’s coming, using real first names:

    Disney planes to Virginia in NC
    Busy box to Kristi in OH
    Nerf gun and my little ponies to Breanna in ID
    Curious George book to Emily in OR
    disney cars chair and Melissa and Doug chair to Katherine in MI

    Merry Christmas from Rose in CA

  1037. Brenda, #996 you should receive a few items on Friday and another on Monday. Merry Christmas

  1038. For Susan, #941, I have sent a little something for both your daughter and your son. The package should be there on Friday. I wish you and your strong and loving family a happy and healthy 2015.

  1039. To Julie Diers and Dee
    Thank you for thinking of my friend! Ruby and Ryker will be so excited! And I already spilled the beans to Tricia so I think we may have already made her Christmas.
    Merry Christmas to you all!
    Margaret (840)

  1040. Tom (#894) Santa should be coming by on December 24, fingers crossed! A little something for everyone, including the tarantula!
    There’s something more for your girlfriend, but it’s out of stock, so i’m ordering it separately so it doesn’t delay Christmas.
    Extra gravy from the Church of the Bloggessarianism!

  1041. Tricia Adams #1029, you have to allow shipping to your address. You don’t have to make it public, just click ‘allow shipping to this address’

  1042. To: Neefer (comment #954)

    Thank you so much. I don’t know how to express how grateful I am for you and everyone else that is helping to make my family and many other families have a Merry Christmas. This site has given me hope and so much joy knowing that my girls are going to be so surprised come Christmas morning. All of you are creating miracles. Now if I could just stop crying! Thank you, thank you, thank you.

    Amie (#506)

  1043. To Suzy Smith (#723) Give my love to your brother and his wife. I, too, was a custodial stepmother. My stepson passed away this September from Cystic Fibrosis. For the last few years, I got him GameStop cards for Christmas because he was hard to shop for and always liked them. When I saw that on the wishlist for your brother’s boys, I just had to do it. 2 of them are on the way.

  1044. Dear Jenny,

    I have sat in my chair all morning, crying, reading posts and buying presents for people I have never met. Thank you so very much for providing me the opportunity to do something that was in my heart, but for which I had no outlet, as I have some anxiety outside of my house. There are so many people in need, and I feel wonderful being to be able to do this.

    And thank you, Carrie, (#873?) for sharing your story. You hit the nail on the head. I keep scrolling back up to reread your post, and cry, and I feel like SANTA.

    May you all have a wonderful Christmas, and a bright and happy New year.

  1045. @J. Thank you!!

    I just wanted to say I don’t have much but you all have inspired me so today I picked up some things (groceries) to help a two local families celebrate Christmas. Everyone should have the opportunity to decorate some cookies! Paying it forward in honor of our Christmas Angels!! 🙂

    And the reason for all the Seattle Seahawks gear is in support of DC#40 the NFL’s deaf player. (in case you were confused by that & our mailing address.) 😉

    Janis #757

  1046. “When we give cheerfully and accept gratefully, everyone is blessed.” ~Maya Angelou
    (just saw this quote on Facebook and it seemed so appropriate I had to share)

  1048. To Jennifer Jaegers [#638 — December 16, 2014 at 9:23 pm]

    The “Stargazer Telescope” will be making its way to your boys soon. It appears to be currently out of stock, though expected to become available December 20th. I used my Amazon Prime on it, and t says Estimated delivery: Dec. 24, 2014

    Merry Christmas

  1049. Thanks to the person who donated anonymously. Every little bit helps. I posted from my phone earlier so here is a little bit more about me. As a domestic voilence advocate who works in a womans shelter. I help woman leave domestic violence situations every day and never thought i would end up in one. One day at work i was talking to one of our survivors and relized she was describing my home life. I felt so hypocritical telling her she was better then that then going home to my life. After almost 7 year of marriage I just cant stay any more. I realized he is one of the main triggers of my panic attacks. Since making the choice to leave i feel so much more free. Im hoping to relocate by February 1st. Saving money has been hard as he quit his job and all of the bills have fallen to me. If any one else want to help here is the link thank you all so very very much http://www.gofundme.com/fjqfcs

  1050. Thank you to everyone who took the time to read my request, and a Huge thank you to those who sent my daughter and my step son something to open on Christmas morning. You have made this guy weep tears of happiness. You are all amazing, everyone here willing to lend a helping hand to someone else during their time of need deserves a huge hug and a big pat on the back, you are all amazing and what makes Christmas truley magical.

  1051. @Rachel B I updated the wish list. He basically doesn’t have anything other than a jacket I was able to find at Dollar General. He had one change of clothes.

  1052. Tom in Phoenix (#894): i want to get your girlfriend the elf eyeshadow palette but i want to make sure it’s the correct address is attached. The only address available is “MysticRacer” – is that you? if not, can you please put your address on this item so Santa can send it to you?

  1053. Time is short on this one, but I thought it was worth a shot given the amazing acts of generosity I’ve seen here! This request is for an acquaintance (other than dealing with the recent deaths of my father and my brother-in-law’s mother we are set for Christmas.) Melissa is a lovely lady I know through friends and she is SO CLOSE to realizing her dream of publishing her novel. Please consider even a small backing pledge to this Kickstarter, which closes in about half an hour, and help make her dream come true!
    https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/melissabrownauthor/becoming-death-a-ya-novel?ref=hero_thanks

  1054. Ginger S. Small package for Grayson headed your way! Melinda Lindell also a small package headed your way! Merry Christmas!!

  1056. http://www.amazon.com/registry/wishlist/2ZTFVX0LRVYPR

    Bless each and everyone of you who have helped Grayson have the best Christmas I could imagine!!! You are all angels and it goes to show that there is true love and compassion in the world. Thank you Jenny for putting all these amazing people in touch with each other for this Christmas blessing! You are amazing!

    There are a few food items up if anyone still wants to help. Mostly snack items for little man.

    Thank you all again!
    Ginger S. (#833/799)

  1059. @Robyn #957, thank you for updating your address :-). Some cars are on their way to your son! Merry Christmas <3

  1060. Hi… I have a 5 yr old daughter and a 7 yr old son. I have never gotten Christmas help before. I lost my job 3 weeks ago, and I have been going crazy trying to find places that will help us. This is totally awesome of u! I don’t know how we will ever be able to thank u.Merry Christmas and God bless

  1061. Jessica Dunn – I ordered some things off your list, but the estimated delivery date was Dec. 23-29. I’m crossing my fingers that the package will get there by Christmas!

  1064. Hello, to Sassafras/Kristen (#84 & #482)
    I was so happy to find some things left on your list: the mandala coloring book and the cat’s cradle book are on their way! (I spent hours playing cat’s cradle when I was little, and so had to send that along to the 3rd grader who wanted it! : ) I included a message telling her that, and wishing her a Merry Christmas, hope that was okay.)
    Be well, and a very Merry Christmas to you and to all your kiddos!
    ~J.

  1065. Angela (comment #1430), the Titan backpack would not arrive until the end of January. Is this OK with you or are you maybe open to another option?

  1067. I’ve been sitting here all day, just watching the magic happen. I originally posted for my children (#510) ( http://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/ls/ref=aw_wl_lol_wl?ie=UTF8&lid=3L1K7U557A1CM ) but shared the crap outta this on Facebook because I wanted to see other people get the Christmas they never thought they’d have. With all the nastiness and selfishness that we all witness and sometimes partake in, it’s so beautiful to see people coming together to help people they’ve never met, and probably never will. We’re all broken but we can help fix each other 🙂 I’ve seen an amazing response to this on my Facebook page and am so happy that even though I couldn’t help monetarily, I could help spread the word so that others could.

  1068. Jessica Dunn (962) I sent a little something extra for your guy along with a shirt from his list. I am glad he is safe with you and wish him all the best. Jen

  1069. Has Jennifer Cole #803 added an address to her Wish List yet? Please do!

    (This is the most amazing community of folks that I have ever had the pleasure of being associated with. Thank you to those that are giving and thank you to those that have found the courage to ask for help.)

  1071. I would like to leave a story about my husband, and ask for any help any of you would be willing to give. he is a very hard working man that works hard everyday to provide for myself and our 2 kids. he loves to hunt in the little free time he has to relax and to provide food for our family to ease the cost of food. I lost my job earlier this year and he had to take on my share of the bills I usually pay, so he has been working twice as hard just to keep the bills paid and to provide the kids with a Christmas this year but he knows I cannot give him anything and he has no complaints about that but I feel horrible that I have failed him and our children this year. but also I’m so thankfull for a loving and hard working husband that is doing the best he can. I would love to surprise him with a great Christmas this year so I have made a list. he would be happy with anything if you wanted to get something not on the list he wears 34″ waist pants and a size large shirt thank you all in advance and have a very merry Christmas
    http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/wishlist/1NMEYGAIN7IGD/ref=cm_wl_rlist_go_o

  1073. I’m posting my daughter’s wish list here. She asked me not to peek at it so I’m guessing she’s wanting to play Santa and there are a few things on it for me. Hopefully, it’s obvious what’s for her and you’ll lean that way. We’ve had a hard year or so but we know it will get better. I am overwhelmed at the outpouring of caring here. Thank you!
    http://amzn.com/w/D8QAH6B6BEQH

    (I’m getting an error message. Maybe try it again? ~ Jenny)

  1074. anonymous 1040
    how do I allow for shipping to my address? I can’t seem to figure it out. 🙁

  1075. Tosha Stillwell – I wanted to send something but your address isn’t in there. Can you update it? See the graphics Jenny made in the post for instructions.

  1077. Tricia, see Jenny’s Update x3 on the original post–that will show you how to activate your address.

  1078. @Kristen(#943)
    @Kate (#953)
    And whoever bought my awesome daughter awesome things for Christmas, thank you so much! I’ve been sniffling at my desk all day!!! Thank you and Merry Holidays to everyone!

  1080. Could I enter my son for this? We are having a rough couple of years. We have a few things to give Taylor, but he could use some stocking stuffers. Here is his wish list. http://amzn.com/w/1XB0IJPMJA5N9 Thank you so much for even considering him.

  1081. Rose (1035) thank you so much. I can’t wait for all the broken decorations that nerf gun will cause. no really, i would rather see him happy than my decor in tact. And oh the pony tea parties to look forward to. I work retail and I was starting to get really fed up with Christmas and all the grumpy selfish people, I think my next day at work it won’t matter anymore, because the good people have got to outnumber the bad.

  1082. Anonymous 1040 I believe I have fixed the shipping issue. Sorry I’ve never done this before. Two toddlers can make ones brain into mush some days. hahaha

  1083. Amanda, #621 – sent a couple of things arrival 12/23-29th Hope it gets there in time! Merry Christmas!

  1084. I would like to get a few more things for my 11 year old son. He loves to do crafts and taught himself how to crochet this year. His current project is embroidery….he is doing a quilt top! Any help is greatly appreciated. His name is Taylor. http://amzn.com/w/1XB0IJPMJA5N9

  1085. I heard about this from a friend. I would like to enter my little sister, Ashley. She is 11 years old. My father works, but it’s barely enough to cover the regular bills let alone spend money on nice, fancy presents. I am just trying to help her out this year by getting a couple really neat items. I created a wish list for her on Amazon of a few things she would like/need. She is a typical little girl who enjoys dressing up, riding her bike (although her current bike is small and rsuting)reading, baking, animals, etc. She is big into soccer and it would be great to get her a little net to play with in the front yard. She is the nicest girl. Always looking to help others and is active in girl scouts. I appreciate anyone who can even purchase one small item off of her list. Thank you so much!!

    Link: http://amzn.com/w/M00RZYFL8EEO

  1086. Angela (#1030) – I ordered the backpacks. The first should arrive in time for Christmas, but the second had a delivery date of Jan. 14-20. That was the only shipping option. Please let the kids know the backpacks will get there…just a bit late.

  1087. http://amzn.com/w/2CJN01J7M0Y9T

    Hello. I am a single mother of two. My sons father is in jail and my daughters father has nothing to do with her. It breaks my heart everytime my kids ask for their dads. Kendra has never met her dad and my son can only see his dad on sundays when his grandma takes him to WI to visit him. I had to use my christmas money on tags and insurance at the end of November. I thought for sure I would have made enough money at work before Christmas but with bills piling up and only making 200 a week and that is usually gone before I can earn it, I won’t have anything. If anyone can help me out, my kids have been so good this year and they deserve more than what I can offer them. I don’t want my kids thinking they did something wrong because I can’t afford to give them a nice Christmas. Any help you can give me would be amazing and I would hold you in my heart forever. Stocking stuffers would be great right now. anything would be great really. thank you so much!

  1092. Amy #714, some books are on their way from Santa. Should be there on the 24th. Merry Christmas

  1093. guys i hate to be THAT girl but were reaching a point where the delivery dates might not make christmas (without some secret santas having to spend extra), can you please stipulate if late deliveries are ok? and/or opt for giftcards where possible (not sure if that would solve the problem) just making suggestions to help as many as possible. also if your stipulating ages of your kids too that’s a big help as i tend to hope older kids can be more forgiving of late deliveries. REALLY want to spread tribal magic as far as possible!
    dont forget to close your lists once your needs are met 🙂
    JAMES GARFIELD FOR SAINTHOOD
    love and happy holidays
    -the nobel guardian of parrot bellies

  1097. Allieger… just figured out how to update my address. Really hope I’m not too late, and thank u so much.

  1098. Jennifer Cole (#803) please update your wish list with your address! Also, please please please add something for your older daughters too, even if it’s just gift cards. They deserve something too for being so generous to their little sister.

  1099. Augie: I know, personally, a late delivery would be acceptable. To me I would rather have my sister get something late than no gifts at all, and i’m sure many other moms/dads/grandmas, etc. would feel the same way. Thank you for considering some of our families for gifts!

    (Link: http://amzn.com/w/M00RZYFL8EEO)

  1101. I don’t often post things of this nature, but I heard about this blog through a friend and thought it could help my friend who is in need this Christmas. I have a close long time friend who is experiencing financial hardship at this time. It’s not often we see the affects of true financial burden played out in front of us or affecting those so close to us…and it’s easy to be turn a blind eye when the person in need is a faceless and nameless person out their in cyberspace, but she’s not, she’s a very real person who I have to watch struggle to put food on her table, feed and cloth her child, keep her car running to get to and from work. I have known this lovely lady Jessica for many years- she’s a true friend and hard-working. She somehow manages to hold down a full-time job, that often includes a lot of travel, and raise her wonderful 3 year old son all by herself. She is parent, caregiver and provider all in one and she is breaking. She has put on a brave face these last few years but slowly she is cracking under the strain….like so many hard-working families, she earns just a little too much to qualify for any real financial assistance but not enough to pay rent, bills, childcare and put food on the table for herself and her son. I’ve seen all too many times status updates about her “kitkat dinner, or her oreo lunch”. It’s a sad affair when anyone who works a full time job is near the poverty line but this is where so many people find themselves. She’s proud, she won’t give up her job- it’s her livelihood and she’s working to set an example for her son. It’s truly people like my friend who are most deserving of our charity when they fall on hard times such as these. I personally donated to Jessica and bought some Christmas toys for her son, but sadly my meager efforts aren’t enough to keep her afloat over the holidays, so I ask any of you- I know we are at Christmas time and we all have personal and family expenses- but- if you can, please give just a little to my friend and help her put some hearty and healthy food on the table for the holidays. Every penny makes a difference to this lady. Thanks Rebekah http://www.gofundme.com/Helpblob

  1102. i had signed up on scary mommy toys r us cards but did not get chosen. I have three children and my daughter really wants a toy guitar (she’s 7) my son wants a Kneks set (he’s 6) and my baby would love a paper bag!! Maybe a train?! (He’s 2). I have no idea what to do about christmas. It’s a week away and we have very little. We had to pay to replace our furnace this year and it ate away our entire savings account for Christmas and even our December bill money. This was not an expected expense so I couldn’t sign up for holiday help. I am praying someone sees this and can help. We have a toys r us, target, Walmart, and meijer near us and I would really like to get something for the kids. Anything will do. They still beleive in Santa and I don’t know how to tell them he didn’t come. Email me and I can chat or call jennygirlmarie@yahoo.com.

  1103. BRITTNEY C #891ish…a movie and some glow in the dark stars (my favorite!) on their way <3

  1104. Love it! My in-laws have helped us out this year to provide a nice Christmas for my children, but we were gifted some toys at a holiday party that we don’t need, so we’re giving them to Toys for Tots to share the love. Happy Holidays to you all! PS-Pete the Cat is AMAZING and if you’re looking for another great book list, check out http://www.trelease-on-reading.com/biblios.html. Give a copy of his book to all new parents to encourage reading!

  1107. Kelly #1053 Thanks so much!! I can’t wait to see their expressions on Christmas.

  1108. Tosha (1059, 1069, 1084) Thanks for adding your address! A few goodies are on their way to Jamie and Alyssa. Wishing you a very Merry Christmas!

  1109. amesjeannie #512, a tiny package on it’s way by either Saturday or Monday. Prime said delivered by Saturday but I don’t know if you have Saturday delivery in your area.

  1110. Tosha stillwell – I just sent a couple of things your way. One should get there Friday and one on Monday. I had a duplicate gift /cart battle ; D with someone else so I think Jamie and Alyssa will have a Merry Christmas. Good luck with the job hunt.

  1112. Ok so I’m a mom of 7 And it’s the 17th and haven’t been able to purchase anything at all yet for Christmas 🙁 Hubby works his but of to provide but were just making bills meet at this point.. So sick to my stomach I don’t wanna see sad faces on Christmas morning. I don’t know how this works but I think it’s a blessing that there are people out there willing to help <3 I feel like a fool asking for it but I don't know what else to do :'( Someone help 🙏

  1113. Jennifer #1087 Target gift card emailed to ya! Go shopping for your little ones! Merry christmas!

  1114. Jessica Dunn, a couple games and an art easel should arrive by 12/20. Merry Xmas!

  1115. Ok, my first post was very vague, and I apologize. I have a 7 year old son named Jamie, and a 5 year old daughter named Alyssa. Every year I have been able to provide their Christmas. Well, for the first time in 8 years, I am unemployed. For the last 3 weeks I have been buried in government websites trying to find some help with everyday life. A friend told me about Christmas help, but I was too late. So, while I was looking online again today, I found this absolutely amazing site that offers help for Christmas! I am so happy that their are so many people helping. This is truly amazing. My kids and I haven’t put the tree up yet this year, but we are tonight. I was not in the Christmas spirit at all, and that’s not fair to my babies. I truly want to thank all of u from the very bottom of my heart.
    Jamie and alyssas Wish List 
    Link:http://www.amazon.com/registry/wishlist/2U0CGCSPBHKRO

    my address has been added finally. Lol

  1116. @Jennifer – I went to go buy the guitar and Knets but you didnt’ include a shipping address. Please follow the directions and include – would love to help!

  1117. Kristi (521)- just sent off 4 more items off your list. Should arrive Monday. Best of luck in the hospital and Happy Holidays!

  1118. Jennifer Cole #803 – trying to buy your gifts but I think you might need to add a shipping address. Please let us know when you have it added – We want to help!

  1120. Jennifer in 1091 – Please add your address to the Amazon wish list! It’s private and that way stuff can be sent directly

  1122. $25 to Project Night Night, a flock of ducks to one lucky person via Heifer.org and a couple of things off some commented wish lists. ‘Tis the season!

  1123. @allieger (920) Oh my goodness! THANK YOU SO MUCH!! You are too kind! He is going to be so excited to play that! 😀 Thank you, Thank you, Thank you!

    And thank you Jenny! Thank you for making this possible. All of the generosity going around this tribe has me in tears. I am bookmarking this post so that when I’m in a position to pay it forward I can easily find all of you wonderful people! <3

  1124. I do have a charitable cause for those of you wanting to give, and it concerns education and children so I will just leave it here. Our little local parent run nursery school where my son has attended and my daughters hope to attend is very likely to get its meager funding cut by the local school board in the coming year, and although the parents work their butts off with two huge fundraisers a year, it will be a big stretch to try and run the school without those funds. The school keeps tuition very low so it is easier for kids to go-we live in a pretty economically challenged area for California. They did raise dues last year just a little to try and help, but it’s only a drop in the bucket for what is needed. My son attended this school and it is amazing, and what you learn as a parent and volunteer is also incredible and makes you a better member of the community. Anything you can give would be awesome, trust me it will be used directly to help keep the lights on and keep the school open. There was one other parent nursery school in the area that closed just a few years ago due to loss of funding, so this is a real possibility. You can send money directly to the school’s address or contact their facebook page for more info on what they need/how to give. I know there is always a list of supplies floating around.

    They have done so much for our family-when my son was hospitalized for pneumonia last year they sent him a book full of pictures the kids drew for him and pitched in for gas money since we were driving back and forth to Oakland, and when my daughters were born they brought me meals for weeks! Really a wonderful place. It would be so awesome to be able to give back some of that karma they have stored up!

    Facebook:
    https://www.facebook.com/pages/Summerville-Parent-Nursery-School/355102742337

    School Mailing address:
    Summerville Parent Nursery School
    Arastraville School, 20150 North Tuolumne Road
    Tuolumne, CA 95379
    209-928-4288
    209-928-1422 Fax

  1125. Robyn #957 – TheFire and Rescue Trackset is on its way.
    Lea #959 – The Star Wars Rebel Figure is on its way.
    Julie #1021 – The baby wipes are headed your way.
    Susan H. #941 – A few items are coming your way.

    Looks like everything should make it by Christmas. May God bless you all! Merry Christmas.

  1126. Natasha S. 935 – I hope your lo enjoys her new perch!
    Natausha 910 – Some Octonauts, clay, and a work board headed your way 🙂

  1127. I have to admit that I am literally getting ZERO work done at my job today — because I just keep refreshing this page, reading and re-reading all the entries, looking for more budding geek girls in need of some science-y gifts to help encourage and motivate them!

    Jenny, is there going to be some possible way for us to be able to get follow-up stories and Christmas morning pictures?!

  1128. This is a request for someone else. I know one boy who would really love to play NASCAR Racing 2003 Season (PC game) with his dad. Mom and Dad got a messy divorce this year and it would be nice for them to get to spend some time together even though they’re apart now. We’ve been looking all over but the game has become somewhat rare and expensive now. If anyone has a copy they no longer use and would be willing to part with it please let me know. I put it on my son’s amazon wishlist but it’s not for him it’s for another child.

    This is the game:
    http://www.amazon.com/NASCAR-Racing-2003-Season-PC/dp/B000077WA5/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1418857136

    If you have it and could part with it send me an email Luckylittlemommy AT gmail.com

  1129. I have never posted a comment before, but I just wanted to share how thrilled I am to be participating to help so many wonderful people. I currently am a teacher working in the arctic region of Canada, and because of the isolation I haven’t been able to do my usual donating to toy drives, but this has definitely made me feel like I can help make a holiday special for someone. I have donated items off a few lists and I am always looking for more.

    I thought that perhaps I might be able to add a request on here as well. It’s not for, but for my students. Because we live in a very isolated region of the world (We are in the 24 hours of darkness in the winter part of the world) they don’t get a lot of interaction with the world outside of their hometown. If there are any people who might be willing to send a letter, a post card or a card to my students they would get a major thrill out of hearing about all the different parts of the world. My email address is Signyphi@yahoo.com if you would send me the note I could send you the mailing address of our school. If you have kids of your own, or are involved with a school we can even write a note back with a couple of pictures of what it’s like living in an Inuit Community in the arctic circle.

    Anyways, I understand if people are busy this time of year but even if we get a few pieces of mail I know they will be thrilled.

    Thank you for reading

  1131. I just want to say THANK YOU to all of those helping!!! You all are amazing. I am a single mom and I am currently working on my MBA. I haven’t been able to find stable employment in my town despite having a bachelors and another masters degree. I’ve raised my 3 kids by myself while going to school and struggling to stay ahead of the bills. I hope I can show my kids a great Christmas this year. This is their list: https://www.amazon.com/registry/wishlist/2YJ4JBKIF8XAW/ref=cm_sw_r_ip_wl_o_JpEKub0DBSC6S

  1132. (900) how do I tell if I did my post right? I’m not really familiar with blogging. And how do I know is someone responds to it?
    I do love reading about all the families and all the wonderful people out there. My heart and prayers goes out to you all.

  1133. @ christie and flocwald (and another – I’m sorry I lost track of your posted name) – a couple things are on their way – hopefully in time. Merry Christmas!

  1134. @ Jennifer 1091 – might want to check the address – rhe only option it gave was to send the items to myself.

  1135. @jennifer i can see your post. i was wondering the same thing actually. my post says awaiting moderation.

  1136. I am a mother of three fantastic kids who have unfortunately had a rough childhood, My ex-husband was abusive and controlling over our lives. It took a lot of work, courage and strength to get out from under him and start a new life of our own, along the way we’ve had our bad spots and our great spots but sadly at this point in time were in one of those between a rock and a hard place spots. Earlier this year I was let go from my job because they were cutting out my department so they let go a dozen people who weren’t able to be placed in other departments of the building. I have since been working part time at a small grocery store but I am not making nearly enough to cover bills let alone buy any Christmas gifts. The last few years have been alright we know that Christmas is more about spending time together than gifts and they did get at least two gifts each the last few years but this year I can’t budget in anything and it is horrible to think about and makes me want to cry and scream that things can’t be easier. I don’t want my kids to suffer because I can’t find a better job at the moment.

    My daughters name is Melissa and she is fourteen, she loves to read, draw, take pictures, play video games and she loves makeup. My sons name is Parker and he is sixteen he is your typical boy who likes sports, video games and spending time with his friends. My kids have been so much happier since we started new together without worrying about our safety I don’t want to see them sad because Christmas was a bust. I plan to pay it forward once I can find a better job or when my hours at my current job pick up.

    Melissas wishlist is: http://amzn.com/w/RWM9WPDLRO17

    Parkers wishlist is: http://amzn.com/w/1BXXP5BM92I65

    Thank you for all the help everyone here is doing for those who need a little holiday cheer.

  1137. Amy #714 I hope Alexandra enjoys her sewing machine. I’m a quilter, and I make historical costumes so I was pleased to be able to get that for her. Happy Holidays to your and your family.

  1139. I’m just reading thru all the comments. You people make my heart happy. I’ve given what I can.

    Now, though, I’m asking for good thoughts for myself. And if anyone is interested in sending along a card, I would appreciate it. This will be my 3rd Christmas alone. Well, me and my cats. There was a falling out with my family a few years ago and I spend holidays with my fur babies. Knowing someone out there is sending love might make things a little less lonely.

    Email me for my address if you want to send a card. seamusandmaggie@yahoo.com

    Thank you and blessings to you all.

  1140. each of my kids had at least 1 item from my list purchased for them other than my 6 yr old. I am so grateful. people are amazing, http://amzn.com/w/KPIJQNFJ2Z0Y. Thank you so so much. I have been working with the power company trying to figure out a plan to keep the power on today and this has helped take some of my stress away.
    I was able to send out some My little Pony items to one of the people here and that made my day too. 🙂 I also have some really nice mens xl clothing and mens small clothing if anyone needs anything like that for xmas for their families I would love to send off some things. we live in the desert so none if it is really WINTER clothing, but if you have need for it let me know.
    I would love to pay forward some of the kindness shown to our family in what ways I can. my email address is wyldstatic at hotmail dot com

  1141. @Jennifer – The guitar, K’nex and a deluxe Plah-Doh set are on their way! Happy to be in a position to help and pay forward all that’s been done for me. Have a very Merry Christmas!

  1142. @billyej That is awesome of you to buy a sewing machine for that little girl, she will love using it.

  1143. I am having a really hard time updating my list address. My settings do not look like your post!!! I a so sorry I am trying my best thank you to those willing to help my famiky. If you want my address please email me jennygirlmarie@yahoo.com (1091)

    (Your amazon list is working now. Just sent you something on it. ~ Jenny)

  1144. Susan H (941), I just ordered a couple items for your kids. From one heart mama to another, I wish you a very Merry Christmas. 🙂 I asked my 9-year-old daughter to help me choose a family and when I got to your request, she said, “Pick that one!” She had open-heart surgery when she was 3, so she wanted to help your family.

  1145. Santa Jim (from my post #855) says thank you, Christine, for the book and movies. He was so surprised when I told him I had posted a list for him! He is always on the giving end and I guess most people take that for granted. He is very grateful to have something to give his little princess on Christmas morning! 🙂

  1146. http://amzn.com/w/3I8U8MWPAZI0E

    My last try to see if the link works and that I have fixed the shipping issue. Can some one just check for me that it works? Thank you and Merry Christmas.

    (It works. Just sent you a toy from your list. ~ Jenny)

  1147. Baille Comment #970 some of the items on Tiffany’s wish list are on their way. I wish you and your daughter peace and love and all good things for the holidays.

  1148. I love this blog and author, and I love this tribe of people. I have been sitting here reading the comments and my heart is full. To those of you going through hard times, these times will pass. You will come out the other side. Persevere. Endure. Your light is coming. To those helping, you buoy my faith in humanity. If more people acted so selflessly the world would be a brighter place. I have hope and faith that one day the light you shine will be so bright that the darkness will be a memory. Peace and blessings to you all, and to you, Jenny, most of all, for enabling this to be started. You make the world better, Jenny, by your presence and actions.

  1149. OMG!!! I can not begin to explain the way I am feeling right now. Jamie and Alyssa are sure going to have a merry Christmas. THANK u. Just looked and they only have 8 items left on their list! Truly greatful

  1150. I don’t know if my comment posted, so…

    I love this blog and author, and I love this tribe of people. I have been sitting here reading the comments and my heart is full. To those of you going through hard times, these times will pass. You will come out the other side. Persevere. Endure. Your light is coming. To those helping, you buoy my faith in humanity. If more people acted so selflessly the world would be a brighter place. I have hope and faith that one day the light you shine will be so bright that the darkness will be a memory. Peace and blessings to you all, and to you, Jenny, most of all, for enabling this to be started. You make the world better, Jenny, by your presence and actions.

  1151. @Tricia Adams – It’s working and one green recycling truck is on it’s way! Merry Christmas!

  1154. I have been reading (and irritating my hubby with) this blog for years. Christmas is my most favorite time of year, but this year has been off. My 8 month old nephew is about to have brain surgery and I am terrified for his family and feeling rather grinch-y. I have spent the last two days reading all of the comments and having my faith in the holiday spirit restored.

    Perspective, now I have it.

    Janis & Tosha have two small gifts heading their way. I wish it was more but we sent what we could. Hope this gesture restores your faith too.

  1155. Hi. Check out this list: https://www.amazon.com/registry/wishlist/WOO79QJ3UVX3/ref=cm_sw_r_ip_wl_o_ytHKub0622TQG
    Can anyone help with the last two things on my wish list? They are for my 19 year old daughter Ashley. She goes to UT San Antonio full time and works at the local mall Cinnabon part time. We have struggled so much the past 2 months trying to get back on our feet. She has been saving for a car she used her savings to pay the electricity bill and to buy groceries for her, 3 siblings, and I. She has a wonderful giving heart and she sure does deserve a great Christmas. Any bit will help. Thank you so much in advance. Merry Christmas. God bless you all

  1156. DinaB, I hope you get good news from the tests today. I got another email from Amazon this afternoon saying that the little bench will be there by the 23rd, so yea for it getting there in time! Also, I just sent the scarves and beanie from your list and they should be there by the 19th and 23rd. I would’ve sent the books for your littlest one but they are out of stock.
    Merry merry, from a fellow Tennessean!

  1157. I cannot begin to express how much I appreciate each and every one of you who have been able to help out. You all are truly angels! The more I talk to him and the more he opens up, I have been finding out more of his interests. It has to be traumatic to be placed in an unfamiliar home the week before Christmas. God Bless every single one of you!
    http://amzn.com/w/2PCGHLOB546VF

  1159. @Tricia, # 1112, yes, it works, and there’s a puzzle on its way to you… should arrive Saturday!

  1160. Julie Valentine Dowey, a couple of things for the baby and the Justice gift card for your older daughter coming your way.

    Merry Christmas from Rose in CA

  1161. OMG I dont know who ordered the one big gift for the 6 yr old.. I was NOT expecting that. Thank you thank you whoever you are. He has been talking of nothing else for months SO insanely generous of you and I cant thank you enough.

  1162. Alice 1119 oh my goodness!!! Thank you oh so much!!! Merry Christmas to you and your family!!! Xoxox

  1163. I posted earlier about my situation (#1029). I added a couple more smaller art things. I am not a very artsy person so no idea what would be good for a 14 year old. If anyone has any suggestions please feel free to look around. I am perfectly happy if items come a bit after Christmas since we were not consistent with holidays when I was still with her father. Thank you so much for everything. http://amzn.com/w/862DIA9ZO4UL

  1164. I’m in tears. I don’t even know how to thank you that have given of your hearts for my babies. Kim, The Bloggesian, and Anonymous, you will forever be in my hearts, and I greatly look forward to paying forward your kindesses as soon as I can. Thank you! Thank you! Thank you!
    And for everyone else who have reached out their hearts to others here, I look forward to paying forward your kindesses as well. You are all beautiful And truly amazing people!
    Jenny, I hope you realize how far your love, kindness, and gorgeous spirit reaches. It’s because of your blog and efforts that so many of our children are being blessed this holiday in ways that would have never been possible without this little community of crazy we call home. It’s also your fault that so many of us, including myself, are clutching our hands to our hearts and crying tears of sincere gratitude and relief that our babies will have a Christmas we weren’t ever able to give them before you and your community. Thank you for all you do.

  1165. Tricia Adams (#1112), it works! Two little gifts on the way, should be there by Dec. 20. Merry merry to you and yours!

  1166. This is really fucking amazing. You need to change your blog from “Bloggess” to “Goddess.” Just sayin’

  1169. Ok this is Jennifer (see above)

    We are really struggling this tat and the kids are the ones suffering. We have three kiddos ages 7 (Josalyn girl) 6 (jonas boy) 2 (jack boy).

    My kids have been really good this year. I finally fixed this if anyone wants to try again.

    Jonathan’s Wish List
    Link: http://amzn.com/w/2Z8OBCGVGJC4V

  1170. Elizabeth #1118 – I don’t know if it will make it to you by Christmas, but there is a package on the way to your family. I included two copies of a board book my kids loved so that you can enjoy one with your kids and pass the second along to another family. Best wishes for a happy holiday season and a better 2015, from my family to yours.

  1173. i just donated a niggt night bag! I’m telling my mom this is (part of) her gift this year- I know she will be pleased.

  1174. Carrie (#873), I just wanted to tell you I love your post!

    Jori (#883), I really hope things get better for you and soon!

  1175. Michele (1029) – some art supplies are headed your way (one item won’t arrive until Dec 24th). Merry Christmas!

  1176. Hello, a friend passed on your link. I hope it is okay to post here though I don’t have kids. It is my hope that I can just manage to pay my electric bill this month, I can’t even really think about Christmas. There are things I need that I just can’t buy right now. It isn’t really a wish list as much as a need list. I have food and other allergies that prevent me from getting these things from other places such as food banks. If you could help out in any way, that would be amazing. If you can’t, then no harm done!

    http://amzn.com/w/12HCU7WZNHN8V

  1177. To whom ever purchased diapers from my list, thank you so so much!!! You have no idea what that alone means to me!!! Wishing you a very Merry Christmas music to my Secret Santa!!!

  1178. Update: One pair of shoes has been purchased and I immensely appreciate that. I still need help with a book, a kitchen tool and a pair of boots. If anyone wants to donate a gift card towards any of those items, I would greatly appreciate it. If you can’t, please send good karma my way! I don’t know what I’m going to do if I only have one of the kids presents, but I know the Bloggess Army will help in any way you can! Thanks again, I appreciate anything you’re able to do!

    I don’t have any kids myself, but I committed to buy for some kids down on their luck. The only problem is that since I made that promise, I got into financial trouble. I don’t want to disappoint these kids but I have no money, my credit cards are all maxed and have exhausted all my sources in trying to borrow/beg money from my friends and family. What makes it even sadder, is that two only asked for a pair of shoes. The third asked for a book and the fourth (an aspiring chef) has asked for a knife. The twins that asked for shoes are 11, a boy and a girl. The budding chef is almost 17 and she is one of the best cooks I have ever met! The fourth is a boy of 14 and he is hoping to get this book for Christmas. I know you are inundated with requests, so if you can help with any or all of these, I’d be eternally grateful! This is for a sweet family in my neighborhood. The parents have abandoned the kids and they live with a grandmother. This was going to be the third year without any birthday or Christmas presents. Thank you for any and all help you are able to provide.

    http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/wishlist/?ie=UTF8&cid=A7QNVS1PEK28V

  1179. Yet another reason to love The Bloggess. I was laid off most of last year and have only been able to find part time work this year so we’re looking at another Christmas with no celebrating. Unfortunately, my kids are used to it and say that they don’t mind (although I think it’s just so I won’t feel any worse than I do already). We’re already struggling and I just can’t squeeze a single extra dime from anywhere. If someone can help it’d be a lovely surprise for kids who aren’t expecting to get anything.

    Brandon (16): http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/wishlist/3C8KA21KLX2MA/ref=cm_wl_search_bin_1_1

    Matthias(14):
    http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/wishlist/?ie=UTF8&cid=A3UVXAIFU6AISG

  1181. Michele (#1029, 1123), Beginner’s art kit on the way, should be there by Dec. 20. Merry merry to you and your daughter!

  1182. Queen elisheba #796…. Three items from your wish list are headed your way. One will be there the 19th, but the other two have a delivery date of the 23rd-26th. Merry Christmas!

  1183. @jenkouw #936 – you asked if this is only for human children… so I’m wondering if you are talking about furbabies? I’d say go ahead and post, Jenny didn’t set any requirements.

  1184. To NatashaS #935 : Wishing a very, very Merry Christmas to you and your little sweeties from me and mine. <3 (I hope everything arrives by Christmas!)

  1185. am i posting right? none of my posts are showing up…? figures i can’t even figure out how to comment on a blog. lol

  1186. What a wonderful Christmas miracle you guys are creating here!
    Link to a pic of my babies: http://imgur.com/Cxxo7jO

    I’m Laura… I’m a cancer survivor, and disabled. I spend most of my time in bed, on oxygen at this point ( WAY less attractive than TFIOS )
    Jammie Mom on O2: http://imgur.com/NQpkb7H

    I have 3 awesome kids, one of whom has a rare disorder that categorizes him as ‘special needs’. My husband works his tail off to take care of all his babies, but with my income at Nil we scrape by after paying for all the medical stuff. In the last couple months our son’s health has tanked, I have had 3 surgeries, and am having a shunt placed on New Years Eve. Christmas will be small, but we will have each other and a few little thing and honestly if that is all we have I’m happy because I’m alive.

    If, however you wanted to send some light and Christmas joy our way, you would be permanently placed on my “Love You Forever” list…
    Link To Victorias WL: http://amzn.com/w/15E6R7Q8VLHLF
    Link to Gabe’s WL: http://amzn.com/w/3J564YW0NR1Z0
    Link to Jack’s WL: http://amzn.com/w/38M2G8DQ32V5U
    Link to my husbands ( just mostly clothes): http://amzn.com/w/2N8HPX9294279

    Mistletoe kisses and Hugs for you all!

  1187. I would love it if I could get some assistance. My children adore those Funko Pop figures and coloring books, unfortunately mom doesn’t have a debit or credit card for online purchases Thanks and god bless.

    http://amzn.com/w/LUK4VVRVN0R

  1188. Could someone let me know if my link is working? I finally found out how to update the address. FYI: if your using mobile you have to switch to the full site to update your address!

    http://amzn.com/w/2Z8OBCGVGJC4V

    (It’s working. Just sent you something from your list. ~ Jenny)

  1189. I want to say thank you to those who have gotten items off of my daughter Niki’s list. The support and love that y’all have shown is overwhelming. If they don’t arrive exactly on Christmas it will be fine as she had already accepted that there wasn’t going to be anything for Christmas this year. I’ll repost her list link as there are still a few items on it but the generosity has already been more than enough. Next Christmas, I will be in a better place and my daughter and I can sit down and go through the postings and bless others the way we have been blessed this year. Thank you so much! http://amzn.com/w/U8CQQ0RC7T7

    PS- added a metal detector after she was convinced the woods around our house could contain Confederate relics (not likely where we are but no harm in letting her have an adventure!)

  1191. I see my post was just approved, Request comment #1134 Thank you to anyone who considers my two kids!

  1192. Tara #1152 if I am the Janis you refer to and the bowling set is the “little something” you referred to…you will make one 2yo VERY HAPPY. 🙂 Thanks!!

  1193. You’re my hero! Even if I’m too late to jump in here…you’re still my hero for helping everyone else. I’ve been worried sick about Christmas…and you gave me hope 🙂

    I have two girls ages 10 and 6, and a baby boy that’s 18 months. The two main things on this wish list are what my girls say they want most in the world…a Sophia dress and a Moxi?* Moxxi? girl doll. (*Too many dolls not enough memory lol) They looove Monster High, Ever After High…all those types of ladies. My little man loves Mickey and Toy Story 🙂
    I don’t really know what I’m doing so I hope this works 🙂
    http://amzn.com/w/V2Z7H8VG92NZ

    Jensunderland68@gmail.com

  1195. oh! my posts were approved. 1085 if anyone can help me out. i would really appreciate anything. my kids are both great. stephen is 7 and kendra will be 5 tomorrow. he’s very into minecraft and he loves to downhill ski. his aunt bought him a season pass for the ski hill and his uncle bought him skiis last year. he’s a natural and just recently he started worrying about his hair and wants it spiked at all times. he’s just getting over the flu, poor guy. my daughter kendra is a handful. where stephen is calm, she is the complete opposite. always testing her limits. always climbing on the walls and jumping from piece of furniture to piece of furniture. she’s a great kid and she’s an absolute angel in school. haha. she’s also very funny and she makes up songs and sings them in high falsetto voices and she changes her voice throughout the songs. she dances and loves to talk. (of course except when her classmate is in public not at school and the other little girl happens to be with her very attractive father she won’t go over there so i can have an excuse to talk to him. haha!) well, any help would be welcome. thank you so much!

  1196. Jana 775 – the Carl Sagan Star book should be there by Dec. 24th. Have a lovely holiday.
    Barb

  1197. My heart really just stopped for a moment ! Oh my..You guys on here are amazing ! I was praying just to get the girls stockings and stuff to go in them. They aren’t even expecting to get that ! And now they are ! And each will be getting a scarf and a hat ! To say thank you does not even begin to cover what you guys have done ! I will be so tickled to see their faces on Christmas. It really did break my heart to hear them tell me they were to old for Christmas. But now I can say there is a few secret Santas out there who disagree ! Thank you, Bless you and Merry Christmas JulieE from post #982

  1198. @Jennifer #(1186)—your link does work and I’ve sent a few things for your kids (the underpants may not arrive by Christmas but the other stuff will).

    Happy Holidays!!!

  1199. Joyful, tickled, elated, jubilant, overjoyed…these are some synonyms for glad off of my son’s spelling list and I imagine the way they will feel Christmas morning. I am feeling grateful and amazed by the generosity and love shown by strangers to another. Thank you JW, Kate #1090, Robin #1123, Jen #1142 for these gifts. Jen, tell your daughter thank you from Hadley and Hayden.

  1201. I can’t give this year, but I wanted to stop in and say you guys are heroes. And Jenny, you’re the weirdest one, but I’m so happy you guys are on earth to help these kids’ dreams come true. I’m thankful that I had just enough this year for a little something under the tree, but so many people are just a setback away from being without gifts for their kids on Christmas. Don’t forget that when you see your neighbor at the grocery store. They may be struggling with finances or depression, or fighting with their spouse on the inside. You never know when your kindness might make someone’s day/holiday/year. 💛

  1202. @LauraAnn (#1184) sending a couple of little Mom and Dad presents your way (not sure if the Tongs will arrive by Christmas)…..you and your kids are gorgeous and I’m sending you best wishes for a Happy Holiday and even more for your health to improve!!

  1203. Laura Ann Swanson – something from each of your kiddos’ lists is on its way to you. Should arrive before Christmas. Meery Christmas from my family to yours! Hope 2015 is happy and healthy for all of you. You are in my prayers.

  1204. I think mine was buried, is it alright to repost?

    I am a mother of three fantastic kids who have unfortunately had a rough childhood, My ex-husband was abusive and controlling over our lives. It took a lot of work, courage and strength to get out from under him and start a new life of our own, along the way we’ve had our bad spots and our great spots but sadly at this point in time were in one of those between a rock and a hard place spots. Earlier this year I was let go from my job because they were cutting out my department so they let go a dozen people who weren’t able to be placed in other departments of the building. I have since been working part time at a small grocery store but I am not making nearly enough to cover bills let alone buy any Christmas gifts. The last few years have been alright we know that Christmas is more about spending time together than gifts and they did get at least two gifts each the last few years but this year I can’t budget in anything and it is horrible to think about and makes me want to cry and scream that things can’t be easier. I don’t want my kids to suffer because I can’t find a better job at the moment.

    My daughters name is Melissa and she is fourteen, she loves to read, draw, take pictures, play video games and she loves makeup. My sons name is Parker and he is sixteen he is your typical boy who likes sports, video games and spending time with his friends. My kids have been so much happier since we started new together without worrying about our safety I don’t want to see them sad because Christmas was a bust. I plan to pay it forward once I can find a better job or when my hours at my current job pick up. Both of my children are well behaved and keep the house picked up.

    Melissas wishlist is: http://amzn.com/w/RWM9WPDLRO17

    Parkers wishlist is: http://amzn.com/w/1BXXP5BM92I65

    Thank you for all the help everyone here is doing for those who need a little holiday cheer.

  1205. I have no kids, I am a middle school teacher! I am always looking for ways to make school more fun but can never afford it. Please consider getting a few things for the classroom. All of these items are directly tied to our curriculum
    http://amzn.com/w/11NNUQN52EMVN

  1206. squalorhousegail & Others!

    You guys are amazing! Thank you. I have no words at all for the generosity on this board we are more than blessed and my kids went from having nothing to having gifts from total strangers! What a day! I don’t even know what to say. Thanks Thanks Again! I mean, honestly, we dont even have enough to cover bills. Usually thats the option is to take Christmas money from bill money and then catch up in Jan, but when our furnace went out I just was so scared to live in a house without heat, i was afraid the pipes would bust. So we used savings and every penny we had to get a new one not knowing how we would even cover food, let alone gifts! Im rambling. Anyways you guys are saints!

    -Jennifer, Josy, Jonas, Jack

    http://amzn.com/w/2Z8OBCGVGJC4V

  1209. I believe mine may have been lost in the mix of things so I’m reposting. My husband and I are struggling to come up with gifts from Santa for our 4 young children (ages 4 months, 3, 4 and 6). My husband lost his job several weeks ago so any money we had to pay for gifts is gone for bills. We are struggling pretty bad but I don’t want our children to believe that Santa forgot about them and lose out on the Christmas spirit.

    If anyone is willing to help, here are their wishlists. 4 month old boy –
    http://smile.amazon.com/gp/registry/giftlist/235Z996DXSDE4/ref=cm_go_nav_recip_gl?

    3 year old girl-
    http://smile.amazon.com/gp/registry/giftlist/1U6JX0NPHMBAG/ref=cm_go_nav_recip_gl?

    4 year old girl –
    http://smile.amazon.com/gp/registry/giftlist/2VHB513DZP6DE/ref=cm_go_nav_recip_gl?

    6 year old boy –
    http://smile.amazon.com/gp/registry/giftlist/BSBQ6XVJERC/ref=cm_go_nav_recip_gl?

    Thanks to anyone who does! You may also contact me at claudiakinkade@outlook.com

  1210. I just logged into amazon and saw that someone bought all 7 things that were on my wish list for my daughters. (I was originally comment #494) Whoever you are, THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU! I started crying as soon as I saw that it said that they were all purchased. I was in complete shock! It was really just a shot in the dark when I posted the list and it was all purchased the same day I posted it.

    Honestly and truly, from the very bottom of my heart, I appreciate your gift so much!! I cannot wait to see my girls’ faces when they see their gifts and I will never forget your generosity!! And please rest assured, I will pay it forward at the very first opportunity. Ugh…I’m shaking right now! You have no idea how much you’ve blessed me!!

  1211. This isn’t for me, I’m hoping this will be a surprise for a friend of mine who is going through a horrible time lately. Long story short, she and her husband have become pretty seriously ill, which has impacted both their working and going to school. They’re on the verge of losing their house, which I am trying to help them with, and paying for some of their food, but because of that I can’t help with Christmas presents for their kids. So I was hoping maybe some generous souls would possibly pitch in however they can. I threw together an amazon list for them. I didn’t say anything to her because I didn’t want to get her hopes up, but it could be a nice surprise if it works out. Thank you all for taking part in this whole thing, it’s inspiring to see people help out those in need!

    http://amzn.com/w/2RXWNPUCZMR7Q

  1212. Tricia Adams, a mixer, a dinosaur puzzle, and a truck are on the way to your kiddos! I hope they aren’t duplicates that someone else already got! Merry Christmas!

  1213. would like to thank everyone who has helped my family so much this Christmas season. My wife and son are going to be so surprised and so happy thank you all so very much. I have updated the list so nothing would be ordered twice. attached is the current wish list and the original request post. again thank you from the bottom of my heart, Josh

    http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/wishlist/1NMEYGAIN7IGD/ref=cm_wl_rlist_go_o

    My name is Josh I am a 35 year old man that has been through 2 heart surgeries this year most recent was to replace my aorta with a mechanical valve. so I have been out of work for over a year. The little bit of money we were able to save for Christmas this year was stolen out of her car last week along with breaking the window that was an extra 250 to fix. so it has been a very sad year for us and I’m not sure what we will do for xmas this year. my wife is a very hard working woman that works in a tip dependent work field. we have one son who is 15 and autistic mentally he is 8-10 but is constantly growing and could always use clothes and likes a few toys and loves country music. my wife never gets the chance to get anything for herself due to my lost wages and barely being able to cover all the bills and food. she loves to read more than anything but still loves clothes and purses etc. she works very hard to provide for us until I’m back up to speed. I would like to thank you very

  1215. Ok one of the people that helped me out talked me into posting my Christmas Lists for my kids. They do have a few gifts under the tree for them, but not very many.

    Serenity’s is here: http://www.amazon.com/registry/giftlist/1RGOJTXXLC7FY

    Harmony’s is here: http://www.amazon.com/registry/giftlist/J6ZC5CJ1OLPV

    And the Family one is here: http://amzn.com/w/MOVY70VHHPK8

    Thank you again to all the angels who are making Christmas possible for so many! 🎁 🎄 🎅

  1216. @Neefer – I read your original post looking for sciencey girls needing encouragement. I think you are awesome! My daughter is a bit younger than your chosen demographic (she’s 6) but a new Goldie Blox set was at the top of her list this year. She loves the parade float one she got for her birthday. She is starting to get interested in her brother’s Legos now, but has been discouraged a bit by some girls at school who insist that Legos are “for boys”. I do have a set on my wish list that hasn’t been purchased yet, if you were so inclined. A note reminding her how awesome girls are and they can be or do anything would be so appreciated!
    https://www.amazon.com/registry/wishlist/1J2849HJCZZER/ref=cm_sw_r_ip_wl_o_tdKKub0TG70XG

  1217. Jess I’m sitting here balling my eyes out!!! I am blown away from the generosity of strangers!!! I had purchased most of my littles gifts second hand. When I went to wrap them I noticed missing pieces and broken parts. Making then un giftable. I can’t believe there is only a few items left on my list. To everyone that has been my secret Santa, you have no idea the joy you have filled my heart with. I had to call a friend that works at a local food store to see if they could help us with food this week. They did. Next week i will have to go to the food pantry for the first time ever. I have;t been eating to make sure my littles Ruby who just turned 4 this past Sunday and Ryker who is 2.5 would have full bellies. Thank you so very much. Thank you just doesn’t seem to be enough to say how I truly feel inside, but it’s all I can come up with. I have tears of joy. Merry Christmas to all of you!! I wish you all a happy, safe and healthy New Year. From my family to yours we are beyond grateful!!!! xoxoxox

  1218. @SqualorHouseGail and @LizaM THANK YOU SO MUCH. I was taking a chance posting, worried a grinch might make me feel even worse about my health dragging my family down this season and you guys… I’m sitting here crying. It has been an awful day and you just made it so much better! MERRY CHRISTMAS 🙂

    (ref to #1184 above)

  1219. @MistyR (#1202) a couple of things for each should magically appear (the eyeshadow palette may not arrive until the 24th). HoHo and Merry Merry!!

  1220. Thank you Debbie for getting Raiden his firetruck! He loves trucks so much. I’m so inspired watching everyone help each other. If I can make one more request if anyone can get raiden diapers off his list I would be grateful. It’s not a Christmas gift for him so much as a necessity that I’m freaking out over. ( due to his autism Potty training just hasn’t happened unfortunately. We’re hoping as speech is starting to come that he’ll be interested in the potty but until then we have the expense of the the larger size diapers still) Thank you to anyone that can or has helped make this such an amazing day for so many people.
    https://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/wishlist/1QEZXQRP0U4YY/ref=cm_wl_rlist_go_o?view=null

  1221. I originally posted this morning (#825ish). Since then some have graciously purchased some items on our wish list (you have no idea how much this means!!) and some items have gone out of stock. I’ve since updated the list and removed those items.
    While I can’t purchase anything this year, I would like to help if there’s anyone even semi-local to me that needs anything I can provide. If you are in the Harrisburg, PA area, please email me at bcrossleyphoto at gmail dot com with what you may need. I will see if there’s anything I can do to help.
    http://amzn.com/w/OOHJDQU9RW91

  1222. Hello its Amanda from post #981 just wanted to say thank you to all the angels who are helping put a smile on my kids face this Christmas I am truly blesssed .I received more bad news and good news today so please pray for me I am so depressed all I can do is cry .The good news is thst the endometrial cancer is gone thanks to my surgery, but the bad news is I still have cancer some where and he doesnt know where yet I go back jan 14 for testing..once again thank you from the bottom of my heart God bless you and Merry Christmas

  1223. @SqualorHouseGail Thank you! My daughter will flip to see a eyeshadow palette she has a few single shadows but nothing more than that she is going to be so excited. Both of my kids will appreciate this but I appreciate it ten times more, being a parent is tough but it is even harder when you can’t provide everything your kids need/want for them.

  1225. Jenny, Thanks for inspiring me. I purchased tons of chickens, geese, and ducks as stocking stuffers and gifts for my co-workers.

  1226. I tried to post this earlier but i’m not sure it worked. I want to thank Debbie for getting raiden his truck. He will be so excited. I also want to ask if anyone can help with getting diapers off raiden’s list. ( not a christmas for him more like a much needed gift) Due to his autism potty training has become nonexistent unfortunatly. His doctor doesn’t expect he’ll be interested until his speech is improved so he can understand what he’s being asked. In the mean time Diapers are a huge expense. Thank you for anyone willing to help us and for everyone that has made this such a great day for me and so many other people.
    https://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/wishlist/1QEZXQRP0U4YY/ref=cm_wl_rlist_go_o?view=null

  1227. I’m afraid my post may have been lost amongst all the excitement 🙂 If anyone is still looking to help some amazing kiddos, I would surely appreciate it. Quick synopsis: my 2 girls are 12 & 13. My 13 year old is autistic with ADHD and some sensory processing issues. She’s made such amazing progress with school this year and I would love for her Christmas to be special. My 12 year old has stepped up in a huge way this year, helping me with things that she shouldn’t have to, but does because she’s awesome. I’m a full-time student, working towards becoming a paramedic. I just completed my EMT-I practicals/clinicals so I’m getting close! 🙂 Any help you could give would be amazing and I can’t wait to see my kids faces light up on Christmas morning.
    http://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/ls/ref=aw_wl_lol_wl?ie=UTF8&lid=3L1K7U557A1CM


    (For some reason your link shows up formatted in a really weird way. Was it maybe shared through a mobile phone? ~ Jenny)

  1228. i posted earlier and forgot to add a wishlist link My apologies I am new to this and never aask for help… As a mom of 7 and my Hubbby is always out working it is still hard to make ends meet Its seems like whenever we have something good going something bad comes with it. Its December 17 and we havent been able to go out and even start shoppin for our 7 children yet and they are so excited for Christmas it breaks my heart. I am thankful for people like you who are willing to help thise who need it When I become rich one day I will help the world. My 2 oldest girls are tweens and they want Uggs which are soooo expensive but its the only thing they want and we cant even provide that for them at this time 🙁 Anything will help I think you are all blessings to do the things you do <3
    https://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/ref=cm_reg_rd-upd?ie=UTF8&id=GO22USWTH6MA&type=wishlist

  1229. Oh my..You guys on here are amazing ! I was praying just to get the girls stockings and stuff to go in them. They aren’t even expecting to get that ! And now they are ! And each will be getting a scarf and a hat ! My girls are my heart ! They never complain that they don’t have thing like their peers and it really did break my heart to hear them tell me they were to old for Christmas.To say thank you does not even begin to cover what you guys have done ! I will be so tickled to see their faces on Christmas ! But now I can say there is a few secret Santas out there who disagree that you are never to old for Christmas ! Thank you, Bless you and Merry Christmas
    JulieE post #982 http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/giftlist/ACQRQQV6CIC3/ref=cm_gl_huc_view

  1230. so i just discovered that someone has purchased several items off of my wishlist. thank you so much whoever you are!! i looked and didn’t see a post so if i missed it please let me know so i can thank you properly!

  1231. Link: http://amzn.com/w/1AS4O6P7HJG89

    I had a really long and beautiful post written, but I lost it. My friend has 3 older children from her blended family that aren’t going to have a Christmas this year. Her youngest is taken care of already but I want the other 3 to have something too. Haley is 14 & asked for a gift card to buy clothes. Lexi is 12 & asked for an airsoft gun. Zander is 9 & asked for a Gamestop gift card. My capacity for giving is maxed out this year but I’m hoping there are still some wonderful strangers out there looking to play Santa.

  1232. I am not ashamed to admit that I made this wish list for my 85 year old mother and myself. We lovingly spent the last 5 years caring for my ailing father at home. He has passed and we are lost both in his presence and financially. All our funds went to my dad first. I made this list but honestly, a weekend away with my mom somewhere would do just fine. We havent left our small town in years. God Bless everyone here. May all our wishes come true! http://amzn.com/w/P6T4S3U6AGLC is my

  1233. I wanted to send Kimberly #382 the D&D set but it doesn’t seem to have an address associated. I’d also like to send some dice from my collection, is she’d care to share an easy with me. I do t know if I’d see a response (hundreds of comments to read still), so my email is mel at thinktwicenews fit com

  1236. My family could use a little help this year. We are a new family as my baby girl is just over five months old. Unfortunately I have been out of work for over a year and now my husband has lost his job. We were moving into a new place that we could better afford when we found out he lost his job and now we are going to have to move again to be able to survive until we both find jobs. As much as we scrimp and save it never seems to be enough, but I am sure that people hear that every day. We don’t really need toys as my baby girl has some that she likes and she really isn’t old enough for more than a few. What we do need are diapers and formula (sadly I just couldn’t produce enough milk for my child). With that in mind I made a wish list with what we could really use. I would also appreciate good thoughts and prayers for us to have a safe move. Thank you! http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/wishlist/1168E0WIPYJID/ref=cm_sw_em_r_wsl_7RKKub1G9XP04_wb

  1237. Julie #1117 some necessities are on their way to you, should arrive by Christmas eve.

    My kids would love to buy an actual present for you and your kids, there’s none listed, not sure if they’ve already been bought or you just didn’t list anything frivolous? If not please do, we’d especially love to get you some books if there’s any you’d like!

    Merry merry everyone, and thanks Jenny for making this happen!!

  1238. Julie E, I hope your girls have a great Christmas! I was so happy to be able to send them a few gifts!

  1239. i just can’t get over the generosity of everyone today. it really makes me happy to know there are people like you out there. 🙂

  1240. My name is Darryl, and I have a 10 year old son Darryl 3rd. A friend of mine posted this on Facebook and I honestly couldn’t believe it. I never imagined that there were this many good people left in the world. I just want to say that I think every one of u are amazing. This year has been a really rough one. My wife, my son’s mother, passed away 4 months ago. We have both had a very hard time dealing with it. As a father, I never really knew how much of the little things she would do on an everyday basis. I have always worked and she was a stay at home mother. Now I am struggling to do both. My son used to play sports, but he doesn’t anymore. He has always been very outgoing, but now he is more withdrawn. I know he is battling so many emotions right now, just as I am, but I’m trying everything I can for him. He is in counseling alone, and we go together twice a week also. With everything that is going on, we have not had much time, or the effort really, for Christmas. I have hit a major financial wall. The funeral cost alone wiped out all of my savings. After everyday living, I have next to nothing left. I see how many of you have already helped so many families, and it just really touches my heart. I have put a variety of things on his wish list. If somebody on here could help us, it would be greatly appreciated. I know this Christmas is going to be extremely difficult for him, but I would like to be able to atleast make him smile. Thank you so much for taking the time to read my story and consider my son for the child you help this year. I will forever cherish you. Merry Christmas, and may God bless you.
    Little darryl ‘s wish 
    Link:http://www.amazon.com/registry/wishlist/2IEG1IR20QLYC

  1241. Comment #158 here, Thank you to everyone that got items off of my sons list for him, Especially the peanut ball which I know he will love. We have been stuck in a hotel living week to week never knowing if we will have a roof over our heads long enough for me to get paid. I broke down and pawned my TV tonight and barely got anything, not even enough for 2 nights. We are paid up until Friday morning now. I have more hope now knowing that my son is going to have an amazing Christmas and know Santa did not forget him.

  1242. I forgot to tell you, he reads alot. He loves books. Diary of a wimpy kid is his favorite series, but he has all of them. I’m not very good at picking books out so I thought if you knew what he likes you would maybe be able to suggest something.

  1243. Claudia Kincade – got something for each of your kids. Santa didn’t forget them. Should be there by 12/22.

  1244. Hello and thanks for this awesome blog post. I’m Shawn, a disabled vet (but still working because the VA screwed me) and single dad of 7 year old Aurora and 9 year old Shawn (JR)

    Aurora loves ponies, Disney, movies and girlie things and Shawn loves outdoor types of stuff.
    Any help would be appreciated. I apologize in advance for the crazy prices on amazon. Bless you and I hope everyone helping out is rewarded greatly.

    http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/wishlist/2JOO30K42ZGAS/ref=cm_sw_su_w

  1245. @Yvette Oh my gosh!! Thank you so much! You are such an angel! I have separate lists for the kids Christmas lists,

    Serenity’s is here: http://www.amazon.com/registry/giftlist/1RGOJTXXLC7FY

    Harmony’s is here: http://www.amazon.com/registry/giftlist/J6ZC5CJ1OLPV

    Me and Serenity are avid readers, and I am sure Harmony will be too but at the moment there are no books on their lists. Let me go see if I can remedy that! Thank you again so very much!

  1246. @anathica, #144, There are a couple of books on the way for your son. It is not much but I hope that it helps. Merry Christmas!

  1249. Hi Darryl,
    Sent a book (which should get there before xmas) and a game (which will arrive sometime between the 23 and the 29th). If your son likes animal stories, maybe check out Jim Kjelgaard – he does animal stories that aren’t cutsy but are really interesting. Anyway, I’m thinking about you and your family; merry Christmas!

  1250. Christina comment 1084, the soccer trainer and one direction book are on their way for your sister (it says it should be there by Dec 19, I would guess the 20th since I just ordered it but still before Christmas)

  1252. @dubhsmith (1235) – diapers coming your way, enjoy your new baby girl 🙂

    @darryl (1239) – your son will be getting the propeller racer. I’m sorry for yours and your son’s loss but I hope you can both have a Merry Christmas

  1253. Take if you need… Well I’m quite sure there are more deserving people in this chat to give to than me, but I still barely make it each year and have forgone Christmas the last two years out of unpleasant events occurring. After rent, I have about $150 left each month. This will be the first year I’ll actually not have enough to even buy a present for anyone in my family. If you’re going to be charitable, give to those who don’t have food, water, clothes first before those of us who have a computer with internet and a place to call home. It would lift my spirit if someone did help me with having Christmas. I see and know homeless individuals and if you actually show an ounce of kindness to them… sigh, they’re humans too. Help them before me if you can.
    Anyway here is my wish list, added a few unnecessary items for fun, cheers.
    http://amzn.com/w/2S0JPM878BZWB

  1255. Going through the comments once more and I missed two people to thank. So please accept my belated, but warmest thanks to Carol (#771) and AQW (#809). The community ROCKS!!

  1256. #1135 – I’ve got some gifts headed your way for Parker and Melissa. A couple of them will arrive after Christmas.
    Hope you and your family have a lovely holidays!!
    Love, Michelle

  1257. Julie Valentine Dowey, couple books now on the way too, hope your girls enjoy them!!
    Merry Christmas!!

  1258. I’ve also got some presents headed out to Amanda in Toccoa, Amanda in Columbia, and Molly in Bellingham. (Sorry, I lost track of your comment numbers!). It’s possible that some of these gifts might arrive after Christmas.

    Happy Holidays!
    Love, Michelle

  1259. I just want to thank all of you wonderful, thoughtful, generous people for helping to make such a difference in the lives of so many people. Words can not express how grateful I am for the gift of joy you have given to my daughter and I. I have had tears in my eyes all day. Not just the generosity shown to us, but to every other family in need! I am looking forward to next Christmas, I already plan on me and my daughter picking out gifts for some other family that could use a hand and kind word. Again, thank you. Each and every one of you amazing, kind souls.

  1260. Jen (#1192) I have one gift for each child on the way, should be delivered Dec 22. Everyone who is posting Amazon lists, try to find items that qualify for Amazon Prime. They will ship faster and you’ll have a better chance of getting them in time.

  1261. Darryl (#1241 & 1239) the books it suggests aren’t his level…and unless it is suggested or on the list, I cant figure out how to send
    Some suggestions as my son is a Diary fan
    Origami Yoda etc (its a series)
    Captain Underpants (series)
    Big nate (series and a few stand alones)
    Guardians of Ga’hole would be one level up
    Magic Treehouse series (not nearly as funny as the others)
    39 clues
    Horrible History series (Import but history with gross details)

    These were all suggestions from my son

  1262. Julie Valentine Dowey, Santa Claus is sending you a couple gifts for the kids and one for you too! Merry Christmas!

  1264. Love this! Just read through all of the comments, and oh, god the FEELS!!! I am grateful to be in a position to help others in a small way this year, after having some really tough times and scraping by in years past. To those in need of positive thoughts and encouragement, I sincerely wish you peace, love and light during the holidays and all year. Jenny, you are indeed a light in the darkness. My heart is filled by the generosity demonstrated here. This year I’m giving one night night bag. Next year, I hope I can play Santa and spread the light farther!

  1265. Dear Darryl (#1239), I’ve just sent along the watch and art supplies for your son. Merry Christmas! They should arrive by the 21st. Hopefully, they will brighten your son’s holiday just a little. I’m so very sorry for the loss of your wife. I have a son, too, so I was touched by your post. Hold yours close for as long as you can, what are amazing little people they are! Peace and health to you and your family in the new year. <3

  1268. Darryl (#1239) – headphones on their way to your son. Merry Christmas and hoping next year is a better one.

  1269. @Teamwithbuzz that is awesome of you to send them some books! I love seeing bookworms get books for Christmas.

  1271. @(1124)Miranda thank you so much! You are so generous and Roswell-Elizabeth is going to be so excited to have her own little chair! I cant believe how happy you just made us!
    @(1182)Melissa oh wow thank you the amazing generosity! Roswell-Elizabeth and Sherloch-James are going to be in awe when they see the toys you sent for them! You are helping save our families Christmas!

    You guys are truely blessings, so many children wouldnt have Christmas if it weren’t for kind, giving people like you, you are examples of what is right and good in the world, thank you for being our Christmas angels!. I will be back next year, as a giver!
    * quoted text
    Dear Santa,

    I don’t really know how to start, so I guess I will just swallow my pride and share a bit of our story. Zack (My husband) has worked as a CNA for the last 5 years, until last April when he was let go, the day before he was to go back to work from paternity leave for the birth of our son. After two months of no job offers, we were out of savings and had leave our one bedroom apartment to move almost four hours away, into my Nanas 9 by 9 spare bedroom. To pay for our room I do all the house cleaning, cooking, home repair projects, yard work, errands and anything else my Nana can think of.

    My husband finally got a job after hundreds of resumes and being out of work for six months; however it is at a bookstore and they only give him 15-23 hours a week at minimum wage. It hardly covers the necessities for our family, let alone thinking about extras for the holidays. He is looking for better, and we hope to get Zacks student loans out of default, so he can go back to school this spring and get a degree that will support a family.

    I want so desperately to give my children a bit of, not only the Christmas comfort, joy, and excitement that every child should get to experience, but a sense of normalcy and stability, we have moved 4 times since Rosie was born, between two states and 3 cities, just trying to find a way to make it, we have always shared a bed, a bedroom, and a very small space, and I want them to have something that is special and theirs alone.

    So, if you are still reading, I thank you, and let me introduce you to my two amazing children:

    • Roswell-Elizabeth is one and a half, she will be two in March; she is a loud, silly, dramatic, creative, and active little girl. Rosie loves My Little Pony, Frozen, music, tumbling, and reading. She isn’t talking yet, but has no problem getting her point across, she is extremely smart, a picky eater, and a doting big sissy! She is obsessed with rocking horses, wrapping up baby dolls in blankets, and perching on anything she can fit her tush on!

    • Sherloch-James is six months old, he will be one in April; he is a sweet, mellow, happy, and lively little boy. Loch loves music, soft things, Frozen, and anything he can grab and chew on! Loch is super excited about food, is crawling, and trying to pull himself up to stand and climb on everything! He loves when his sissy plays with him, and he tries so hard to follow her around. He is teething pretty hard, and that seems to be one of the few things that can upset him, otherwise his disposition is so sunny!

    Here is their joint Christmas wish list <3 anything would be such a blessing and treasured!

    I also made a wish list for the adults in their life, (myself, my husband, their granny who lives in the converted garage, and their great nana who is letting us stay here through the winter) because you’re never too old for a little Christmas magic right?

    That got long, and if you made it this far, thank you for taking the time to read this and get to know my family, that means just as much as anything else! We are grateful for any help you can send our way, to give our children a Christmas they otherwise will not have.

    Love and light from my family to yours,

    Happy Holidays!

  1272. Neefer: You so rock. Go, you!

    Yes, We Are Santa, thank you very much! (WeArSa?)

    Thank you again, Jenny. So full of amaze-balls and wow.

  1274. Thank you to everyone that has either sent a gift card or tried to send gifts for my children. I have gone through he!! and high water and finally gotten the address issue fixed. I had to create a new wish list, it is http://amzn.com/w/JXIQU8UTL . Again, thank you to everyone and I hope that in the new year I am able to give as you are so generously are doing now. Happy holidays to everyone! If you need to contact me, my email is robin.southern.79@gmail.com. (Recap: My boyfriend and I have four children: girl 11, boy 10, girl 6, boy almost 3. The oldest two do not live with us full-time, and we are only able to see them rarely, so I had to kind of guess on their desires. We both go to school full-time, and I also work as many hours at my employee as I am able.) This is a wonderful project, and I know I probably sound like a broken record, but thank you again to everyone that is participating, not just for my family, but for others as well.

  1275. I am amazed beyond words by the generosity of this community. I’m excited to start digging through lists to see what hasn’t been filled yet. Does that sound awful? I’ve been in the position of playing bill roulette and managed to come through the other side. I’ve read this post every year and wanted to participate in the miracle of James Garfield. This year I can finally send a little Christmas love.
    Jenny, please continue this tradition. This is pure beauty. I rarely cry, but I’ve had to take several breaks to pull myself together. Not just because of the people asking for help, but also because of everyone who is selflessly giving. Thank you to all of you for giving me not-gonna-cry gasps and I-just-peed-a-little snortles tonight and throughout the years.

  1277. People were so incredibly generous with my son’s wishlists and I received a gift card, as well. I’d like to use the gift card for other gifts for other kids. We are a lucky little family, no matter what the tree looks like this year. I can’t take so much. Not when my heart is so so full. Going through the list right now. Thank you all. With every fiber of my being, thank you.

  1278. I am embarrassed to even ask for this. We had a couple amazing people buy us some gifts for the monsters already but what we actually need are diapers for the two year old. This seems so stupid seeing as we’ve bee blessed already but we get paid twice a month (15 and 31) and we accidently over drafted. This would really help free up some money for gas! I added it to the top of my Amazon wish list if anyone is interested I would be so thankful. I spent the whole night in tears because I am so humbled to be part of this blogging community. If anyone needs any more info email me
    Jennygirlmarie @ yahoo dot com

    http://www.amazon.com/registry/wishlist/2Z8OBCGVGJC4V

  1279. I’ve so enjoyed playing Santa for you guys! I polished off my christmas bonus on diapers and clothes from various lists (probably arriving after christmas). I decided clothes were my favorite way to go because i really wanted to hug all your amazing kids and sending warm pjs and coats was basically the same thing! Thanks for being such a bad ass tribe.

  1280. Jenny I just saw your comment( I’m sure I have missed others) thank you so very much!! You are amazing!!! I can’t believe I only have a few things left on my list!!im blown away. I wish I could post a photo of my littles so those of you that have helped can see the amazing little human beings they are going to. From the bottom of my heart I thank you!!
    http://www.amazon.com/registry/wishlist/3I8U8MWPAZI0E

  1281. I just almost cried again. I don’t see anyone owning up to it, but the 2 books for my Jack are so appreciated! You don’t understand how even $1.99 can seem insurmountable some months. You are fostering a love for reading in a beautiful child! Thank you SO MUCH

    Link To Victorias WL: http://amzn.com/w/15E6R7Q8VLHLF
    Link to Gabe’s WL: http://amzn.com/w/3J564YW0NR1Z0
    Link to Jack’s WL: http://amzn.com/w/38M2G8DQ32V5U
    Link to my husbands ( just mostly clothes): http://amzn.com/w/2N8HPX9294279

  1282. I posted earlier but I don’t think I had it right so I’M going to try again. Sorry for the double post.We have 3 wonderful children,Morgan 10,Audrey 7,and Adam who will be 5 in 2Days. Over the summer we assumed care of my sister in law who was in end stage liver failure. It put a huge financial. strain on an already tight budget, my husband is a disabled veteran. and I work part time at Kroger. we have struggled ever since. After the holidays my husband will be having knee surgery at an out of state VA and I will be taking unpaid leave to care for him and our kids, so money is tight.My sweet little monsters have been such troopers thru this last year and helping out with everything when we were taking care of their aunt, they deserve a much better Christmas than we are able to give them. Any help would be appreciated. I can not get the link to work but you can find our Amazon wishlist with my email bhuey35@gmail.com. Thanks

    (Here’s your wish list. Just sent you 4 books. http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/wishlist/?ie=UTF8&cid=A36MUTPWWNVULY ~ Jenny)

  1283. I am a mom of one beautiful 14 year old daughter. I am currently unemployed due to medical issues. I also live 1,300 miles away from my daughter (she is in Michigan and I’m in Florida). This year my daughter has had a really hard time and could use some holiday cheer. As of right now she is struggling with depression. As a sufferer myself, I know how hard it is. Being so far away from her asst this time of year is not helping her condition. Since i am financially unable to get her anything i hope someone will see this and help. If not, thank you for at least allowing me to post. These 4 things on my wishlist are the only things she has asked for (she especially wants the canned unicorn meat and Netflix shirt. She’s a bit odd, like me).

    Thank you to anyone who helps and Happy Christmas/Hanukkah/Kwanzaa/whatever you celebrate too EVERYONE else!

    http://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/ls/ref=aw_wl_ov_mng_frm?lid=2TJ2U1EY47WEW

    (Hopefully i did this right. I’m not computer savvy.)

  1284. someone bought more things off of my wishlist and i don’t know who it was. thank you so much! it means so much to me! i am crying right now. i am so emotional. you are a saint!

  1285. Thank you to everyone here who has helped someone else and to everyone who posted here I hope you receive some gifts for your kids! Thank you to the Santa who sent my kids a gift!!! They are going to be so excited on Christmas.

    Melissas wishlist is: http://amzn.com/w/RWM9WPDLRO17

    Parkers wishlist is: http://amzn.com/w/1BXXP5BM92I65

    I am beyond exhausted and headed to bed but I am looking forward to reading everyone’s posts tomorrow this site is full of miracles.

  1286. @Teawithbuzz Oh wow thats amazing! Thank you so much!! <3 @Mary Ellen thank you so much for the gift card! @Robin thank you for the wipes!! @Yvette thank you so much for everything! You guys have brought me to tears! <3

  1287. I have had a few people buy items from my list but I don’t know who to thank?! I’m not familiar with Amazon. If their a way to see who is purchasing?

  1289. Julie Valentine Dowey, a few more things are on their way to you – I hope you and your family have a magical Christmas! And thank you all for this … this… amazingosity.

  1290. Jennifer Cole – I am still not finding an address for you. I want to send you something for your girls – can you please check it out?

    Everyone – to echo Laurel’s post – for Amazon stuff, select items that qualify for Amazon Prime. Members get free 2 day shipping and it may still make it for Christmas! I hope everyone has a fabulous holiday!

  1291. Tricia Adams, I’m sending a couple of things for your Ruby and Ryker – happy holidays from a fellow New Englander!

  1292. My friend’s baby needs bowel surgery in Ohio (we live in South Carolina). She is a nurse, but has only been able to work part-time since Savanna was born prematurely and has needed so much care. Her fiancée had medical problems last year and was laid off. They also have the sweetest 8 year-old (my daughter’s best friend). They are good people having a hard time. Their friends have started a gofundme campaign to help the family travel to Ohio, pay medical expenses, etc. Please follow the link and donate what you can: http://www.gofundme.com/inaizg Having random strangers help them would be the most awesome Christmas miracle! I can’t imagine any community more random, strange, and good hearted than this one.

  1293. http://www.amazon. com/registry/wishlist/WBV 0B4BK9Y77

    Hi my name is Crystal and I am a single mother of two girls Shania which is fifteen and Breanna is twelve I am not working ridaughtersy daughter’s and I were homeless til family step in and help us I have been looking for employment but still haven’t found a job I am very down on my luck right now and have no way of getting my daughter’s anything for Christmas we have been struggling so bad this year and when I am at my worst my girls tell me that everything is going to be be okay as much as we have struggled the girls never lose their faith and they are the two that keeps me from not giving up when I became a mother all I ever wanted to do was give my babies a life without struggles and worries that doesn’t seem to be the picture right now..and I am not able to get my daughter’s Christmas this year and I am asking for help cause them two little girls are awesome and they deserve to wake up on Christmas morning with something under the tree every child does but I am not fortune enough to do that for them this year so if you could please help my family I would be very grateful and blessed that someone answered my only wish this Christmas for two awesome daughters Thank you from the bottom of my heart…

  1294. I posted #714, thank you to Paige (1091) that ordered books and Amanda (1094) for the video game! They will mean so much to the kids. 😀

    I didn’t want to post anything personal at first, but let me introduce myself. I am currently a homeschooling mom to an ESE student (formerly an ESE student, began homeschooling for various reasons) SAHM mom to a three year old, and child care provider to a relative with three children under 5. I do not charge for this, as this relative can only afford either childcare or rent, something I greatly sympathize with as a former single mother of three that many times lost access to childcare, then my job and home, only to requalify for childcare and start again. My husband works in hospitality, making just enough for rent and utilities without a penny to spare. If he is fortunate enough to make a couple of OT hours, he is immediately sick and misses more work (we nearly ended up in the street after a lung abscess earlier this year.) So I am in search of PT night work, or even better work from home that will not interfere with my childcare and homeschooling duties. Just realized that my older two children are not mentioned here, they are somewhat self sufficient in that they attend traditional school and don’t need my full attention at all times. Both are looking towards getting their first jobs, though getting ID (costs money, and so do the SS cards that I lost during our last move) and interview clothing is a struggle.

    We have not suffered any particular tragedies this year, there’s just nothing to spare. I did let my straight talk phone service (our only phone) lapse this month in order to purchase candy and toiletries from the dollar tree for stockings, but it was not enough for even a small gift and we would qualify for assistance from the big Christmas programs if I hadn’t lost several documents required. Again, shout out to Paige and Amanda – you saved Christmas!

    My homeschooled child studies online from a variety of grade levels, I have utilized online tests and there are gaps so we have to review things as far back as 5th grade. Homeschooling supplies would truly be a blessing so that we are not fully dependent on sitting in front of the computer – especially since it brings studies to a halt when we have computer problems, sometimes for weeks if it needs repair. I have added some to my general wish list, or if any homeschooling mamas have used supplies please contact me! (We are a Christian family but only use secular learning material btw.)

    This is the link to all four of their wish lists, they each have a blurb about them on their list. http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/wishlist/ref=nav_youraccount_wl?ie=UTF8&requiresSignIn=1

    Thank you to everybody that has helped my family or others, you personify the Christmas spirit.

  1295. I suck at sending out comments so I’m just going to do this in a lump so you know what to look for. Most things will arrive before xmas but a few were backordered. A few were marked as delivered today (!) so shipping is surprisingly good so far.

    Things I’ve sent out but forgot to leave comments about because I get distracted:
    Marcella – Lego girls set
    Julie D. – 2 books
    Shawn R. – Gamestop gift card
    Darryl T – Dynamo Torch and 4 books
    Catherine B. ~ gift card
    Mandi R. ~ Fireman Sam training tower
    Cindy S. – lots of diapers
    Michelle – Gerber baby coverall sets
    Amanda J. – 2 books and a game
    Ashley B. Despicable Me 2 DVD
    Nicole – Crayola Paint Maker
    Tosha S. – Stomp Rocket Kit
    Shannon D ~ book
    Tamara S. 3 books and a sketchbook
    Tricia A – Food toy set
    Elizabeth P ~ Lots of baby wipes and a Fisher Price Oconaut set
    Amber W. ~ Sunflower seeds
    Misty R. – shirt for your son, Never Been Kissed DVD
    Jennifer M. – 2 books
    Claudia C. ~ Moster Plush bowling game
    Mary S. ~ deluxe art set and wood case
    Laura S. ~ Pencil fidget sets, quilt squares
    Bry S ~ plush ice cream cone
    Jennifer M ~ Thomas the Tank spoon & fork set
    Jennifer S. ~ 2 books and Jane Boolittle doll
    Amanda D. ~ Ponytail holders, 2 books and Star Wars Angry Bird playset
    Michelle H. ~ 30 paint brushes
    Tricia A. ~ Stamp set
    Michelle – stamp set, two sets of girls pi’s
    Amy O. ~ squirrel stuffed animal
    Jennifer J. ~ Lego Forest Ambust
    Angela P. ~ Fire truck floor puzzle
    Susan-Jane Mickey Mouse lights & Sounds book
    Patricia M. ~ Minecraft
    Stacey P. ~ 2 books, How to Train your Dragon 2 DVD, stuffed octopus
    Michelle I – Turbo Scratcher
    Lazeric K. Optimus Prime
    Roxie ~ Bracelet maker
    Katherine A ~ 3 books
    Corrine C – feetie pajamas
    Stephanie B. ~ book
    Victoria B. – waterproof gloves
    Ginger ~ 3 books
    Dina B. ~ book
    Kristi S. ~ Ready, Set, Paste
    Amie – 2 Ever-After High dolls (Cerise Hood)
    Eric L. ~ number puzzle
    Amanda W. ~ Pokemon pigures
    Suzy S. Nail polish set
    Rebecca S. ~ 36 prepared slides for microscope
    Daerian B. ~ Book
    Molly T – book
    Tavi G. ~ Journal
    Shannon T. ~ book
    Sasha M ~ Sketch wizard
    Jennifer N. ~ digital camera
    Jenna K. ~ pants
    Julia Z. ~ Love you to the moon and back necklace
    Annie S. Deluxe art set with wood case & blanket/bedspread
    Sara K ~ rocket set, chutes and ladders
    Erin D ~ Lego First Aid Jungle bike set
    Emily R ~ Drawing paper, sticker book
    Shayna M. ~ doll bunk beds and transformer
    Sara U. ~ Nail decorations, magnetic poetry, book
    Rebecca H. ~ 4 books

    I also sent about 30 gift cards but 5 are still showing as unredeemed so check your comment and if I said I sent you a card but you didn’t get it check the spam filter of the email you used here. If it’s still missing drop me an email.

    A few points…first of all THANK YOU. Thank you for letting me be involved in this. I’m so incredibly lucky to get to do this with such amazing people. Secondly, it’s very close to being time when things won’t make it by Xmas so if you have stuff on your lists try to pick things that are marked as “prime”. Those are almost always available quickly and if the gift-giver has a prime membership they can send it super quick with no shipping fees. Third, inexpensive books are great and very cheap gifts. This is what I got when I searched “cheap kids books”: http://www.amazon.com/s/?_encoding=UTF8&camp=213733&creative=393193&linkCode=shr&tag=thebloggess-20&linkId=4SIEELXJQPJKZ3UE&rl=search-alias%3Daps&field-keywords=cheap+kids+books

    If you have a young adult I recommend The Graveyard Book (http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0060530944?ie=UTF8&camp=213733&creative=393185&creativeASIN=0060530944&linkCode=shr&tag=thebloggess-20&linkId=CGZV5YJ5IHRJHUT2&=books&qid=1418878786&sr=1-7&keywords=neil+gaiman) or Ocean at the End of the Lane, or anything by John Green. Inexpensive, but can take you a world away.

    And if you don’t get your deliveries or your wish list is unfilled or you still feel like you need to do something special for your children I can give you a few ideas:

    • Go on youtube and create an entire playlist for them of songs that remind you of them or that you know they’d love to hear. I made a playlist for Hailey and she listens to it over and over. It’s like a free record. I don’t know if you can see it but if you have a 10 year old girl and want suggestions this is what I have so far: http://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLptg0RUNGIARuGrnIH4ah0P-zgZSjKebT
    • Get a pinterest account (free) and look up all of the cool stuff they love and pin it to a board you made just for them. Pin motivational words, pin art they’d like, pin funny memes you can laugh at together. I have one for Hailey and she loves to check it out because it’s all about the things she loves. This is a mirror image of it: http://www.pinterest.com/thebloggess/for-awesome-young-girls/ I keep the real one secret so I don’t have to worry about comments 10 year olds shouldn’t read.
    • Go to the library and get a GREAT book you loved at that age. Then turn off everything but a single lamp and read aloud. Even now I love listening to my mom read.
    • Do art together. Maybe it’s coloring. Maybe it’s doodling. Maybe it’s getting out your phone or camera and teaching them about picture taking. There are free online websites (like basic pic monkey) or free to cheap phone apps that can remake your selfies with crazy hair and make-up.

    No matter what, if kids have love they are already ahead of the game.

    ~Jenny

  1296. Would you please let Mary Brown know I sent her Minecraft loving grandson a T-shirt? I don’t know if it will get there for Christmas, but I hope he likes it. It’s one of my daughter’s favorites. I’m an Air Force vet with PTSD and the many many posts here have given me the boost I needed for this season, which was feeling so empty but now feels so very, very full of joy.
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  1297. Jennifer M. (comment #1168), there is a book and a frozen sticker book on the way (my daughter loved stickers when she was little)! I hope this helps make your holidays a little brighter. Merry Christmas!

  1300. #1243, I think? Your son’s gift should be arriving on Saturday.

    This is indeed a great place. It’s inspired me to start up my own blog as of about four hours ago, which is much longer than any other one I’ve created has lasted!

  1302. @thebloggess thank you so much! from the bottom of my heart. my son loves reading and he reads to kendra a lot. he does the voices and he is so good at it. i’m so grateful for all of this.

  1307. For Gina R, #1177 – I wish I could help you, but I don’t have any funds. I hope someone else can help you (and those kids) out. One thing you might consider is looking for less expensive versions of the items you are trying to get for the kids; maybe this knife [1] and these boots [2]? Just a thought.

    [1] http://www.amazon.com/Chicago-Cutlery-DesignPro-Knives-8-Inch/dp/B008JCGK6Y/ref=sr_1_19?s=kitchen&ie=UTF8&qid=1418883666&sr=1-19&keywords=vegetable+knife

    [2] http://www.amazon.com/Alpine-Swiss-Womens-Shearling-Toggle/dp/B00O6EGU4G/ref=sr_1_48?s=apparel&ie=UTF8&qid=1418883800&sr=1-48&keywords=bearpaw+boots

  1311. My eyes are blurring, so I can’t find the peeps in need of someone to talk to. If there’s anyone that needs a chat via email please feel free to email me at metztree @ hotmail.com
    Also, I want to say again THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU to those who donated to Response. <3 Our Director was so surprised and touched by your generosity!

  1312. I’m just leaving another comment because I want to see this thing go to a third page. You’re all amazing though, it’s restoring faith in humanity. Bloggess 2016.

  1313. I’m writing to you from a very humble place. 2014 was a very rough year for my family. I have two amazing daughters, 12 and 15. They are unfortunately old enough to understand that we aren’t in the best place financially. My younger daughter was quick to rattle off numerous books and obviously the new Taylor Swift CD when asked about he Christmas list. My older daughter, however refused to ask for anything at first, telling me to spend it on her sister. I continued pushing until she finally requested a specific (extremely expensive) camera. The link to the wishlist is below, but I am unsure of what to get for my older daughter because the camera is not only outside of my price range, but nearly everyone’s. If you have any camera related, less expensive gifts, please give me some ideas. There are so many children without Christmas gifts, so I beg that you spread the joy and do not purchase everything on this list. Thank you a million.
    http://amzn.com/w/19GUCEOJG3764
    Olivia

    (Taylor Swift CD and a book coming your way. ~ Jenny)

  1314. Mommy2Three 849 – you have a few items coming your way. They are guaranteed for 20 Dec so you should be good to go by Christmas. X Beth

  1315. Thanks for all you do Jenny, you are an amazing inspiration. I hope to be in a position to give this time next year.
    Here’s my 8 year old step son’s wish list. http://www.amazon.com/registry/giftlist/10ZYVFEFQEQIF
    It’s been a rough year for us for many reasons, and we were only able to get him 2 gifts for Christmas. He was supposed to spend Christmas morning with his mom, so we weren’t too worried about the small amount this year, but things didn’t work out. My poor husband feels so guilty now giving him such a small Christmas. Would love to be able to put a little more under the tree for him and show them both the kindness and generosity of others.

    (TMNT DVD on its way. ~ Jenny)

  1316. To Rachzilla (#1000) Thank you so much! Many snugs coming your way! ~Gaynor xx

  1317. I’ve been trying to post a thank you for over an hour but it keeps wanting to post what I just wrote before. I really despise this phone sometimes lol

    Thank you from the bottom of my heart. Can I upload photos or a youtube video here of the kids on CHRISTMAS? This was a god send to us, all I had to give them was a kids bible that the church gave me and an ornament.

    Shawn Reed | December 17, 2014 at 9:51 pm
    Hello and thanks for this awesome blog post. I’m Shawn, a disabled vet (but still working because the VA screwed me) and single dad of 7 year old Aurora and 9 year old Shawn (JR)

    Aurora loves ponies, Disney, movies and girlie things and Shawn loves outdoor types of stuff.
    Any help would be appreciated. I apologize in advance for the crazy prices on amazon. Bless you and I hope everyone helping out is rewarded greatly.

    http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/wishlist/2JOO30K42ZGAS/ref=cm_sw_su_w

    (If you want to and your kids are okay with it a picture would be lovely, but not necessary at all. 🙂 ~ Jenny)

  1318. I am in tears right now! Thank you to the people who got my son the gifts. I was originally post #957 (Robyn). I have been so stressed about my financial situation, with trying to pay bills, get a car somehow and figure out Christmas for my amazing little boy…. This has been a godsend. Thank you thank you thank you!!! I am so grateful and so happy that there are such amazing generous people out there.
    Merry Christmas!

  1320. Hello! My name is Jen. I have an amazing, hardworking husband. We have 4 kids. Alex is 16, Abby is 14, Isabella is 5 and Lillian is 3. This has been one of the hardest years of our lives. Isabella was born with a rare medical condition, which has caused her to have to undergo surgery 21 times. This year has been so tough on her, she nearly lost her life. She spent several months in the hospital. I am unable to work because of this, and those several months in the hospital put us very behind on our finances. All of the kids suffered this year, but they always smiled, and they always understood. Our mortgage is currently 3 months late, and we aren’t even sure when we can pay it. Expenses are never ending. We would really appreciate any help. We love Christmas, and our kids really deserve an amazing Christmas.

    Thank you, Bless you all!

    Jenniferkulesza@yahoo.com

    http://amzn.com/w/CPDMVZAKM61R

    (A board game is on its way to you. ~ Jenny)

  1321. Sonja @ 1282: I don’t know if the unicorn meat will get there in time (not sure how much magic can leak from the can), but it’s on the way!
    Crystal @ 1292: A very merry Christmas to your girls!

  1322. @thebloggess Thank you so much! That was one I was really hoping to get for my youngest. She has wild hair like Merida, and she is such a brave girl. All my girls are so strong to face what they are facing. I am in awe of this blog. I told my oldest a bit about it and told her that someday, when we are back on our feet again, I’d like to do this for others. It is such a blessing!

  1323. @jennfromohio (#1277): Diapers are on the way, and they should be there tomorrow or the next day. Hang in there and Happy Holidays!

  1324. Again I just want to say THANK YOU over and over for everyone here and especially to those that have gave my children something to open on Christmas morning. So thank you to @CharisLove & @SqualorHouseGail and @thebloggess. If there was someone else that sent something and decided to keep quiet about it THANK YOU to you too. When I told my other half what was happening he just sat there with his mouth open, wiped his eyes and said he had to go to the bathroom. Again thank you so much to everyone that is helping others this year <3

  1325. This has been a very difficult year for my little boy. He is 11 years old and there’s just no way that we’re going to be able to make it a very nice Christmas for him. He’s so special. He loves music – he loves to sing! He doesn’t like fiction books 🙂 He’s my little engineer. I would really love to get him into learning some computer programming, but I don’t know where to start with that. He wants to be a crash test engineer when he grows up – he is obsessed with crash tests 🙂

    You have to realize about AJ that he is a very lonely child. I am agoraphobic, so I can never leave my house. I have terrible panic attacks. He is my caretaker, and he works so hard at taking care of me, and I hate myself for allowing our lives to become so isolated. He needs friends, and a chance at life, and I can’t help him with that in traditional ways. He often gets bullied at school, and I can’t go there to stick up for him. His father commutes 4 hours a day so we don’t see him often. His father is a GOOD man, though. AJ is just SUCH a good little boy. So very sweet and kind. Since I’ve only been able to get him a few very small things, I’m going to share his wishlist. I understand if that’s not okay, though. I have his wishlist here: http://www.amazon.com/registry/giftlist/1SMPDZ8M2419M Thank you for reading! Some day when I am able to get to a therapist and get better I am going to make sure he truly has the life he deserves. I’ve been going through this for 23 years, though, so .. well, it’s just hard. I don’t know how to deal with another lonely Christmas with no family or friends to visit, or have over to visit. Well, again, thank you for reading.

    (I struggle with agoraphobia too sometimes.It sucks but it can get better and at least it’s a disorder that gives you time to spend with your son. That’s the way I try to look at it. Sent a book to you from your wish list. ~ Jenny)

  1327. @MistyR, #1203: Just sent a couple things for the kiddos. Hope this makes the holidays a bit better.

  1329. Insomniac here, reading and bawling. You all are amazing people. The people who are in a position to give have me in awe of your generous spirits. I keep thinking each year Christmas is going to be better, but this one may be the hardest for us to date. We are a family of 4 with two teenage daughters. I’ve been looking for work for some time now after a layoff, hubby just started a new job after also looking for months, which is a blessing but will still not cover our monthly bills. Christmas is coming at a time when we are two months behind in our mortgage, trying to navigate life with one 14 year old vehicle among 3 licensed drivers, and really just trying to keep our heads above water day by day.

    All I really would like are some winter boots for my 13 year old, who is currently wearing the only pair of mine I own, and a winter coat for my 17 year old who is currently wearing the same coat she’s had since 8th grade. We live in the frozen tundra of WI, lol, and of course they are both able to get by with what we currently have, but I’d love for them to not “have to” at a time when there isn’t anything more I can do for them. I do have a wish list that is rarely used (ignore the books I’ve randomly wished for over the years dealing with Celiac 🙂 ) but I have never actually shopped for clothes from Amazon before, so I put gift card at the top because I’m not sure what style they would choose if given the opportunity, nor would I feel that one person would necessarily fulfill this wish.

    http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/wishlist/3I8H47EHILNJL/ref=topnav_lists_1

    And no matter what happens, this thread has been a light for so many, and I am grateful. <3

    (FYI…You need to add your email address to get gift cards. Just sent the Sense and Sensibility DVD. A favorite here. ~ Jenny)

  1331. I may have double posted, I can’t tell if my original went through.

    I am trying to keep myself from getting evicted from a mobile home park after three months spent getting my heater fixed. If anyone can help with this, even a dollar’s worth, it’d be appreciated. Here is the link.

    http://www.gofundme.com/preventevictionart

    I am saving a lot of these amazon wish lists for when I am more flush with cash.

    Made a wishlist too, but it was sort of half-hearted. http://amzn.com/w/3JPIGRMOBGILS

  1332. http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/wishlist/3IRF86AVDQ2BZ/ref=topnav_lists_1…My name is Kristin. I am a single parent. My son, Bronson, is my light. He is such a kind, caring, compassionate young man (16). His Christmas gift this year from his father (who lives 3,000 miles away and has holiday visitation) was the following statement: “I deserve a vacation. Make other plans.” Bronson hasn’t received a call or card for the holidays. I cannot give him all he wants, and Bronson never asks. He loves to dress nicely, and we try our best at store clearance sales. I only selected a small number of items, there are just too many that are in need. Maybe…..Thank you….and thank you humbly for all you have already done. Best.

  1333. @theblogess THANK YOU SO MUCH!! My 4 year old is obsessed with Fireman Sam he is going to be so excited to open that on Christmas!! Thank you thank you THANK YOU from the bottom of my heart!

  1334. @ jenkouw (#889), you don’t seem to have added a shipping address to your wishlist. And sadly, the boots on your list are not available anymore. If you see this, maybe you could add an address (see tutorial in the blog post) and pick another type of boots?

  1335. makaylas Wish List 
    Link:http://www.amazon.com/registry/wishlist/283H8F55JPL3N

    masons Wish List 
    Link:http://www.amazon.com/registry/wishlist/XUUF45GDBLLC

    mikey’s Wish List 
    Link:http://www.amazon.com/registry/wishlist/3UGWJZVZ5I6FF

    wow, this is incredible. I thought I had ran out of time for help this year. I do see that I am a couple days late for this and so many of you have already helped so many people in need, but I am hoping that you might want to help just a little bit more. You see, my brother and his kids mom are both incarcerated. I have temporary custody of their 3 kids. Makayla and mikey, twins, age 16, and mason, 1 month. All of this happened so very fast, as you must see by my youngest nephew’s age. I do not have any children of my own, but I love these 3 just as much. I know the twins are older and believe me, they understand. But I think it would make their Christmas a whole lot better if they had a “secret santa” 😉 anything you can do will help a bunch. Thanks to all of you generous people and merry Christmas.

    (Sent a book and a baby blanket. ~ Jenny)

  1336. Hello to Bloggess and everyone here ! I am the 43 year old (you didnt hear that !) single mom of three absolutely wonderful kids ! They have been my strength for the past 5 years since their dad and I separated.It was a scarey separation but they have adjusted so well !They have never complained about how they dont have things like other kids at school or asked for things they know we just cant afford. They love to read and play games and that is mostly what is on the wishlist I made. We have some but it would be awesome to have games with all the pieces ! Thank you for taking the time to read this and may you and your families have a Merry Christmas ! Julia
    http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/wishlist/30GM7Z30T4YL9/ref=cm_wl_huc_view

  1337. To every single person who helped my son, I sincerely thank you from the very bottom of my heart. And to the special somebody that bought him the tablet, I know you just made his Christmas. For the first time in months I have a real smile on my face. Thank you all again. Merry Christmas

  1338. I have made a wish list for my best friend Amy she does not have internet so I made it for her! She is a single mom of 3 who works 50+ hours a week and still can’t get ahead. Her ex does not pay child support so she is raising her kids on her own. She does not qualify for state assistance because she works to much. My mom’s group and I have gathered some stuff for her kids for Christmas. She has a 16 year old daughter who is an honor role student who has already been accepted to a teaching collage to become a teacher. She is an amazing girl she watches her brother and sister everyday so mom can work!! She has another daughter who is 9 and is the most lovable little girl ever. And she also has a 7 year old son who is so charming and polite he is a little heart breaker! Any little bit would help this incredible mom and amazing kiddos!! Thank you for taking the time to read this!! Happy Holidays this really is an amazing thing to do for people!!
    http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/giftlist/FYDGPUHVJS59/ref=topnav_lists_3

  1339. To Kristen who purchased my son diapers: thank you!
    To the bloggess and other bloggers taking my burden off of me and helping me carry this wait: you are more amazing than I could describe. Telling your kids Santa isn’t coming is something I was so afraid of and you’ve now taken that away from me.

    So many hugs and thanks to you!

    -jenn

  1342. Hello! Forgive me as I’m new to this. This is my first Christmas as a single mother after finally finding the courage to leave their abusive father. We are doing okay emotionally, financially is an entirely different story. I hate asking for help as in the past, I was always the first one to help those in need. Now I find myself in need and staring at a bare Christmas tree. I had saved a little money for presents only to have my son’s glasses break and my daughter get a respiratory infection in the same week. It feels as though I take one step forward, two steps back every day. My children are older, 14 and 10 but they are still hoping Santa will come through. The 14 year old understands but my 10 year old daughter is still trying desperately to believe.

    Here is their wish list, and a heartfelt THANK YOU to anyone who can help.
    http://amzn.com/w/8MVAYNMJBJRG

  1343. My turn to be “that girl” this morning !

    To echo what Jenny and a few others have said, those of us with Amazon Prime can get PRIME QUALIFIED gifts to you before Christmas, the latest we can order them is Monday. I’ve seen quite a few lists with no Prime qualified gifts on them… so if you haven’t received anything on your list please (!) go back and update them and add some Prime items and repost with a short comment to that effect. To echo someone else, it helps a LOT if there are a variety of price ranges on your lists. 🙂 A few of you have figured out how to add comments to specific items on your wish list – that helps Santa too. It’s the equivalent of a kid writing in big block letters that/those item(s) on their list they most want or need. 🙂

    Love to you all…

  1344. P.S. My kitties are meowing to get in on the action, so if you’ve got a beloved furry family member that needs food or a toy or something to scratch on, post that in the comments so my cats see it. They told me they didn’t need more toys this year, just me to take time to play with them more. Instead they’d like to send something to your kitties. (yes, we’ve already donated to rescue groups…)

    (There are several people who are asking for help with animal requests or shelter wish lists. It’s hand to search through all the comments but they are there. 🙂 ~ Jenny)

  1346. Thank you from the bottom of my heart to whoever bought raiden diapers. That takes a nice chunk out of how far I need to stretch our next paycheck.I cannot tell you the weight this experience has lifted off my chest. This has been such a hard stressfull year stretching paychecks as far as they’ll go. Then the stress of a nonverbal child on the spectrum. I found him sitting SITTING in the freezer yesterday. My back was turned for literally 2 minutes and he climbed the counter and was sitting in the freezer kicking his legs. This summer he was playing in his room and kicked out a screen in his window and dropped 7 feet to the backyard. I almost died when I went back there and he was gone luckily it was less then 5min and he was just playing in the grass with balls (that he thought to throw out first). So yea I’ve been at my breaking point and this just gives me thatcshining spot of awesome when things feel extra dark.

  1347. @Kim I have a wishlist for our kitties. We have three- my daughter’s cat is Stink (named appropriately). Stink is 2 years old and we rescued him. My son’s cat is Whiskers- he is one year old and was given to my son last year for Christmas. My cat is Oreo. He’s pushing 14 years old and is still as lovey and playful as ever. I usually have small stockings out for our kitties with treats and a toy in each. http://amzn.com/w/2G4344KH2UVOC

  1348. Being a disabled single mom at Christmas is not easy but you have helped to put a smile on my face. Jenny, thank you so much for the book. My son will love it!

    Link: http://amzn.com/w/ZVIF7UP41R6L

    Here’s a picture of my little guy that you are helping 🙂

    [IMG]http://i60.tinypic.com/nflesp.jpg[/IMG]

  1349. @Amy 714/1293 75% of the stuff I sent should be there by tomorrow, but the gift for your oldest might not arrive until the 23rd, but it’s coming!

  1350. If anyone is still looking to help a family my 7 and 6 year olds would love to receive some roller skate under the tree from Santa! We’re in Ohio and Kristin already blessed us with diapers and books! I just thought maybe it wouldn’t hurt to try and appeal to the elfa for an active gift. We are already super blessed from this Christmas miracle , thanks Bloggess you are an angel!

    http://www.amazon.com/registry/wishlist/2Z8OBCGVGJC4V

  1351. hello my name is angela. This page is amazing thank you jenny for all the work you have done with this page it is truly amazing to see how many wonderful people there are here. I am a hard working mom with one son he is 14. he knows and understands we have struggled this year and he knows there will probably not be a Christmas this year because we just don’t have the money for extra things this year. but if any of you would be so kind to surprise him this Christmas I made a short list of things he needs/wants just some warm weather clothing. he loves being outside but does not have any warm gloves or socks for the cold ohio winters. his jacket still fits him and most of his warm pants but his socks have holes in them and his hands have outgrown his old gloves. thank you all for your kindness and reading about my son and I.

    http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/wishlist/130VPW34FXEVK/ref=cm_wl_rlist_go_o

  1352. Somehow I screwed it up… so she started from scratch. My previous post was #1072

    MarieW | December 17, 2014 at 3:37 pm

    I’m posting my daughter’s wish list here. She asked me not to peek at it so I’m guessing she’s wanting to play Santa and there are a few things on it for me. Hopefully, it’s obvious what’s for her and you’ll lean that way. We’ve had a hard year or so but we know it will get better. I am overwhelmed at the outpouring of caring here. Thank you!
    http://amzn.com/w/2KN2NM7CI64ZJ

  1353. Brittany C #891 – Christmas Shirts and toys are on their way to you . Merry Christmas

  1354. @ Tasha Lynn (#1334)
    I ordered some things from your lists. Makayla’s book list is scary… so I just got her the Kindle. 😉

  1355. Hello, it took me three days to get up the courage to do this,but here goes…
    I have two wonderful, special needs kids, a son, 16 and a daughter, age 14. They are my whole world. I am disabled and can’t work.This year has been tight because we had some unexpected medical expenses(foot surgery) and home repairs (AC, which is a must have here in FL).

    We love The Bloggess so much because we have to same wacky sense of humor and also live with mental illness. I am so thankful to Jenny because she took the time to write to my son when he was being bullied and offered to set Copernicus on his bully. He was so excited to meet her at a book signing. I’m such a cool mom, I drove us two hours AND let them play hooky to go! LOL

    So if you can help, thank you so much! We put stuff of all different prices on there. My son wants a gaming computer. I’m sure he’d love it, but they are crazy expensive! Even a gift card would let them pick out what they really want. Many Thanks and bless you.

    For my daughter
    http://www.amazon.com/registry/giftlist/3A4XJZTNIPGLK

    For my son
    http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/giftlist/VJZE9D6V0PB7/ref=cm_go_nav_recip_gl?

  1356. To all the wonderful, kind people who bought gifts for my children, THANK YOU, SO MUCH. The fact that they will have something for the holidays is a miracle, which you helped create. Infinite gratitude for you and The Bloggess. My heart is filled with gratitude. Thank you!

  1357. Good morning all you wonderdul people! I apologize in advance for the novel but there is just so much I want to say. I posted last night (Nicole H | December 17, 2014 at 9:22 pm) but was in a hurry and trying to do it on my ipad so I wanted to give some more info for the amazing family I’m trying to help.

    Fortunately, I am blessed with everything my family needs this Christmas and was able to adopt another family to provide their Christmas as well. On the flip side, my capacity for giving is now maxed out even though I truly wish I could help them. That’s what brought me here.

    Tonja is a dear friend of mine. We met at work almost ten years ago (wow). She is a wonderful mother to Biancha (20) and Wyatt (5), and step mother to Haley (14), Lexi (12), and Zander (9). Biancha has taken care of Christmas for her little brother Wyatt, but I want to make sure the other three are taken care of as well.

    A little background: Tonja escaped an abusive relationship with Wyatt’s father almost 3 years ago. She moved out of state to be closer to HER father, who helped her find a job and a place to live. The abuser has had her in and out of court multiple times since she left, forcing her to travel back and forth, but she has retained full custody of Wyatt. She met Brian there and he has become her rock. Haley, Lexi, and Zander are his kids. Less than two months ago, they had a terrible falling out with Tonja’s dad and were forced to move back to our hometown. Brian has a new job and they have somewhere to live, but that doesn’t leave any money for extras. Tonja is actively searching for a job but hasn’t found one yet…though she has had interviews.

    Haley only asked for gift cards so she could buy new clothes. Lexi loves sports and specifically asked for an airsoft gun. I added the glasses and pellets to make sure she would have everything she needs. Zander asked for Gamestop gift cards because he can buy used games there and he loves shoes.

    Gamestop gift cards are only offered in $25 or $50, but Amazon gift cards can be used to buy Gamestop gift cards, so I left both on there. I’m trying to find the link where you can choose how much to put on a gift card, but until then I added the $25 one.

    Lastly, the gifts are set to ship to my address because Tonja shares her address with several other families and sometimes getting mail is dicey. I am by no means expecting anyone to buy anything on the wishlist (I will make it happen somehow if nobody is able), but if you choose to buy THANK YOU SO MUCH.

    Wish List Link: http://amzn.com/w/1AS4O6P7HJG89

    Nicole (behindblueeyes3050 at yahoo dot com)

  1358. I just keep coming back to read the comments. It’s like watching the end of “It’s a Wonderful Life,” except bigger and more amazing, because none of us know each other.

    I was only able to help a little this year, but I wanted to come back to say thank to you everyone who is asking for help. Asking for help is hard, and it takes bravery and humility to put your situation out there. It’s taking a huge leap, and you have to have the faith (whatever kind you subscribe to) that someone will be there to catch you.

    By asking for help, you are giving us an amazing gift – the chance to make a difference in someone else’s life. Without you asking, this Christmas/Festivus/GravyGiving/Solstice miralce wouldn’t be happening. So, while you are grateful for the Santas or angels or elves who are helping to make your holiday magical, we are grateful to you.

    and Jenny, thank you again. If your blog isn’t the reason that the internet was invented, I don’t know what is.

  1359. These comments are tearing me up. I hope everyone who needs gets something. I’ve sent out a few gifts; I wish I had the funds to send more, but this has been an expensive year for me.

  1360. Please and thank you’s wish list
    Link: http://www.amazon.com/registry/wishlist/3QWPZ48RD6YOY

    I’m truly grateful if anyone can help with fulfilling even one thing on my childrens list.
    We went to see Santa and when asked what they wanted they said nothing. It’s something that they don’t like to ask other for help or for things. Funny how life works out. I wasn’t sure how this thing works so I put in different colors of items

    My eldest is girl is 7 is into Littlest pet shop and would love a scooter and Xbox. We simply can’t. It breaks a moms heart not to be able. She’s aware of our situation and honestly has taken it quite well but you can see your kids heart break. And that kills me.
    My youngest son is 4 he loves thomas and mine craft and Legos

    Thank you to the bloggess for giving this opportunity to my family and we truly are humbled by anyone able to help.
    .

  1361. @ MarieW, I picked something from the list that I know is awesome because I have it myself. No idea whether it is for you or your daughter, but I hope you both will like it!

  1362. Good morning and thank you to the mystery gifter who bought items off of my girl’s wishlist! <3

    @Kim I have a thing or two on my list for my kitties! Thank you so much for the kind offer!!

    Julie D~http://amzn.com/w/MOVY70VHHPK8

  1363. Jullia (#1335) – movie gift card and a game is on its way to you. Hope you and your rugrats have a Merry Christmas!

  1364. @Jennfromohio (#1347) – the skates are on their way. However, your son’s skates might not arrived until the end of January, but let him know they’ll be there! 🙂

  1365. @MistyR (#1135) – Your daughter’s pea coat should be there by the end of the month. 🙂

  1366. I woke up this morning to a text message from a friend letting me know that all but one gift had been purchased from my wish list. ( my sons big gift was still there, but I’m hoping I can get that for his Birthday) I am in awe!!! Crying yet again from the generosity of strangers. You have restored my hope in humanity, and I am filled with so many emotions right now!!!. I know I have missed a few comments to thank people. Bee, Debby and Bloggess thank you oh so very much for your gifts. You have no idea what this means to me. I had no idea how I was going to buy gifts let alone food. It’s hard for me to ask for help but I was out of options. My mom always told me, ” Some times it takes a village”. She is 100% right. You all are now part of my village. I adore you all. Thank you thank you. Much love to all of you. I added a few art kits to occupy the littles on snowy days. To everyone I wish you all a very Merry Christmas and a Happy and Safe New Year!!! xoxoxo
    http://amzn.com/w/3I8U8MWPAZI0E

  1367. Good morning, everyone! I can’t believe all of these wonderful people that are able to help myself and others!

    The Bloggess was kind enough to purchase a DVD for my little sister, but I am hoping someone would be able to get something for my little brother, Tyler, too. He loves science and computer games (especially Minecraft). What he would like most of all is a new bed set for his bed, which I just can’t afford for him right now.. maybe in a couple months. I have created a list of a few items he would like.

    Tyler is a great kid. He always puts others before himself.. he’s a straight A student in 5th grade. He wants to be a doctor when he gets older! He is active with Royal Rangers, which is a church program. The bow and arrow set would be used for when they go on camping trips.

    If anyone donates anything to Tyler, please let me know. I want them to write thank you letters to each person who purchases a gift for them.

    Thank you again from the bottom of my heart!!!

    Here is Tyler’s list: http://www.amazon.com/registry/giftlist/1TRW8R65X69YV

  1370. I think somebody made Santa Jim cry (#855). Four more things purchased from the wish list – I can’t find anything in the comments so I don’t know who to thank, but THANK YOU! Santa has a Secret Santa – how awesome is that?!

    Thank you, all of you beautiful people, for making this such a wonderful Christmas. I have been almost glued to my seat reading comments, my heart getting fuller and fuller, so much joy being spread here . . . If we could just bottle the stuff and give it away, we would have world peace. 🙂

  1371. Julia 1335: there is a scrabble set on its way, guaranteed delivery Dec 22. Merry Christmas!

  1372. Jenny, just when I feel hopeless at all the tragedy in the world today, you remind me that there is so much goodness and generosity in this world, too, and that is what I need to focus on.

  1373. This is such a beautiful idea Jennifer (Bloggess). Before my life got so difficult we used to give so much. It breaks my heart to be on the other end of that with no end in sight. How did my life get so congested with money worries? Oh so many reasons….not the least of which is medical bills. I long to be the charity driven person I used to be. I do what I can with what we have now. Enough that people do notice but it’s not enough for me. My heart screams for the ability to just give and give. We are drowning in bills and working so hard. We have all we “need” and I was blessed with people buying my kids gifts this year. Anything I buy is on credit so I try not to buy anything. My heart aches. My body hurts (RA and Lupus). We work hard and where does it go? I am tired. Some days I have to force myself to keep going … looking for the way out (which is work…to pay it all off). I don’t have a material need and would not ask for monetary needs. I want to thank you for being the person you are. You inspire me. What I wouldn’t give to be in a position to help with this. I dream of being debt free (or even debt less) and being able to just help people again! I am sad that I am the one being helped this Christmas. The people I have helped are now returning the favor. I feel very lucky. Merry Christmas Bloggess! You are fabulous and inspire me to keep trucking along.

  1374. Kim – if you are still looking for furbabies in need of gifts, I added a few cat items to my personal list if you would like to send my babies something. They would certainly love it! Just ignore the people stuff on the list. 🙂 http://amzn.com/w/31VSYS9IHC5M2

    Also, depending on what kind of device you are using, you might be able to do a search for cat, dog, animal, rescue – etc. I know I have seen a few – I think they might be on page one. And bless you for caring so much! I have often said that I can live without a lot of things, but I have to have a cat.

  1376. Hi I am Amanda. I was told I could post here and may receive some help. Just need one thing a hairdryer. Misbehave up last night drying my son’s hair. It’s kinda unusual but I use one daily. I would gladly appreciate it. It’s around 16.00 on Amazon. Thank you. Here is the link to my wish list. http://amzn.com/w/1W2WK85WS9F06

  1377. Hi, Jenny, Can you delete or edit my post #392? I was able to find some stuff for them at the thrift store yesterday and the prices of the items I had on the wishlist are fluctuating upwards or are becoming unavailable. I also didn’t realize that youtube link would embed. I was expecting a person could just click on over if they were interested. This whole thing is making me feel anxious, but I really appreciate the opportunity! (I couldn’t find how to contact you directly, so commented.)

    (Edited. 🙂 ~ Jenny)

  1378. Aww Darryl, so glad you were able to smile. That made me cry. (It wasn’t me, but so glad someone was able to get that tablet for Little Darryl.)

    It cannot be said enough this entire community of givers is awesome. <3

  1380. Terrilyn 1341, the Fire TV should arrive Dec 22 with a few other items. Merry Christmas from Virginia and via my mom, New Jersey!

  1381. A co-worker of mine has 2 kids. They were at the mall to buy presents and someone asked them for a donation, his son reached into his pocket to get some money and the evil person took ALL the money they had for Christmas out of his hand and ran away. the Cops and mall security couldn’t catch him so there will be no presents for this family. Any help would be appreciated. I could pass along a gift card to him.

  1382. For those of you offering stories and wishlists – THANK YOU for giving me the opportunity to play secret santa!
    I sent items from 6 wishlists – check the tag for ‘From: The Bloggess Army’ – many of which may not arrive until after Christmas, so please don’t despair.
    Tried for 12 wishlists but so many were already purchased (you guys rock!). I’m off to find 6 more.

  1383. Thank you to whoever purchased things off my wish list! I can’t even begin to express how happy and surprised I was to see things purchased off my list.

  1387. Yes to your comment about books. Don’t give (or encourage your kids/grandkids to use) some piece of crap machinery. The research shows that kids get nothing from interactions with machines, however “educational.” It’s a waste of time and teaches their brains not to focus.

    Give a book. And read it with them, as others have said here.

  1388. @BeffyDee Beth, THANK YOU so much, your gifts have just arrived, and because I hadn’t realised what exactly you’d picked were a total surprise. Thank you for Nathan’s chewy thing and my heat pads especially, I’d run out of the last ones of the pads last week, and couldn’t afford any more (they make all the difference to me on bad days), and Nathan (10, with ASD and ADHD) has just destroyed his previous chewy (next thing without those? Clothes, argh!). Thank you so much for your generosity, you’ve made this sad, fat goth very smiley (and a little weepy, but good tears, promise!) ~Gaynor xx

  1389. @Ivie I just got on and omg she is going to freak over that, she saw one at the store the other day was quite upset when I told her we couldn’t afford it. Her old jacket is thin and doesn’t keep her warm so she will get a lot of use out of this. You are amazing!

    And thank you to the others who sent something to my two wonderful children they are going to have a wonderful Christmas morning, the best in a few years. Thank you!

  1391. Thank you, bloggess! ❤️

    I just want to say THANK YOU to all of those helping!!! You all are amazing. I am a single mom and I am currently working on my MBA. I haven’t been able to find stable employment in my town despite having a bachelors and another masters degree. I’ve raised my 3 kids by myself while going to school and struggling to stay ahead of the bills. I hope I can show my kids a great Christmas this year. This is their list: https://www.amazon.com/registry/wishlist/2YJ4JBKIF8XAW/ref=cm_sw_r_ip_wl_o_JpEKub0DBSC6S

  1392. Every year I think that this will be the year that things start to turn around. By mid year, I am proven wrong, with a freaky twist. My situation is not dire – I have no children of my own. I am an auntie to 1 young teen niece as well as 3 grand-nephews and nieces from my older ones. The littles are pretty easy, but I am struggling with my lovely teen’s gift. She is so creative and smart and crafty. She performs in plays and fights bullying and actively supports LGBTQ and just amazes me with her social conscience. If anybody would like to help, I have made a wish list of various things she likes http://www.amazon.ca/registry/wishlist/1G1GUIQF0GGRL

  1393. Natasha 1270 I sent a couple things for the adults from your list. It should be there by Monday. Merry Christmas

  1394. Terrilyn (#1341) You’ve got some things coming. Delivery by Dec. 22nd…Merry Christmas!

  1395. Thank you Alexandra! The sharing that’s been happening is truly amazing!

    Merry Christmas!

  1397. Jenny, you are an absolute angel for encouraging people to help others. My friend Kim (#959) cried and cried last night at everyone’s generosity. Jaime desperately needed a new winter coat, and it was one of the first items purchased! She and Jaime have had such an awful year. Thank you guys all so much for making her and Jaime’s Christmas so much better! I’m so glad that I am a part of this community!

  1398. @sistercarrion / Gaynor

    You’re so welcome! (there might be one or two other things that appear over the next couple of days – I have seen a few despatch emails come through). Merry Christmas, good laydee!

    I just got your message at work (I literally just flicked on to the comments for the first time today and saw your reply) and then I told my friend here and had a couple of tears myself.
    This is truly wonderful. I’m so glad to be a part of it!

    Sent with much love, BeffyDee / Beth xx

  1399. I am crying looking through the comments. You people are fucking amazing. I have enough for our little family, but I am so thankful to have been able to pass the word along to my friends.

    Jenny, You have made my Christmas so much shiner. No power in ‘verse shall stop The Bloggess.
    (Binge watching Firefly is always the right decision)

  1400. Hey, guys, I have a tween adventure novel i’d be happy to send a signed copy to your kid. i will even personalize it. facebook message me on my author page Margo Solod with an address and i will priority mail you a copy. (i just sent out a few copies but am willing to send more, so if you didn’t see this before and want one, message me the name of the kkid and the address to send it to and i will get it on its way!

  1401. Wow. Still going strong here. I’m blown away by everyone so I’m leaving this post up one more day as the front page story. Also, we’re at 1,400 comments, but my blog only shows 700 comments at a time so click on the “NEWER COMMENTS” link at the bottom to see page 3 which I think will start any moment now…

    ~Jenny

  1402. @ Bonnie 1345 – My newly adopted kitty would like to send your kitties some treats, but your address isn’t included. Please see Jenny’s instructions and I will try again. Thanks!

  1404. I would just like to thank you, Jenny, for making this possible. It’s sooooo difficult to be on the edge financially & it’s absolutely wonderful to be able to help people who would otherwise slip through the cracks.

    Thank you for providing this opportunity, Jenny!

  1405. Cailin (way back at #454), I had received a shipping confirmation yesterday for the boots for your niece but then this morning I woke up to this email from the Amazon seller:

    Order ID 107-3751364-0569:
    1 of DF-8933 Women’s Winter Boots Faux Suede Zipper Fashion Ankle Warm Fur Lined Shoes (11 B(M) US, Black) [ASIN: B00O17IB6S]

    ————- Begin message ————-

    dear customer, thanks for your order my item, sorry this item for size 11 was out of stock already, could you mind change to other style in our store “GOOD4U99”, WE WILL OFFER HALF PRICE TO YOU, please let us know your decision,thanks

    Ugh! Third party sellers are usually pretty reliable on Amazon, but not this time, sadly. There was someone else who said they’d ordered the boots as well (maybe we ordered at the same time and caused a glitch in the Amazon matrix? Only thing I can think of since Amazon doesn’t usually allow duplicate wishlist orders) so I’m hoping their order went through and your awesome niece will get the boots she needs. If not, maybe you could find another pair and put them on the list and repost. So sorry about this!

    Mandy (#1352) your post was wonderful!

  1406. Shannon (1384)- I just updated it. I thought the settings would carry over to the other lists. Silly me for thinking it’d be that easy! 🙂 Please tell your newly adopted kitty that Stink, Whisk, Oreo and the humans appreciate it (and thank you to you as well!)

  1407. A friend told me about this, and although I may be too late, I could really use the help too. I made a list with a few needed items, and some food items that my baby loves but are far out of our budget right now. Anything would just be such a weight off of my shoulders! Merry Christmas to all of you!
    http://amzn.com/w/3H0UOWKDODG05

  1408. Maggie (#705), I donated a little for Charlie’s surgery. I have a 15.5 yo pup who was diagnosed with cancer 2.5 years ago and is still going strong! I want to see Charlie have the same chance!

  1409. Tamara S – a box of baby wipes and a pack of dinos should be arriving Saturday. Merry Christmas!

  1410. A conundrum: The Bloggess from Texas lets people leave comments on her site which leads to person X asking for a holiday card which leads to person Y offering to send a card. If person X and person Y actually live in the same town, who is responsible for that miracle? James Garfield may require canonization.

  1411. Thank you to my Angels who have and are helpiing my
    Jimmy 14, Sarah 6 and Emily 9 for Christmas!

     http://www.amazon.com/registry/wishlist/NB2YU45CQGJ7

  1414. I’m #1328 up above and updated my email as a comment on the list. Again, please ignore the books, those were for my Celiac reference, not my kids. I added a few actual boots/coat options that I think they would like. It’s hard finding warm, quality items for cheap, thus my dilemma and the reason my youngest is wearing my only boots (which were bought for me when I was in high school. Embarrassing, but true, lol.). So, I feel like everything is too expensive but I seriously never realized Amazon had clothes, for how little I am able to shop. They really do have everything! Whenever we are able, we’ve been religiously checking the “local” Goodwill 25 miles away for boots, but in this area they get snatched up immediately and we’ve had no luck so far.

    http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/wishlist/3I8H47EHILNJL/ref=topnav_lists_1

    <3 Jenny, my daughter will be so tickled at the Sense & Sensibility video. That thing has literally been on my list for years. You are so sweet and this is such a wonderful community I'm proud to be a part of.

  1415. BayouFrog, I’m so sorry for your loss. <3 Thank you so much, you rock.

    I am so far behind here (had to go to the dr yesterday and was gone for 12 hours)

    When, I got back almost everything was purchased off A and S and T, C, H's lists. You all are amazing and have just made Christmas amazing for five awesome kids.

    Thank you so very much.

    My email is suzysmithATgmail.com If you want a thank you from the kids sent to you, send me your address or email! Thank you all again and again.

  1416. Lauren (#1406) – Santa needs to know which chimney to come down! Please add your address to your wish list. See Jenny’s tutorial at the end of the post.

  1417. Lauren #1406 Nope, not too late! A couple of things should be there by Friday and one hopefully by the 23rd!

  1420. http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/wishlist/3RD4N4VKM5DRX/ref=cm_wl_sortbar_o_page_2?ie=UTF8&page=2

    Here is a link to my list, of course it is just that, I let the kids go through and day dream about things that they would ask Santa for. The children are 11 (Boy), 8 (girl), and 6 (boy). Unfortunately it’s been a tough couple years on them. We recently had to relocate due to having to divorce their father and get into a healthier environment. Unfortunately he couldn’t get a hold of his drinking and it escalated to violence. We left our family and friends behind and I have a great new job.
    Between restructuring our life and being stuck under a significant amount of debt, the Christmas money just isn’t there. I have never asked for help before.
    Life sometimes just throws you a curve ball even when you think you have done everything right. We have a warm home, so we are Thankful everyday and my children will tell you, they feel blessed in our new life. They are great kids, my boys pick and sell sweetcorn in the summers and my daughter helps in anyway possible to help pay for things they need.

  1422. Lauren @1406 – I sent you a couple things. It looks like someone else also sent you one of the items, so you will have plenty of organic snacks for your child this season. They stay fresh in the pantry for months. Happy holidays and best wishes to you and your family. Warmly, a mom in San Francisco

  1424. If you use smile.amazon.com instead of http://www.amazon.com, a small percentage of your purchase will go towards the charity of your choice.

    (I personally use Bella’s Bully Buddies, a Baltimore-area pit bull rescue where I adopted my dog.)

  1426. Lauren #1406: oops! Santa got confused! Some things are on their way, probably as Happy New Year gifts!

  1427. I can not donate this year again. I wish I could. Single mom, 3 young daughters and on disability for massive panic attacks, agoraphobia, OCD and anxiety but I can offer prayers to those that need them.
    I hope that everyone has a Very Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year.
    And if you are like me, know that you are not alone.

  1428. I’m Elisa (#370), and am hoping that more people will see my list. I’ve had a few people get gift cards which was awesome and amazing but it isn’t enough for the camera. If you can help, please do. I plan to be able to help others next year. (PLAN to…it WILL happen!) Thanking all the wonderful kind hearted people on this blog and in my life. I’m honored and blessed to have found you all.

    Here’s my list: http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/wishlist/ref=nav_wish_list

    And my original post:
    Elisa | December 16, 2014 at 11:52 am
    You’re awesome, Jenny. I wish things were going well enough that we could help out. We’re no longer homeless, but not in a position to purchase gifts. Our daughter asked for one thing, which we managed somehow, although we’re struggling with bills. (My husband’s company is giving the employees 10 days off to celebrate Christmas with their families. This means after this Friday (which is rent money) we have no income for other bills/gas/food.)

    Normally I don’t mind not getting anything, but this year I kicked off a photography business and to progress and provide for my family I really need a new camera. Up to now I had been using a point and shoot (which was ok, but doesn’t do what I need it to do) and have taken portraits for friends, but my camera is limited, and now it’s broken (someone borrowed it, returned it broken). I have a portfolio now and with a push I can get people to pay me enough to help our family pull ourselves up (I know this because I’ve put myself out there and get inquiries frequently–which I am now turning away because of the camera situation). I chose photography because I’m good at it and because if I have a business unto myself then I can support my daughter and myself should anything happen to her daddy (he just had his third heart attack…he may or may not be around to provide for us). This would be a gift for my family, and not a hand out, but a way to help me help us.

    We’re good people. We believe in “paying it forward.” We had some people come to our aid when we were homeless and when we have the funds we buy food for people who need it, we donate clothing to shelters, we give a few dollars when we can to my daughter’s class so that a child whose parents couldn’t afford it can have ice cream on ice cream day. We do what we can when we can…and sometimes when we really can’t, but we’re so thankful we’re not homeless. (My husband encountered a homeless man at the dollar store, asking for change…it’s cold here. He didn’t have much and was very thin. My husband, even though we didn’t have “extra” money, went in the store and bought various kinds of food for the man to keep him relatively healthy. He had concerns for our safety, which is why he didn’t invite the man over. If he lived alone he would have done that too.)

    https://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/ref=cm_reg_rd-upd?ie=UTF8&id=1G3DTQZ3PLIA&type=wishlist

    There is my wishlist. I’ve comparisoned shopped. This is a low end camera, but way out of our range right now. I’m heartbroken. It’s a lot of money…but if a few people could send giftcards…it would really help us so much. In comparison, the cost of this would get us through one month. The camera itself can help us the rest of our lives. (And someday when I upgrade and move on I will donate this camera to someone else who needs one.)

    Sorry this is so long. I’m trying to stay positive for my family, and also freaking out about the upcoming two weeks with no pay. Thanks for reading if you’ve made it this far.

  1430. To Elizabeth from somewhere in the 1100’s – I sent you a few things. Half the shipment will arrive in time for Xmas, and a couple other items will be a pleasant New Year’s surprise. May your family have peace and prosperity, health and happiness in 2015 and beyond. Warmly, a mom in San Francisco

  1431. Thank you to Bloggess and Liza! My kids will be ecstatic when they get their gifts! I’m a bit of a blubbering mess this morning thanks to a couple of very kind strangers. This has been a phenomenal morning and I’m so so happy.

  1432. I left a comment back in the 1200s asking for good thoughts and/or a card. I am blown away that so many people responded. I love you people.

  1433. I wish I could help out but i just can’t. We have to get our starter fixed so it kind of screwed us over money wise. Thankfully, we bought the kids Christmas presents using my student loans last month. Unfortunately, my car decided that as soon as I was out of money, it would be a douchecanoe.

    Thank you for everything you’re doing, Jenny!!! I hope next year we’ll totally be in a better place to help others. I did donate 2 winter coats and my daughters less than a year old bucket seat to my daughters Head Start so they can find people who could use them. That’s the most I could do.

    Merry Christmas!! I love you all!

  1434. Oh, Jenny, beloved Bloggess – remember this thread when the lying liar that lies, Depression, is banging on your door again. During this time of year when the Solstice is near and darkness outlasts light, you made the light shine for all of us weirdos in your tribe. You get it – that blessing are meant to be shared, and in sharing yours you also gave us the chance to share with each other. Thank you! I would totally make and bring you nachos right now, I love you that much!

  1435. that should say to my other daughters* head start.

    Agh.

    4 kids= mommy brain and then some

  1438. @Christie items shipped today delivery just before or just after christmas (shortest range they offered)

    @meagen (with the torch and lego book – I apologize I lost track of your posted name) items out today should be there by 23rd

  1439. http://amzn.com/w/3RD4N4VKM5DRX

    Here is a link to my list, of course it is just that, I let the kids go through and day dream about things that they would ask Santa for. The children are 11 (boy), 8 (girl), and 6 (boy). Unfortunately it’s been a tough coupe of years on them. We recently had to relocate due to having to divorce their father and get into a healthier environment. He just could not get a hold of his alcoholism and it had escalated to violence. We left our family and friends and all the children have ever known behind. I have a great new job and they are starting to adjust.

    Between restructuring our lives and being stuck under a significant amount of debt on just my income, the Christmas money just isn’t there. I have never asked for help before.

    Life just sometimes throws you a curve ball, even when you think you have done everything right. We have a warm home, so we are thankful everyday and my children will tell you, they feel blessed in our new life. They are great kids, my boys pick and sell sweetcorn in the summers and my daughter helps out too for the things they need.

    Any help is of course appreciated though I know I am coming here late, I really hoped I would somehow bring it all together.

  1440. I have been living with family ever since I was pregnant with my two year old. Without going into too much personal detail, I have to unexpectedly move with my little guy and have a very short amount of time to do it. I have already shopped for his Christmas presents, but I am faced with the possibility of having to sell some or all in order to get the things we’ll need for a new place. I read about what this amazing community and figured I would give this a shot. Below is an Amazon list I have been working on for things we’ll need. All I have to start with is his crib (which is still in its box and never been used), a toddler travel bed, a full size mattress and two dressers. Anything that anyone could do to help us would be appreciated. And I will promise to pay it forward once I receive my taxes back in March. Bless you all for all of the love and support you share with your human family.
    http://amzn.com/w/137HMPWFJZ5JZ

  1442. I went back and looked at Jaime’s list (my son’s best friend) and some of the things on there had jumped way up in price, so I deleted a few items and added a few items that were eligible for the Prime free shipping. People have already donated from his list, so if there are still people on here who have not had anything donated at all, please please help them out first. That being said, here is his updated list:
    http://www.amazon.com/registry/giftlist/250FG1KJ75UFJ

  1443. @Bonnie 1346 now- A toy and treats on the way! Someone bought treats already, but you can never have to many! Merry Christmas from my Izzy to Whiskers, Oreo and Stink!

  1444. Lauren (#1406) – It’s never too late. Merry Christmas.
    Jenny – You are a genius. Love to you!

  1445. To Darryl – I’ve been an anon giver mostly, but you had an open-ended option for books on your list so I’m coming out of the woodwork to let others know which books I sent so that you don’t end up with duplicates. So, other book lovers who know what it’s like to have that first holiday without a parent, don’t send these because I have them covered: Harry Potter and the Sorcerer’s Stone; 5000 Awesome Facts About Everything; The Westing Game; Laugh-Out-Loud Jokes for Kids; From the Mixed-Up Files of Ms. Basil E. Frankweiler; The Lightening Thief; The Boxcar Children 1&2; Encyclopedia Brown, Boy Detective; and, Holes

  1446. I fixed my amazon wish list, because I saw I forgot to put the address. I also added stuff for my kitties and my sister, I hope I am not too late. I haven’t had a good Christmas in a really long time, mostly because my dad died on Christmas eve a few years back and the rest of our family doesn’t really stay in touch with us. I feel so lonely all the time.

    http://amzn.com/w/3JPIGRMOBGILS

  1447. https://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/ref=cm_reg_rd-upd?ie=UTF8&id=1WMNT8CAR04N3&type=wishlist

    A friend sent me your blog and I have enjoyed reading it so far. She sent as my family and I are truly struggling this year and I normally do not ask for help but I have 3 teenagers, one of whom is our niece and we still are not able to buy for Christmas. Just trying to survive at this point. I pray for all those people who have helped out others and that they will continue to be blessed. Thank you for allowing this sorta of giving on your blog.

  1448. I was comment #1281 just want to say Thank you so much to Jenny and whomever else got things off of our wishlist, I am lost in the outpouring of generosity and Christmas spirit. you guys are amazing. Merry Christmas to everyone.

  1449. oh my goodness than GOD for this blog!

    if anyone can help out my special needs 13 year old, it would really mean the world to us. i just can’t make it happen with the year we’ve had! i’m recovering from thyroid cancer and on temp disability and have a nurse come in twice a day. she is too old for salvation army christmas program

    blakely is an amazing 13 year old (with the mindset of a 7 year old, she is very little too) who is bullied for being different and for needing pull ups to wear to school. she LOVES comics and sketching and has always wante sketch markers, but i can’t afford them. she uses them in school and does amazing work. she also likes comics, william shakespear and anime

    here is her wishlist http://amzn.com/w/1YRFE8ARSKK3P and i would be more than happy to make a video of her thanking you and sketch you a card.

    thanks and xoxo, erin and blakely

  1450. Kristina 408 for your nephew James, the legos are saying they should be there by December 23. I just got an update from Amazon so I am hoping it doesn’t change again.

  1451. Tammy (#1390), Santa James Garfield should be dropping off some goodies on the 24th!
    Merry Christmas and Extra Gravy!

  1453. http://www.amazon.com/registry/wishlist/2MMBUM0BA0OC8

    I don’t have kids, but I am unemployed, and starting to run low on things like kitty food and reptile food. I’m trying to get together enough funds to spay and neuter the little guys before they go to new homes. I bottle fed them from 1 week old. I really don’t feel like I should be asking.. But for them, its worth a shot.

  1454. I know this is really late, but I’ve been hesitant to ask for help. This has been a rough year – my daughter & I have both struggled with a lot of anxiety/depression (she was sexually abused by my ex husband several years ado & was finally incarcerated this past June), which led to a lot of missed work due to hospitalizations etc. We are still digging our way out of the mess. Any help at all will be greatly appreciated.

    Jack, age 5:
    http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/giftlist/18S0IXTU14D5

    Cassady, age 14:
    http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/wishlist/3TW5VXHK4T6BH

    Thank you so much for your kindness and compassion.

    (All of your kids have a lot of gifts coming to them. ~ Jenny)

  1455. So I wrote this little series of kid books – I self-published the first one because I don’t like rejection – and honestly, publishers are all about rejection! Anyway – it has been relatively well-received amongst my friend’s kiddos (all 40 of them) – and the 100+ donated copies to libraries, schools, and children’s hospitals got good mojo!
    Last year I donated a good number to Toys for Tots, and to a kiddo hospital (100+!!). This year I couldn’t donate as many (self publishing has low profit margins, y’all!) – but I would like to get a bit more fanfare for the first book so I can finish paying the illustrator for the next books! So I can continue to donate books. I’m also working on a series of books for kids of single parents, and also a series of books about rescued pets (for kids). I plan on supporting our local animal shelter with anything earned by the rescued pets books.
    So if you’re looking for a charming and silly little book to add to a child’s list – please consider mine! Pretty please?
    I’m not some fancy schmancy girl. I’m a solo parent, a freelance writer selling my soul to pay (some of) the bills, and I’m doing my best to keep us afloat! My children’s books are my passion.
    PS – if this blatant self-promo does not make for the happy, please do delete!
    Otherwise – thanks for the support, y’all!

  1456. anathica at comment 144 and anyone else who likes to get ‘real’ mail: If you email me at dulaneyw AT gmail DOT com with your address, I’d love to send you a christmas card. Be warned, it may take a few years to get OFF my christmas card list!

  1457. I am re-commenting on this because I believe I made my original wish list wrong. 🙁 I made it “shared” rather than “public.” Does this matter?

    I know this is posted a little late considering Christmas is a week away. I put a few items on his list, but he really just needs a new comforter for his bed or some type of warm blanket if anyone is able to help with that. It is at the top of the wish list. He is my little brother who is 10 years old. I tried to buy one for his birthday back in October, but I couldn’t get it for him. As stated above, he is a very smart, loving boy– he never asks for anything EVER. This blog helped get something for his sister, so I am hoping I can get one item for Tyler to keep things fair. My family doesn’t have a horrible sad story like some people, but it’s challenging nowadays to get ahead. If you are able to get him his blanket, please let me know your e-mail, so I can have him send you a thank you card/picture!

    God Bless and Merry Christmas.

    New Link to Tyler’s list: http://amzn.com/w/3QUM9P4O7ZIP4

  1458. @neefer

    As a fellow girl-in-sciences, I recognized your enthusiasm for the sciencey gifts with pleasure. Then I noticed that you’d given another thing and another thing… I’m sure that lots of people have been v generous to many (Jenny most of all, obvs) but your name stood out for me and I just wanted to give you an e-high-five!

    Thank you for making so many Christmasses just that much better. You’re a wee Christmas angel all by yourself…

    xx

  1459. Help would definitely be a miracle and greatly appreciated. I’m a single Mom who is currently fighting to get disability. I’m unable to work due to fighting numerous chronic illnesses including hemiplegic migraines, postural orthostatic tachycardia syndrome and fibromyalgia with a long list of other small things mixed in also. I have no income and haven’t for the past 2 years. Waiting for my appeal date with disability since I was declined the first time around. My family doesn’t have the income or resources to be able to help much.

    My son Everett is almost 2.5 years old. He has sensory processing disorder and currently gets PT, OT, Speech Therapy and goes to school 3 times a week to work on everything. I’m just hoping to be able to get him something for christmas. The majority of things I have on his wishlist are toys to help him learn and grow that his therapists have suggested. Kinda just hoping to catch a break for once. Everything has been extremely overwhelming.

    Everett’s wishlist
    http://amzn.com/w/1XZMFO8J05D8V

  1461. Liz @1436 – I don’t get a shipping address when I try to send you things. Please go the bottom of the original post and follow the instructions for putting in a shipping address. I’ll check your list again later.

  1462. @Candice | December 16, 2014 at 5:08 pm
    Anonymous #286 – Assassins Creed is on the way for your son! Hope you guys have a wonderful holiday together!

    @Rachel K | December 17, 2014 at 10:08 am
    Donated to Anon’s son #286. (I think?) Best of luck to you and your son in your new, safe, environment. I am so sorry about your family not understanding the need to keep your dog safe and well until you were home and able to care for him (her) again. Best wishes. Rachel

    THANK YOU! If I missed anyone else, thank you too. I tried to read through every posting, but there are so many (YEAH!) people on here I may have missed someone by accident. This has made me realize there are still good people in the world, and I’m not a bad person because I’m struggling. Rachel, thanks for your thoughts on my dog. I miss him so much. He is 4 1/2 yrs. old and I’ve had him since he was 8 weeks old. When I fell I was home alone, except for my two dogs. The back door to the deck where I fell from the roof was shut, but my two dogs were to frantic trying to get to me to help mommy. My sister said the one she gave away wouldn’t stop barking. I think he was still upset because he doesn’t know what happened to me. I haven’t given up trying to get him back.
    I know in the end, my son and I are safe and I am walking, even though I’m a lot slower now with my broken back. Thank you for helping me provide a Christmas for my son in what has been a very horrible year. Next year will be brighter! #286

  1463. I know my family isn’t as hard off as we could be, the kids never go hungry and the house is always warm, but living paycheck to paycheck with 4 kids is so very difficult. We haven’t been able to get a tree for the kids yet and it breaks my heart that we’re going to have to wait till Christmas Eve to not only get the tree but to even start shopping and even then it’ll be hard to get much of anything. I’m hoping for Christmas that things turn around and I’m able to be the one to help out people next year.

    http://amzn.com/w/1N1GFJUGPW1QT

  1464. JANARINA (955) to me Jennifer Cole. I think I fixed the problem. I’m sorry if it doesn’t work for you. My email is jcolewpc@yahoo.com if that makes it any easier.

    Thank you so much for thinking of my girls. You have no idea how much.

  1465. Jenni @ 1440 – I have a child with Sensitivity Processing Disorder, too, and I couldn’t resist sending along a couple of things from Everett’s wish list. Love and hugs to you and Everett.

  1466. Hello again! I’m still reading every comment and it still makes me grin. 🙂 I’m afraid my other posts have gotten lost so I’m reposting the link just in case. Jenny if this is not okay, I apologize and please delete this one.

    My original post is Nicole H. | December 18, 2014 at 8:27 am for all of the details, but the kids are Haley 14, Lexi 12, and Zander 9. Please help give them a merry holiday if you can. Thank you so much!!

    Wish List Link: http://amzn.com/w/1AS4O6P7HJG89

  1469. Elizabeth or Beth (#1432), Santa James Garfield should be coming by on the 24th.
    Also included in the package are big hugs and warm wishes. I’m sorry you’re having such a hard time.

  1470. im out of cash (until after christmas) just want to make one last suggestion to ANYONE needing help. if your comfortable leaving your full names and states you can also set up walmart and or target registries with needs such as diapers wipes food clothes toys etc. for some of us to come by and grab after the holidays. i THINK you can include food and just about anything else you may need to those registries (even if your not pregnant or getting married who cares set up a registry!) also DONT FORGET TO ADD GIFT CARDS to your amazon wishlists!
    if your wish lists dont get hit up in time for christmas then have faith were still here! i know theres a bunch of us who want to help but wont see another paycheck until january and im definatly going to double check each post to make sure everyone got some love LONG after the holidays!
    DO NOT GIVE UP HOPE.

  1471. Nicole, I’m sending a couple of gifts for each. Scheduled to arrive on Christmas Eve. I hope they make it on time!

  1472. Jenni (1440) some finger paints and paper heading you way. The paints should be there on Monday, but the paper (even expedited) might not be there until between the 26th and 29th – what a bummer!! Hopefully it will be sooner.

  1473. Like some others, I am very hesitant to post here. Asking for help has always been hard and is one of the problems that has gotten me into my current state, but pride pretty much has to go now. I have been fighting increasingly bad depression for a few years now and have just about hit the bottom. I live alone and have no family that cares. Finally managed to let people know I needed help, though, and started therapy a couple of weeks ago. (The initial assessment, no surprise, is major depressive disorder, recurrent.)

    I’m in severe financial trouble and need to find a new home, but those are big things. Too big. I do have cats, whom I love dearly. One of the things that started me on the downward depression spiral was my mom’s death. I now have her cats as well as mine, and they are my family. I want to be able to take care of them as best I can. Money is tight – I get SNAP aid for my own food, but I can’t buy them any. I’ve been buying canned chicken, tuna, frozen fish and other people food that I can give them, but I can only do that for so long. If anyone would be able and willing to help me get what I need to care for them properly, I would be incredibly grateful.

    http://amzn.com/w/1XYOFWIOE44QR

    On a more general note, thank you all for the comments here. It is heartening to see that people can care and do good things for each other. May the holidays treat you all kindly.

  1474. @ Brenda B — Tyler will have his warm comforter… and a little something extra! I’m only posting so that you can remove the other comforter from the list to avoid duplicates. 🙂 Merry Christmas!

  1475. I just wanted to thank every single person from the very bottom of my heart, who helped my family. The words I am writing cannot begin to touch the surface of the gratitude I feel. I wish I could capture and share with you, the the look on my wife’s face, the relief in her heart, when she sees the packages arrive at our door. She was relaying to me just last night, her stress and worry about how we were going to make a Christmas happen, which bill we could skip, which item we could sell on Craigslist to make it work. You all have made a huge difference in our lives. You have made complete strangers feel like there is hope, like there is a light at the end of our very long tunnel. I hope someday soon, the tables will turn, and we will be able to repay this incredible kindness. Your generosity will never be forgotten.

    Thank you.

  1476. I can’t do much this year as I’m struggling myself. As I sit here we’re waiting to hear if my 4yo niece’s surgery went well. In her honor I’m donating to Project Night Night. If even one child is comforted the world can become a better place. For the praying type, Cailyn lives in Myrtle Beach and is having kidney surgery.
    Also prayers would also be greatly appreciated for my best friend, Marcia, who is trying to relearn how to use her brain and walk without pain after a bad accident this past August. For an engineer to lose the ability to do math, well to say the least she’s devastated.
    Thank you everyone! I’m so glad to have this tribe!
    Peace, love, and gravy to all
    Nic

  1478. I am writing on behalf of my best friend and her family. She is the most selfless person I know – always thinking of others before herself. This past summer her father suffered a traumatic brain injury. Without blinking she uprooted herself from her family for many weeks to be at his side and care for him. As a result, she lost her job. She never asks for anything, and is the most amazing mother to her kids (a boy 5) and a girl (12) – A caring and loving wife to her husband (who also was without work for sometime during all this, as he had to care for the kids). She had been using an old computer salvaged from a previous employer. It died, and now she is without any computer at all. She needs to have the ability to do work for her father (she helps with all his healthcare organizing, etc.) – and it would be a blessing for the whole family to have a computer again. Her dad suffers from a terrible depression, and is outwardly very ungrateful for all the sacrifices she has made. There have been times the things he has said are so hurtful you would feel compelled to walk away from him, but she soldiers on. I would love to bless Jessica and her family. P.S. – a television would be a wonderful luxury for them.

    I also have added two items that I have been coveting – a fitbit and a bluetooth speaker. I’m a newly divorced (after 20+ years of marriage) Mom to three. My oldest is 26 and he has a developmental disorder. The last couple years have been a huge struggle for me (bankruptcy, foreclosure processes, separation, divorce – death of my brother and sister) and I could just selfishly use a pick up at this point. Life can be hard, really hard – but I try to never loose sight of just how beautiful it is.

  1479. Liz Stoenner (#1436), my kitty wants to send something to your kitties, but he doesn’t know where you live! Please update your list to include your address. See Jenny’s tutorial at the end of the OP.

  1480. I don’t know if people are still doing this… but my family does need help. I’ve been out of a job for a long time and it’s hard to make it on just my husband’s pay. We have three kids – two girls and a baby boy – and I don’t know how we can buy Christmas presents for them when my husband’s entire paycheck isn’t enough to cover what we owe for our rent and electricity bills this month. If you can help us, I will cry and cry and cry with relief. Thank you.

    https://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/ref=cm_reg_rd-upd?ie=UTF8&id=1EOAXB07T2UXE&type=wishlist

  1483. Brenda B – comforter and a science set are on the way for Tyler. The science kit said it will arrive Dec 23. The comforter may arrive after Christmas, but let him know it is coming! Merry Christmas to you and your family!

  1484. LAUREN (1406), those beautiful black boots will arrive (like Santa) on the 24th! Merry Christmas from a Canadian who knows how important it is to have warm feet!! XXOO

  1485. To astraphell [#215 — December 17, 2014 at 8:51 pm]

    It’s okay if your 6yo daughter is younger than the age-range I mentioned in my post. I just picked 8 for the low end because I’m not entirely sure I can write an encouraging message for a 6yo within Amazon’s pathetically-short character limit. But I gave it a go, and you can translate / elaborate as necessary. 🙂

    It’s just wonderful that a Goldie Blox set is at the top of her list for this year! All the little girls I know in real life are way older than the target market, so I’m very happy to be able to say that the “”Spinning Machine”” kit is on its way “”from an all-grown-up Geek Girl helping out Santa””. (Guaranteed delivery: Dec. 22, 2014)

    It looks like someone else seems to have already gotten her the Lego set, so now she’ll be able to tell her friends that: she’s a girl, and she has Legos, so Legos ARE for girls. And Santa obviously agrees, since he got them for her! 🙂

    Merry Christmas!

  1486. @Mastiffcat Thank you so much. I appreciate the hugs and everything. /hugs back/

    @augie I feel so dumb, I forgot to add that. I have done it now.

    Everyone is being so generous this year to everyone, I hope everyone has a great holiday.

  1489. We’ve had a tough year. I had surgery in May that put me out of action for three months. I’m the breadwinner. Then my antidepressants crapped out as a result of the anethesia from the surgery. I picked up a full time client last week, we’ve moved in with my inlaws, and things are picking up, but we won’t have the first paycheck in time for Christmas, so things are looking a little slim for my two girls. They’re homeschooled, and are being so sweet about everything, but my heart breaks knowing that a combination of health factors beyong my control have screwed up the majority of my year.

    http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/giftlist/EW2YSREU5KRG/ref=topnav_lists_3

    http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/giftlist/2GJ283PLA66J8/ref=topnav_lists_4

    If anyone’s willing to consider us, it’s much appreciated.

  1490. Jenny – you are just simply amazing. Look at what you have inspired. You cannot imagine the joy your kind heart will be filling peoples homes with this season. <3

    My original comment was on the last page, talking about my kiddos and my health… Everyone in our 'real' lives knows this stuff, yet no one has done as much for us as strangers on the internet. It speaks volumes as to the kind of community this is.

    Hugs to you all!
    http://amzn.com/w/B0O7SHOIDMYK ( warm winter clothes since our heater hates us)

  1492. To astraphell [#215 — December 17, 2014 at 8:51 pm]

    Whoops, I just re-read your comment and realized that I could have been mistaken about there having originally been a Lego set on your daughter’s wishlist.

    If she’s NOT already getting a Lego set this year, PLEASE add one to her wish list and let me know. I have a little bit left in my gifting budget, and want to get it for her. I think it’s really important that Santa gives her one to prove that Legos ARE for girls!

  1493. Has anyone not had their wish list shopped from? There are so many posts that I worry someone got lost in the shuffle. I’d love to try and help you out if someone hasn’t already!

  1494. Amy #712 (and 714)- have fun at the movies!
    Linda #855- A set of Boxcar Children books are coming for Santa Jim for his Bella.
    Thank you, Bloggess, for making this all happen. Being able to help someone is the best present I could ever receive!! Love to all you wonderful, generous people making others happy and a hug to all who have been brave enough to ask for help.

  1495. I can’t tell if the comment went up or not — my apologies if this goes up twice.

    I had surgery in late Spring, then my antidepressants stopped working due to the anesthesia. As I’m the breadwinner, this means we’ve been living on a little over $10K this year. We’ve moved in with in-laws and I’ve found a new job, but it won’t pay out before the holidays.

    My kids lists are here:

    http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/giftlist/EW2YSREU5KRG/ref=cm_go_nav_recip_gl_njs

    http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/giftlist/2GJ283PLA66J8/ref=cm_go_nav_recip_gl_njs

    Thanks for considering us.

  1496. Melissa–I’m requesting gift cards for a co-worker who had all the money they had set aside for Christmas gifts stolen. (comment 1380 & 1412) Any little bit would be so appreciated!

  1497. I don’t know if my original post went through?
    http://amzn.com/w/3RD4N4VKM5DRX

    Here is a link to my list, of course it is just that, I let the kids go through and day dream about things that they would ask Santa for. The children are 11 (boy), 8 (girl), and 6 (boy). Unfortunately it’s been a tough coupe of years on them. We recently had to relocate due to having to divorce their father and get into a healthier environment. He just could not get a hold of his alcoholism and it had escalated to violence. We left our family and friends and all the children have ever known behind. I have a great new job and they are starting to adjust.

    Between restructuring our lives and being stuck under a significant amount of debt on just my income, the Christmas money just isn’t there. I have never asked for help before.

    Life just sometimes throws you a curve ball, even when you think you have done everything right. We have a warm home, so we are thankful everyday and my children will tell you, they feel blessed in our new life. They are great kids, my boys pick and sell sweetcorn in the summers and my daughter helps out too for the things they need.

    Any help is of course appreciated though I know I am coming here late, I really hoped I would somehow bring it all together.

  1498. Is there a simple way we could check through to see if any one has been missed (not me, I understand that living at the bottom of the world makes it hard for people to send to us) but it’s probably a bit depressing for people seeing all the “thank you so much”‘s and “my whole list is gone!!”‘s when their list hasn’t budged. If there isn’t an easy way, I could trawl through the comments to try to identify gaps.

    (It’s because you’re in New Zealand. I tried to send a few things but some bounced back as unable to send outside of the US. I tried two more but the shipping was more than twice as much as the items. I also looked at getting you a gift card, but Amazon in Australia doesn’t offer them yet and if I sent you a US one you’ll have the same issues with shipping because you’ll have to use US distributers. I tried to use your wish list on the NZ store you entered but it won’t populate your shipping address. I did see though that your email is associated with a paypal account so I just sent you $30 AUD so you can pick up something yourself. Sorry! If you want to repost and share your paypal address with an explanation you might get some help that way. ~ Jenny)

  1499. Jenny, you are the bestest. Donations to Project Night Night, Heifer and a few wish list items sent. We’re blessed to be able to help and are so happy to do so. Thanks for the opportunity!

  1500. UPS just delivered three boxes of Christmas. I feel like I am wrapped in love and magic right now. Thank you to Jeremy, Peggy, Jenny, and James Garfield!

    I also see that more things are gone from Santa Jim’s list. This group – all of you are so amazing! I cannot imagine a greater gift for me than the gifts you have given to my friends and family. THANK YOU.

  1501. THANK YOU to the lady who purchased the soccer trainer and book for Ashley! I am so happy I found this group of people. I am almost in tears at work just reading through all of these comments from people. You all have really made a difference.

  1502. JANARINA (955) to me Jennifer Cole. I think I fixed the problem. I’m sorry if it doesn’t work for you. I put my email address on a previous comment but I’m not sure if that’s allowed. (#1442)
    Thank you so much for thinking of my girls. You have no idea how much.

  1503. I’m not asking for anything financial, because I don’t have kids. But I’m reading Amanda Palmer’s The Art of Asking, so I’m going to share and ask for your good wishes because I am struggling badly. I had to leave my job in July because of health issues. I very rarely get to leave the house because I don’t drive. Depression normally comes on pretty strongly at this time of year anyway, and I can feel it starting. I don’t want to give in. I’d love any kind of personal connection so I can feel seen and heard and understood. Christmas cards or emails or whatever. I see how caring and compassionate you all are, and I feel like you all might understand. I’m lonely. I’d give anything to be on the giving side because what you’re doing here is truly amazing. You’ve given me a glimmer of hope and home. (I mistyped hope, then realized no. home is good. this is home.) Jenny, what can I say? One of these days….I will always remember the way reading these comments has made me feel.

    gentlespirit512@gmail.com

  1504. im going to go on a limb here and suggest that IF your list wasn’t hit yet its likely the shipping info wasnt dont correctly or the link wasnt working. please double check and post in big caps UNTOUCHED LIST so we can help figure it out in time!

  1505. Here goes nothing. I’ve read this blog over and over, yet I delayed posting my wish list. Not because I’m embarassed, but because I’m sad I can’t help more. This wishlist isn’t for me, its for my sister. Single mom of 3 who live with my 83 year old grandmother to be her 24 hour care provider. Her children’s father left when he decided “he didn’t want to be a family anymore”. She can’t work since she’s my grandma’s sole caregiver, and has a 3 year old still at home.
    I try to help as much as I can, but I know it pales in comparison to the selfless sacrifices she’s made to care for our family. Please help give her children the Christmas she can’t.

    http://amzn.com/w/2LT5ZYNZIY0EB

  1506. Hello. I have never had to be on the receiving end of anything at Christmas. When my son was medically discharged from the Air Force, he stayed with me until he could get a place of his own. His old mattress was worn out, so I took my extra money & bought him one. Now I am needing one. I am a single mom & anytime I have a large purchase to make, I have to save for it. I have some of the money saved, but I can feel springs poking me in the back at night! I would love to have a new mattress for Christmas 🙁 I don’t have a truck to haul one, so I noticed Amazon would ship the lighter foam ones right to my home! Thank you so much.

  1507. #336 here… THANK YOU! I received some items today off of Brandon’s wishlist. I am so grateful for all of your help with making this Christmas special for him. He is such an amazing kid and I love him so much. THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU!!

  1508. Brenda B (#1366): The microscope set should show up for Tyler on Saturday. Merry Christmas!

  1509. Jenny – you and this community is amazing! Humans rule!

    My husband and I recently separated and money has been even tighter than usual. I feel bad that I cannot give my kids the Christmas gifts they want. Thank you so much for facilitating this!

    http://amzn.com/w/2T6G94UF0XBZ4

  1510. Someone(s) hit the wishlist! THANK YOU so much to whomever that was. Merry, merry Christmakwanzahanukmas!!!

  1511. Figured it wouldn’t hurt to add this, my son is fighting an aggressive childhood bone cancer. Though he has completed chemo he still battles daily with the harsh side effects from treatment, including loss of hearing, brain damage, and recently was diagnosed as failure to thrive (he is continuing to lose weight, started at 170 and is now down in the 120’s and no one can figure out why) and needs a bone marrow biopsy to figure out why his body isn’t producing platelets. The costs for all of these specialists are astronomical. Despite all of this he continues to stand by and help other kids going through the same battle, he is my inspiration daily. Any help is greatly appreciated <3 http://www.gofundme.com/Team-Jeremy paypal teamjeremy2013@gmail.com
    Follow his story: facebook.com/goteamjeremy

  1512. (Sorry if this comment appears twice – forgot the link on the first one)
    Hello. I have never had to be on the receiving end of anything at Christmas. When my son was medically discharged from the Air Force, he stayed with me until he could get a place of his own. His old mattress was worn out, so I took my extra money & bought him one. Now I am needing one. I am a single mom & anytime I have a large purchase to make, I have to save for it. I have some of the money saved, but I can feel springs poking me in the back at night! I would love to have a new mattress for Christmas 🙁 I don’t have a truck to haul one, so I noticed Amazon would ship the lighter foam ones right to my home! Thank you so much.

    http://amzn.com/w/3G9ZOU92MLQBJ

  1513. I think this is amazing! I hope to next year be in a better place to be able to help too.

    I am asking for something for my mom. It has been a really rough year for her and she never worries about herself.
    She was diagnosed with breast cancer over the summer. She went through a double mastectomy. She has been going through chemo treatments but they’ve decided to stop them because of her side effects. It caused neuropathy in her hands and feet. The treatments will leave her crippled if she continues. But something that could help her would be amazing. She’s the best person I know. She has 6 kids and 2 grand kids. She does so much for everyone. Thanks so much.

    Merry Christmas everyone!

    amzn.com/w/T3T6JUGP0QMB

  1514. Thank you so much, this is simply amazing! Jenny, thank you for getting the Headbandz game! The kids will love it! Hopefully next year I will be at the other end and donating gifts! We spend a lot of our time helping out one of our favorite foundations, Make A Wish, because they sent us on a wonderful trip when Isabella first started to get sick. And they have been amazing to us ever since! I can’t thank everyone enough!

    Link: http://amzn.com/w/CPDMVZAKM61R

  1515. Hi Nicole H.,
    I tried to leave a note, but apparently I’m too dumb to comment properly. The expected delivery date is 12/24, so I hope they make it in time. Merry Christmas!

  1516. I’ve read this post and comments many times in the past few days, each time talking myself out of posting. Not because I’m embarassed, but because I’m sad I can’t help more.
    This list is for my sister. Single mom of 3 living with my 83 year old grandmother’s caregiver. She can’t work because my grandmother needs care around the clock, and she still has a 3 year old at home. The other 2 are 6 and 8. Her husband/children’s father left because he didn’t want to be a family any more. I help as much as I can with rides/breaks/whatever, but her sacrifices make mine pale in comparison. Please help give her kids the Christmas she can’t.

    http://amzn.com/w/2LT5ZYNZIY0EB

  1517. Thank you to those who sent my two kids (Melissa [14] & Parker [16]) something they got a few needs (aside from undies) and will be extremely happy to get them especially a new jacket they’ve been freezing in their old ones.

    Am I allowed to request help for a family member going through a similar tough time? My cousin Belle has two beautiful and well behaved children who are five years old and two years old. Her and her fiancé had their daughter when they were seventeen and despite hearing they were going to break up, not make it, ect due to their age here they are seven years later still together and have two fantastic kids. Both kids even the two year old say Please, Thank you and No thank you when asked something, they help their mom pick up and are good when they are in stores my cousin is constantly getting compliments from people in the store about how behaved and how happy her kids look. Her and her fiancé recently hit a financial bump in the road their only vehicle needed work and still needs work (needs a motor mount) they did what they can but have to wait until the can afford to fix the rest, and her work cut her down to two days a week which between her job and her fiances they make just enough to cover all of their bills and put some food on the table. She was able to pick them each up a cheap toy from the dollar general but I would love to see her surprised with a few things they need like PJ’s and Pull ups. Belle is one of the most loving people I know, when ever her kids outgrow clothing or toys that are still good instead of just dropping them at good will she finds a family who needs them and gives the items to them and when ever her mom (my aunt) needs help she is there to help in anyway she can. I hate seeing her unhappy with her current financial situation and would love to see her get her own little Christmas Miracle. They are all sick with strep right now so this will help boost their moods even more to know Christmas might be better than they thought!

    Thank you!

    I put together a small wishlist of things the kids need/would like:
    http://amzn.com/w/3D8CXH6FDSDUQ

  1519. @1436 – thanks for adding an address

    I’ve sorta lost track of which ones I’ve sent stuff to – too many tabs open. I know I hit @1436 and @1440, and an orphanage Small Things. Oh, and some bees. I had an okay year and wanted to give back. I know it’s never enough. But Happy Holidays to all, and hep for a much better 2015 for everyone

  1520. Brenda B (#1438), if you think your brother Tyler would like this bed set, i’d be glad to buy it for him. Just add it to his wish list. Or one this cost or less. If it’s not from Amazon, you have to mark your account to allow them to share your address with the 3rd party vendor.
    http://www.amazon.com/Dream-Factory-Outer-Satellites-Comforter/dp/B0013JMD66/ref=sr_1_12?m=ATVPDKIKX0DER&s=home-garden&ie=UTF8&qid=1418931071&sr=1-12&keywords=boys+comforter+set

  1522. “It’s been a good year for some of us. A bad year for others. Give if you really can. Take if you really need.” –> and that’s what Christmas is all about, Charlie Brown.

    Thanks for making it easy to help.

  1523. The link below is for my daughter Teagans wish list. She is a 22 month disabled child. I am a single parent, studying nursing, as to better provide for us in the future. This post is such a nice and caring gesture and Jenny, you are awesome!
    http://amzn.com/w/3JCZLYTSG4Q19
    Happy Holidays to all!
    Lisa

  1525. I just sat at my desk and cried. Thank you to the six ladies who so generously sent items to my children. I got a phone call from my husband that there were several boxes from Amazon waiting for us to go through for the kids. I’m so deeply humbled and appreciative of you all and especially Jenny for setting this up.

  1526. Whoops! Brenda, i just saw that someone else sent Tyler a bed set. I’ll send him something else.
    Santa James Garfield gets confused sometimes.

  1527. What is everyone’s favorite Christmas Tradition? Mine has always been to open stockings on Christmas eve, my parents started it when I was a kid.

  1529. Love that this is making me teary and hopeful all at the same time. My sister is getting bees and ducks and geese for Christmas this year…. And she actually will love them! Thanks Jenny for bringing some real Christmas cheer!

  1530. what a group you are – reducing me to tears again and again! a humor blogger and her taxidermied boar and readers sending gifts to strangers. people they have never met! people they will never meet! just because… i don’t know… it’s a good thing to do.

    since i will be in san francisco next week, i am thrilled to be able to go over and donate books and stuffed animals in person to project night night! (last year, i donated to heifer international. strangely, their website does not offer the option of me showing up, goats in hand, to their office.)

    plus, i’m sending cards to those who need a paper hug and good thoughts. my friends and i pretty much stopped sending cards years ago. so it’s strange – but wonderful! – how thrilled i am to be sending cards again this year!

  1532. Liz (1436), Brenda (1438) and Laura Ann (1452) – goodies heading your way!

    [linking to a blog post by one of my crew members, because it’s festive]

  1534. @rtmiss

    I read your post yesterday and agree that your girl is gorge! I sent her (via you) a pack of the Derwent Inktense Blocks. I sent them extra-speedy, so that they’d be with you asap. It’s just a little gesture (I was a bit worried about the exchange rate charges but it was fine in the end).
    Hopefully that gives you a little lift today!

    I wish you both a very Merry Christmas!!

    Love from BeffyDee (or Beth) from literally the other side of the world (UK)!!
    xx

  1535. Misty: We like to go to “Watkins Park” in Maryland outside of D.C. They have beautiful Christmas lights right on the water. We go every year.

  1536. Elizabeth OrBeth (1486) one ‘Barbie and The Secret Door Transforming 2-in-1 Fairy Doll’ should be on its way to you. There was only one left in stock on Amazon, so I hope you get it.

  1538. Brenda #1438 – got Tyler’s rubber band gun, catapult and mine craft game. Merry Happy Amazing Holidays to you for thinking of your little bro!
    Sasha

  1539. Elizabeth OrBeth, one ‘Barbie and The Secret Door Transforming 2-in-1 Fairy Doll’ should be on its way to you. Amazon only had one left in stock, so I hope you get it!

  1542. lisa stimac (1482) – You have some books and a toy coming your way 🙂 Merry Christmas!

  1543. Misty R.: our favorite Christmas tradition is singing carols at the local nursing home/rehab center on Christmas day. Anyone who could go home for Christmas has, and the patients left are pretty bored (minimal staff, no activities that day). We take presents and go caroling with guitar accompaniment. The sweetest thing happened there a couple of years ago. I had taken some soft dolls, about the size of a newborn. When I handed one to one of the patients in the women’s Alzheimer’s unit, who was sitting in her wheelchair with her eyes closed (and not reacting to us or anything going on around her in any way), she opened her eyes, took the doll I put in her lap, put it up to her shoulder, and began to pat its back and hum to it. It just made me cry. The instinct to be a mom runs deep and stays long.

  1544. @Christina That sounds like a lot of fun, I have very fond memories of looking at Christmas lights with my grandmother and I took my kids often when they were young.

    @JudyO Thank you, my cousin is such a hard working and lovely young lady she is going to be thrilled to get some things for her children. You are amazing.

  1545. @sistercarrion
    I have sent you some things. I put in a gift card for your eldest son as I wasn’t sure what things were for him. Hope you have a great Christmas!

    Anne

  1546. @Mastiffcat

    Thank you. Just for being you! You’re a wee marvel who has helped to make a number of Christmasses that bit better… Well done, milady!
    🙂
    xx

  1547. To BeffyDee [#1439 — December 18, 2014 at 12:04 pm]

    I don’t know how to quote your prior text, but you said: “As a fellow girl-in-sciences, I recognized your enthusiasm for the sciencey gifts with pleasure. Then I noticed that you’d given another thing and another thing… I just wanted to give you an e-high-five!”

    e-High5 right back at you. Geek Girls gotta stick together! 🙂

    Long story short: I’ve come to hate having to go through the holiday motions of buying stuff for my family that, frankly, as comfortably-middle-class adults, we are all perfectly capable of buying for ourselves when the need arises. This year I finally managed to convince my mother to semi-cancel Christmas, and agree to “no gifts”. I am now happily spending the money, that I’d been saving all year for that socially-imposed and much-begrudged-by-me family obligation, to instead play Santa to some budding geek girls, and other families whose stories I’ve been drawn to.

    I’ve been keeping detailed notes and am planning on going back and taking screen captures of the posts I replied to, and pull the pix off my Amazon receipts of what Santa sent them, then bundle it all up into a multi-page printout to give to my mother at Christmas dinner — to show her exactly why I want Christmas semi-canceled for our family from now on. 🙂

    So if any of the people who Santa borrowed my credit card to help out are reading this…

    Rachel O. [#377] in CA
    Suzy S. [#412] in VA
    Amy G. [#506] in NM
    Kristi S. [#521] in OH
    Jennifer N. [#543] in GA
    Anonymous (“D.B”) [#645] in OR
    Kathy (for Lilly E.) [#616] in ME
    Jennifer J. [#683] in MI
    astraphell (“K.A.”) [#1215] in MI

    …if you have a way to take/send pix, I’d LOVE to be able to show them to my mother during Christmas dinner. (Maybe I can even convince her to participate in this next year!)

    You can email them to me via santa.neefer@gmail.com

  1548. All… This will sound like an odd request, but I have an extra tablet that has been factory reset, and is waiting for its next owner.

    As a librarian, I would like to send it to someone who would use it for educational purposes, such as promoting reading for the child(ren), and not just for gaming or recreational use (although I am not so naive as to think there won’t be some of that as well! LOL! I AM a mom after All!

    The ideal child(ren) would possibly have learning difficulties that could be assisted with a tablet (Asus android), and promote learning, reading, exploration, etc. Please let me know a few details about how you would best use this tablet, and use the keyword ASUS As the starting word of the comment so others can skip it and I can catch it.

    I will be reviewing comments from Thusday 3:15 PM EST to around Thursday 8:00 PM EST, and will post the designee around then, and we can make shipping arrangements offline, so please don’t post your email or address in the comments. I would be happy to ship it out, hopefully in time for Xmas, and depending on location and UPS, maybe for New Years.

    I am home recuperating from emergency surgery in November… And I am blaming my tears on that. Yeah, that’s my story and I am sticking to it!!!

    Courtney

  1549. @TheBloggess – I’ve sent 12 gifts from various lists on this post, and I’m so excited about it! I’ve been wanting to do something like this for a long time. Now it finally feels like Christmas! Thank you and (Saint) James Garfield for getting this started! xoxo

  1550. Donna: Thank you so much.

    Can I suggest that we all take pictures of what we receive, and maybe someone can make a photoalbum for it for The Bloggess? I think that would be a cool thing for her, and it could be something neat to link to next year, if we do this again!

    Link to My GoFundMe: http://www.gofundme.com/preventevictionart I don’t know if that’s allowed, but I am not sure where else to link things like that.

  1552. Emily (235) -I ordered something from your list and it was delivered today. Merry Christmas!

  1553. I’m going to go ahead and ask. I’m not struggling financially like some of these of these other people are, but I do live on disability income. I love books, and I have a Kindle, so you could even send Kindle books. I’m hurting and depressed, and I need a helping hand. I use a wheelchair out of the house, and I rarely go out. I have spina bifida and chronic pain. If some of you could find it in your heart to give out of abundance without taking away from those who might need it more in your eyes, I’d feel more blessed than you could ever know. Here’s my Amazon wish lists. I have several–I don’t know why. I just separated them out over time….

  1555. Thank you to those who bought something for my cousins kids, they are going to be so excited you are all truly amazing! There are only three more needs on her list, She is going to cry when I drop these items off at her house, her fiancé normally doesn’t cry but I am sure he will cry as well with how tight things have been.

    http://amzn.com/w/3D8CXH6FDSDUQ

  1556. Thank you so much for those that have purchased items from my wishlist for Gracie (8), Sophia (5) and Lucas (1), there are only a few left.
    http://amzn.com/w/2W6GX5F3WGD7R
    I am just amazed and my heart feels like it’s going to burst because of all the wonderful ppl there are that are helping other out here. My eyes tear up and my body just hums with excited butterfly-y feelings. You’re all lovely ppl!
    Mwuah!

  1557. Sent a couple things to lisa s (1521) because someone gave me a gift card to buy Amanda Palmer’s book but they sent me too much! Just passing it on 🙂

  1558. @Elizabeth O – that would be a great idea, I am sure my cousins daughter will want to draw a Thank you card (she loves to draw and doodle) I would love to upload it here to share.

  1559. Thank you secret santa. Much love and blessings for you all. Hopefully we will all be in a better place in 2015

    Shawn Reed | December 17, 2014 at 9:51 pm
    Hello and thanks for this awesome blog post. I’m Shawn, a disabled vet (but still working because the VA screwed me) and single dad of 7 year old Aurora and 9 year old Shawn (JR)

    Aurora loves ponies, Disney, movies and girlie things and Shawn loves outdoor types of stuff.
    Any help would be appreciated. I apologize in advance for the crazy prices on amazon. Bless you and I hope everyone helping out is rewarded greatly.

    http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/wishlist/2JOO30K42ZGAS/ref=cm_sw_su_w

  1561. I’ve no idea what comment numbers you might be, but…
    Laurie M: a coat and a GF book are on their way, expected 12/24.
    Cindy S: Size 4 diapers should arrive Christmas Eve.
    Susan E: the chevron pajamas will probably arrive after Christmas, unless Santa gets his second wind.
    Janis C: hearing-aid batteries and the basketball set are scheduled to arrive Christmas Eve.

    to @theBloggess, another thank you for continuing this tradition. I wish I’d found it in time to buy more toys to make kids smile, but other things are important too.

    to the rest of the Santas: if you are buying clothing, use the 30CLOTHING code and see if you get a discount. My discount almost covered the shipping costs.

    May the God who gives all good gifts bless each of you this season.

  1563. 6 more wishlists!
    The 8 of the 9 items I purchased TODAY say they’ll arrive on 12/24, but of the 10 items I ordered two days ago, only 2 will arrive before Christmas (I guess this will just extend the holidays, yes?).
    Julie Dowey – gift card delivered today
    Julebabs@755 – the toy should arrive on 12/24
    Jennifer Matthews – Red CD and Lego Friends Nintendo DS should arrive on 12/24
    Amy Robarge – Monster High Freaky Fusion Cleolei doll should arrive on 12/24
    Tammy@794 – SunWorks construction paper & pampers wipes should arrive on 12/24
    Santa’s Helper (listed a link for friends) Thug Kitchen & Metal Cats should arrive on 12/24
    This has been a lot of fun although I wish I could have done more. I hope everyone has a bright and joyous holiday.
    Jenny – you and the boar rock!

  1564. To Jennifer Cole (originally 803?), thank you for your email address. That made it possible for me to send your teenage girls two gift cards. They should arrive in your email right now! 🙂
    I hope they can find nice gifts for themselves, they sound like lovely girls. (I have a teenager, too!) Merry Christmas to you and your family, and all the best to you in the new year <3

  1565. First, everyone, you make my heart swell with joy! The love that is pouring out of these comments has made my entire Holiday season that much better. So, thank you for that.

    Second, I am asking for help. My husband got laid off mid August along with a couple hundred of his co-workers. It was a shock to our family. We were able to make it through a rough 3 months thanks to help from our families and our saved Christmas money. He finally found a steady job again mid November (yay, job!! boo, pay-cut!!) But, it was really too late to help with the holidays since we are still catching up from the losses. We have 2 children who we want to have a wonderful Christmas. Emmi, who is 4, and Eli who is 18 months. Emmi loves all things Frozen, princess, and My Little Pony. Eli has fallen for Mickey Mouse and Elmo. We have been able to get them each an outfit and stuffed animal, but really nothing else.

    Emmi’s list:
    http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/giftlist/2YM6C2H12C1S1/ref=topnav_lists_2

    Eli list:
    http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/giftlist/3CZKLXGHE50ZU/ref=topnav_lists_3

    Thank you, and I love all of you.

  1566. @Anne (#1543)- Thank you from us all! The spirit and love just pouring from this post has had me both bawling and grinning like an idiot these last few days, and words, well my words aren’t very good today (bad fibro fog!), but simply to say THANK YOU! <3 Sending massive snugs to you and yours. I shall let you know what Nathan picks with his card once Yule/Christmas has been 🙂 ~Gaynor xx

  1567. Shannon @ 801 – I ordered some of the high priority items for you – I worry they won’t make it by Christmas as they weren’t in the Prime category, but I know how necessary they are to keep your little one warm.

    Tasha @ 830 – I also ordered some items from your wish list as well. Should be there within 2 days or so.

    Merry Christmas to everyone – this is such an amazing way to help others!!

  1568. First, you are all awesome!!. You have made this Christmas season so much brighter. 🙂

    Second, I am asking for help. My husband got laid off in August along with half of the people he worked with. This was a giant shock to our family. We were able to make it through a rough 3 months thanks to our families and our saved Christmas money. He finally found a steady job (yay, job!! boo, pay-cut!!) But, it was really too late to help with the holidays since we are still catching up on everything else. We have 2 amazing children: Emmi, who is 4, and Eli, who is 18 months. Emmi loves all things Frozen, princess, and My Little Pony. Eli has fallen for Mickey Mouse and Elmo. We have been able to do so little for them since all of this happened, it makes my heart hurt.

    Emmi’s List:
    http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/giftlist/2YM6C2H12C1S1/ref=topnav_lists_2

    Eli’s List:
    http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/giftlist/3CZKLXGHE50ZU/ref=topnav_lists_3

    Thank you to all of you who have helped lift my spirits with your generosity towards others. I love all of you! This is truly the best tribe to be in.

  1570. Shannon (#811) – I ordered a high priority item and a few others on your list but not sure all of them will be there by Christmas since they weren’t Prime.

    Tasha (#830) – I also ordered a few items on your list and they should be there within 2 days or so.

    I hope everyone has a Merry Christmas – this is a really wonderful thing you set in motion, Jenny.

  1571. Here’s the deal. I scraped and saved and bought each of my (2) kids a Kindle for Christmas. That and new school shoes is all they’re getting. They know this, and they’re ok with it. It would mean the world to me for “Santa” to give them each a Kindle gift card so they can download something other than the dictionary. goingcrazyinny at yahoo.com
    If anyone can help a tiny amount, I would be eternally grateful. If someone can help, I will double my volunteer time (currently scheduled for five hours a week) at my local food pantry for the next month as my way of helping pay it forward. I don’t have money to give, but I do have time.
    I hope by next year I can be on the other end of The Bloggess Christmas Miracle!

  1572. @Erin (#1447)- Markers, T shirt, and Marvel tote on their way! Merry Christmas Blakely!

  1573. Tess, if you email me, I can give you lots of places that you can download free Kindle books. If you want, I’ll even try to figure out ones for kids’ books. How old are they? If I can’t do anything else, I can do that. I’d love to help out where I can!

  1575. For those wanting to help dogs, pets, and animals in general, I help the local humane society with long-timer and hard to adopt dogs. We currently have 7 rescues at our house that were all basically unadoptable due to fear of people (due to abuse) or health issues, and work hard to give them a normal life and the other dogs in similar situations a better chance. Two of our dogs were at “the pound” for over 1.5 years each until we fostered them. They work with the dogs as well as doing local adoption events, fund raisers, money drives, and consistent Facebook postings, but lost their local dog food supply recently and it costs quite a bit to feed over 200 dogs every day. Anything would help, but I did create a list of the most used items. http://amzn.com/w/2E9ZMFSVWZ1R2

  1577. Megan M. (1478), Merry Christmas from my two girls and baby boy to yours. Everything should arrive by Monday!

  1578. Hello to Bloggess and everyone here ! I am the 43 year old (you didnt hear that !) single mom of three absolutely wonderful kids ! They have been my strength for the past 5 years since their dad and I separated.It was a scarey separation but they have adjusted so well !They have never complained about how they dont have things like other kids at school or asked for things they know we just cant afford. They love to read and play games and that is mostly what is on the wishlist I made. We love game night ! We have some but it would be awesome to have games with all the pieces ! I also added wishes for clothing gift cards so they could chose their own. Teens tell me I have no fashion sense ! Thank you for taking the time to read this and may you and your families have a Merry Christmas ! Julia

    http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/wishlist/30GM7Z30T4YL9/ref=cm_wl_huc_view
    To all who have bought something.. THANK YOU SO MUCH !

  1579. Dammit, crying again! Just noticed that someone’s bought the wedge pillow on my list. THANK you so much, whoever you are! This will make SO much difference to me and what I’m able to do during the daytime with the kids (the more support I can get for my back when I’m resting= the more stamina I tend to have when I can get up). Many, many snugs and good wishes to all you lovely people. You’ll never know how much this has had a positive effect on my family, but just know that you’re all so gorgeous and I love this wildly fabulous place! The good thoughts and positivity here will carry many far beyond the festive season, and I’m going to keep checking back through the year if and when I may be able to assist in some way, even if it’s not financially, then hopefully in another way. Okay, words are getting a bit tricky again (bad foggy head today), so I’ll shut up now, but a massive MWAH to you all!!
    ~Gaynor xxx

  1581. @Tess

    I’ve just sent you 2 x $15 Kindle gift cards to your email. Happy reading!

    And a very Merry Christmas to you and yours…
    🙂

    xx

  1582. Haley and Zander are completely taken care of!!!! This is so amazing. Lexi (12 yrs old) is the only one left. Her airsoft gun is still on the list. She will absolutely squall if somebody is able to get it for her because it is the only thing she specifically asked for. (Is squall only a Southern word?) I added a few toiletry items for Tonja and Brian that I know they will use but won’t spend the money on in case someone is looking for folks to buy for.

    Jenny, I agree with the person that said you should be Goddess instead of Bloggess. I was bah humbug up until today, but now I’m like Buddy the Elf and I can’t stop grinning!

    Link: http://amzn.com/w/1AS4O6P7HJG89

  1584. JulieE (comment 1560): A box of games is on the way to you – Merry Christmas to you and your family! Amazon says guaranteed delivery by Dec. 23.

  1586. Courtney (1546) my son has is on the autism spectrum with sensory and learning delays as well as nonverbal.a tablet would go a long way to help him. I have been helped on here so if there is someone more in need ignore this 🙂

  1587. @ sistercarrion

    Yeah, the pillow might have been me too…
    I sometimes find it difficult to sleep and know how detrimental it is to being able to deal with…just…anything…(and you have a heckuva lot going on right now). So it felt right to get you the pillow.

    (And the bedsheets for your kids. And the Lego movie. And the school jumper. And the nappies. And some arty-crafty bits. Keep an eye out for those boxes!!)

    If there is an opportunity to post back a pic of your kids at Crimbo, I’d love that more than anything!

    Big love, Beffy. xx

  1588. 1324-1 thing from your list on its way + 1 more item of my choosing. I hope you both enjoy the addition!

  1590. R.P. (#1471) email me @ charmaine@helilift.ca. I’d love to help out the kitties (I’m a cat lover myself, and have taken in MANY stray and unwanted kitties over the years), but I don’t have a credit card to buy anything on your Amazon wishlist!! Do you have PayPal??

  1591. I can not believe there is only 4 items left on my wish list. I am in awe of all of this. Not only will I be able to buy groceries in a few days but Ryker and Ruby will have an awesome Christmas. Thank you so very much. I have been in tears for two days over all of this. Merry Christmas to everyone.
    http://amzn.com/w/3I8U8MWPAZI0E

  1592. Lisa (@1521)- I sent a few things for Teagan. It says they will show up on the 24th….just in time for Christmas! Happy Holidays from my family to yours.

  1593. @julie valentine downy at 1021 – Mrs Claus is sending some toys, and some necessities… Ho ho ho!

  1594. I have 2 children ages 11 and 14. This Christmas is going to be a sad one. My children both understand we have limited money and have both told me they will be ok without gifts but that is not fair to them. I put a few items they need on my wish list. Anything is appreciated. I do not like asking for charity but this year it is needed. Thanks to anyone who helps. The e-mail to look up on Amazon is lsexton81@hotmail.com.

  1596. Hi! I’m a single mom of a beautiful 3 year old boy and I’ve been struggling to afford a good Christmas for him. I have a job but with no child support, I’m behind on a lot. My son has been so good this year, excelling in preschool and just being an overall good boy. He’s been through a lot this past year with me and hos father splitting up, then my grandfather passing away last month. Through it all he has been amazing and keeping us both smiling. This is his wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/registry/wishlist/30XWI2NP2U99O/ref=cm_sw_r_an_wl_o_xv0Kub16YK8GE

    Thank you so much for looking 🙂 I know we are both so appreciative of any help we can get!

  1597. Jenny – thank you so much 🙂 The offer to trawl through looking for people who appear to have been missed still stands 🙂 I have this whole massive empathy problem that makes me not care about my own problems when I can see other peoples. Please feel free to delete my original post.

    I knew the shipping from Amazon was going to be diabolical – I find it hilarious that it’s cheaper for me to order from the UK than the US. That my local option Mighty Ape don’t auto populate my address into it is just silly – I thnk I’ll mention that too them 🙂

    I think the solution is – being a low stalker threat – that I just post my address here. We’re all nice, if bonkers people.

    Some of you may remember that Christchurch New Zealand was hit with a hell of an earthquake a few years back, the central city still looks like a big carpark there’s so much to be rebuilt. I started out volunteering with the student volunteer army – I’ll cut the long story that goes with that and link to the blog I wrote about it http://rtmiss-rtmiss.blogspot.co.nz/2012/03/beacon-of-hope.html

    Anyway. Early this year my health fell apart and I had to give up my job in favour of lying very still. Thank heavens for the internet or I would go massively bonkers. At the same time, my daughter who has quite severe social anxiety is burrowing back into her shell because having to cope with my being so ill is just one too many straws. She is in serious need of some cheering up – you could probably guess from the wish list that she is, like me, a massive geek.

    https://www.mightyape.co.nz/wishlist/1d23a7e28408aa9739dd14575e412ac0

  1598. @lana1967

    Your link takes me just to the wishlist homepage, not to your own wishlist. Can you send it again? Or pop on your email, so that I could send you a Kindle gift card…

    Merry Christmas, good laydee!
    Beth. x

  1599. My wife came to me in tears last night showing me how kind several people had been on this blog ( that she shows me ALL THE TIME) and had sent our kids a gift each. In fact I can see my wife’s post on this page.
    My sweetheart is an aspiring writer, a disabled cancer survivor, and an awesome mom despite what she thinks ( in case she is reading this, honey you are amazing).
    She and I swore off Christmas to each other since we barely could buy our kids a couple things after she spent quite a bit of the year in the hospital but in case anyone felt like buying an adult a gift, she is more than deserving. PLEASE take care of kids first, which is what she would say too.
    http://amzn.com/w/1DXRYLZU5N3O5 For my wife

  1600. And then I fail to add my address… sigh. GO BRAIN GO.
    Diana Bidwell
    6/128 Harewood Road
    Papanui
    Christchurch 8053
    New Zealand

  1601. @Shawn R – RC boat will reportedly arrive Dec 24
    @ lisa stimac – a book is on the way and should be there by the 24th

    I have no idea what your comment numbers were, but Merry Christmas!

  1602. Pop Vinyl figures on the way to Bry-anne (comment 1590)! I have a couple of them myself (Edna Mode from Incredibles and The Tin Man from Wizard of OZ). Merry Christmas/Happy Holidays!

  1603. RP (Comment 1471 re kitties) My mom’s death when I was 25 (closely followed by a PTSD triggering event) set off a years-long bout of depression that I somehow eventually pulled out of. I also put off asking for help for way too long. My cats saved my life. Over and over and over. So, some stuff for your kitties is on the way… And, if you’re willing to share your address I have a ton of home grown catnip I can send…and a few other toys. The Kong toy listed wasn’t sold by Amazon and the shipping price was more than the cost of the toy! You’ll have my email address when you receive the shipment on Saturday – Amazon was incorrectly showing the cat food to be a 6.3 lb bag, and for the price it should be a 16 lb bag, so I gave you a way to get in touch with me in case they ship the wrong ones. My thoughts and prayers are with you. And of course many purrs from my kitties. =^..^=

    @Liz Stoenner – there are numerous free and/or low cost spay and neuter programs available in almost every town – hopefully you can find one near you. Check with your shelter, animal rescue groups, etc. It’s worth the time to save the money… (I worked for our shelter for a couple of years and am involved in rescue – there a LOT of organizations and private donors that will help these days.)

  1606. I know I already posted a thank you, but it’s the day after I saw that someone bought my girls all their wish list items and it still brings me to tears. So I just had to say to everyone hitting up wish lists, donating to Project Night Night, giving out pig butts, etc…

    YOU ROCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! YOU ARE INSPIRING!!!!!!! YOU ARE A BLESSING!!!!!! THANK YOU!!!!!

    Okay, carry on. 🙂

  1607. Reading these comments… wow. You bunch are some of the most amazing people ever. I hate asking for help, but sometimes you need to. My fiance lost his job a little over 2 years ago, was unemployed for 8 months finally getting a job but had to take a drastic pay cut inevitably only making a tiny bit more than what he was on unemployment. We have 4 children and the financial struggle is still ongoing. Christmas is definitely the roughest time trying to make sure they’re all happy. Any help would be immensely appreciated. http://amzn.com/w/1N1GFJUGPW1QT

  1608. Hi all 🙂

    I just want to say THANK YOU to all of those helping!!! You all are amazing. I am a single mom and I am currently working on my MBA. I haven’t been able to find stable employment in my town despite having a bachelors and another masters degree. I’ve raised my 3 kids by myself while going to school and struggling to stay ahead of the bills. I hope I can show my kids a great Christmas this year.

    This is their list: https://www.amazon.com/registry/wishlist/2YJ4JBKIF8XAW/ref=cm_sw_r_ip_wl_o_JpEKub0DBSC6S

  1609. @rtmiss

    You possibly didn’t see my earlier post – you have a small gift (the Derwent Inktense blocks) that has shipped from Amazon, and should be arriving by Tues 23rd…

    Merry Crimbo!
    xx

  1611. Reposting my kids’ gift list, as I’m not sure I did this right the first time, lol.
    http://amzn.com/w/1S31R6JWPOO7E

    We’re just an ordinary family, living paycheck to paycheck and usually behind. We have three sweet kids who never expect much, but go over the moon at anything we manage to give them. Our oldest daughter is 12, our son is 10, and our youngest daughter is 8. Thank you so much, in advance, to anyone who might be able to make this Christmas more magical for our kids.

  1612. @K – 1 Frozen Sticker book and 1 Mickey Mouse book are on the way for Emmi and Eli. The box should arrive Monday.

  1613. I had commented before for my son, and was torn as to whether I should do a list for my nephew, Chase. He’s 7 years old and has had a rough year. A rough life really. His father is mentally ill, and owning his issues, he limits his contact to my nephew for his safety. My sister had been in a long term relationship with another man, who had been a surrogate father figure to Chase, but that relationship recently ended in the worst way imaginable (short of someone dying). Frankly he’s lucky he wasn’t found, dismembered, in a landfill.

    Chase is going to miss his third grade year at school because he’s having most of his teeth pulled. My sister didn’t want to subject him to the bullying he’d no-doubt endure for being 8 years old with no teeth. Genetics weren’t on his side in that department, and we’re hoping that with some orthodontic care his adult teeth will be salvageable. All of this has been weighing on my sister’s mind, as she’s been out of work and will not have any money for gifts this year. She hasn’t even decorated, because it’s kind of depressing to have a tree with no gifts under it.

    I’m hoping that some of the extreme kindness that had been shown to my son can be stretched a little more for my nephew. He’s a good kid, sweet and quiet. My mom and I do the best we can to make him feel special on holidays, along with my other sister’s two girls, but his mom and I have been hit harder this year than any other.

    Thank you again to everyone who helped me give my son a good Christmas this year! I hope to be able to pay-it-forward next year.

    http://amzn.com/w/DTN6VH8Y3OSS

  1614. ASUS @ Courtney.(1546) My daughter would love to give your tablet a home ! She is an avid reader(in 8th grade she is reading at the 10th level) but due to my surgery complications we have not been able to make our weekly trips to the library since September ! It is something she has wanted but knows we cant afford with me being off work, so she will not come out and ask for it. Thank you for considering her !

  1615. OMG you guys knocked out almost the entire list! I can’t thank yall enough! This will be the best christmas ever. I’m seriously crying here.

  1616. Merry Christmas, Amanda B. They’re scheduled to arrive on Christmas Eve. I hope your daughter enjoys them.

  1618. @rp comment 1471 – Update – ARGH! I went back to your wishlist and saw your comment about the Purina being cheaper through Prime Pantry, which I don’t have. So I cancelled the food and went to send you a gift card – but I need your email address because it’s not for a specific amount (I guess?) Please email me or post yours here. Or I guess add a specific dollar amount gift card? My email is kim at playingbig dot com

  1619. Thank you to the wonderful Santas! There have been so many posts (ours is #891 or so) asking for help, so the fact that you chose my family means that much more to us. I hope everyone has an enjoyable holiday season! Merry Christmas/Happy Hanukkah/Happy Kwanza or Happy December!

    http://imgur.com/CcEKfl9

    P.S. Sorry I wasn’t in it. I didn’t feel pretty.

  1620. Jenny, you are a godsend. Thank you for giving us a way to help on a very personal level. I’m going to be much happier this Christmas knowing that so many kids who were going to go without a Santa are going to be celebrating one of the true meanings of xmas. I gave a few presents today, and get paid tomorrow, so will be back to hopefully help a few more families. And in honor of my late sister, who passed away in July, someone out there is getting a goat from Heifer. She could always get mine. Miss you sissy.

  1623. I can’t thank you wonderful folks enough. I’m sitting here in tears. Thank you for your kindness to my children.

    http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/giftlist/2GJ283PLA66J8/ref=cm_go_nav_recip_gl?

    http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/giftlist/EW2YSREU5KRG/ref=cm_go_nav_recip_gl?

    sandi.stritch AT gmail DOT com

    I don’t even know how to say how grateful I am.

    Is there a way to see who’s sent an item, to send thank you notes once it arrives?

  1624. JulieE (#1576), you have a Kindle, a kindle gift card, and two hats/sweaters for your girls on their way! They should all get there before Christmas. Merry Merry!

    Jenny and everyone else, I can barely work for wanting to constantly watch this beautiful process unfold, comment after comment. Jenny, thank you for giving us a chance to give in such a personal way. And for making me laugh every day, and sometimes cry, and for being a Texas girl (because that makes me feel like we’re somehow related).

  1626. Thank you SO MUCH to whoever bought books for my son! I am so grateful for this opportunity. Reading through all the posts over the last few days has brought me so much joy and hope – what a wonderful community of people there are here!

    Adding the link to my kids’ lists one more time – thank you again!
    (Jack, 5 & Cassady, 14)

    https://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/giftlist/18S0IXTU14D5A/ref=cm_go_nav_recip_gl

    (All of your kids have a lot of gifts coming to them. ~ Jenny)

  1627. @Lana1967

    Check your email, milovely! I just sent through a $15 Kindle gift card to you. Happy reading!!
    (I also sent a separate ‘hi’ email to you from your previous post. It’s only now that I’ve joined those two things together!!)

    Best wishes, gentle spirit,
    Beth. x

  1628. Jenni (comment 1457) – Wish list is taken care of! Hoping everything will arrive by Christmas, but if not just know that it’s on it’s way!

  1629. Neefer: I wanted to credit you with giving me the idea to give away my extra tablet instead of selling it. Like you, I am comfortable, and although I have MANY health issues (to rival some of the stories on here), I have been very fortunate in my circumstances.

    I LOVE your idea of paring down the Xmas buying, and while I have an 11 yr old son, and 2 nieces and 1 nephew, I think this is definitely an approach to take in the future with the adults.

    I will also take print outs of all of the wish list items I purchased, and put them in our stockings and on the trees, and as my family (especially my son) opens them, I will explain to him the circumstances around my decision to gift the items, so he can understand the TRUE meaning of Xmas. Otherwise, he will never understand just how truly, TRULY blessed he really is, and he is.

    I love all of you guys, and to the ones who I didn’t get a chance to gift to, know that many times I went to your already empty wish list, smiled, and went looking for another one.

  1631. Is there anyway we can submit pictures to you Jenny to share with everyone? Maybe start a hashtag? I’d love to share photos of the girls with their blessings from all the kind hearted people. Just a thought. I’ll be posting pics on my IG and facebook, in any case.
    Once again, thank you for the miracle and blessing my children!

  1632. I hope this is ok. I forgot to add my son’s wishlist in earlier with my daughter’s. Like hers his is all under 20. Merry Christmas. If this is not ok. Please let me know.

    His listhttp://www.amazon.com/registry/giftlist/3ORODG6ELKTNG

  1633. @Misty Wilkins (#1439) – I ordered the little moose print thermal outfit for your son, but it might arrive a little bit after Christmas. Happy Holidays to a fellow Washingtonian! 🙂

  1634. @pinksesh, some books and legos are coming your way – some will be there on the 20th and the rest on the 23rd. Merry Christmas!

  1635. Elizabeth or Beth, Santa Garfield snuck a surprise in with the can opener and the cat toy!

  1637. I saw someone ask about thank yous. That’s a good question. If Santas are willing maybe they could put an address where we could send thank you cards in the note on order.

  1640. If anyone is looking for a pen pal to a seven year old girl, my daughter is really into writing letters and receiving them. She is a natural Introvert who has an interesting fascination with dinosaurs! She has wanted to be a paleontologist since she was 3. She loves to do science and to read. I read some people were looking for those who interested in sharing photos and emails or letters so if you are one of those people send me your address to
    Jennygirlmarie@yahoo.com

    Link: http://www.amazon.com/registry/wishlist/2Z8OBCGVGJC4V

  1641. @Courtney – I love that idea. Pictures of the items I’ve purchased are getting printed and going into a box for my 17-year old, who doesn’t know what she wants for Christmas, but who delights in helping people.

  1642. (Original post is 1210)

    Thank you so, so much for everyone who bought items on here, the level of generosity is such an incredible thing to witness. When I told my friend that strangers were buying presents for her kids, she was in tears (of joy, of course) over it.

    One of two of the kids has gotten a couple of gifts, which has just been so amazing. The other hasn’t gotten much, he’s 15 and harder to shop for, most of his likes are video games (and sadly I know very few of the exact titles he wants) so I put some gift cards up there along with a few board games, and some Minecraft items, since he loves that game. If anyone can get him anything, I will be so, so grateful for it.

    http://amzn.com/w/2RXWNPUCZMR7Q

  1646. I want to say. Someone told me about this blog today. And I can not even begging to describe. What’s in my heart right now. I am so touched buy all of you. My daughter wishlist is already empty. How can you say thank you to a complete stranger. And then truly understand the gratitude that’s in your heart. Because otherwise. My two children wouldn’t have had a Christmas. This is the true meaning of Christmas. Thank you so much!. That’s not enough I know. But it’s all I know to say. So yet again THANK YOU! From the bottom of my heart!

    Amanda B.

  1649. Original Post 1493, I think. Added it below for reference.

    Thank you to everyone who’s purchased something for my kidlets. We homeschool, so board games, books, and movies are so, so appreciated. I can’t express how grateful I am for a bright spot in my day….heck, in my year. It’s been really, really tough, and this makes it a little bit brighter. I’m sitting here in tears, staring at my PC in awe of what you folks are accomplishing.

    ThankyouThankyouThankyou

    I hope I’m in a position to help out next year, instead of being on the receiving end. But I’m grateful beyond words.

    From above.
    I had surgery in late Spring, then my antidepressants stopped working due to the anesthesia. As I’m the breadwinner, this means we’ve been living on a little over $10K this year. We’ve moved in with in-laws and I’ve found a new job, but it won’t pay out before the holidays.

    My kids lists are here:

    http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/giftlist/EW2YSREU5KRG/ref=cm_go_nav_recip_gl_njs

    http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/giftlist/2GJ283PLA66J8/ref=cm_go_nav_recip_gl_njs

  1650. That post alone shows how thankful you are, Amanda B!! So glad your kiddos are getting the Christmas they deserve 🙂

  1651. Thank You ….
    Anonymous #1540 and
    Gloria #1555 and anyone else who purchased items off of Teagans list! She has had a trach since she was a few months old and now at almost two cannot yet speak or make sound. She was born at 26 weeks and is very developmentally behind for her age. I was told reading to her will help with her vocabulary when the time comes for her trach and scar tissue to be removed from her vocal chords. My heart is so filled with love and gratitude! I cannot wait until next year when Teagan and I are in a better place to help others 🙂 and Jenny….I cannot tell you how special you are for this. Happy happy season everyone!
    Much love,
    Lisa and Teagan

  1653. I’m not sure if this is allowed, but can I ask for help for a friend? It’s actually my cousin’s ex wife and his child. He left her when she got sick with gall bladder and liver problems (cholestasis?) during her pregnancy and she lives all the way across the country in California and nobody helps her. I didn’t want to share the link and be like, “oh hey, go here for help” Ya know? Wasn’t sure if this was just for us bloggess readers or for the public.
    If not, it’s totally ok, I just figured I’d ask.
    It’s for her son Jon.
    Jon is 8 and is a huge movie buff. He is obsessed with Back to the Future & Marty McFly, Star Wars, Lord of the Rings, Sound of Music, most musicals and has been dying to see the new Annie movie that they re-made and is coming out in a couple days.

    His wishlist is here http://amzn.com/w/2FMBZJ16M2WKN
    And if anyone knows of any cosplayers near LA that want to do a good deed, he could use some cheering!
    Thanks for being so amazing, guys <3

  1654. Liz Stoenner, Spence the cat and Ruby the mastiff asked Santa James Garfield to drop some goodies off. Paws crossed that they arrive by the 24th!

  1655. Julie Diers thank you so much for the presents for great nana! She has done so much for us letting us live with her for through the winter!! You are a Godsend!

    • quoted text *
      Dear Santa,

    I don’t really know how to start, so I guess I will just swallow my pride and share a bit of our story. Zack (My husband) has worked as a CNA for the last 5 years, until last April when he was let go, the day before he was to go back to work from paternity leave for the birth of our son. After two months of no job offers, we were out of savings and had leave our one bedroom apartment to move almost four hours away, into my Nanas 9 by 9 spare bedroom. To pay for our room I do all the house cleaning, cooking, home repair projects, yard work, errands and anything else my Nana can think of.

    My husband finally got a job after hundreds of resumes and being out of work for six months; however it is at a bookstore and they only give him 15-23 hours a week at minimum wage. It hardly covers the necessities for our family, let alone thinking about extras for the holidays. He is looking for better, and we hope to get Zacks student loans out of default, so he can go back to school this spring and get a degree that will support a family.

    I want so desperately to give my children a bit of, not only the Christmas comfort, joy, and excitement that every child should get to experience, but a sense of normalcy and stability, we have moved 4 times since Rosie was born, between two states and 3 cities, just trying to find a way to make it, we have always shared a bed, a bedroom, and a very small space, and I want them to have something that is special and theirs alone.

    So, if you are still reading, I thank you, and let me introduce you to my two amazing children:

    • Roswell-Elizabeth is one and a half, she will be two in March; she is a loud, silly, dramatic, creative, and active little girl. Rosie loves My Little Pony, Frozen, music, tumbling, and reading. She isn’t talking yet, but has no problem getting her point across, she is extremely smart, a picky eater, and a doting big sissy! She is obsessed with rocking horses, wrapping up baby dolls in blankets, and perching on anything she can fit her tush on!

    • Sherloch-James is six months old, he will be one in April; he is a sweet, mellow, happy, and lively little boy. Loch loves music, soft things, Frozen, and anything he can grab and chew on! Loch is super excited about food, is crawling, and trying to pull himself up to stand and climb on everything! He loves when his sissy plays with him, and he tries so hard to follow her around. He is teething pretty hard, and that seems to be one of the few things that can upset him, otherwise his disposition is so sunny!

    Here is their joint Christmas wish list <3 anything would be such a blessing and treasured!

    I also made a wish list for the adults in their life, (myself, my husband, their granny who lives in the converted garage, and their great nana who is letting us stay here through the winter) because you’re never too old for a little Christmas magic right?

    That got long, and if you made it this far, thank you for taking the time to read this and get to know my family, that means just as much as anything else! We are grateful for any help you can send our way, to give our children a Christmas they otherwise will not have.

    Love and light from my family to yours,

    Happy Holidays!

  1656. @ April
    Your wee boy is a smasher!!

    I’ve just purchased him a small airplane toy and the beanie hat. The airplane will be with you Christmas Eve. The beanie hat will come through as a NY gift, I’m afraid…

    Merry Christmas!
    xx

  1657. I don’t think there’s any way to know if anyone’s been completely missed. Someone (sorry New Zealander – New Zealandite? Kiwi? I’m terrible at this – I don’t remember your name!) offered to go through the list, but I don’t think there’s any way to know whether something or nothing has been purchased from a wish list. You can certainly say whether EVERYTHING has been purchased, but I don’t think you can say whether NOTHING’S been purchased. I think the best thing is for people to repost if they’ve been completely overlooked. Some people have been doing that and some people might think they were intentionally missed. I think from the generosity that people have shown, it’s doubtful you were intentionally excluded, so if you’ve been overlooked, please post again. I’ve noticed that sometimes when I refresh the page, it will take me further up to where there are new comments mixed in with some I’ve already seen, so it’s definitely possible to get lost in the shuffle.

    Jenny, I’m sure this is incredibly stressful and hectic to moderate, which doesn’t even begin to mention the money you’ve personally put into it. All I can say to you is that this changes people’s lives. In real, concrete ways that they won’t forget. If all of us could do what you have done, the whole world would reverberate with it. I do not exaggerate. Thank you.

  1658. Dani #1590 and a #1599 – thank you, thank you, thank you! I did not seey your comments when I sent out my first comment of thanks (#1645) ! I am so excited!!!! This is the kindest thing that has ever happened to Teagan and I!!
    Love and Gratitude xoxoxo
    Lisa and Teagan 🙂

  1660. R.P. @ 1471: a couple of bags of food are headed your way. Also sending you much love! Merry Christmas!

  1662. @Rachel (1611) – rocket raccoon and book should be there in a couple days. Merry Christmas!

  1663. @BeffyDee/Beth – Oh my goodness! You lovely, gorgeous, generous dafty! Thank you over and again. I tend not to have the boys pics online, but if you can leave your e-mail addy somewhere, then I’ll try to catch at least one photo of them over the festive period as they are charging about! ~many gentle squishes~
    #Gaynor x

  1664. Elizabeth Or Beth, I just got you some macaroni and cheese. I know it’s not very exciting, but I hope it helps. Should arrive Tues or Wed.

  1667. Thank you so much! Your gift has enabled me to get a few of the must have things I needed for this baby! I was really getting worried about how I was going to afford these things, and you helped so much. You brought my husband and I to tears. Thank you Jenny! And thank you to all who have posted. Thank you for being generous to so many people.

    (My original post is #153)

  1669. @ sistercarrion / Gaynor

    I just wanted to do my best for a fellow Brit! :salutes:
    🙂

    ( I totally understand the reluctance to post pics online. I’m reluctant to put on my email address for similar-ish reasons but here goes nothin’! I trust the Bloggessians: beth.dawson.78 AT gmail.com)

    Merry Christmas to you and yours!
    Beth xx

  1670. Alexandra sent a message that she got something from the list, but since I don’t know what was on it and I’m not allowed to look I’m at a loss. I don’t want to repost if it’s possible she had a lot on the list and it’s been taken care of, but I don’t want her to miss out on Christmas either. Whatever she gets will be wholeheartedly appreciated!

    MarieW | December 18, 2014 at 8:11 am

    Somehow I screwed it up… so she started from scratch. My previous post was #1072

    MarieW | December 17, 2014 at 3:37 pm

    I’m posting my daughter’s wish list here. She asked me not to peek at it so I’m guessing she’s wanting to play Santa and there are a few things on it for me. Hopefully, it’s obvious what’s for her and you’ll lean that way. We’ve had a hard year or so but we know it will get better. I am overwhelmed at the outpouring of caring here. Thank you!

    http://amzn.com/w/2KN2NM7CI64ZJ

  1671. Baillie – 970 ( as of now) I love a good bath sheet and one will be coming to you on 12/23, plus a word game for your boy due 12/20. Wish I could do more — happy holidays!

  1672. Hi to Darryl Tapscott Jr (#1239) – Santa is bringing little Darryl the Tin Can Robot and also a set of the 1st five Captain Underpants books. I work in a bookstore and when I saw that your son likes to read, well, I had to add in some books! : ) (In fact, they’re coming from our shop account, so if you see “Librarium” in New York State on two packages, those are from me.). If he already has these, no worries, he can give them away to a friend, or whatever you both decide is best. (Not sure about delivery dates, hope things make it in time!)

    I’m so sorry for all that you and your son are going through. I lost one parent when I was younger (though not as young as your son), and I just lost the other this year, and I hope this isn’t too hokey, but I really want to tell you both – as well as everyone else reading this who is having a hard time – “Hang in there!” Yes, it’s heartbreaking, and some days it seems unbearable and you don’t know how to get through, but you really will be alright. And when you are feeling weighed down by sorrow, remember we are all in this together and that there are lots of us out here keeping you in our thoughts, and sending you strength and support!

    And to Jenny, and everyone here – from the bottom of my very full heart, THANK YOU! There is so much I want to write as I read through all of these comments: about the grace and courage of those asking for help; about the wildly beautiful generosity of those who are giving, about the person (Carrie, #873) who told her son that there really is a Santa (and that we are Santa); about all that you, Jenny, are doing to facilitate everything – but I keep crying happy tears and writing long, wandering sentences that I then have to delete. (Yes, even more wandering and long than that one!) 🙂 I think what I want most to say is this: Jenny you are truly wonderful, and I am so grateful to you, and to every magnificent strangeling who is part of this community, for making such gloriousness possible!!

    What an amazing group of people – Happy and Wonderful Holidays to all of us!

  1673. http://i.imgur.com/RgtqkKi.jpg thank you so much for being Christmas blessings to so many! My littles were terrified of the mall Santa, but they are going to love what the real life spirits of Santa have done for them! You are truly amazing people.
    * quoted text

    • Dear Santa,

    • I don’t really know how to start, so I guess I will just swallow my pride and share a bit of our story. Zack (My husband) has worked as a CNA for the last 5 years, until last April when he was let go, the day before he was to go back to work from paternity leave for the birth of our son. After two months of no job offers, we were out of savings and had leave our one bedroom apartment to move almost four hours away, into my Nanas 9 by 9 spare bedroom. To pay for our room I do all the house cleaning, cooking, home repair projects, yard work, errands and anything else my Nana can think of.

    • My husband finally got a job after hundreds of resumes and being out of work for six months; however it is at a bookstore and they only give him 15-23 hours a week at minimum wage. It hardly covers the necessities for our family, let alone thinking about extras for the holidays. He is looking for better, and we hope to get Zacks student loans out of default, so he can go back to school this spring and get a degree that will support a family.

    • I want so desperately to give my children a bit of, not only the Christmas comfort, joy, and excitement that every child should get to experience, but a sense of normalcy and stability, we have moved 4 times since Rosie was born, between two states and 3 cities, just trying to find a way to make it, we have always shared a bed, a bedroom, and a very small space, and I want them to have something that is special and theirs alone.

    • So, if you are still reading, I thank you, and let me introduce you to my two amazing children:

    • Roswell-Elizabeth is one and a half, she will be two in March; she is a loud, silly, dramatic, creative, and active little girl. Rosie loves My Little Pony, Frozen, music, tumbling, and reading. She isn’t talking yet, but has no problem getting her point across, she is extremely smart, a picky eater, and a doting big sissy! She is obsessed with rocking horses, wrapping up baby dolls in blankets, and perching on anything she can fit her tush on!

    • Sherloch-James is six months old, he will be one in April; he is a sweet, mellow, happy, and lively little boy. Loch loves music, soft things, Frozen, and anything he can grab and chew on! Loch is super excited about food, is crawling, and trying to pull himself up to stand and climb on everything! He loves when his sissy plays with him, and he tries so hard to follow her around. He is teething pretty hard, and that seems to be one of the few things that can upset him, otherwise his disposition is so sunny!

    • Here is their joint Christmas wish list <3 anything would be such a blessing and treasured!

    • I also made a wish list for the adults in their life, (my husband, their granny who lives in the converted garage, and their great nana who is letting us stay here through the winter) because you’re never too old for a little Christmas magic right?

    • That got long, and if you made it this far, thank you for taking the time to read this and get to know my family, that means just as much as anything else! We are grateful for any help you can send our way, to give our children a Christmas they otherwise will not have.

    • Love and light from my family to yours,

    • Happy Holidays!

  1674. Bry-anne, Santa James Garfield says he’s going to be at Jon’s house on the 24th! But as taxidermied boars always get carried away, he didn’t get Jon the Darth Vader Mr. Potato head, he got him the 3-1 Darth Vader Mr Potato Head that also has Storm Trooper and R2-D2 parts!

  1675. I am in awe of the responses. I received almost everything on my wish list plus the amount you sent to me. I honestly feel like I can exhale now. It’s a wonderful, wonderful feeling. I have helped people in my past. I’ve donated time, money, clothes, gifts, food, and anything else I could. But, I’ve never been the recipient of the kindness of strangers like this. I believe in paying it forward and I hope to repay this over and over in the years to come when things are better for us. Thank you all truly and sincerely, from the bottom of my heart. This is what the holiday spirit is about. You all rock.

  1676. To #412 – Suzy Pietras-Smith [December 16, 2014 at 12:48 pm]

    Amazon status report states
    Delivered on: Thursday, December 18, 2014 — “Package was left near the front door or porch”

    I don’t know if it was shipping to you, or directly to your best friend’s house for the kids… But since packages left on front porches this time of year have a very strong tendency to magically grow legs and go on a walkabout — is it possible to confirm that it was found by the appropriate person and taken inside?

    You can email me at santa.neefer@gmail.com so we don’t have to clutter things up here. Thanks.

  1678. Cat (1588), Jenna (1588), and Kim (1601/1616) – I can’t thank you three enough for offering to help me with my beloved cats. Keeping them safe as I try to recover and rebuild is of the utmost importance to me… I really can’t stress how much. I’ve contacted you all as requested, and am trying to clean up the wish list. Most of the items are just general wishes.. cat toy, catnip, etc. and not specific needs. Mainly I need food for them, anything else is a treat. Thank you all, with all of my heart.

    Jenny, thank you for providing us this space and starting the ball rolling. Depression has been trying to eat me alive, and I cannot tell you how many times I’ve beaten it back by remembering you telling us that it lies. You and Wil Wheaton both have columns I’ve read more than once lately. It helps.

    May everyone’s holidays be bright and joy filled.

  1680. Bloggess and all who have read my post and bought for my family, I just checked my amazon list…I dont know what to say…I sat here and just cried ! I have just gone from no Christmas to not being able to wait for it to get here ! I got the tree box out of the closet and my 13 year old actually said to me “Why are you getting that out ?” They are going to be so happy ! I know they were not thinking they were getting anything this year because I have been unable to work. Almost every game was purchased ! Our game nights are going to a fight to pick out which one we are going to play ! And I cant wait ! I cant remember my post # but if this list looks familiar http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/wishlist/30GM7Z30T4YL9/ref=cm_wl_huc_view
    May God bless you and thank you so much ! You have made me feel there is hope for this world ! I never knew such sweet and giving people existed ! Julia

  1681. Jennifer T @ 1210 : a game (super smash bros) and a game stop gift card coming your way for Cody! A 15 yr old boy should not be overlooked!!! (Says a mom of an 11 yr old boy obsessed with video games!!!) 😄

  1682. I am unsure how he does it, but my sixteen year old son “blows” out his boxers it starts out with a small hole in the under carriage area then turns into one big hole and by the way the look I can only assume it makes his bottom part stick out which can lead to bad chaffing. My son could use some new boxers and his sister could use new undies as well and it is the only current thing they need, Could any Santa take care of an undies request?

    Melissa: (14 years old) http://amzn.com/w/RWM9WPDLRO17

    Parker (16 years old) http://amzn.com/w/1BXXP5BM92I65

    I also wanted to thank everyone again for the help they gave my cousin Belle and her two children they are going to be shocked. The only thing they need are some baby wipes.

    If anyone would like a Thank you card or a hand drawn thank you by my cousins five year old please let me know! (There is an email address on my cousins wishlist you can email me at so I can send you a thank you card or a hand drawn note from my cousins five year old).

  1683. @ April

    Omigosh!! :tears of joy: You and your gorgeous wee man have made my day!! I wish you both nothing but good things from here on in.

    Sent with lots of love, Beth. xx

  1684. Thank you so much for taking care of Jon, thank you Mastiffcat <3

    I'm rarely left speechless, but my god! "Thank you" is just insufficient.
    I can't wait until next year, I'm totally going to play santa.
    God bless James Garfield!

  1685. @Bry-anne I agree! I hope Bloggess does this again next year I have a whole year to find a better job then come back here and help out others who are in the situation I am in now. I can’t wait until next year so I can help out!

  1686. @BeffyDee, thank you! i’m having so much fun! I was feeling very Grinchy about christmas until this happened, so it’s true: the magic of St. James Garfield and the Church of Bloggessarianism gives extra gravy to all. I read the blog religiously, but never the comments until this post, so i’ve never felt i was part of the tribe, but now i can officially call myself a Strangeling.

    And you’ve been busy too, so kitty purrs and doggie woofs back atcha!

  1687. Jessica Dunn – a toolkit and shirt for your new foster guy should arrive 19th and 20th – I hope he feels safe and warm this holiday

    Heather Van Horn – Eyeshadow, Feel Beautiful Shirt and rainbow leg warmers on 22nd – I hope your daughter always remembers how beautiful she is.

    Amber Wiseman – food arriving 20th and soap on 23rd – so sorry you struggle so much with food but hoping you can relax a bit and bake over the holiday!

    Kim and Samantha F – Android tablet arriving 23rd – Tell them how much they are loved and how special their mom is. They are part of our tribe now!

    Bonnie Crossley – sewing machine and book, multi-tool and fashion plates kits arriving 19th (fashion plates were showing delayed so I added a sketchbook and sketch kit for the oldest but it looks like they all shipped in time!) – My gram was a seamstress and we had the best barbie clothes in the world. I am moving to Florida in 5 weeks but if you want to share your address with me, I would love to send your daughter some fabric and maybe buttons from my stash. Maybe she could make some dog beds for me!

    To anyone in need in the Phoenix area – please feel free to contact me if you need anything. As I am packing I am sure I will come across some things that may be useful to someone and I have a lot of spices and pasta and things that need a new home. jenw930 at gmail

    To JENNY and HER TRIBE – Thank you thank you thank you for this opportunity. I am going to be alone this Christmas and you have all filled up my heart by being able to do a little something for you in my Dad’s memory. Thank you for being brave enough to post your wishes. Thank you to everyone for stepping up to the plate. HOPE and HOME – we haz it!

  1688. Wow! Your heart is as big as Texas. I type this with tears in my eyes. I am in awe of your generosity. God bless you Jenny.

  1689. I know this is a late addition but you guys were so awesome getting things on my daughter’s list that I wanted to include her close friend whose mom is going through some rough times too. His name is Jimmy and he is 13 and loves football. I made a quick list for him in the hope that he can be blessed this Christmas as well. Thank you all so very much for taking the time to look at his list and have a blessed holiday!
    http://www.amazon.com/registry/giftlist/3C7CX0ER6NOSX

  1690. @ April

    (I might have just added the Up DVD and a race track doodah to your order. But, shh, don’t tell anyone!! My UK prime account doesn’t work for US shipments, so I’ll keep my fingers crossed for timings…

    xx)

  1691. A family I know won’t have much for Christmas. I drew up a small wishlist for the kids. I always try to buy them a few things but I’ve been sick for the past two weeks, so all my money has gone to hospital bills. This whole thing is absolutely crazy. Bless the entire tribe!

    http://amzn.com/w/2ZJQNC68MLOK9

  1692. Having tried to clean up the wish list for my cats, I discovered that some of the things may have been purchased, though I am not sure by whom of course. Whoever you are, please know you have my deepest thanks. I’ve been trying to ignore the holidays but I will not ignore my cats and this help right now is invaluable.

    I don’t know how it might be for others who suffer depression, but the thought that anyone would actually want to help me is astounding and is in itself a help, truly.

    You are all wonderful.

  1693. wings of love is a parrot rescue shelter i frequent that does amazing things to rehome and help abused birds (in case the cat people know any bird people who like to help)
    http://bird-haven.org/donatesponsor/ please hit up a kids wishlist first, just throwing it in there in case anyone is interested!

  1694. It took a long time to find my comment, and was so touched to see Jenny’s comment that she purchased a DVD from the wish list I shared. I just checked my amazon account and saw that 4 more items have been purchased as well. I am so overwhelmed and blown away by the generosity on this page that I literally could not stop the tears. You guys are amazing. So proud to be part of the Bloggess community!

  1695. Beefydee!!!! :”’) Omg! You are super amazing. He is going to be so happy!!! I’m so excited for Christmas morning now. Wow!!! I’m speechless! Thank you doesn’t even begin to cover it! Wow!

  1696. Done! 4 Project Night Night bags on their way. Thanks for doing this! Such a great charity.

  1697. @ Mastiffcat

    I was feeling the Christmas-joy somewhat this year. But this monumental global miracle still makes my heart feel like it’s grown three sizes!!

    I too read the blog all the time but haven’t posted a comment before. Hello fellow strangelings – tis nice to fit in! 🙂

    :offers the highest of fives:

    Love to all Bloggessians at Christmas! x
    (And now I have to go – it’s late in the UK and I’m knackered and officially skint until payday – which is tomorrow, so I’m fine, really!!)

  1699. I’m #1413 and have to give a million humble thanks to Jennifer for the boots, Sandra D. for the sooo generous gift card, and @bteacher99 for the coat (and book for me!). I’m so blown away by you all, and my girls are going to be beyond thrilled at the warm winter clothes and what I’ll be able to let them pick with the gift card. I can’t say enough thanks to you, Jenny, and Santa James Garfield for all you’ve done.

  1700. nicole its not directing me to a list… im getting a page that says no lists have been made. troubleshooting here have you tried this to make it public or shared:

    Go to your Wish List .
Click Manage your lists.
Select your preferred privacy setting under Privacy in the Manage your lists window.
    Public: Anyone can search for and see this list
    Shared: Only people with a link (URL) of your Wish List can see this list
    Private: Only you can see this list
Click Submit on the Manage your lists window to confirm.

    Note:

    You can also click Share with friends at the top of your Wish List to notify people via e-mail, Facebook, Twitter, and Pinterest. The e-mail addresses you provide will only be used to send this message.
It can take up to 15 minutes for a Wish List to become searchable.

  1702. Nicole (1696), your list doesn’t go to a specific wish list, which may explain why it’s untouched. Can you post your email address so people can search for it?

  1703. Heidi G @ 1391: Awesome aunts and nieces unite! 🙂 (My niece is 3; I hope she has some of the same spirit as your niece when she’s the same age!)

  1704. Ahh, @Neefer (1483, 1490, 1545) you are just awesome! I absolutely love that you are saving everything to show your mom what incredible things you’ve been doing with your Christmas savings this year. I will try very hard to remember to get a pic of my daughter on Christmas morning, but in case I forget, I’m sending you a recent pic of her cute face so you can see who your generosity is going to!

    You were right, she doesn’t actually have a Lego set of her own right now. I added one to my list if you would like to get it for her, but you are in no way obligated! I chose the Cloud Cuckoo Palace from the Lego Movie because she always giggles the most at that part, and I think her brother will leave the pink kitty pieces alone.

    Link: http://amzn.com/w/1J2849HJCZZER

    I’m so so thankful for everyone on this thread. You have no idea what this means to my family right now. We hope that next year we will be on the giving side of this deal so we can repay all the kindness we’ve been shown.

  1705. Nicole, that link goes to a page that says, “You don’t have any Wish Lists right now.” Is there an error or have we really reached everyone?!

  1707. This is Liz from #1436. You guys are amazing. The kitties thank you. As far as getting them fixed, there is a low income assistance that I will be using when they are old enough and I have gotten enough raised

  1708. Jennifer (#1687), Santa James Garfield doesn’t know where Jimmy lives, so he’s going to drop off a vest at your house on the 24th. Will you be a dear and give it to Jimmy? Santa James Garfield will be so grateful!

  1709. @ sistercarrion / Glorious Gaynor!

    A pic would be marv – but only if it doesn’t intrude upon your Christmas day. It’s so much more important that you all have a lovely time 🙂
    Nighty-noo! Hope you get some more deliveries tomorrow…

    With lots of love, BeffyDee / Beth xx

  1711. Linda (1658), thank you so much for sending the bags of food! The furballs will be happy, and so will I. Happy holidays!

  1712. Steve the Husband #1597- sweet post btw- Jane Eyre is on the way for your wife. It is one of my favorites.

    R.P. #1471- There is a kitty bed (that thing was adorable!) headed to you.

    And Lisa Stimac #1521- as a fellow Hoosier and a nurse, I chose your list. Nursing school is tough but you can do it!

  1713. Jen Smith- Thank you so much! I was hoping we would be able to thank whoever had purchased them! You can reach me at bcrossleyphoto at gmail dot com. Lorelai is going to love the sewing machine! And the multitool is the one thing Joe’s been talking about since Boy Scout Summer Camp! Thank you SO much!

  1714. Nicole, one Scientific Explorer Sour Candy Kit is on its way! Santa James Garfield says it will arrive on Saturday, in plenty of time for Christmas.

  1715. @BeffyDee

    Thank you so much Beth – Kitty has a lot of artistic talent, and Inktense are so fabulous to work with, she will get much enjoyment out of them. I can see from many posts with your name in them that you are being a super santa; I hope Karma remembers to do something nice for you too 🙂

  1716. Anyone else have a kid with nothing yet? I can’t do much more, but one small gift for someone whose stocking is bare… that I can manage!

  1717. ladyerinia (#1689), Santa James Garfield needs your help!!! Some of those crazy Ninja Turtles stole Princess Elsa’s jewelry making kit and now she’s chasing them around to get it back. If you see them, will you make sure they get to their proper homes? At the rate they’re going, they’ll be in your neighborhood on the 24th.

  1718. To astraphell [#1701 — December 18, 2014 at 5:29 pm]

    The Lego “Cloud Cuckoo Palace” is on the way! * does a little happy dance *
    Guaranteed delivery by: Tuesday, December 23, 2014 by 8pm

    I used the opportunity of a second / separate package to “extend” the gift message from the first package, and get in the rest of the “girls are awesome and can be or do anything” message you originally requested. (So you’ll probably want to make sure she opens the Goldie Blox one before the Lego one. 🙂 )

    MERRY CHRISTMAS!

  1720. Bumping to see if anyone else is able to help me give my son an awesome Christmas. I appreciate everything you have been so generous in offering. I’m excited to have something to put under the tree for my son! I can’t tell you how much this means to me.

    Wish List
    Link: http://amzn.com/w/ZVIF7UP41R6L

    Shannon811

  1721. Kristen S., Lisa S. and Kristen B., you all have a little something on the way for your loved ones. I purchased some things off another wish list yesterday and came back today to pick up a few more.

    My children have so much. My family is so fortunate. Even if I couldn’t buy for my 3 kids, we are surrounded by family and friends who would make sure they never went without. I went through some lean years in the past. As I read through the posts from young mothers who are doing their best to make ends meet, I keep thinking “that was me. I could have written that 15 years ago.” I am so happy and blessed to be on the giving side now.

    I know that the impact of what is happening here will go so much further than this Christmas. The generosity shown by so many will live in the hearts of the parents, friends, sisters, husbands, wives and others who have had their prayers answered. They will be the givers some day. They will someday tell their children that someone they never met from across the country (or the globe) gave them the book, the coat, the toy that they loved so well. Those children will be givers someday too and the ripples will spread through the universe farther than any of us will ever know.

    So thank you to Jenny, and to James Garfield. When things get dark, please remember this. You did this. Happy Holidays to you!

  1723. We’ve also had a tough few years, so I’m only sorry that we can’t help more, but 4 kids will be getting gifts on behalf of my dad. He’s impossible to buy for so this is the perfect gift for him. 🙂

    I can’t remember any of the numbers/names from the original posts, so I’ll just list the (partial) names from Amazon. The following 4 individuals should be on the lookout for a package on Tuesday:

    Jim P., from AR
    Ginger K, from WI
    Natausha B., from MI
    Blake R., from TX.

    Have a very Merry Christmas! [And continued thanks to Jenny for facilitating this enormous project!]

  1725. Brenda B.: Looks like you might have two microscopes coming your way (see Karen C at 1506)!! Should I cancel mine? Email me at binsted at hawaii dot edu.

    [linking to one of my crew member’s blogs, because it’s festive]

  1726. @Kristen in LA (K. #1563) – something on its way for each of your kids.

    @Nicole #1708 (from PA) – couple things on their way for your kids.

    @R.P. #1676 etc (Robyn in PA) – I want to use my Prime Pantry to feed your kitties but either my brain is fried and I can’t figure it out (entirely likely, lol) or Amazon won’t let me since I don’t know your address. If I send you an Amazon gift card will you be able to use it for the Pantry?

  1727. Adding my links one last time before I head off to bed. You folks have been wonderful – my kids are going to be so excited to have toys for the first time in forever for Christmas. Usually we do handmade items, small books, and a stocking. This will be the first big Christmas we’ve had since my mom passed away in 2006 — and up until a few hours ago, I was lying here crying and pondering how I was going to be able to afford to get them much of anything.

    Anyone who includes some sort of identifier in their packing slip I’d be happy to send a thank you card to. You’re making a very low income family’s holiday brighter, and helping me out of a rough, depressing mess.

    My girls are 6 and 8, for the record. So far we’ve received several more items for the younger one than the older one, but I can always split things up as packages arrive and redistribute as necessary. That’s the fun of playing Santa!

    Thank you to all the Bloggess Team Secret Santa’s this year — I can’t believe the Christmas magic your’e creating!!

    My kids lists are here:

    http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/giftlist/EW2YSREU5KRG/ref=cm_go_nav_recip_gl_njs

    http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/giftlist/2GJ283PLA66J8/ref=cm_go_nav_recip_gl_njs

    Thank you

  1728. Nicole, Santa James Garfield simply HAD to get the Copernicus gum kit! (Copernicus– teehee!)
    It and a set of crayon markers should arrive the 24th.

  1730. For Tom @894 (http://thebloggess.com/2014/12/if-you-need-help-or-if-you-want-to-help/comment-page-2/#comment-809966). Amazon says 12/23 is the due date. I hope they make it!

    I just sent a little something for each kid. My dad had a stroke when he was 25 (I was 2) . I’m not sure how we all got by – family and friends probably (I lived with some relatives for a few months until an uncle graduated HS and came to take care of me and keep the family together). He made a mostly full recovery and stayed active and busy for many more years. It is in his honor that I made my small purchase/

  1731. Holy crap I can’t believe that somebody bought Alexandra the sewing machine! All four kids got books the older three got gift cards to see a movie, Bronwyn got two stuffed woodland animals, Aidan got some juggling balls, and Keegan received a video game! Thank you! Thank you! I’m beside myself with joy that they will have gifts to open! Also a little star struck that the Bloggess herself hit my list lol. Thank you Allison (1348) and Kerry (1492) as well, Happy Holidays to all! How can the year not kick off right after this, I’ll be donating next year for sure!

    Amy (712, 714, 1293)

    http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/wishlist/A912L1J05J3R/ref=cm_wl_rlist_go_o?

  1732. Any other kitties in need of help?

    PS In my above post 1710, I forgot to mention that everything is estimated to arrive on the 24th. Hooray!

  1733. One of the kids caught me adding shoes to the wishlist and starting squealing with excitement. facepalm A little bit about her family: They live in poverty and nearly were evicted over Thanksgiving. It required a whole lot of sweet talking to avoid that unpleasant scenario. Kiddo has 5 brothers and sisters in the house and they don’t get a whole lot. I quickly put up a wishlist for them since I really can’t help this year. I’ve been the teenager’s mentor for 6 years and counting. It’s been a battle. Bless you all. This is a fun thing and I know everyone who gets helped will be paying it forward.

    http://amzn.com/w/2ZJQNC68MLOK9

  1734. @MastiffCat I will, thank you so much! She is sleeping now ( running a fever) but she will be so happy after she gets done fussing at me!
    @Gamergirl79 It is her faavorite, too. She collects copies of it and re-reads it every time she gets one. I haven’t been able to buy her one in a couple of years, so she will be so pleased ( once again, AFTER she gets done fussing at me for asking for her for anything)

    You two are wonderful! I am so happy to give her anything!
    (#1597)

  1735. elisaashley: I have a Poloroid (model t1035) point-and-shoot, 10 megapixal camera that we were about to donate. It works well, and I have the instructions, power cord, etc. I would be happy to ship it to you. Please email me at debsmurfette@yahoo.com if you are interested. There are so many comments here that I would hate to miss your reply.

  1736. @pinksesh (post 1458) – Wish list done! Hopefully all will arrive before Christmas, or at least shortly thereafter!
    Merry Christmas!

  1737.  http://www.amazon.com/registry/wishlist/NB2YU45CQGJ7
    Thank you to the ones who purchased some items for my kids God bless you!

  1738. April- oh you think it’s funny, do you? Well, ha-dee-ha-ha-ha. Let’s see if you think it’s so funny when Jesse rounds up a herd of dinosaurs on your front porch.
    Never laugh at Santa James Garfield.

  1739. Enjoying coming back and reading the comments but also feeling bad, wishing I could help more folks! But my own needy sister is coming to town iwth her 2 firls, so I’ll take my nieces shopping. Playing Santa has been SO MUCH FUN!

    Everyone wrote back and thanked me and that was so awesome!! Not necessary, but it really was awesome and made me feel so good!

    Finally, I don’t know anything about Instagram, but couldn’t we create like a group album that anyone who wanted could post pics of their celebration or 2-legged or 4-legged kids? I would adore seeing everyone!

  1741. I’m still reading through the list!! Overwhelmed and brought to tears many times. As for me, I don’t need anything except local friends which you can’t put on a wishlist.

    In all seriousness, in case people are still waiting for just the right opportunity to spark their interest, I nominate one of the few charities I support (I’m not affiliated in any way): The Ruth Ellis Center (http://www.ruthelliscenter.org/). In my own words, it’s a place that provides long= and short-term assistance for kids who’ve been made homeless (or put in danger) because their families don’t accept their sexuality.

    Another one is Foster Care 2 Success (http://www.fc2success.org/), but I’ve always known it as The Red Scarf Project. The clientele of this organization are foster kids who are on their way out of the system (being “aged out”) A log of times they go to college and find themselves without a family — the placement ended at 18 — and are in need of some TLC, etc. This organization, among other things, arranges special care packages throughout tye year to let this young adults know that people still care.

  1742. GamerGirl79 (1710) – Thank you very much! A couple of my cats love to be under cover, so I make them little caves with my pillows and comforter. They don’t always stay up long, though, so I thought they would like this. (Sidenote: I’m an avid gamer (board/RPG/video), so I love your nickname.)

    Dawn in OH (1724) – I would be able to use the pantry, thank you! The price disparity is pretty huge which is why I wanted to note it, but the prime price is actually quite good. I really cannot tell you how much of a relief this is to be getting help for them. Twice now I’ve had to try and make shift with people food for a day or two, which isn’t healthy for them in the long run. And it kills me to even think they’re being harmed by all of this – it’s not fair to them. I greatly appreciate it.

    Happy holidays to you both!

  1743. ladyerinia, oh for crying out loud! Those darn Ninja Turtles appear to also run off with makeup kits and a bunch of books! SMH, Santa James Garfield

  1746. I am a single disabled mom with 3 very young children. I make sure that they have everything that they need but I end up sacrificing myself.
    Please take care of those that need things for their children and to stay warm and healthy first. Please only look at my list if there is no one left to give to. I just want some me things. Like coffee and a plush robe. Chocolate and a good book. To spend some time on myself and spoil myself. Because I have forgotten myself and lost myself.
    Thank you
    http://amzn.com/w/NG0QWL0YRV8I

  1747. Hi everyone my aunt recommended that I share my go fund me campaign here as there are many giving people. I am trying to save a little veiled chameleon who badly needs to go to the vet and I am unable to afford to do so as a broke college student who is back home on break. you can learn more about Mabel on the go fund me page http://www.gofundme.com/mabelthechameleon
    I’m not really sure how much the visit and treatments will cost but I’m seriously so grateful for the donations I’ve already received.

  1748. Tiffani, one Be Amazing Toys Stick on its way to you! Santa James Garfield guarantees delivery by the 23rd!

  1749. Jenny, I’ve noticed that a couple of people have suggested creating Instagram posts for those who might want to post pictures of their happy kiddos on Christmas morning…I hope you will consider decreeing this an option, as it sounds like so much fun for givers and receivers. (The hashtag could be “#ThankyouJamesGarfield” or “#BloggessianChristmasRocks”, something like that. I’m sure you could come up with something quite clever.) Just putting it out there…
    Thank you again for facilitating this amazing opportunity for all, it truly has touched my heart.

  1751. To sandistritch (1725) – I sent some items from Zoe’s list. I hope you and your girls have a lovely Christmas.

  1753. To Nicole [ #1708 – December 18, 2014 at 5:43 pm ]

    The “Thames and Kosmos Crystal Creation Science Kit” is on the way, but it apparently is going to be a little late. (In stock on December 23, 2014 / Estimated delivery: Dec. 29, 2014) Hopefully other’s have been able to get items that will arrive in time.

    I wasn’t able to figure out which post may have been your original, since #1708 is about it having been overlooked… So, since I don’t know who the intended recipient might be, I just put the gift message as “Whoops! This one accidentally fell off my sleigh. Merry (late) Christmas from Santa!” just in case it is for a younger kiddo.

    Santa Neefer
    Saint James Garfield Church of Bloggessianism
    santa.neefer@gmail.com

  1755. Since it looks like every wish list that has been posted is getting something, is there anyone who has posted a gofundme or other account that hasn’t received a donation from a Strangeling?
    Please don’t be shy: Strangelings want to help!
    thanks, Santa James Garfield

  1757. Also, is there anyone who has not yet asked for help? Any kind of help? Do you need food? Presents for kids? Professional clothing? Pet food? Medicine? School supplies? Do you need a pen pal for your sad, indoors days? Do you just need to share your story and know there are people who will read it and believe it and see what you are going through? Do you need someone to tell you a joke?
    It’s Hannukah, where light triumphs over dark. And it’s Christmas, where hope returns to the world. And it’s the Solstice, where the brighter times start to come back. Ask for help. Please. We are sitting here (procrastinating at work! Ooops!) waiting, hoping we can help. It’s not too late to ask, though shipping things by Christmas is getting harder. It’s not too late!

  1758. Misty, #1450, I’ve just bought a few things from your list. I’m hoping they reach you for Christmas.

  1760. Misty, #1450, I’ve bought a few things from your list. Here’s hoping they reach you for Christmas.

  1761. To ampapy (1575) thank you so,so,so much! I’m crying right now! I am definitely paying this forward as soon as I can. THANK YOU.

    And thank you Jenny, you’re amazing!

  1763. Kimberly @382* – still keeping an eye on the list for your boys. You have added a few things, but there still no address associated. Please email me once you’ve included an address. Also, feel free to email me if you would like me to send some assorted dice form my collection (mel@thinktwicenews.com).

    *http://thebloggess.com/2014/12/if-you-need-help-or-if-you-want-to-help/comment-page-1/#comment-809071

  1764. To Misty, #1450 I’ve purchased a few bits from your list. Hoping they reach you for Christmas 🙂

    (General comment: Having probs posting a comment (due to my hamfistedness, I think) so sorry if any duplicates turn up!).

  1766. Hi My girls name is Ava,she is 8. We are having a hard time with Christmas with her this year because her father lost his job 3 weeks ago. We arent destitute…..but we have no where to cut money FROM to buy Christmas. http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/wishlist/ref=nav_wish_list

    (Can you post the list again? I’m getting an error message so I think it’s missing something. ~ Jenny)

    Fixed: http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/wishlist/?ie=UTF8&cid=A161AXDT75SD1M

  1767. Cailin (#454)

    I don’t know if you’ll see this, but the Amazon seller just got in touch to say those boots are sold out. As soon as the money gets refunded I’d be delighted to order you another pair of similar value for your niece. Just email gentlemanscribeATgmail.com and we’ll get something sorted out. Blessings, Courtney

  1768. R.P. (again, sorry) – I guess I need an email address for you, or if you could put a $50 gift card on your wish list I’ll buy it. My doggies want to send your kitties some food for Christmas and their human can’t seem to figure it out. Thank you!

  1770. Yes. Alice, you just convinced me to do the one thing I did not want to do – ask for help for myself. Our house is heated with space heaters and last night one of them quit. I was going to buy one today but then realized I only had enough money for cat food and gas. Ironically, there was $18 left on the gift card Jenny gave me for grandkid presents, and I used that yesterday on somebody’s wishlist because I wanted to give back a little bit. But now I am sitting here wearing my bathrobe over my clothes and I have four cats who are looking at me like they wish they had a robe too. And I know it will take a few days for a heater to get here but I also know that winter has only just begun and money is not going to be growing on trees any time in the near future so I just added a small heater to my personal list and if anyone wants to send it to us, I will consider it a gift for the cats so I don’t feel like I am being greedy (because I have asked for – and received – help for my grandkids, my aunt who is raising my young cousins, and my friend who is Santa to half a town but didn’t even put up a tree at home).

    You can ignore the rest of the list – or at least the people stuff. I added the cat things earlier when someone had expressed interest in gifting cats – my kitties are awesome! The other stuff I had put on there for my own reminders. Anyway, here is the list – sorry to ramble on. I really do NOT like asking for help for myself. But for the people and animals I love, I will do it in a heartbeat. http://amzn.com/w/31VSYS9IHC5M2

    I am overjoyed at what I have watched happen here. There IS hope for our world and we have all seen that!

  1771. JulieE 1750- some snacks for the kiddos are on their way, will be delivered on the 23rd. Santa James Garfield wants everybody’s bellies full for the holiday.

  1772. Someone asked so I’m just going to be honest. We have very little good or gas money for christmas! We messed up big and overdrafted from a bill we forgot about and we are stuggeling to come up with the last 150.00 to pay our electric bill. If anyone is interested in sending gift cards or grocery items we have Walmart, Meijer, Kroger near use! It’s a long shot and I knkw there is so much need but if anyone is wilking or able to provide a Christmas dinner or candy money for sticking gifts! Contact me.
    Jennygirlmarie@yahoo.com

    Link: http://www.amazon.com/registry/wishlist/2Z8OBCGVGJC4V

  1773. Mastiffcat!!! Thank you so much!! Omg! He has buzz and woody from last year and Jesse will male a great addition!!! Omg. Thank you so much. He loves dinosuars!! You are amazing. Wow! I’m touched by your generosity!

  1774. Thank you Marci #1719 and GamerGirl179!!! (#1710)
    I am so overwhelmed with how much love is being spread here!!! Truly amazing …wow…
    GamerGirl179 – thank you for your kind words of encouragement and Hoosier love!
    You all have spread “kindness like confetti” and it is magical…
    Thanks again everyone!

  1775. @Linda — Your heater will be there on Monday. Hope the kitties can keep you warm until then! <3

  1776. Linda #1754, heater bought. Hopefully with you in a few days, maybe Tuesday? At least, before Christmas, I hope. Keep warm.

  1778. Linda, I went to get you the heater and some cat toys, but I was too slow! Someone beat me to it. Santa’s gotta move fast around here. Merry Christmas.

  1779. I wanted to add to my comment above….I found Jenny totally by accident in the middle of a melt-down at 3 a, one morning. Beyonce made me laugh until I may or may not have peed myself. Anxiety and depression are real …and I LOVE your book ( my bible) and have been so blessed by your stories. <3

  1780. Beyond amazing. Sooo inspired that people are being so generous (and fighting my cynicism that people are lying and/or being greedy!!!)

    I sent just a few items and I included my email on the card. Most items have been delivered by Amazon, but I am really hoping I can get confirmation they made it to the actual people. I only have the shipping names, so if you can shoot me an email or post, I would appreciate it.

    Kristen Smith (books and a blanket; shirt on its way)\
    Suzy Smith (transformer)
    Jon L. (teether)

    A friend in Texas
    hekintx at gmail dot com

    And, Jenny, THANK YOU again from all of us. For the help for those that needed it. For those that are getting joy and happiness being able to help. For those, like me who is a tiny less cynical and scrooge-ish this year.

  1781. Hello Friends –
    I’m trying to help my girlfriends family – both Mom and Dad had an extended period of unemployment this year, due to a serious motorcycle accident that left Grandpa with a traumatic brain injury. Mom lost her job, due to having to stay at her fathers bedside for 8 weeks or so, and dad had to take a voluntary lay-off to take care of their young kids (5&12). This list includes something for everyone. Any help would be appreciated. I would like to wrap the items as they come in, and hand deliver them to them Christmas morning – along with some groceries. Times are very tough for them right now. Thank you for all you are doing to lift the spirits of others. It truly is the meaning to the season to share good will. XOXO

    Here is their list: http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/wishlist/ref=nav_wish_list

  1782. Mrs. Claus you are amazing! The gift of warmth is one of the best gifts you can give, along with the gift of food.

  1783. If anyone can help, I’m eternally grateful. Someone graciously bought one pair of shoes for one of the twins, but I don’t know what I’m going to do if I don’t have anything for the other three! If a few people want to chip in with Amazon gift cards, I can pool those and try to buy them gifts that way. Thank you!

    I don’t have any kids myself, but I committed to buy for some kids down on their luck. The only problem is that since I made that promise, I got into financial trouble. I don’t want to disappoint these kids but I have no money, my credit cards are all maxed and have exhausted all my sources in trying to borrow/beg money from my friends and family. What makes it even sadder, is that two only asked for a pair of shoes. The third asked for a book and the fourth (an aspiring chef) has asked for a knife. The twins that asked for shoes are 11, a boy and a girl. The budding chef is almost 17 and she is one of the best cooks I have ever met! The fourth is a boy of 14 and he is hoping to get this book for Christmas. I know you are inundated with requests, so if you can help with any or all of these, I’d be eternally grateful! This is for a sweet family in my neighborhood. The parents have abandoned the kids and they live with a grandmother. This was going to be the third year without any birthday or Christmas presents. Thank you for any and all help you are able to provide.

    http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/wishlist/?ie=UTF8&cid=A7QNVS1PEK28V

  1784. ladyerinia – the tablet posted on the wish list isn’t available. Is there an alternative they’d be ok with? Paige

  1785. I have 3 comments.

    1. I sent one little item for Anathica’s son Kieran #144, and so wish I had the money to send more. I’ve been watching his wishlist and it doesn’t look like much has been purchased. I was SO hoping someone would buy the sonic screwdriver kit ($20) which looks awesome. It is in stock last time I looked and a Prime item. Does anyone have the wherewithal to do that? She has been on my heart since the first night.

    2. I have been trying to make note of email addresses of folks who want letters and cards, but haven’t written yet. Please don’t be discouraged yet if no one has written. This tribe is awesome and we really understand how hard it is to ask for help. We want to be here for each other. We are thinking of and praying for you.

    3. Jenny, I am worried about you. Last night, I clicked through and read the whole weird, wackily wonderful story of James Garfield and his holiday miracles. Loved it! However, I read how exhausted you got four years ago trying to keep up with it, and that you had a subsequent flare of your RA. Bloggessians, I have had RA (rheumatoid arthritis) since 1961, when I was a little girl, and I speak from experience when I say you don’t want to wish a flareup on your worst (well maybe just the very worst) enemy. None of us want this awesomeness for others to come at the expense of our dear Jenny’s health!

    I don’t know how we can all help Jenny here except maybe to give her permission to say she’s done. I know I want her to be able to take care of herself and her family. Let’s face it, she’s got her own household to give Christmas to. What do you buy for a huge metal chicken? A festive evergreen garland maybe? Jenny, please let us know when/if this becomes just too much for you. We love you, and Victor and Hailey and James Garfield and Beyoncé and all the live and dead furry friends in your real-life world who share you with us, your internet gang.

    Love the Bloggess and the Bloggessians!

    Deb

  1786. And here come the tears again. Some packages arrived today and my kids were literally dancing around the living room in excitement at that little pile of boxes by our door! I told them I have to wrap them and put them under the tree. Now they are going to be wired for a week! LOL Thank you all so SO much!

  1787. Oh!!! Mrs. Claus and Alice – thank you!! OMG thank you!!! For some reason, Amazon shows everything still there – which I actually find kinda funny. Everything that has been bought for someone else has showed up immediately as purchased – then I ask for something kinda for myself and it doesn’t tell me. Hmm . . . perhaps Amazon knows about my odd sense of humor?? At any rate, thank you for your kindness and generosity – this entire group has made this a wonderful Christmas. Thank you for helping me do what I cannot do alone. As many others have said, I am humbled. I feel very blessed.

  1788. I don’t know if this is where to post this. But I have been having a really bad year and I have 2 kids and a grand baby that are all having it rough. My daughter was staying with a friend and when my daughter left, they kept the car seat that they had bought for my grandson. None of us has the money to replace it. I have the kind of seat that he needs in my wish list. Also my son loves anything Pokemon and he has a ds but his games were stolen. So now he has nothing. Also my daughter has kidnapped my son’s shoes because she has nothing that fits her. Thank you very much. Link: http://amzn.com/w/1YX3HDIRJNIUC They are not picky anything that is close would be appreciated.

  1790. Who was looking for people with cats to help? Not a cat but a page of comments ago I saw a guy asking for help who had a stroke and couldn’t work that had a wishlist for his dogs that had some food on it.

  1791. I’m so thrilled to see so many people getting help and gifts for their kiddos! I think my kids’ lists got lost in the shuffle and was hoping it’s not too late for my kids to receive something. I had them add gift cards on their lists just in case someone can help because some of the things they asked for were entirely too pricey! I love the generosity that everyone is showing and am so grateful that so many kids have gotten something to help brighten their Christmas. If anyone could help out my two, their lists are here:

    Brandon (16)(His birthday is the 26th too) http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/wishlist/ref=cm_wl_search_1?ie=UTF8&cid=A8IJPOR3IOQQL
    Matt (14) http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/wishlist/?ie=UTF8&cid=A3UVXAIFU6AISG

  1792. I am not one to usually ask for myself. At all. As in I’d rather bring furniture down the steps on my own than wait for my husband’s help. (hey, gravity is a good helper!)
    I contemplated posting my list, but I really am not in need of much for myself or my family. But if anyone is so inclined, I would love to be able to get a copy of Jenny’s book for my very own. These offspring of mine keep chasing me around the house and I’d love something to read while trying to avoid them.
    You guys are the bestest thing since sliced bread.

  1794. Jean Marie | December 18, 2014 at 6:37 pm
    To sandistritch (1725) – I sent some items from Zoe’s list. I hope you and your girls have a lovely Christmas.

    Thank you!! And a Merry Christmas to you, as well. <3

  1796. Dawn in OH – Apparently you can’t adjust the amount of an online card, but my email is rokipra at gmail dot com. The relief I now have to know that I can tend to my cats properly and not have to worry for a while is enormous. Being given help in any form just makes me want to cry – in a a good way of course – and makes me think I may be able to get out from under the depression/holiday depression murk after all. People actually care…

    Thank you!

  1797. Donated to Project Night Night. Jenny, thank you for making the world a warmer place.

  1798. Anathica- your son Kieran #144 is getting his Sonic screwdriver. Should be there Dec 20. Merry, Merry. Coming from Amazon and Santa.

  1799. Everyone has been so awesome to everyone this Christmas season. I almost can’t believe it! This’ll be a great Christmas, finally.

    Relinking again, because my sister says she could use a gift card for her classbooks and asked me too, but wow. This place is just full of people that have been so awesome and generous.

    Link: http://amzn.com/w/3JPIGRMOBGILS

  1804. @Jen #1776 – Wyatt should get his coat on December 23. It’s from Santa. Merry Christmas.

  1806. It looks like my wish list is messing up with gift cards and some other stuff, which is upsetting. I must’ve done something wrong. BUT. I hope everyone who is involved with this project has the best holiday of their lives.

  1809. Just wanted to say thank you to everyone!!! This is so amazing! A special thanks to Mastiffcat and Beffydee!!!

    Original post #1594

  1810. R.P. – yes, people care. It’s wonderful, isn’t it? 🙂

    Misty R – YES!! The gift of warmth is priceless!

    Debraluke – I have also been thinking how hard it would be to be the owner of this post. But it seems like Jenny hasn’t “been here” a lot today and even yesterday, and I am hoping she has been doing her own thing and letting the magic she created flourish and live its life. I hope she doesn’t suffer in any way from it – I hope it uplifts her and fills her with happiness the way it has for so many. Before this blog post, I could not do anything for anyone for Christmas. And I still can’t. But through me, you (the group) could. I feel like Santa Claus but really I am more like the elf entering the orders into the computer. I hope that Jenny has enjoyed the magic . . . such magic has happened here. I am in awe.

    A Friend in Texas – It is probably safe to assume there are a few scammers in the mix because we are dealing with humans and they are part of the population. But I don’t think there are many. I think the vast majority are people who needed help – or knew people who needed help – or both. The real magic is in the giving. Every generation becomes a little less empathetic, so to see so many willing to share what they had – that is proof that even though we do have some bad apples, the good is winning. That makes my heart sing! I am on the receiving end right now. I wish I had the income I had a few years ago – I would have had so much fun with wish lists!! And I will get back there again – hopefully next year. For this year, I am just grateful that there are people who cared enough about strangers to help people I love. That gives me so much hope for the world!

  1812. @Debrahluke @anathicka screwdriver was gone but i saw the dr who and grabbed it bc DR WHO FOR LIFE!! also the slime science thingy bc more kids should anspire to science so we can someday hop in a tardis. Next day delivery baby! Thanks for using prime! It helped me out! Im so broke guys and this time it feelsgood. Hang in there anathicka #depressionlies #ajamesgarfieldchristmas

  1813. Okay, this is super extra ultra unscientific on my part, but these lists appear to be untouched to me:
    (Shelia) https://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/ref=cm_reg_rd-upd?ie=UTF8&id=1WMNT8CAR04N3&type=wishlist

    (Misty) http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/wishlist/QBNYKEZ1DUYF/ref=cm_sw_su_w

    (Bonnie) http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/wishlist/1N1GFJUGPW1QT/ref=cm_sw_su_w

    (Tiffani) https://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/ref=cm_reg_rd-upd?ie=UTF8&id=1S31R6JWPOO7E&type=wishlist

    (Kristin) http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/giftlist/2YM6C2H12C1S1/ref=topnav_lists_2
    (Kristin) http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/giftlist/3CZKLXGHE50ZU/ref=topnav_lists_3

    (Cora) http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/wishlist/2ZJQNC68MLOK9/ref=cm_sw_su_w

    (Michele) http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/wishlist/862DIA9ZO4UL/ref=cm_sw_su_w

  1814. I’m fortunate to have never been in need and am happy to send some Night Night bags to those who are. Everybody (not just children) needs a stuffed animal to hug. I’m in the D.C. area and if you can steer this in that direction, please do. If you can’t, that’s fine too.

  1815. Thanks everyone, I’m reposting because I asked the kids to look for some other things they wanted since the original items were so expensive. Thanks again for any help you can give to this needy family.

    If anyone can help, I’m eternally grateful. Someone graciously bought one pair of shoes for one of the twins, but I don’t know what I’m going to do if I don’t have anything for the other three!

    Originally, the kids had picked out one item each, and they were all a little pricey, except for the book. I have gone in and asked them to pick out some more items, so that it will give people a wide range of things to pick from for them. I don’t expect you wonderful people to buy everything on the list, but even if just a few more items were purchased, that would help make Christmas special for these kids this year. Luckily, all the girls wear the same size clothes and they sleep two to a bed, so everything on the list is interchangeable between them. The oldest is the budding chef and she picked out some kitchen stuff, but everything else will work for all of them. Again, I do appreciate all your help and anything you are able to give.

    This is for a sweet family in my neighborhood. The parents have abandoned the kids and they live with a grandmother. This was going to be the third year without any birthday or Christmas presents. Thank you for any and all help you are able to provide.

    http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/wishlist/?ie=UTF8&cid=A7QNVS1PEK28V

  1816. Lisa P | December 18, 2014 at 7:23 pm
    Hello Friends – Edited to read the names of the kiddos –
    I’m trying to help my girlfriends family – both Mom (Jessica) and Dad (Chuck) had an extended period of unemployment this year, due to a serious motorcycle accident that left Grandpa (Skip) with a traumatic brain injury. Mom lost her job, due to having to stay at her fathers bedside for 8 weeks or so, and dad had to take a voluntary lay-off to take care of their young kids (Jesse Thomas is 5& Emily Elizabeth is 12). This list includes something for everyone. Any help would be appreciated. I would like to wrap the items as they come in, and hand deliver them to them Christmas morning – along with some groceries. Times are very tough for them right now. Thank you for all you are doing to lift the spirits of others. It truly is the meaning to the season to share good will. XOXO I would like to restore some happiness into this difficult season of their lives.

    Here is their list: http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/wishlist/ref=nav_wish_list

  1817. I have been following this post for the past three days and it is so heart-warming to see the spirit of Christmas alive and well. For those facing hard times, please have hope because better times are on the way. For those battling depression and feeling lonely, please know that you are thought of and wished love and light.

    Jenny, thank you for the laughter, the inspiration, and your generosity. With your permission and blessing I’d like to write about this particular post on my own blog. I don’t have nearly the amount of followers that you do but I’m sure this would resonate with those who do read my stuff.

    Merry Christmas, Bloggess and all her readers!

  1819. I dont know who purchased the movie, but thank you so very much!!! He loves little Einstein’s!!! I am just blown away by this group!!!!

    Original post #1594

  1820. A friend suggested I post here. I am sure there are many, hundreds even, more deserving than my family, so I’ll spare my sob story. Long story short, recently got away from alcoholic husband who drank us into the poor house. I just this week started a new job (he did not allow me to work) and am not yet on my feet. 3 kids… 9 yr old boy and 12 and 16 year old girls.
    I’ve combined the kids christmas lists here: http://amzn.com/w/1JUOV1H593373

  1821. Lisa P (1760ish), your Wish List links aren’t working. Try the Share button at the top of the list and paste in that URL.

  1822. Oops, half my post didn’t show.
    I’ve read through every post here and bawled my eyes out. You all are some of the most beautiful people in the world, and the blessings I see flowing here are heartwarming and have done wonders to pull me out of the big black pit of lying depression I have been stuck in recently. Thank you all, for being the light in my big, dark pit of despair. You have been a lifeline today, probably for many!

  1823. Lisa P (#1787) your list is not showing up. When I click on it, it sends me to MY wish list! Please repost?

  1824. I just want to say thank you so much! What an amazing group of people! A few of the items were purchased off my list, and it’s going to make the world of a difference!!! We will be paying it forward into the new year!!

    http://amzn.com/w/CPDMVZAKM61R

  1826. I’m loving all the giving and receiving on here. 🙂 I wanted to add in my mother-in-law. She is a widow who lost her husband a couple of years ago to years of health issues which left her broke, her local family moved out of town this year leaving her alone, and her health is getting worse. We’ve helped with some medical bills and her phone bill, but she was recently in the ICU for 9 days with blood poisoning caused from a test for another health problem. Not only did her health deteriorate from the bed rest to the point she needs more surgery, but she lost time at work and gets no sick pay. She is a teacher at a Christian elementary school and barely makes enough to get by, missing work plus medical bills has been really hard on her, and the next surgery has to wait until this summer because she cannot miss any more work so she’s in constant pain for many months. We’ve gotten her a walker and a few things to help around the house, but right now she needs all the help she can get just getting around and being safe in the tub/shower. She also has an older dog for companionship and protection that needs arthritis medication that she cannot afford. Anything would be greatly appreciated. http://amzn.com/w/29BNRMO7BLRH8

  1827. I might be a little late on this, but mostly because I couldn’t decide if I should ask for help.. but then tonight I realized that everyone needs help every now and then. I spent the evening collecting Christmas ornaments and decorations for a family in need, and then setting it all up so they could have a tree in their new apartment – all while worrying that my kids may not get the one thing they asked for this year.

    I have 3 kids, ages 8, 11 and 14. They all know that money is tight, but rather than ask for extravagant things they’ve just request one simple item – bathrobes. I truly hope that someone out there would be able to help us out, but even if not I’m comforted by the fact that there are so many truly caring individuals helping others.

    http://amzn.com/w/3551KBIK9E1A5

  1828. R.P. in PA (Robyn) – finally! success!! Please check your email for a gift card from me.
    I hope it’s okay, but I saw the little cat gargoyle on your other wish list when I was looking for something to give YOU and I just had to buy it. I hope you put it somewhere you will see it when you’re feeling down, so it can remind you of this Christmas and all the people who do care. Good luck to you and your kitties! Rub their full little bellies for me! 🙂

  1830. I just want to tell you all what an amazing gesture this is. And to add two of my children to the list. Our year has been insane and we have never had a year like this and we hope to never have another like it. Our oldest son had had cancer twice and has had a bone marrow transplant in September. I have been off of my teaching position since last Christmas so that I can care for him. In the midst of his cancer journey, my father had a sudden heart attack and he passed away, so now I’m helping my mom and my children. We are fortunate that my husband is still working, but I know that my non-cancer kids would love a gesture of love from a stranger this year. There are many cancer charities that have helped to provide for our older son and he will have a delightful season, but the twins are not going to benefit from the same generosity. If I were to list all of the horrible things that we have dealt with this year, you would not even believe it, I should really be writing a sitcom at this point. Unfortunately, even those writers wouldn’t believe me. We can just summarize it with the knowledge that I had friends over for my oldest son last week because he is finally able to see his friends and one of those friends ended up puking on my Christmas tree because he got the flu suddenly. That picture pretty much describes my season.

    The twins would love a surprise from a stranger to let them know that they are important and that they matter as well. Thank you for considering them.

    Ellie—https://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/ref=cm_reg_rd-upd?ie=UTF8&id=1IOSWOIY1UPHG&type=giftlist

    Teddy—https://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/giftlist/27MP0ISTYULK7/ref=cm_go_nav_recip_gl?

    Thank you for even reading this. It helps me to just voice my frustration and sadness at this point.

  1831. @Breanne (1792) – It’s never too late! Bathrobes should all be there by Dec. 23rd. Hope they keep your little ones warm!

  1833. This is for K comment #1566-I ordered both ebooks for your kids and your daughters my little pony sweatshirt. It should be there by the 23rd. Merry Christmas!

  1834. Dawn in OH, I just had to say how it awesome it is that you looked on her other list and bought her something! That’s awesome!!!! Thanks for being amazing!

  1835. This is Ginger S. (orig #838 I think). You guys have blown me away with your generosity and support for my little boy! He is going to have an amazing Christmas thanks to each of you!

    Since there are so many kind angels out there, I am, rather reluctantly posting a list for myself at the urging of a friend. As all parents know, your kids come first and mommy’s needs are a very distant last. I am wearing the same work clothes that I wore when pregnant with Grayson, and they, of course, don’t fit very well. I lost 2 very dear bras in the last month, due to broken wires and can’t even begin to think about funds to replace them. I am in need of some shoes for work as well.

    I am in school/on the job training to become a licensed Optician (the person who sells, fits and makes eyeglasses and contacts), so I am on a 3 year path for a better life for my son and I. I am a natural giver, and it is so, SO difficult to break down and ask for help. I look forward to the point in time when I am able to give back in the way that all of you are now.

    I have made a list with just some gift cards as I don’t even know what size I truly need. Here is the link:
    http://amzn.com/w/25X0DP6BYDOA0

    Thank you all so much for your kindness, not only to my family, but to everyone who has been helped from this amazing community!!

    Here is my original post:

    Hi Jenny and the Bloggess community. I’ve checked this blog regularly and have gotten many smiles and had my bad days turned around by the posts made here. I saw this blog entry and thought, why not see if someone would be willing to help us. I’ll keep it short, but here is our story.

    2014 has been both a difficult year and a year where I’ve been the happiest ever. My son, Grayson is 2.5 (3 in March). We left an abusive relationship with Grayson’s father early in the year. We lived in a domestic violence shelter as we had no money to get a place of our own. That was the hardest thing I had ever decided to do, but also the best decision I’ve ever made. We lived in shelter for about 3 months before striking out on our own. Long story short, we’ve since moved closer to family and put a few hours distance between us and my son’s father. We have fought to get a protective order for the both of us as well as fought to find an attorney who would help us with the custody issue and allow us to pay a little bit each month. We live paycheck to paycheck, and aren’t even getting by there. Right now my electric and water is in jeopardy of being cut off and I’m paying my rent about 20 days late this month. We found the least expensive place we could, but it is requiring us to commute 30 minutes each way for daycare/work. We go to court again in January for the non-payment of support, but who knows when I’ll see any of that.

    So, we are in need. Sure we could use some presents under the tree, but we also need diapers (pull-ups) and groceries. I feel like such a failure as a parent for not being able to support my child and I more, but we are so happy to be together and out of that situation.

    Any help you all are moved to give would be more than Grayson and I can imagine. I love this blog, and these amazing people. Bless you all and thank you in advance.

  1839. Lisa P: On the right side of your wish list, you’ll see “Share”; if you click on one of those, the link that pops up is the one we need (there will be an alphanumeric ID of 12-13 char. at the end).

  1840. Lisa Stimac- I don’t have much extra this year. I sent you a book and it’ll be there by the 21st! Yay for prime! I just would add that I suffer from horrible seasonal depression every year. When I discovered the bloggess, I found a home and a safe place. Depression lies. Fibro and RA are tough but I know I am so blessed every single day to have what I do. I cuddle my (fur baby) cat extra close tonight in a warm house. I believe in the good of people. I believe that we are all making the world a better place with words, books, smiles and gifts from strangers. I would totally give both my birth father and my boyfriends birth dad a bunch of bees or the ass end of a pig but he said it was a bad idea! I also cannot afford too much. If I can I will come back tomorrow and grab a few small other things for people. I know one year my mom needed this type of help and got it. I’m blessed. Remember to love each other, and make the world better. -a geeky lego/doctor who/book lover and lover of all things bloggess, Amber from Louisiana

  1841. I don’t even have words for the generosity of strangers, so thank you, from the bottom of my heart, will have to convey my gratitude. I can’t thank you enough, truly.

    I had a request from someone named Paige to update my wish list, and I wasn’t sure what that meant – I didn’t know if it was a way of asking me to add more? I went ahead and added a few small things, but please don’t take it as my way of asking for more. You guys have done more than I could have expected and hoped for. Love you guys!

    http://amzn.com/w/3551KBIK9E1A5

    (original #1792)

  1842. Hi,
    I’m a single mom and I was hurt at work 2 years ago and 2 surgeries and many many tests plus a job demotion later I’m struggling to even afford the necessities for my 4 kids and I. I’ve been stressing over Christmas for months and I just had to put the little bit of money I had set aside for gifts into my car. A friend shared this blog with me and I hate asking for help, but without some there won’t be anything for Christmas. I have 14 and 8 year old sons and 12 and 6 year old daughter. I have attached a combined wish list for the kids.

  1843. Comments that worry about “scammers” or “the greedy” on here were discouraging me until it occured to me that even if they are, the love this community has for each other is so great that it can’t be squashed by them. In that i mean the church of the bloggess has more love for its community than there is greed and nastiness in the world. And if someone ASKS and then RECEIVES that act alone is sometimes enough to melt a heart, even indirectly. I’m going to bed confident that everyone here who was brave enough to ask discovered that we are an army that will listen. We have felt your feels and with each comment we’re saying you are not alone, and together we can make the whole god damn world a better place. we are legion! We are santa! We are followers of the bloggess!!

  1844. My daughter is almost 7 but due to several strokes during open heart surgeries and finally a heart transplant she is mentally more like a 3 year old. I have chosen to home school her. I figure her 4 siblings bring enough germs home I don’t need to send her out looking for them :/ I am in the process of a divorce and would appreciate any help with her school supplies. She needs educational toys and games that help with her fine and gross motor skills.Hi. Check out this list: https://www.amazon.com/registry/wishlist/1UTU6OU7RGUM3/ref=cm_sw_r_ip_wl_o_-y5Kub15JP0Q0

  1845. Hey, guys, I have a tween adventure novel i’d be happy to send a signed copy to your kid. i will even personalize it. facebook message me on my author page Margo Solod with an address and i will priority mail you a copy.

  1847. Hello there, am I too late? I know I am cutting it close to the wire but my friend shared this amazing page on Facebook and told me I should come and see if anyone could help my family. I am a single, widowed mom of 4 beautiful kids. Matt (17), David (15), Carrie (14) and Katie (4). I do the best I can for my kids but it is really difficult on only one income with 5 people in the household. Their dad passed away 3 years ago and since then it has been a constant struggle just to keep food on the table and a roof over our heads. I could really use some help if anyone would be willing. My friend who shared this page also helped me make an amazon wishlist with some Christmas gifts for the kids and she also had me add some household products. The link for that is here: http://amzn.com/w/ITRUVXMJ7UYB My friend is still with me helping me navigate Amazon and add things so please be patient with me if I have screwed up somewhere.

    If any of the items are too expensive, please let me know and I can try to find cheaper alternatives. Used and secondhand is also just fine with us. Any help my family could get would be a godsend. Like I said above, I do the best I can but it is a constant struggle. At the moment the only things under our tree are a few dollar store cheapies I picked up. Luckily the kids understand, (except Katie of course but she doesn’t recall a “good” Christmas since she is too young to remember when her dad was with us), but I would really love for them to have the Christmas they truly deserve. Thanks for reading and considering helping us, God Bless and Happy Holidays!

  1849. Steve the Husband (#1597) please pick up a pair of earrings for your wife because she has the perfect place to keep them now. 🙂 I know most of your list is simple necessities, but I just couldn’t help getting her the one thing that wasn’t. Hugs to you both.

  1850. Alice @ 1746: LOVED your post.

    Shannon @ 1718: The snowpants likely won’t be there for Christmas, but they should be on time for any 2015 snowstorms!

    Gina R @ 1786: A few more gifts on the way. I hope that helps to balance things out!

  1851. What a great place. I sure could use some help. I was laid off for 7 months and just went back to work in October and still trying to play catch up. The only thing I’ve been able to get so far for the kids is those candy canes with candy inside, some bubble bath for the youngest and I bought a used xbox off craigslist for $50 to give the kids but I don’t have the money to buy games for it. I get one more paycheck before Christmas (On the 22nd) and I’m not sure what I’m gonna be able to do.

    I think I did the address thing right on amazon If not let me know http://amzn.com/w/1X1WGFPBXTX97

    Thanks for letting me post and I hope everyones christmas dreams come true

    Chad and Chey

  1853. Gina (#1786), I got a grey shrug from your list. You might consider adding notes with the names of the intended kids so we know who still needs something.

  1854. I wonder how many tears have been shed (either from thankfulness or empathy) since Jenny posted this blog? I know this much, I have tears rolling down my cheeks right now from the thankfulness I have for this group. Thank you to whomever just made my nieces and nephews Christmas the very best possible. Thank you for your kindness, generosity, and for just being so damn awesome! There aren’t enough words to express my gratitude!

  1856. Gina (#1786): Santa will deliver two sets of fingerless gloves and a white shrug by Dec. 23. Happy holidays!

  1857. I am awating moderation on a longer post above (#1798). My earlier post (#838) told of my story and asked for help for my son, which was answered by you amazing people. A friend told me I should swallow my pride and ask for myself. I haven’t had new work clothes since before my son was born (he’s almost 3) and am in dire need of undergarments. I made a list of gift cards as I don’t know what size I need.

    Here’s the link in case there are any other miracle workers out there. Thank you so very much for all you have done for my little family.
    http://amzn.com/w/25X0DP6BYDOA0

  1859. Many tears have been shed and all in the name of joy and Christmas. This is my favorite time of the year not just because of Christmas but because it gets chilly out, the stores smell like cinnamon and sweet treats and even the busiest of families try to make time for each other to spend one on one family time.

    I put a wishlist on here for my cousin who is the sweetest girl ever and is going through a hard time trying to get the things her two children need and the kind souls here bought almost all of the things she was needing! (Just baby wipes are left) She is going to be shocked.

    This blog is truly amazing and even more amazing are the people who have helped out here!

  1860. Lisa P (#1787): When I saw the Little House books on the list, I had to buy them! They should arrive by December 23. Happy holidays!

  1861. Nicole–Sending one of the science project books. It says estimated delivery Dec. 26th, but Amazon sometimes does better than its estimate, so fingers crossed it arrives before Christmas! Have a merry one!

  1862. Michelle – #1776 – Art supplies are coming your way. Unfortunately, they could not guarantee delivery by the 25th. You can print out a picture and tell her it is on the way!

  1863. I just wanted to thank everyone..my son recieved 7 gifts already and I am beyond grateful. I couldn’t afford much this year and I wanted this Christmas to be amazing for him. He lost his grandpa last month and I knew Christmas would behard for him this year..but thanks to wonderful people from this group, I know my boy will be smiling 🙂 thank you all so much!!

    Original post #1594
    https://www.amazon.com/registry/wishlist/30XWI2NP2U99O/ref=cm_sw_r_an_wl_o_g.5Kub12NGTNA

  1864. Crying again. I just discovered that someone bought me the pink long johns – I never expected that! Thank you so much!!!

  1865. @Tami She is still sleeping, but I just snuck a look again at this page. Thank you from the bottom of my normally grinch-small heart. You have grown it several sizes larger. She actually only owns one pair of earrings, but that shelf looked just like something she would love. I added a pair of little sensitive studs to her list, but someone said they sent her a card so maybe she can buy them herself.

    I hope you understand she is going to throw something at me when she sees all this, but it will be totally worth it. Our children are wonderful and deserve a great Christmas, but she goes through so much. She goes through so much just to live, I think she could use a reminder of how worthy she is of gifts.

    Thank you again,
    Steve ( whose heart is now almost normal size)

  1866. Couple ppl posting lists are not showing bc you have not made them public. There is an option to “share” or “make public” in your Amazon list drop down. Please check that you have it marked . Walkthrough was posted in the last helpful hints comment. also want to make note that its likely the bloggess who moderates each and every comment, so im seconding the motion that she be allowed to rest. Its been three days of miracles yall! Technically that qualifies all of us for sainthood!

  1867. This year has humbled me. I lost my job last summer. In the fall my husband was sent to jail (it was a mistake that willl haunt us forever). I was left on my own, without his income (obviously) and without mine. I was unable to return to work due to some severe PTSD which manifested itself in depression and anxiety so bad I couldn’t leave the house. Mu husband is home now but unable to find work due to his background. He’s had two job offers but both were rescinded when his background was discovered. Thanks to treatment I am now well enough to return to work, however my job doesn’t start til January 5. We havr zero income this month and our rent is late. Thankfully our landlord has been very understanding but he won’t be much longer. My biggest concern is our cats. We have 2 rescues, 15 and 3. They are the only reason I am alive today. Through my depression I existed only to care for them. I owe them my life and now I fear that we will lose our home and their safe space. I feel like an ass for asking for help. If it was just me and my husband I wouldn’t care but it’s not just us. So I will tell my story and ask for help because those precious souls deserve it. I have set up a gofundme account for rent. We are usually the ones donating so this is hard for me. I am so grateful for this community. I remind myself every day that depression lies and I am better than the lies it tells me.

    Gofundme.com/j30pcg

  1868. @Margaret (@1768)—I would be very happy to get you a copy of Jenny’s book! I’m wondering if you’d mind going to Amazon and making a wish list (with your shipping address) with the book so I can send it to you through them? If you’ll post back to me, I’ll go and it will be flying through the air to you! Gail

  1869. To Robyn (#1471 or thereabouts) Your comment hit me close to home. My cat helped me through the darkest and longest-lasting depression of my life when I had no human support and literally zero friends. Often times I was too exhausted to give her attention, but she never gave up on me. Through her I experienced unconditional love in action. I admire your strength, you courage, and your compassion for your furry family. You have a package scheduled to arrive on December 24th. I am scraping by myself and could not give much, but I hope it helps.

  1870. @Margaret #1768 again—sorry, had a further thought and if you’d rather just send me an email with your address (if you are comfortable with that), I can just buy it and ship to you without you going through the wishlist thingy! My email is gail19992003@yahoo.com

  1871. Thank you Courtney (#1679!) and everyone else that bought stuff off the list for my friend’s kids. Her (and my) mind has been blown by the level generosity in this community, and I struggle to put into words just how grateful I am for it.

  1872. rtmiss (#388), I just sent a couple things from your Amazon list. Sadly, they won’t make it ’til Jan 9 because NZ is far and Amazon thinks one should pay more for the shipping than the actual items. I am sorry they’ll arrive so late!
    Kitty is so adorable! Love that haircolor!
    A very merry to you and her and hope your 2015 is better than 2014 has been!

  1873. I forgot to add my original request post when I added the link so I will add it now to save anyone interested in helping give my son a great Christmas with some clothes he would be so very grateful to get and helping me with a gift card to have a holiday dinner thank you for all the help you have given

    http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/wishlist/130VPW34FXEVK/ref=cm_wl_rlist_go_o

    hello my name is angela. This page is amazing thank you jenny for all the work you have done with this page it is truly amazing to see how many wonderful people there are here. I am a hard working mom with one son he is 14. he knows and understands we have struggled this year and he knows there will probably not be a Christmas this year because we just don’t have the money for extra things this year. but if any of you would be so kind to surprise him this Christmas I made a short list of things he needs/wants just some warm weather clothing. he loves being outside but does not have any warm gloves or socks for the cold ohio winters. his jacket still fits him and most of his warm pants but his socks have holes in them and his hands have outgrown his old gloves. thank you all for your kindness and reading about my son and I.

  1876. “I give not because I have much, but because I know what it’s like to have nothing.”
    A random family is getting honeybees, and random kids in Iowa are getting a rodeo playset. GIVING IS AWESOME!!!

  1877. Thank you to my Angel whoever you are i pray the Lord blesses you for your kindness!

     http://www.amazon.com/registry/wishlist/NB2YU45CQGJ7

  1878. I tried to leave a comment earlier and it did not post. Did I do something wrong to get it to post? I am trying this again.
    I don’t know if this is where to post this. But I have been having a really bad year and I have 2 kids and a grand baby that are all having it rough. My daughter was staying with a friend and when my daughter left, they kept the car seat that they had bought for my grandson. None of us has the money to replace it. I have the kind of seat that he needs in my wish list. Also my son loves anything Pokemon and he has a ds but his games were stolen. So now he has nothing. Also my daughter has kidnapped my son’s shoes because she has nothing that fits her. Thank you very much. Link: http://amzn.com/w/1YX3HDIRJNIUC They are not picky anything that is close would be appreciated. This is what my kids asked for. I am not expecting anything at all. If someone could help with even one thing for each of the 3 kids (Daughter {Harley Rose}19 trying to stay in college and raise a baby on her own- had her laptop stolen, but really needs shoes) (son-Tanny- has been asking for only one thing XBOX 360 {happy with a used one} but anything Pokemon would be awesome) (grandson {Xander} 1yr old- no carseat). A 10.00 gift card would even be great for them. I started my own business and am so far behind with it that I am not even putting up a tree. Thank you again if anyone feels so led to help.

  1880. Dawn in OH – Thank you so very much! I had gotten the email on the gift card and sent thanks, but I didn’t see your message here until just now. I didn’t want to ask for anything for myself, but I will absolutely treasure the little cat gargoyle as a reminder of how wonderfully generous you and the others have been. I’ve also noted names so I can remember.

    Brittany (1816) – My sincere thanks to you as well. It’s so nice to know that there are others who can understand how important my cats are to me. It’s also good to know that I’m not along in having experienced this awful sink of depression.

    I will go to sleep with a full and hopeful heart tonight, folks. Thank you all.

  1881. R.P. 32 pounds of cat food (Amazon pantry) are on their way and a toy for the kitties.

    Granny Roxie, sent some toys for your grandsons from one grandma to another

    Merry Christmas to you both.

  1882. I just want to take the opportunity to again say thank you to everyone. Original post #317. I come back every few hours just to read comments and cry and smile. I cry to see so many in need (myself included) but I smile to see so many wonderful people (read angels) here on earth who are giving so much out of the goodness of their hearts to make everyone have such a wonderful Christmas. So many amazing people out there. Jenny I wonder could you ever have imagined that what you started a few years ago would ever have turned into this? You have brought all these people together. YOU!!! YOU.ARE.AMAZING!! Whenever I feel like life has finally got me and I am completely done for I find your latest post and bam! just like that I realize I am not alone in this big crazy ass world. I realize I am not the only one who occasionally gets dragged down into the depths of hell by her kids or her spouse or just the weight of the world and you make me laugh my ass off through it all and for that I thank you. You give me the strength to go on another day. I really thought this holiday season was going to be my complete undoing. Through a shit storm of events that have happened this year including the loss of some very important people, marital issues, health issues, financial issues and kid special needs issues I had really written off Christmas altogether. Thanks to you and your wonderful band of loyal followers my faith and spirit have been restored. Although I still have some major depression issues I now know my kids will not suffer because of it. They will wake up Christmas morning with some presents from Santa and be none the wiser to mommy’s problems. There are no words that could possibly show my gratitude so I will simply say THANK YOU ALL and I hope that you feel how much I mean it. From my 5 angels and I to you, MERRY CHRISTMAS!!

  1884. Margaret @ 1768: The book is ordered!

    Lisa P @ 1809: You’re very welcome! To the tip and to the Harry Potter movies. 🙂
    (Side note: We had a “Word Art” gift exchange at work today. The gift I received was an Albus Dumbledore quote, with some of the letters in red (here, in caps) to spell out my name: “hAPpiness can be found even in the daRkest of tImes, when one only remembers to turn on the Light.” <3 )

    A happy season of light to us all!

  1889. I just wanted to take the time to tell you what an amazing lady you are. This is incredible. You have restored my faith in humans. At a time when there is so much hate and anger in the world, you’ve shown us that it is wonderful to do something good for those less fortunate. I hope that each and every person reading your blogs pays it forward and does 1 nice thing for someone else, whether it costs $50, $1, or if it’s donating some time. You help to make the world a much nicer placer to live in Jenny Lawson. Thank you for being you, don’t ever change 🙂

  1890. @MistyR – I checked list 894 for the man with the stroke and didn’t see dog food on the list – hoping someone got it already. 🙂 Thanks for finding it!

  1891. Steve the Husband (#1597) your comments warm my heart and cause me to remember the true meaning of Christmas. You are humble, but I want to repost the list you created for your ailing wife because I know others want to bring her joy, as well. And maybe even those earrings :). xoxo Tami

    http://amzn.com/w/1DXRYLZU5N3O5

  1892. thank you to whomever purchased things off my wishlist. i noticed another item was bought. thank you..it really means a lot to me.

  1893. I’m writing to tell you about my husband Mike. He is deployed with the U.S. Coast Guard this Christmas, and we are waiting to celebrate with him when he comes home sometime in January. He’s also missed Thanksgiving and will be celebrating his birthday tomorrow on the boat, too. He’s a good man, and I don’t have a thing under the tree for him when he gets home, because why? He told me to spend whatever we had on the girls to make sure they have a good Christmas. He took his fun money for the upcoming port call to a tropical place and put it on the credit cards. A lot of the other guys on the boat go out for a few well deserved beers or a nice meal, but my guy? He goes to burger king, gets souvenirs for us at home, and spends every minute he’s got off calling home. So, I added things I thought he might enjoy to the wishlist (ignore all the books at the end, those are mine) in a wide variety of price points. If there’s a Santa out there that could help, I would greatly appreciate it. Like I stated above, he won’t be home until January, so, you don’t have to worry about shipping deadlines. I also added pull ups and wipes to the list, we will run out before I can buy more, although they are really for night time “just in case”. Here’s the link http://amzn.com/w/F2RD8XSE0YR4, and thank you so much for reading this, it’s nice to just express myself and let y’all know how lucky I am to have a good guy.
    Happy Holidays,
    Denise

  1894. ICYMI, there is a post from Stephanie at #1839 that just popped up a couple of minutes ago. It’s pretty important . . .

  1896. I am really scared I am going to get evicted, but I don’t know what to do about it. If anyone has any tips on what to do, when Salvation Army and State Emergency Relief aren’t being as speedy with assistance as they could, I would so appreciate it. I really don’t know what to do. My sister is disabled, and I am as well. I am still waiting to hear back about disability. I will have money in mid January, but that is not enough time before things will progress too far.

    Any advice, hugs or whatever would truly be helpful.

    link: http://www.gofundme.com/i5cm88

  1897. I went to lay down but Im back up due to pain, I had posted to a offer for groceries and I check my groceries wish list and some sweet soul has bought some ! I have worried what I would do with the kiddos off from school about their meals ! I want to say thank you but scrolling is making me wobbly headed ! I cant even find my post ! So if this was you …Thank you so much ! You have lifted a huge worry off of my mind ! Thank you from Kim, Samantha and myself !
    JulieE
    http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/wishlist/MT5636QSIY8U/ref=topnav_lists_2

  1898. Here are the items that James Garfield bought using Victor’s credit card (j/k) (not really) (not really vc’s card or not really kidding?) (you’ll never know!)

    Most of these were/will be delivered the 18th or the 19th. Unfortunately I didn’t keep track of which post is which wishlist, but most are from way back in the first 700 comments

    Kristen S in Philly: Coloring books, kids books, toiletries ( at least three different shipments)
    Lylah R D in Mesa: gift cards!
    Melanie C in Deeeeeeetroit: nipples (FOR BABIES. You people have dirty minds.) And other baby stuff
    Megan H in Altoona Fl: A NEW CAR (seat)!!!!!
    Linda S in Alma, AR: spinosaurus, books, minerals, books, tball, books, more books
    Tami H in Chandler AZ: Telescope and creeper hoodie
    Juleah B in Tempe AZ: FIRE HD tablet

    That’s all Victor’s credit limit could handle!

    MERRY CHRISTMAS!

    LOVE,
    JAMES GARFIELD

    (actually Jeremy)

  1899. Thank you, everyone, who donated to Charlie’s surgery. You are amazing to help this doggie in his need. The Indiegogo site is closed now but since they are still short $1000. I am seeing if they can set up paypal or something to raise the rest of the amount. Will let you know as soon as I know. Thanks again for your wonderful giving spirits!

  1900. angelsara007 It’s not a lot but my unemployment came through and I got my first check today. A set of receiving blankets and the crib sheets should arrive on the 20th.

  1901. I keep coming back every few hours to see the updates and read new comments. The generosity of this community is astounding. I posted a wish list last night (#1314) not actually expecting anything to happen, and was brought to tears this morning when I saw a few things had already been purchased. I am incredibly grateful to those who have given to my family and can only hope we are in a position next year to give just as generously. Though I don’t comment often, I’ve been following this blog for a few years now and I’m always so impressed by the love and support shown through the followers here. This truly is an amazing community of people.

  1902. Thank you so much to whoever purchased play-doh for my boy.http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/wishlist/ref=nav_youraccount_wl?view=null
    Everyone on this site has been so amazing and I keep coming back just to read how generous this community is. This has been a bright light in a dark tunnel and we are so grateful for everyone that has purchased anything for us. We had a random breakthrough today and my son (who is nonverbal for the most part.) started singing Christmas songs today. It was amazing and made me cry. We have struggled so much for the last few years to get him to be able to communicate and show he understands what is being said to him. He is finally starting to understand opening gifts ( up until now he has had zero interest in opening anything now he goes crazy for it) so he will be excited to have something under the tree to open. Again thank you from the bottom of my heart to Jenny and everyone in this wonderful community.

  1904. Thank you to the amazing person who bought a CD for my youngest daughter. I’m sure I’ll be hearing it every day for the next year, and I couldn’t be happier about it. I was wondering if anyone has any photography related ideas for a gift for my older daughter who wants a camera, but that is way out of my price range. The only things I can find online are camera accessories. Thank you!
    http://amzn.com/w/19GUCEOJG3764

  1905. What’s going on on this site is beyond amazing. I had applied with toys for tots and had not been able to get an answer about if we would be receiving help from them, the guy basically hung up on me.I was discouraged yet, random people from all over are helping make ours and so many Christmas wishes come true, it is amazing and has restored my faith in humanity. Bhuey35@gmail.com

  1906. Things that keep me up at night: In addition to telling folks that the best wish list items are ones fulfilled by Amazon and Prime eligible — should we have also been reminding people to include wrapping paper and scotch tape and bows and ribbon???

    (When we were short on cash we’d put the presents in the tree (unwrapped) like they did in Victorian times. Newspaper also makes for good, cheap wrapping paper. ~ Jenny)

  1907. I got an unexpected Christmas check, so I thought I’d hit up a few more lists. It was so exciting to see how many lists were filled! I lost track of who, but I ended up going for diapers/wipes for people; I know how quickly small kids go through those!

  1910. Dear James/Jeremy/Jenny,
    Your incredible kindness and generosity have turned a rather bleak time into an amazing experience that has touched, brightened, and possibly changed a lot of lives. We have watched so many miracles happen over the last three days. All of your posts are golden eggs, but this one just may be the goose.
    Thank you for putting the spirit back in Christmas,
    Love, Linda

  1911. Well that was pretty fun. I totally lost track of whose lists I was clicking on, but there are some items on their way (that will arrive before Christmas), and I hope it helps a few folks out there have a very merry holiday. Thanks Jenny for giving us the opportunity to get into the Christmas spirit. I needed the feel-good this week, so this was great!

  1912. Olivia, I sent a photography book for your daughter that comes with access to online tutorials. I thought it would be good for the day she eventually does get that camera!

  1913. Steve the Husband: totally agree with Tami, very heart-warming 🙂 Earrings on the way, says guaranteed delivery of 23rd!

  1914. pixminx – I just saw your comments. Thank you!! We can certainly use two heaters! I didn’t even see the “has 2” – DOH!!

    Wow – it looks like someone bought my babies a cat toy too – they are going to love the Turbo Scratcher! 🙂 I feel so blessed!! THANK YOU ALL!!!

  1915. Oh wow someone got the pillows off my list! I looked in the post but do not see a comment from anyone. Thank you anonymous person so much! They desperately needed new ones, their old pillows are flat and lumpy! Now they will have good dreams on Christmas Eve! Thank you!!

  1916. Sorry I’ve been MIA. I have family coming in and a dozen deadlines and lots of Hailey activities going on. But you guys rock and I adore you.

    I suspect today will be close to the last day that shipments will arrive before Christmas so I sent out a few orders tonight. Here’s what’s coming your way:

    Sara S. ~ 5 baby blankets
    Claire ~ book
    Sarah T. ~ Dragon
    Jennifer M. book
    Denise G. ~ Top Gear DVD (Ps. The Coast Guard saved my husbands life once. Good people.)
    Corazon B. ~ airplane kit
    Kristen S. ~ Princess play set
    Misty W. ~ Feetie pajamas
    Jennifer M. Painting pad and game
    Makayla ~ blanket and book
    Olivia B. ~ CD and book
    Jennifer Y. ~ TMNT DVD
    Jennifer K ~ Game
    Elizabeth S. ~ book
    Laura M. ~ DVD

    🙂

  1917. Caroline Pollock (#1435), has anyone responded to your Amazon wishlist yet? I clicked on your link and you have nothing listed. Could you post a few items, or at least an Amazon gift card? I’d like to help you and your son out. 🙂

    Jennifer

  1918. I can not even begin to express how amazing and awesome this tribe is. I have found my people! I would love to see friend requests from all of you on facebook because you are all family! <3 I literally went from digging out old baby clothes to see what I could use to sew something and worrying non-stop to having books and toys that my son will adore and I will cherish! As if this all couldn't get any better, I got a call today to schedule an interview for a DREAM job on Monday. It's only PT 2 days a week but it is such a blessing and as silly as it sounds I feel like all of you and your amazing positivity and generosity had a hand in this too. YOU are the universe, conspiring. It finally feels like I'm getting out of this hole I've been stuck in for so long. GAH! I could go on forever, you all are just too much for my heart to bear!

    Click on my name to add me on FB, I will be so happy to accept! <3

  1919. Olivia @1902: a photography class and borrow a friend’s camera? A camera rental for a weekend? Lots of photography shops rent cameras & lenses so you can try them out. Picture frame and a gift card for photo printing? Does she have a camera at all? If not what about purchasing a slightly cheaper model, or going second hand. I take some pretty awesome shots, I have a Canon with numerous lenses, but my body wasn’t that expensive (I have the SL1). Not sure her situation though, maybe she is wanting to pursue it professionally. You could also add gift cards on to your wish list, maybe some people would chip in towards it. Photojojo is a great site for photography related gifts!

  1920. You are all the best people that I have ever seen or met, and I’m so glad I became a fan of Jenny’s book, and decided to check out her blog. You are all the funniest, most warmhearted people I could have ever hoped to meet.

    If anyone would like to friend me on FB, feel free.

    Link: http://amzn.com/w/3JPIGRMOBGILS

  1921. Thank you so much to whoever bought the blue shoes for my daughter Harley Rose. I am post #1876 Naomi Allen. If at all possible anything for my son Tanny and my grandson Xander would be wonderful. Link: http://amzn.com/w/1YX3HDIRJNIUC I will add a couple of other baby things because a car seat is expensive. Thank you so much. You have no idea how much this means to my family.

  1922. My friend said I should post a little more detail about my family so here goes. I am a 38 year old widow, mother of 4 beautiful kids. Matt, my oldest is the most polite and kind teenager you could ever hope to meet. He is 17 and he is thoughtful, funny and very handy around the house. He is addicted to The Sims video game and loves his XBOX. He is going to be going to school to become a mechanic after he graduates next year. David is my next in line, he is 15 and he loves to read and play video games with his big brother. He is my little helper as well, but don’t tell him I said that! He is really into the anime Soul Eater at the moment. Carrie is my little diva/tomboy. it is a very odd combination! She is 14 years old and is so smart! She makes all A’s and B’s in school and is on the honor roll. She loves to pal around with her big brothers, but can turn into a diva at the drop of a hat! She collects Monster High Dolls and thanks to Matt and Dave is addicted to the XBOX too. Last but certainly not least is my little Katie. She is 4 years old and is my little doll! She is a little mini me and wants to be just like Mommy all the time. She is very into Mickey Mouse Playhouse right now and has been asking for a Build a Bear since we passed the store at the mall a few months back. She is my angel. As far as mom goes, I love to bake but I never have time for it. Working full time with 5 kids doesn’t leave much time for me. But when I do have me-time, I love to bake a batch or two of cookies or sit down and just veg out on the couch and watch some bad TV! So that’s us in a nutshell.

    Like i said in my other post, We have been struggling for a very long time now and haven’t had more than a meager Christmas since my we lost my husband and the kids have been very understanding and they never complain. It would just be truly amazing if they could have some nice things under the tree this year. They are not expecting much at all and the looks on their faces would be priceless! The wishlist again is here: http://amzn.com/w/ITRUVXMJ7UYB

    I also have household products on there, we get foodstamps to help in that area but the paper products break me some weeks. Any help at all, either with the kids Christmas or with the paper products would be such a blessing. My friend has left and I am still trying to navigate Amazon and this wishlist thing but I think I have it mostly figured out. Anyways, I will go before I talk ya’lls ears off, I am told I do that sometimes! lol

    Thank you for this post, this opportunity and this amazing showing of the true human spirit. It really is this kind of thing that completely restores your faith in humanity. Merry Christmas and God Bless you all!

  1923. I have been absolutely over-whelmed reading about each and every act of kindness that has taken place on this blog post! Wow – this has made my entire year! My dearest friend submitted my children and not only surprised me with the comfort that comes from knowing my kids won’t wake up on Christmas morning to forgotten Christmas wishes, but also the most amazing gift of all — hope. Thank you, everyone, for being a part of this outpouring of love & humanity. I have cried many tears of joy for so many of you and also my own family. I don’t know exactly how to articulate my gratitude properly, but just know this – My heart has grown warm and fuzzy because of all of YOU. Thank you so much for doing this, for being a part of this, and also for restoring so much hope among us all.

    I wanted to tell you all about another person who is set to receive nothing for Christmas. My niece, Angela lives with my mother and takes care of her 7 days a week and has for 2 years. She is 24 years old, never had a boyfriend…she’s never even been kissed. She spends all her time and her money helping other people. Because of my recent difficulties, she has spent everything she has had buying food to help my family as well as paying for my entire families’ Christmas dinner. She does until she is exhausted and spends all of her income helping other people until she has nothing left to give. I know she is not a child, but to me – she is an amazing person and I would love to be able to tell you all about her and surprise her with at least one gift for Christmas.

    My friend walked me through creating a wish list with the items on it that Angela would love and I hope at least one gift makes its way to her. Although she is only 24, she spends quite a bit of time with home health care patients that have taught her to crochet and she has impressed me with her crochet skills. She has been in a mad rush to make gifts for people and I recently heard her complain that she had a hard time seeing the darker colors of yarn – I looked and wow, light up crochet hooks are around $5 or $6 so I was hoping something like that might be do-able. She also loves reading and would love a kindle gift card – If anyone is interested in sending Angela something I am adding the link I created to her wishlist.

    Thank you all so much and have a very Merry Christmas!
    http://www.amazon.com/registry/giftlist/23WINJHZ4JYBN

  1924. I am so blessed and so humbled by the outpouring of love and generosity that abounds here. Although, I can say, I’m not too surprised. Ever since becoming part of The Bloggess community, love, generosity, and kindness have been the mainstay. Though Jenny’s humor and wit is what attracted us in the beginning, it’s the aforementioned things that have kept us together. Many thoughts and prayers have gone out not just to Jenny, but to each other for the many different trials and tribulations we’ve all experienced at one time or another. Although I’m not in a position to give this year, I hope and pray that next year I will be. This year has been very tough for our family financially. It hasn’t been easy, and we’ve had to cash in the change jar more than once to pay rent, but we’re grateful to have each other and know that even having a place to stay and pay rent at means we’re blessed. I know I’m late posting this, but maybe if anyone is still able, they’d be willing to help. Thank you all for being part of a strange, happy, safe place where so many can just be themselves. My Wish List link is: http://www.amazon.com/registry/wishlist/155TJKW7GLXFS

  1925. Oh my gosh! Just when I think I’ve finished being overwhelmed… woke this morning to a gift certificate in my inbox. Thank you, so, so much secret Santa/ James Garfield… I shall let you know what I get for the boys with it!

  1926. Sistercarrion.
    Some scissors, crayons & a marvel book thingy also on the way to you! Probably after xmas now though so apologies!

  1927. Erica R, comment 1920 – I’ve just ordered a present for each of your children and something for the family. I’ve signed up for a free trial of Prime so they should arrive with you on December 21st. Merry Christmas!

  1928. I am absolutely floored by the generosity I have seen here, I honestly did not know people like this existed, and am so happy to see that I was so very wrong! My children have a few little things for Christmas, so please, if there are children with nothing, ignore this and gift them. However if there is an extra Christmas Angel for my littles let me tell you a little about us. I will keep our sob story short, as it is like so many others, my husband lost his job last spring, and we in turn lost our home (it was only a rental, but still our home nonetheless) we lived in our car for a bit in the summer, going to a few different states looking for work, finally we ran out of options and moved in with family. My husband has found a job, however he brings home less then $700 a month, and for a family of four with two children in diapers, that leaves no room for extras… (and some bills unfortunately) Rosie and Loch are almost 2 and 1 and they are the sweetest, silliest, most loving children. They adore each other, their family, and their animals. They are creative, spunky, active, and adorable, and they deserve so much more then we can give them right now. this is their wish list. I also have a food and needs wish list here with diapers and basics (with some junk food…. :s as well…. hey I just had two back to back babies lol) If there is anyone who would like to share the love, I can promise you, we will pay it forward when we get back on our feet. Happy Holidays, and God Bless.

  1929. @estella and Logan – I have a 7yo girl and 2yo son, we love Littlest Pets and are absolutely nutso about Thomas. Santa is on his way, in a cardboard box marked “Amazon”!

  1930. Oh wow! No problem on the date @Rachzilla, craft supplies for our lot are good any time of the year! And THANK YOU! ~Gaynor xx

  1931. Good Morning, Everyone! It’s Friday! Yay!

    I just wanted to say how wonderful everyone is for coming together and helping make so many Christmases brighter. You all have touched the lives and hearts of thousands of people (and animals). This is an amazing feat. Thank you.

    It hope next year I can come back and sprinkle some extra cheer on a family in need. Fingers crossed!
    (We are #891ish)

  1932. SF (1818) – I took a guess at which items were for which kid so maybe there will be a little something for everybody: Paper Towns, D’Aulaires’ Book of Greek Myths, the potato clock, and Cards Against Humanity

    Sarah T. (1767) – A Baymax is on its way to your kiddo. I hope he is satisfied with his care.

    Anon (1714) – Please enjoy your fluffy robe and remember that you are worth taking good care of, too.

    Jenny, thank you for bringing people together like this. I’ve watched your readers helping people the past few Decembers, but this is the first year I’ve been able to afford to join in. I’m grateful for your reminder to pass on the kindness that’s been shown to me.

  1933. I was number 1324 for my son, AJ. (Me the one with agoraphobia/panic disorder.) Jenny; you are so awesome. I can imagine us hiding in bathrooms or under tables together! Thank you for sending me a book! It means the world to me since my husband and I decided on a no-gifts Christmas 🙂

    To anyone who stopped by my son’s wishlist, I am forever in your debt! I will never forget you. Ever. I think that this may be the last year that AJ believes in Santa, but some day when he’s 43 years old like I am now, or – well, before that – I hope that his faith is renewed like mine has been through all of you.

    I feel like I should duck when I ask this, but if anyone has some gifting left in their budget, AJ really, really could use the shoes that are on his wishlist. (Jenny, please delete this part if it’s inappropriate.)

    http://www.amazon.com/registry/giftlist/1SMPDZ8M2419M

    Once again, thank you from the bottom of my heart. Your kindness will bring a light into our home on Christmas morning that hasn’t been here for a few years. I love all of you.

  1934. Dear secret Santa who sent me the gift certificate this morning via e-mail,

    I’ve just been able to get Corben a couple of ‘Sarah and Duck’ books, a Bing bunny book, and Nathan a Guinness world records Gamer’s edition book. I was also able to get my partner a few little piercing jewellery bits to replace the old ones that had been lost, for the birthday we had to forego earlier this month, which I am so, so happy about. It was miserable not even being able to do that on the day (they were only a couple of pounds each). Everyone was ill, and we did absolutely zero. So thank you for that difference. I’ve also been able to add a few craft items for my nieces and nephews (they weren’t going to have any pressies otherwise, and we’re close) and some for Corben too. You were so generous, I did my best to stretch the certificate as far as it could go 🙂 I was even able to use the Add On feature with one item, which allowed for more gifts.

    So, a huge thank you again, you’ve made a big, big difference to our festive time, and I’m really looking forwards to it now!

    Much love and snugs,
    ~Gaynor

  1935. I’d like to tell you about my children so you get an idea of the wonderful kids you’ve helped:

    My (step)daughter D is 14. She’s only been living with us for the last year, as before that she was living with her birth mother. She was pretty neglected in terms of affection and care, so what she cares about most is having love. She’s 6 inches taller than me, yet will climb up into my lap just to tell me she loves me. Her passion is singing, but she’s too shy to do it in front of me so she spends hours hidden away reading and singing. My wish for her this year was to get her books that could help her escape into new worlds and encourage her to be a strong, independent girl.

    My son J is 11. This boy might be the biggest mama’s boy you’ve ever met – even when his friends are around. He hugs me a hundred times a day, asks how I’m feeling and how he can help me, and just generally wants to be helpful however he can. His biggest passion is basketball, and he’ll spend whatever time he can outside playing – even the few minutes before he has to catch the school bus. He dreams of making it to the NBA one day, and could spend hours talking about players and pulling out his few basketball cards to compare them. My wish for him this year was to get him more cards and a new basketball, just to continue his love of the sport.

    My daughter G is 8. Oh, this girl.. she’s the opposite of my son in so many ways, but truly a unique and phenomenal girl. She loves to help, loves to be given any task at all just so that she can feel useful. She’s a big cuddler, will spend her days in your lap or laying with you if you’d let her. She loves to read more than my other two, and devours books far more complicated than I’d expect. She’s more into imaginative play, and loves to lay on the floor with her friend S with the same worn out Barbies and toys that they play with every day – but she never complains or wants for more than she has. My wish for her was to get her both books and small toys that she and S could share, giving them the joy of imagination.

    http://amzn.com/w/3551KBIK9E1A5

  1936. Okay, some updates:

    Amanda J Anderton
    Where the Sidewalk Ends: Estimated delivery: Dec. 24, 2014
    3 other items Guaranteed delivery: Dec. 21, 2014
    S. Schilthuis
    Tomy Lamaze Musical Inchworm Guaranteed delivery: Dec. 23, 2014
    Disney Sofia Plush – Guaranteed delivery: Dec. 23, 2014
    Misty R
    Jungle Book – December 22 delivery
    Toy Adirondacks set – December 23
    Liz Stoenner
    Rimobul Assorted Color Sparkle Balls December 23, 2014 by 8pm
    Smoke and Mirrors, December 20, 2014
    Merrick Purrfect Bistro Grain Free, December 20, 2014
    Aubrey Whitt
    HEXBUG Aquabot 2.0 Shark Tank – December 23, 2014
    Dollie & Me Big Girls’ Gingerbread Nightgown, December 22, 2014
    Small Things
    3 of Briggs 650-4004-0121 Bulb Syringe Sterile, 2 Ounce, December 19- 23
    Saturday, December 20, 2014
    The First Years Stacking Up Cups (2)
    Fisher-Price Brilliant Basics Rock-a-Stack
    Fisher-Price Brilliant Basics Baby’s First Blocks, Sunday, December 21, 2014
    Bonnie Crossley
    December 23, 2014
    Catit Design Senses Massage Center
    KONG Flipz Catnip Toy
    Jennifer Connolly
    December 22, 2014
    Crayola Washable Kid’s Neon Paint Set, 2-Ounce, 10 Count
    Melissa & Doug Spill Proof Paint Cups, Set of 4
    Melissa & Doug Large Paint Brush Set

    Happy holidays!!

  1938. Crystal, the homeschooling mom, I can’t recall your post # but your amazon wish list isn’t giving me the option to ship to you. If you find this, please check Jenny’s tutorial & follow the directions so your mailing address can be used.

    I’d really like to get the handwriting book for your child—it’s the exact same booklet we used when I briefly homeschooled my son.

  1940. Elizabeth OrBeth, I’m not sure where you live, but I’d suggest checking with Legal Aid. Also see if there are any tenant’s assistance organizations in the area.

  1941. R.P., I’d like to send a gc for cat food but I’d need an email address, please! You can add it to the comment on the wishlist if that works!

  1942. @ Sassfras

    Got paid today, so added a couple more items for your kiddos. You story really stayed with me – thank you for doing all that you do!
    (Girl’s fleece, Goldie Blox book, Each Kindness book)
    Again, I went for the speediest delivery that I could muster – Merry Christmas!
    Love BeffyDee (Beth) xxx

  1943. @ rtmiss

    It appears that it might be a bit easier to get items to you from the UK than the US, so I thought I’d add a couple of extras for the lovely Kitty (Derwent Graphitint, Unicorns are Jerks, Freakazoid season 1). I went for the quickest delivery that I could (and hang the cost) but they might be a day late…
    Merry Christmas, milady!
    BeffyDee xx

  1945. @ Steve The Husband

    Got your lovely lady a heater and a bra – everyone should feel warm and supported at Christmas!
    Wishing you both a wonderful festive season!
    BeffyDee xx

  1946. @ Caz

    Well done, you – that’s an amazingly generous list! And not the first you’ve done either…
    Thank you for embodying the true spirit of Christmas. You’re an angel!
    Big love, BeffyDee x

  1947. Im reading through all of the comments now (again). I LOVE all of you guys. Tyler is getting a new comforter that he keeps asking for AND he’s recieving his learning toys and a couple fun items! Thank you to anyone who specifically wrote to me on here and thank you to those who didn’t post! I have one email for the kind Dr. Kim who purchased some microscope slides for him! I plan to send out thank you cards to anyone who sent a gift, so please let me know a good email! Merry Christmas! I plan to follow this blog and help out some families next year! 🙂 My little brother is going to be so excited.

  1948. Ginger K: can you please email me at barkingcatvintage @ yahoo dot com …? This is about the ASUS. 😀

  1949. #542 – Amazon gift card sent

    Jenny, I’m guessing you will read all of these eventually, and had to share this with you. I did a quick scroll down through the comments after I read your post. When it stopped, I randomly clicked on one of the wish lists. When I realized that the list was from a mom in the small town that we live in and that I know the family, I took it as a sign – God’s been freaking me out a little bit lately with some really obvious signs. Thank you for doing this.

  1952. @Carrie I have done both of these things, but am waiting to hear back.

    Everyone is being so generous and heartwarming this Christmas. I’m so glad we will all be able to celebrate it. I haven’t since my dad died on Christmas Eve a few years ago. Its hard to celebrate things like that when you lose someone you’re so close to.

    Link: http://amzn.com/w/3JPIGRMOBGILS

  1953. @EricrR: just sent something for 3 of the kids, the family (game and food). Will go back for something for Katie. All should be there the 23rd.

    My son helped me pick it out!

  1955. SF (1818) some items from your wish list are on their way. Expected delivery is 12/23. Merry Christmas!

  1956. I saw one of the comments above.. I’m also in the DC area if someone wants to get something together to help create and pass out the night night bags. I have been blessed with some items off of my wish list, so I feel this is a good way for me to give back.

  1957. MaryAne (1921), we picked up some yarn and crochet hooks for your niece, but just wanted to let you know that the hooks were back ordered and will arrive early January. The yarn should arrive on Tuesday.

  1958. I don’t know how to check who bought the items on my children’s wishlist, but thank you! I haven’t stopped having the feels and crying since this started. You have blessed us in so many ways with your kindness! I’m overwhelmed and send all my love to each and every one here.
    Thank you!

  1959. AverageCandy #1891 – a couple of things for Mike and a Cookbook for everybody are on their way to you, because everybody should know Rock Paper Scissors Lizard Spock. Blessed Yule!

  1962. OH MY GOSH YOU GUYS.
    I woke up to a gift card in my email and my husband grinning at me after I beat him with my pillow. He made me promise not to read up in the comments so I don’t know who to thank for it. I have no idea what he did besides put up a list for me, Let’s hope it’s not hemorrhoid creme. 🙂
    Thank you if you responded to my crazy, wonderful husband. He says he’s Steve The Husband. I don’t know what he told you, but it’s all lies. I’m a horrible person. 😉

    I had been here talking about my sweet kiddos, and my sick middle dude but he went and upstaged me. I will let it pass though, cause really he’s so dang cute. Also, who else would push my wheelchair? lol

    mwa ha ha ha
    Link to my husbands ( just mostly clothes): http://amzn.com/w/2N8HPX9294279

  1963. Kathleen | December 18, 2014 at 10:51 pm
    Sandi (1493) Some books and games headed your way.

    Thank you!! The girls will appreciate it greatly, and I’m (again) sitting here in tears at everyone’s generosity.

  1964. Breane 1928, Monster Doll and Little Huuse in the Big Woods on its way. Happy Holidays to you are your children.

  1965. This is truly an amazing place. My 2 babies will be having a Christmas I had not dreamed even possible for them. For that you all.make.me so.proud to be a mother. We have had a rough year. But thanks to all of you
    .. it’s brighter now.

    I cannot say thank you enough. My son’s wishlisthttp://www.amazon.com/registry/giftlist/3ORODG6ELKTNG

    My wishlisthttp://amzn.com/w/1W2WK85WS9F06

    I do not care if I get anything. My wonderful babies is what matters to me. Thank you.

  1968. @ Laura Ann Swanson Your husband is a keeper! 😉 There’s a little something (not saying what because I know he reads this!) headed his way, but it may not get there until after the New Year. Sending love to your whole family!

  1969. I think I finally figured this out. I got an email today from Amazon that their doing free shipping? I could have read it wrong but just in case anyone is interested. My 6 year olds request of for a helicopter that can fly?
    Please let me know if this is working. New to the Amazon thing and the wish list! Three kiddos girl (7) boy (6) boy (2).
    My 6 year old son has sensiry processing disorder and is in kindergarten learning to read so any mommys who are familiar with a sensiry seeking boy who is behind in fine motor I would love to hear suggestions from. I’ve added some things th OT has suggested.
    Blessings and good vibes to those Angels willing to help complete strangers!

  1971. I think I finally figured this out. I got an email today from Amazon that their doing free shipping? I could have read it wrong but just in case anyone is interested. My 6 year olds request of for a helicopter that can fly?
    Please let me know if this is working. New to the Amazon thing and the wish list! Three kiddos girl (7) boy (6) boy (2).
    My 6 year old son has sensiry processing disorder and is in kindergarten learning to read so any mommys who are familiar with a sensiry seeking boy who is behind in fine motor I would love to hear suggestions from. I’ve added some things th OT has suggested.
    Blessings and good vibes to those Angels willing to help complete strangers!

    Link: http://www.amazon.com/registry/wishlist/2Z8OBCGVGJC4V

  1972. Amanda, Mrs Claus, Ami, and anyone who may have given anonymously, THANK YOU! These words hardly seem enough to show you how blown away I,am by the kindness of strangers. This has been one of the hardest years of my life financially. Electric, cable, Internet, phone, have all been turned off a few times. There’s nothing worse than being a single parent and feeling like a complete failure for your child. Before I saw this post I was dreading Christmas morning because I was so afraid my son would think he was bad or that Santa didn’t like him because of the meager amount of gifts I was able to get for him.

    His wish is almost complete now! I can’t begin to explain how humbled I am and how much love my heart has for this community. You are all truly angels. I hope everyonehas a fabulous Christmas ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

    Wish List
    Link: http://amzn.com/w/ZVIF7UP41R6L

  1973. Caz- thank you so much! The kitties will be so excited! Happy kitties = happy humans 🙂

  1974. This is Sara from comment 230. I was going to post a really neat progress photo of my eye and then I decided that the eyeball of Christmas 2014 might be kind of gross especially since maybe no one’s had breakfast yet and it’s a pretty nasty sight still. I’m getting intensive outpatient IV treatment 3 days a week AND my most recent scan shows that the meds are finally starting to fight the stuff going on behind my eye AND I can open it enough now that I don’t have to wear an eye patch- just my sunglasses. Everywhere. Like I’m too good to be walking down the hallway.

    Thank you (many, many thank yous!) to the lovely friends who reached out to make sure my daughter will have Christmas- and I’m so grateful to be able to call you all just that: my friends.
    I love you guys.

    Merry Everything, everyone!

  1975. @MrsClaus He IS a keeper… mostly cause I haven’t been able to gross him out enough to leave, lol. Thank you so much! I peeped and he will be so tickled.

    Later this morning we will be gone for a few days driving to my MIL’s house and won’t get to watch the Christmas Bloggess Miracle unfold, but honestly this has been emotionally the best experience I have had in a long time. In my condition, I have seen some very real human kindness… but it seems to always be tempered with something. A snide remark, someone feeling entitled, guilt, shame… but there has been nothing here but the absolute positivity that the soul craves.

    I hope Jenny and you all have a WONDERFUL Christmas. I will be updating my wordpress after New Years with the pictures of my kids, husband, and even myself all making wrapping paper angels in the happy mess of what was sent to us!

    God bless and MERRY CHRISTMAS!!!!

  1976. My original post was 1111 i messed up and wasnt sharing the link correctly until myu friend Shannon showed me thr right way to share it 🙂 SO I will share again <# I think all of you qwilling to help are truly a blessing 🙂
    Ok so I’m a mom of 7 And it’s the 17th and haven’t been able to purchase anything at all yet for Christmas 🙁 Hubby works his but of to provide but were just making bills meet at this point.. So sick to my stomach I don’t wanna see sad faces on Christmas morning. I don’t know how this works but I think it’s a blessing that there are people out there willing to help <3 I feel like a fool asking for it but I don't know what else to do Someone help us <3 Thank you from the bottom of my heart <3

    Niki's Wish List
    Link: http://amzn.com/w/GO22USWTH6MA

    (Nicole, you asked yesterday if you could find out all the people who purchased stuff on your list so you could thank them but I’m not really sharing emails for privacy sake so your thank-you comment was really enough! I suspect it was lots of different people. I sent you the crayola paintmaker set. Delivery is expected by tomorrow before 8pm. Thanks~ Jenny)

  1977. Julie – books
    Mary S – yarn
    Shannon R – My little pony dolls
    Laura S – wheelchair pack
    Breanne K – book and doll

    Happy Christmas everyone. Jenny this is the best thing ever. I donated to Project Night Night in your name too. I never miss that one.

  1978. Yes, Virginia, there is a Santa Claus. He exists as certainly as love and generosity and devotion exist, and you know that they abound and give to your life its highest beauty and joy. Alas! how dreary would be the world if there were no Santa Claus! It would be as dreary as if there were no Virginias. There would be no childlike faith then, no poetry, no romance to make tolerable this existence.

    Thank you to you all for having a little bit of Santa magic in your hearts. In lieu of recent conflicts in our country, I am still just amazed at the outpouring of love. I know I will continue to feel that love whever my son plays with a toy from the special Secret Santa of the Bloggess community.

    Because of all of you, I will wake up on Christmas morning with my son feeling like the richest people in the world. I’d rather be rich from love than money anyway 😊

    Shannon811

  1979. Caz and Dee, thank you SO MUCH for your generosity, you guys are amazing!! I will definitely be sending you pics of the kids with the items when they arrive, atlhough shipping to Africa
    takes a few months. THANK YOU! <3 <3 <3

  1980.  http://www.amazon.com/registry/wishlist/NB2YU45CQGJ7

    Thank you to everyone who purchased for my kids you are truly an inspiration I feel so blessed that you chose to help me during my time if crisis.Bless you
    #981

  1981. Ok, my credit card just melted. Is there anyway to tell if there are people who have gotten nothing off their list ?

  1982. Wonderful Soup and the others who donated for my mother-in-law, thank you so much!! I know these are definitely going to help her out since we already worry about her getting around the house, much less slipping and falling in the shower/tub. Next year I am planning on saving up any extra cashback or gift cards and donating gifts through something like this to be able to help where it is really needed. Thanks again!!
    http://amzn.com/w/29BNRMO7BLRH8

  1983. Just a progress report, in case you wonder how your generous gifts impact the people they’re sent to. Our agency (RI Crisis Assistance Center #571) received a $25 Amazon gift card to use to purchase Christmas gifts for a client (she has recently left an abusive marriage, has custody of her 7 yr old daughter and a new apartment). We received the card yesterday and last night we went shopping for her daughter. We stopped at the local library (I took her daughter to the children’s area where we read while mom was busy) and she was able to use the computer and go online to purchase some art supplies through Amazon that we’ll received by the 23rd, in time for her to wrap them up and put under her little Christmas tree. To many of us this might not seem like a big deal, but I must tell you that to her it meant the world. You see, it’s not the size of the gift that matters – it’s the intent. This mom is starting a new life for herself and her daughter – one that is free from violence and chaos – and it’s a frightening reality that she’s stepping into, one that takes enormous courage. She often feels alone in her struggle, but this small gesture – an anonymous gift from a stranger – renews her belief in humankind. It shows her that others care, that her life matters, and that she can, indeed, make it in the world. So to all of you who have gone the extra mile to reach out and help someone else this holiday season, I just want to thank you. Thank you for showing my client that world is, indeed, a good place. That people care for one another. That she’s headed in the right direction and there are people who have her back. Because the greatest gift you’ve given her for Christmas is the gift of compassion and a chance to believe in herself once again. Holiday blessings to you all.

  1985. 1471 – RP – TWO Bags of cat food on the way. Will be there by the 23rd. Just in time for your kitties to have a wonderful Christmas dinner. Merry Christmas

    Catt

  1986. MaryAneSavage (#1921), some crochet hooks on the way for your niece. I didn’t know lighted hooks were a thing; very cool. Merry merry to you and yours!

  1987. I just noticed someone purchased some things for me… wow thank you so much. That’s amazing. Wasn’t expecting anything. I am about to cry thanks so much.
    Hi I would like to post again in behalf of my son. Just to even gifts out if I can. I hope it’s ok. His wishlist.http://www.amazon.com/registry/giftlist/3ORODG6ELKTNG

    If I can. I would like to post for a link myself??? If not very ok http://amzn.com/w/1W2WK85WS9F06

    Merry Christmas!

  1988. I was so surprised to check back this morning and see our wish list had been hit!

    http://amzn.com/w/1S31R6JWPOO7E

    Thank you so, so, much, to anyone who got something for our kids. We’re having to celebrate a day late, this year, due to my husband’s work schedule, so on the bright side, we’ll have an extra shipping day to spare. Our three kids will be overjoyed at the surprise, especially when I tell them the reason – that there are strangers out there kind enough to play Santa for kids they’ve never met. God bless everyone who’s taken part in this act of love, whether for us, or for so many others.

  1991. I just updated Santa Jim (form post #855) on what is coming his way for his grandkids. He said “Wow. That is great. That is amazing. I feel so blessed.” I told him “Yeah, there’s a lot of that going around. Now go put up your damn tree.” 🙂 Thank you guys for helping Santa Jim be Santa this year – you are all awesome!

  1992. Not sure if my comment posted or not. It’s still types out in the text box when I reload the page??

    What a great place. I sure could use some help. I was laid off for 7 months and just went back to work in October and still trying to play catch up. The only thing I’ve been able to get so far for the kids is those candy canes with candy inside, some bubble bath for the youngest and I bought a used xbox off craigslist for $50 to give the kids but I don’t have the money to buy games for it. I get one more paycheck before Christmas (On the 22nd) and I’m not sure what I’m gonna be able to do since the electric bill was due on the 14th and I need to get that paid

    I think I did the address thing right on amazon If not let me know http://amzn.com/w/1X1WGFPBXTX97

    Thanks for letting me post and I hope everyones christmas dreams come true

    Chad and Chey

  1993. We did Heifer! There are some sheep and part of a water buffalo en route! I hope that our share of the water buffalo was a leg or a horn. I’d hate to think we sent a water buffalo asshole to the needy. 🙂

  1994. You are all so mindbogglingly amazing I just can not even process this. I should add tissues to my list! The miracles and blessings I have seen here have changed my entire view of the world. Thank you Bloggess, for being the moving force behind this amazingness! Not only are you a Saint, but you have provided means for others to be just as amazing as well.
    (#1818 and 1830 above) http://amzn.com/w/1JUOV1H593373

  1995. @Jennifer (1958), no shipping address showing up. Have you followed Jenny’s tutorial from the beginning?

  1996. Having breakfast this morning with the littles, and the door bell rings…. 3 boxes on my porch. Ruby says are they for us mommy, I had to lie and say no they are for our land lord ( we get lots of boxes that his daughter sends here for her kids to hide them) Oh my little lady won’t you be so surprised soon. Thank you so very much to everyone that has purchased gifts for them and the gift cards for food shopping. We will have a beautiful Christmas!!! Jenny thank you so very for the M&D art set for Ruby. She will love it!! Thank you for thinking of us. We also received a super hero that Ryker will adore. I haven’t opened the other box yet because I suspect the littles know something. You all have restored my hope in humanity. Much love to each and every one of you!!!! xoxoxo

  1997. Im not sure if it’s too late but someone encouraged me to come here. I’m a new “Nana” of a sweet baby girl and i’ve been living with my daughter and son-in-law in Az. since her birth to help with her care. My husband has been trying to find a job here (he’s in Washington right now) but with no luck. One of our relatives blessed us with plane tickets for him to visit us on Christmas ,and that is a wonderful gift for me. My wish for him (besides a job) is a new pair of shoes and i also have a couple of things on there for our “puddin pop” Thank you all so much for what you are doing .http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/wishlist/N9HMLIRPQYAD/ref=cm_wl_huc_view .

  1998. ErikaR I’ve got you on the cleaning and personal care items, plus a couple of extras. You should expect delivery on the majority of the items on Sunday 12/21. Happy holidays.

  2000. Oops, heres the shipping info for my post # 1979https://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/ref=cm_reg_rd-upd?ie=UTF8&id=N9HMLIRPQYAD&type=wishlist

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