Posey

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Posey died today.  If you’ve been here long enough you already know that he was a special little person in a fur suit and I’ve had him for almost half of my life.

I’m too sad to write about him right now so instead I’m posting a video we once made together for some orphans in Africa.  It’s sort of a long story.  Much like Posey’s life.

Please go and hug your little friends a little tighter for me.

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  1. I’m so sorry. It’s harder than we think it might be to let them go.

  7. Had a heart attack moment a few days ago when my cat was sleeping so deeply that he didn’t wake for several seconds after petting. I am so, so sorry for your loss.

  9. Oh no! So sorry. When I saw that tweet, all I could think was “Oh no, oh no, oh no…” Sorry about this day. Sending hugs your way.

  12. I’m so sorry for your loss. I’ve loved hearing about Posey on your blog.

  21. I can’t really think of anything that could comfort you in the face of such a loss, except that I am so, so, so very sorry.

  24. Jenny, I’m so sorry for your loss. Sending lots of comforting, positive wishes your way.

  25. Oh Jenny:

    The Posey stories were always my favourites. I’m so sorry for your loss and hope that Ferris Mewler is handling the loss of his furry friend OK as well.

  27. “My heart has joined The Thousand, for my friend stopped running today” — Watership Down
    My beloved King Louis will be waiting across the rainbow bridge to show him where all the comfy cushions and tasty treats are.

  28. My grandmother’s name is Posey, so this feels very strange to me.
    So sorry to hear though. It always hurts when you lose someone/thing you love.

  29. I’m so sorry, Jenny. I lost 2 of my kitties within a year of each other. They are family and it’s hard to say goodbye.

  30. I am sorry, and I wonder whether you stuff loved ones so they are always with you, or find such practices “creepy” (i.e., reserved for stranger animals).

  31. I’m very, very sorry. I will hug & kiss my three cats– and in general embarrass the hell out of them– in Posey’s name. A virtual hug to you.

  32. I’m so sorry for your loss. Posey looked like a fluffier version of my childhood cat so I have so, so much sympathy for you.

  36. Oh, no. Oh, i’m so sorry, Jenny. I know how much you loved Posey. Many hugs to you and yours. 🙁

  40. My sympathies. The one and only pet in my life is my 16.5 year-old Shih Tzu. I pray that Posey gave you as much joy as Sisko is giving me!

  41. I’m so sorry! I lost one of mine last year and I’m still not over it, and don’t expect to be for a long long time.

    ::hugs::

    Cry. It’s okay and it’s good for you. And you have about a million warm hugs and soft shoulders if you need them.

  42. I’m so sorry. Those little bodies leave behind awfully big holes in our lives.

  47. I’m so sorry Jenny. By the way, you sing beautifully and this is a lovely thing to be able to post at such a time.. My condolences and much love always
    Lu
    xxxx

  48. So sorry for your loss. I was floored by how hard the loss of my kitties hit me last year. Wish I still had one to hug tighter for you today. <3

  52. I’m so sorry, Jenny. Losing our pets is like losing a member of the family. My heart hurts for you. Take care of yourself and your sweet daughter.

  55. So sorry for your loss. It is amazing how these furry critters work themselves into our hearts and our lives.

  58. so sorry…tell him to look for my little man, mr. shiney, in kitty heaven >^.^<

  61. Sorry to hear that. I was inconsolable when I lost my dog two and a half years ago, one of the worst feelings in the entire world.

  63. I’m sorry to hear about Posie. I hope he’s happy in Kitty cat heaven. *Big virtual hugs for you*

  65. As a person that has lost animals in his lifetime, I know that it’s never an easy thing to go through. My heart goes out to you and I know you’ll cherish the memories you have of him. The video says as much =)

  67. I’m so sorry. I’ve loved and lost 5 sweet kitties in my life and it hurts every time.

  68. I’m so sorry. My dog just died on Friday, I know exactly what you mean about not being able to write about it. (hugs)

  71. So sorry for your loss, Jenny. Thinking of you and cuddling my sweet cat this evening. Sending you love!

  72. I’m so sorry. I just lost my Bryn kitty a couple of weeks ago. She was my baby, and it hurts like hell. I really do wish you some uneventful boredom for the next few weeks.

  73. Thank you for sharing your life with us, and the beautiful soul that was Posie. I am so very sorry he has passed. They bring such a great deal to our lives.

  74. I’m so sorry, sweet Jenny! xoxo But it did look like Posey was having a great time in that video! I love you, babe.

  76. I’m very, very sad for your loss. I’m honored I got to “meet” Posey via webcam last month.

  77. So sorry. We lost our Buddy (schnauzer) two weeks ago. I still can’t walk down pet aisles and I still look for him to be at my feet. They really are family members. Hugs to you….

  78. I’m so sorry! Losing an animal is so hard. They are major parts of the family. *hugs*

  79. It’s unspeakably hard to say goodbye to the furry members of our families. Sending hugs and lots of love.

  80. From one cat lady to another, I am so sorry. So, so sorry. My cats are getting their favourite junk catfood tonight in honour.

  81. I’m so sorry for your loss. 🙁 Losing furry family members always just… hurts. RIP, Posey.

  82. I’m really sorry. I know some kitties who are showing Posey around up in kitty heaven right now.

  83. What a dear video! Thank you for sharing. I’m going to go hug my furries now (through my tears). Hugs to you too.

  84. This video is priceless and made me smile. Posey is so patient with you bouncing her around. And hello? That song is about a ZOMBIE CAT!

    Very very sorry for your loss. We lost two fur friends in the last year and I realized how hard it is to share your grief with others over the loss of pets. Not that people aren’t sympathetic, but that there’s a feeling that you can only share so much of your grief about your “non-human” losses.

    RIP Posey. You were loved. Clearly.

  86. Jenny,
    I’m so sorry for your loss. I loved getting to ‘know’ him through your blog. xo

  87. Pets leave paw prints on our hearts that never get washed away. I’m so sorry for the loss of your beloved boy.

  88. People who don’t love animals don’t understand how much love they give us or how much it hurts when they go. They are members of our families. I’m sorry about Posey and cozy the crap out of Ferris Mewler.

  89. Also that made me cry bc my late father would always call the cats “Hey, you, in the fur suit”. I can almost remember his voice saying that.

  91. My many and deepest of sympathies, boss-lady.

    I would hold my own cat a little tighter, but her claws and I have long ago come to an understanding… 🙂

  93. I’m so, so very sorry for your loss. It’s devastating to lose a treasured pet. You have my sympathy and my prayers.

  95. I’m very sorry for your loss, like everyone else. I’ll make sure to hug the furkids later. *hugs you tight*

  101. Awww…..so sorry to read this. If you’ve never picked up the children’s book, Cat Heaven, you should at some point –maybe not right now–it’s really sweet and it’s how I like to imagine my kitties that are no longer with me–all sleeping on God’s bed & head after a big bowl of milk. Hang in there.

  102. Aw my love, he will always be in your heart and you have that lovely video with him where you can see how much you love him. RIP Posey

  103. Oh Jenny, I am so sorry. My heart is just breaking for you. I’m hugging my cats a lot tighter this evening and thinking of you and of Posey.

  104. I’m sorry about your cat, your car, and wow – what a horrible day! >>>*HUGE HUG VIBE*<<<

  106. I was all good until you started singing your song. *Sniff*

    I’m so sorry for your loss.

  108. Hugged tightly. My ‘Posey’ is 20, blind, hypertensive, and has failing kidneys: in short, probably not far behind actual Posey. I’ve been resentful lately of all the extra care she needs. Thanks for the reminder.

  110. I’m so sorry Jenny. I’ll love on my 2 girls extra hard tonight. Love to Ferris Mewler and your non-fur family.

  112. So sad! I’m so sorry, Jenny. Will give my munchkin and extra squeeze in memory of Posey.

  114. Oh Jenny… i’m so sorry. I’ve been following you since stumbleupon days. remember those days?
    it’s such a delight seeing you now. sounds like you had one crapper of a day though.
    much love to you. *hugs*

  115. Oh Jenny, that was so sweet. It brought a tear to my eye. You have a lovely singing voice. And Posey was such a handsome boy. Hugs and love for you and your lost boy. <3<3<3

  119. Oh, hell, I just watched the video. I didn’t know anyone else knew “Don Gato” besides my sister and me. It must have been a West Texas thing. (We grew up in Odessa.)

  120. I’m so sorry for your loss. You should take as much time as you need to mourn your Posey. I’m sending hugs your way. 🙂

  121. So sorry to hear about your cat. 🙁 Pets are definitely members of the family. But something that may (or may not, if you hate Disney) cheer you up: you have the voice of a Disney Princess. For realz. You should contact Disney and offer voice-over services. You’d be rollin’ all up in dat dough.

  122. I already said it on Twitter, but I’ll say it again because it can’t be said enough times. I’m so sorry. Lots of kitty snuggles from our gang, and hugs from me. <3

  125. I’m so sorry for your loss. I lost my little old lady cat about a month ago & miss her terribly. They’re family…

  129. I’m sorry, sweetheart. Your video broke my heart… what an awesome sedative cat–the kind that just touching is a sedative, and soothing to the soul. I’ll go scratch my Steve on the ass until she passes out now–we don’t have to tell the furry bint why.

  130. So sorry, Jenny. Glad you have a memory of singing so sweetly to him. Good song.

  131. Not fucking cool. I’m so sorry, Jenny. And that video is priceless. I never even met Posey and I can see how much you loved him. RIP little man.

  132. This made me cry and I am not even a cat person. Jenny you have a beautiful voice and Posey was loved, and knew that – no doubt in my mind. Sorry for your loss.

  134. So sorry to hear about Posey. I know all too well how hard it is to lose a furry friend. My thoughts are with you and your family, and I’ll give my Trixie and Bailey extra cuddles tonight in Posey’s honor.

  138. So very sorry for your loss – we lost our Oakley girl (Black Lab – Annie Oakley) recently, so I feel your pain. It’s so hard to say goodbye to a cherished pet, no matter how prepared you may be that the time is coming. You will be in my thoughts.

    <> Lisa

  139. Many condolences, Bloggess. I sometimes still cry for the furkids who left me all too soon.

  140. Such a sad day. We love them so fiercely, then they leave us. Hoping that when the tears subside, you’ll remember with laughter and smiles how wonderful it was to love Posey for all the years you had. He stuck around for a reason – he loved you too!

  141. My love to you Jenny, hold Ferris tight tonight. <3

    "Grief is like the ocean; it comes on waves ebbing and flowing. Sometimes the water is calm, and sometimes it is overwhelming. All we can do is learn to swim."

    "Life is pleasant. Death is peaceful. It's the transition that's troublesome."

    (Isaac Asimov)

    "Death ends a life, not a relationship."

    (Jack Lemmon)

    "A pet is never truly forgotten until it is no longer remembered."

    (Lacie Petitto)

    "If there are no pets in Heaven, then when I die I want to go where they went."

    (Will Rogers)

  144. I know how much that suck. Last year our dog Bob had to be put down, we had him as long as you’ve had Posey. I know no amount of kind words will make the hurt less. But I am so sorry for your loss and I know how truly sad you are. I’m actually tearing up thinking about how awful it must feel. I will keep you in my thoughts in the comming days since I’m sure you will need the happy thoughts to override the sad ones.

  145. Oh dear. Where you are now, I’m going to be soon – times three, probably. You have all my sympathy.

  147. Oh, my. So, so sorry. I know that feeling all to well.

    There are no words. Just know we all hurt with you.

  148. I’m sorry. There aren’t any words that make it any easier or better, but know that I’m thinking of you and Posey.

  149. I’m so sorry for your loss. Thank you for posting the video–Posey looked like a very sweet cat and your rendition of the song is lovely.

  150. Love you, Girl, and am sitting at my laptop weeping for you. I imagine Posey is chasing himself some AWESOME sparkly dragonflies in heaven right now and having a helluva blast!!!!!

  151. So very sorry for your loss. Lovely video to remember such a wonderful family member by. Godspeed, Posey.

  152. My thoughts are with you and your family, so sorry for your loss. RIP Posey xo

  153. So sorry for your loss. Holding my buddy extra tight tonight.

  154. So so sorry your Posey is gone. I prefer to think that they go on to really really wonderful places after giving us so much love in this life. Take care of you.

  155. Hi,
    I have angel cats. Their mother was a pregnant stray who showed up the day my carpool partner collapsed in her front yard and feel into a coma. (Complications of high-dose chemo for cancer.) She died five days later.
    And that mother cat’s kittens helped me and my kids and her kids laugh, especially in the first year after she died, so they are truly angel cats, as I’m sure your beautiful baby was.

    A friend of mine swears that if you ask your lost babies to come back to you, in new bodies, they will. Just ask, like you’re saying a prayer. And watch and wait and be open to the signs. They will come back.

  156. Poesy was lucky to have been loved by you. It is never easy to
    lose one of our furkids. Thoughts are with you……

  158. There is nothing I can say that will make it better, only time can do that. I am so sorry for your loss.

  160. So sorry. We said goodbye to our Posey (only her name was Kismet) last Thursday so I feel your pain. Hang in there!

  161. First time commenting, but had to tell you how sorry I am for the loss of your kitty.

  163. I’m so sorry. My kitty is laying here by me and I will give her a big hug when I get up to feed her in 10 minutes… which she’ll probably like much more than the hug.

  166. So sorry Jenny. That just sucks. My husband lost his boxer a few years ago and it still hurts. It’s hard to let our furbabies go. I will love on my Willow extra tonight.

  167. tell Posey stories often and with relish, and he will live for all time!

    My condolences to you, your family, and most especially to Ferris Mewler.

  168. Poor Posey, and poor you. I’m very sorry. We lost our Miss Billie a little over a week ago, too. It’s just so damned hard.

  169. Oh sweetheart I’m sorry. My heart gies iut to you and your family. I am sure Posey is in a happy place where there is endless ‘nip and chin scritches.

  170. You can tell by how he nuzzles you with his forehead that he loved you very much.
    Hugs and love to you, Victor, and Hailey during these really tough times

  171. So sorry for your loss. He was a good kitty. I can tell because your face was still attached after you made that video.

  172. I have 2 rescue kitties and I can’t imagine the day I have to say goodbye to one of them! :'( I’m so sorry for your loss…I understand! {{{HUGS}}}

  175. So sorry to hear about Posey. Posey looks just like a cat I had when I was little, I loved seeing Posey and hcias antics. I will certainly hold my kitties closer tonight. Hugs to you and your family.

  177. Oh Jenny, I’m so very very sorry. It’s always hard to lose a member of our family. I know how much it hurts. Be kind to yourself and let yourself mourn how you need to. Grief is different for everyone. Consider yourself hugged (even though you don’t know me…hugs are still being sent over the intertubes).

  178. I never usually comment, just laugh my ass off at all your stories and share them with everyone I know! I am so, so sorry to hear about your Posey Cat.

  179. Let us be happy for Posey, for Posey has found a family. Good night, Posey. Good night, you Prince of Houston — you King of Texas!

  182. I’m so sorry for your loss. Remember the wonderful life you gave Posey, and the joy he gave you. Our animals are a blessing. (((hugs)))

  184. I am so very sorry, Jenny.
    Losing a furry member of the family sucks. They give us so much and ask so little in return(cats I mean, dogs are needy little fuckers that I want my friends to own so I can pet and play with and give back…sort of like how I feel about children…except for the petting…don’t get the wrong idea…ack…you freakin’ perve!)

  186. Oh, Jenny. I’m so, so sorry. Please know that Posey was loved by all of us, even though we didn’t know him.

    So many hugs to you.

  187. I know how hard it is, I lost my kitty a few months ago after having her for 20 years.

  189. No! That is so unbelievably awful! I will go home and hug my kitties and send sunspot and windowsill thoughts your way. Im so sorry, Jenny.

  190. Sweet, patient Posey. So sad. Why the frick do I have to bawl about every cat. So sorry for your loss and hugs to all.

  191. I am so very sorry for your loss. Today is my mother’s birthday and she passed last August. I’d like to think Posey is cuddling up to her and they are keeping each other company right now.

  193. I’m so sorry! We lost our dog recently. It’s so difficult to lose them. I’ll be thinking of you.

  195. I’m so sorry for your loss. It’s heartbreaking when we lose our fur babies. But it’s lovely that you have a video of you and Posey; he’s a really beautiful kitty, and I’m a dog person. <3

  200. I am so, so sorry. Posey was quite the performer, and a handsome fellow, too. You’ve taken such great care of him, and he has led a happy, comfy kitty life. Sending warm thoughts your way tonight.

  201. Jenny, I don’t know you, but you’ve been brightening my life for years. I’m so, so sorry for your loss.

  202. I have to say, you have a beautiful voice! I’m so terribly sorry for your loss, meow meow meow.

  205. So, so sorry! Now he’s in heaven with my beautiful German Shepherd who I will miss forever. 🙁

  206. So sorry for your loss. May your memories of him always comfort you and make you smile.

  208. So sorry, I know it’s really hard to lose a furry friend who has been such a big part of your heart for so long. Hugging my dogs. (read- it’s thundering and they are holding me hostage) I’ll give them an extra treat in Posey’s honor.

  209. Oh my. We had two cats die this year – our 17 year old Mona and our 2 year old Lincoln. It SUCKS. Horribly sucky bad. I’m so sorry. Sending you lots of love today.

  210. I may have suffocated my little dog Timmy in your honour tonight. They’re so special and you’re surrounded by people who totally understand. Lots of love coming your way~

  211. Really, really sorry. Huge hugs and free shoulder to cry on…or punch, if you’re angry. (I’m tough, I can take it.)

  213. So sad for you. I wish that your dear Posey could reanimate like Don Gato from your song. (just not in a precursor to the zombie apocalypse kind of way)

  214. I’m so sorry, Jenny. I’ve got tears in my eyes as I write this, because I know how hard it is to say goodbye to a pet. A friend that never questioned your love and you never had to question theirs. A friend that would never betray you and was always there when you needed him. I’ll give my two kitties extra hugs and kisses tonight for you.

  217. I’m so sorry to hear this! I’m going to go and hug Super-Sophie super tight, whether she likes it or not.

  218. I am so very sorry Jenny.
    My husband once accused me of loving our two cats more than him. Well, duh.

  219. Oh, Jenny, what a day you had. I’m so so sorry to hear about Posey. The video was lovely, you have a beautiful voice. Please take care.

  223. I’m so sorry for your loss. Posey was greatly loved, and I have enjoyed seeing that video of the 2 of you many times already.

  224. I’m so sorry for your loss. Our dogs are getting older and I try to remember to enjoy every single day with them. Love sent your way!

  230. i know how much this can hurt, i had a poodle for 20 years, she was the love of my pet life, my rock in a hard place, my replacement for God before God showed up, and it actually hurt more when she died than it did when my parents died, that may sound weird, but it’s true, hard to admit, but true none the less

  231. I didn’t realize your comments used smilies…I put noses on mine with an “o” so the frowny face one I posted didn’t turn out right and may be inappropriate for the occasion. Sorry. 🙁

  232. Oh man, I almost made it through that video without crying. Then you said “say goodbye Posey” & I lost it. Not saying it’s any easier for those of us left behind, but going to sleep & not waking up sounds like the way every cat would want to & should go. May Posey find all the sunbeams.

  234. Oh Jenny, I’m so, so, so sorry. It’s a terrible loss to lose a furry family member. I’ll give my C.C., Bella, and Harley all a little extra love tonight in Posey’s honor.

    That video was absolutely adorable. <3

  235. I am so sorry! Our furry family members are so precious. My 3 kitties and I are sending love and light your way. I’ll give their ears an extra scratch in honor of sweet Posey.

  240. So sorry about Posey, As Prudence would say, now I have leaky eyes. Loved the song, will be sure to hug and kiss the menagerie here. {{hugs}}

  242. I am so sorry for the loss of your beautiful boy. These little critters can be some of the best friends in the world.

    I was surprised to hear that someone else knows Don Gato; in response to the commenter above from Odessa, I learned it at a USAF base in Spain, so not *just* a West Texas thing. 😉

  245. Oh sh*t! I am so sorry, Jenny. I know it hurts like hell.

    (((((HUG)))))

  246. I am so sorry for your loss. I had to put my 18 year old cat (love of my life) down in October so I can attest to how much it hurts. I like to think they get reincarnated and find us again later in life. My heart goes out to you and your family!

  247. I have lurked religiously but haven’t posted before because I haven’t felt like I could say anything that hasn’t been said. Even though this has been said and will be said I am so sorry for your loss. My Maine Coon Gizmo is 14 and when I see her struggling to make the bed I reminded that our days are fleeting. Watched the video – what an amazing cat. I drink a toast to Posey – May the days in kitty heaven be filled with warm sunshine, lots of purrs and catnip.

  251. I’m so sorry Jenny. He was a beautiful and patient cat. <3 *hugs*

  253. So sorry for your loss, Jenny. Sending love, hugs, and prayers to you.

    P.S. You have a beautiful singing voice.

  254. I am so sorry Jenny! As a longtime owner of cats and having to say goodbye to three of them recently, I know your hurt and loss. Hugs to you and Posey.

  255. My condolences good lady. When my beloved kitty died I got a tattoo of her, let’s see if I can find a pic.

    Here ya go.. http://imgur.com/TXQx8

    I don’t actually believe in angels, but cat’s are pretty fucking awesome.

  257. Oh, Jenny, my heart brakes for you. What a sweet video. Rest in peace, sweet kitty.

  259. Sorry Jenny. Pets become a part of your family, and a part of your life. Posey knew he was loved. Hell, we all knew Posey was loved.

  262. RIP Posie. “And it wasn’t very merry, going to the cemetery” Truer words were never spoken. Just know Jenny, that we’re all standing by that little kitty grave with you. Be strong. And if you’re not, it’s okay- cause we’re here.

  263. I am so, so sorry to hear it. There’s never a good time to lose a furry loved one, and it sounds like this was the worst ending to a horrible day. It hurts to say goodbye after such a short time shared together.

    (Interestingly, I’ve just had to delete two of my kitten’s contributions, because he climbed across the keyboard as I was typing this. He has no idea why I just picked him up to hug him, but he’s convinced it’s time to play, now that that foolishness is done.)

  264. Jenny, I am so sorry. 🙁 My Penny is 17 and it’s day by day and it’s so hard to say goodbye to a beloved friend. Your video with Posey was so sweet – its obvious how much you loved him. Sending you much love. Give Ferris a snuggle from me and I promise to give extra hugs tonight to my feline friends in Posey’s memory.

  265. So so so very sorry for your loss. “Grief is the price we pay for love.” Queen Elizabeth II (just saw a biography on her last night and they shared this quote.).

  266. I’m sorry for your loss.

    It’s so hard, we get so attached to them… I know I’m not ready yet. My baby’s 16 and I just can’t bear to even consider… And when you look at her she seems like such a young cat…

    I’m glad you have the video and all the posts to remember him by.

    *hugs*

  267. I’m sad too. My sister died 3 weeks ago. Go hug your brothers or sisters too. I’m sorry about Posie. My Tucker is getting me through. Sorta.

  268. “Perhaps they are not stars, but rather openings in heaven where the love of our lost ones pours through and shines down upon us to let us know they are happy.” ~ Eskimo proverb

    So very sorry for your loss. <3

  269. So sorry Jenny! My boy is 15 and I dread the day he goes. He was my surrogate baby when we lost our first.

    Huge hugs and safe travels over the rainbow bridge Posey!

  272. Poor Posey, he was a good kitty. Dibs on sitting on your head from now on.

  273. I’m so sorry to hear about Posey. Hugs and extra pets to Ferris Mewler.

  274. My thoughts are with you. I lost my oldest kitty a month ago. These little ones are so special. Going to find my other and give him big love.

  275. NOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!

    I was afraid that’s what the tweet meant earlier. Poor baby Posey. I am hugging Shmoopsie and Poopsie a little harder tonight. I’m so, so sorry. They really are our furry babies, it’s so hard to say goodbye.

  278. I lost two cats within 6 months of eachother. They were sisters and only 1 year old. It is so sad to lose a member of your family no matter how fluffy they are.

    You were lucky to have him so long. Just spend some time with your family remembering the good times. Healing will take time 🙂

  281. I am so terribly sorry! The only thing wrong with dogs and cats is that they don’t live forever, or at least as long as we do!

  282. Your video was a perfect tribute. Much love to you in your time of grieving.

  287. I’m so sorry to hear about Posey, I really thought he would make the big 20. XOXO

  288. You and your family will be in my thoughts as I give extra scritches and laps to the fur people here. Thank you for sharing Posey with all of us. So sorry.

  290. Posey was blessed to have you and the home you gave him. Gonna give my dog an extra treat and love tonight – just for Posey.

  293. Jenny, I’m so sorry. It’s heartbreaking to lose a loved one who has been in your life so long. Posey looks like a real sweetheart — one of those cats who just puts up with all our silly antics. Take good care.

  296. Jenny, so very sorry for your loss. I hope you did not opt for another attempt at backyard burial… I figure that whole trauma is probably fresh enough in your mind that you didn’t because although it would make for another horrifying/amusing blog post, I am thinking that maybe you could, perhaps, have Posey’s ashes turned into a kickass gemstone and then get it mounted in a tiara. Just a thought.

    I don’t presume to speak for the rest of the internet, but if you need to vent/talk/whatever, I am sure there are many of us who are more than willing to listen. I know I am. Be well, Sweet Lady.

  297. I’m so sorry. The loss of a pet leaves such a big hole in your heart. My dogs and I will be thinking of you tonight.

  299. Jenny, I’m so sorry to hear about your loss! I loved the video, I never knew you were such a great singer! Posey was an adorable kitty, sending love your way! xoxo

  300. Jenny, I am so sorry to hear about your loss. Posey sounded like an amazing (and amazingly funny) cat, and the world is a little less bright without him.

  301. I am very sorry to hear about Posey. Hugs to you.

    I remember that song from my childhood…

  302. If you have not read Cynthia Rylant’s picture book, “Cat Heaven”, please do. It is what I (a school librarian) recommend when families ask me if they know anything that might help when they lose a cat friend. [She also did “Dog Heaven” which I got for my daughter when our Golden Retriever died.} It will make you cry, but in a good way. Not just for Hailey, but for you all.

  303. First, please know that I am so, so sorry. I know that hurt all too well.

    But… I had to memorize that poem in 5th grade. Wow. Hadn’t thought of it in years.

    Finally, you have a pretty voice.

  305. im so sorry. my boyfriend and i are holding our kitty kona extra lots today for you. we both love you <3

  306. I’m so sorry. I’m crying, because I got 2 furry babies 2 years ago, and my heart expanded. It got big and full of fur and laughter, and the warm feeling of being a mother for the first time. But Obi Wan Catnobi has been missing for 2 and a half weeks and I have been feeling really lost. So I’m crying, for you, for Posey, for Obi that I miss so and that I hope I will get to see again. Because it’s way too early to say goodbye.

  307. I’m so sorry to hear about Posey! I just started reading your blog about a year and a half ago – right around the time I took in a friend’s 15 year old cat, Oliver. I read about all the old posts about Posey (him making everyone think he was dead by sleeping with his eyes open, being nothing but fur and sinew, etc) and I thought – this is my new cat! I didn’t think I’d come to love him very much. It was going to be more like running kitty hospice care, right? Oh wow, not at all. This wheezy, sinewy, sweet old man has wormed his way into my heart like I never would have believed. I have to pick my way through fresh gifts of vomit and hairballs every morning, but…well, ick, sorry. Every time I read a new Posey post, I just loved my old cat a little more. And when Oliver does die, I’m going to go and read all those Posey posts AGAIN and laugh and cry and be happy for the time I had with him. Love and good thoughts to you!

  308. Terribly sorry to hear about this. It took me a while to respond because I went to cuddle the dogs for a while.

  310. Oh no… I’m so very sorry. It’s so hard to lose a furry baby. Big hugs to you… Rest in peace, Posey.

  311. Been there 🙁 So sorry for your loss – cats are amazing creatures. (on a good note – you have a great voice and that video and song was really cute)

  312. After watching the video, now I’m sobbing. Sweet kitty. RIP, Posey.

  313. I’m sorry to hear about this, Jenny. It’s always hard when we lose a member of our family – and the furry ones are just as important. I’ll be thinking of you and yours.

  314. I am so very sorry, Jenny. Posey stories have always been great; he’s such an interesting little guy. I lost the dog who’d been with me half my life last January and it’s still hard to accept some days. Big hugs to you, and I will definitely snuggle my own kitties a bit longer tonight.

  315. Jen, I am terribly sorry to hear about your loss. Posey brought smiles to all who have followed your blog and have watched that great video. Virtual hugs to you.

  316. Am so very sorry 🙁
    Your loss made me cry….I lost my beautiful 16 year old baby girl this March and I still grieve for her every day. Treasure every photo, video and memory. Ignore insensitive people who don’t even try to understand and take solace from those who do – grieving for the loss of a beloved pet is very real and very painful. If you need further support, the association for pet loss and bereavement ( http://aplb.org/index.php) have been of great help to me when I needed it.
    *hugs*

  317. My condolences on the loss of your sweet Posey. I’m sending you a hug and a prayer.

  320. So sorry to hear about Posey. He was a lucky cat to be loved so well. Sending you hugs and bulldog kisses.

  321. Aw. What a sweet gentleman he was. : ) and you have a pretty voice. 🙂

  322. So so so sorry. Will go and hug and squeeze my Punki and smudgie in Posey’s honor.

  325. I hope the smell of fish in kitty heaven makes Posey very happy. Kitty hugs all around.

  328. I lost both of my cats in 2011. I’m still sad about it now and miss them every day. My thoughts are with you. Goodbye, sweet Posey.

  329. My heartfelt condolences on your loss, Jenny. There is a special place in heaven where Posey will be waiting for you. That doesn’t make it feel any better though. Posey will always be a part of you.

  330. Jenny I am so sorry for your loss. I know you had a crappy day and I can’t believe this was what greeted you at the end. The only thing I can say is that you gave him a wonderful and long life full of love and caring and that is the best that any cat can hope for. My sympathies to you and your family.

  333. I’m so sorry for your loss, Jenny. I too lost a cat recently. It’s amazing how they find their way into your heart and never really leave.

  334. My deepest condolences. Losing a pet is one of the most heartbreaking things. I’m sorry about your loss. I’ll be hugging my little furry person in a bear hug all day today. *hugs*

  335. I am sorry about Posey. He was loved…it is apparent in this video. He was outstanding in that video…never seen a cat that danced as well as he did. Farewell Dear Posey.

  338. I am so sorry – as the mom of a special-needs kitty (17, diabetic, toothless, in renal failure, deaf…) I know the extra love that goes into taking care of them (and how totally worth it is) – you did an amazing job keeping Posey kickin’ loooong after others would have bought into all that “she’s a goner” nonsense, and I hope she’s purring somewhere up in that big kitty heaven in the sky. Hug to you and your family (and I am going to give Quato some extra belly rubs).

  339. I’m so sorry Jenny 🙁 I know there are no words to help. My furbaby jumped on me and curled up right before I clicked on this.

  340. I am so so sorry to hear this. I know how heart wrenching it is to lose your kitty. You and Posey are in my thoughts.

  341. So sorry that you lost Posey. Sometimes our fur kids are as important as our two legged ones.

  343. So sorry, Jenny…I lost my 10 year old lab Mocha on Friday, so I am grieving with you. 🙁 You are in my thoughts.

  344. So very sorry to hear about your loss. Sending lots of hugs. I know i hugged my babies a little tighter today.

  345. I am so very sorry! My Bandit is going to get loved on in Posey’s honor.

  346. My heart is breaking for you, truly. My asshole cat and I send our most sincere wishes for peace and comfort your way.

  347. Posey will be waiting for you on the rainbow bridge, but for now, Posey is happy he had you as his furever home! I’ll give my three old ladies extra love tonight jst for you.

  348. Sitting next to my ugly snoring dog right now and sending you my love. I’m sorry for your loss.

    I like my furry children better than I like my own most of the time, and we just had to put one of ours down last month. Then the vet gave me a little ceramic disc with her paw print when I went to pick up her ashes, which I found a little morbid.

    Side note: You have a lovely singing voice. It’s clear from the video that Posey agreed.

  350. I am so sorry. I was just thinking about posey because my cat Samantha died last Thursday. It is so hard to let the furry ones go. I just feel so sad because I miss petting her so. I still here her humm. She rarely meowed. I will hug my dog just for you. You are in my prayers.

  352. You sing so beautifully. I cried and cried. I’ve had many pets who have passed after many years. I light a sky lantern for them on the 4th. I’ll think of Posey too.

  353. You are loved you are loved you are loved.
    So sorry about your loss.

  354. I’m sorry for your loss! I will, indeed, hug my kitties very tight tonight. They may not approve. Luckily, this house is a dictatorship.

  356. I’m so sorry for your loss. I know how badly it hurts to lose a pet; they are family. Remember that he had a nice long life with you and you were able to give him a good home.

  357. Jenny, I’m so sorry to hear about Posey. Please know that your family, friends, and fans all love and support you! Keeping you in my thoughts!

  358. So very sorry to hear about your loss. Our pets are such important people, aren’t they? Sounds like you and Posey had a remarkable life together.
    In sympathy.
    Barb in Minnesota

  359. Jenny, I am so sorry that Posey died. Losing a loving pet is like losing a family member.

  363. So sad for you. Thank you for sharing Posey each night of the book club.

    The video has me wondering though about the possibility of Posey coming back. Any fish markets in a local village square? If anyone could own a zombie / reanimated cat, it would be you.

  366. I just had a really good day ,and then I saw your post and remembered just how you would be feeling, as I lost my Myaggi 2 years ago. He was with us for 15 years and I still expect him to come galloping in at mealtimes and purring around my feet. Hopefully he will be up there somewhere to welcome Posey. Big hugs from me and my family to you and yours at this sad time.

  368. As soon as I saw the entry title on the live bookmark, I knew exactly what it was going to be about.
    My condolences for your loss – I know exactly how it feels.

  370. I’m a long time fan who just adores everything you do and tells people you’re my secret best friend. I never comment but I just had to step in and say how sorry I am for your loss. I have 12 (yes, 12!) kitties of my own and some of them are getting to the age where I know they probably don’t have a lot of time left. Your Posey had a good life, was loved and doted on. Take time to be unashamedly sad but then make a point of remembering his long happy life and not this one brief moment of sadness. ::hugs::

  371. So sorry from another kitty slave.

    By the way, you can sing. Nice!

  373. Bitty (the First) kept us as pets for 17.5 years and I said “never again.” That was on a Saturday. It took until Tuesday to be adopted by Bitty (the Second), who kept us for another 17.5 years. Both were Maine Coons. Both rescue kittens. Both enriched our lives and those of our children for more than half our married lives. I held both as they went to sleep. I still miss them. I have no words for your sad. But will be thinking of you.

  376. So sorry! It’s so hard when our little furry ones leave us. Lots of love and hugs!

  379. I watched the video and started crying. It’s like I knew him. but as I sat siffling at my computer, my 18 year old Willow cat came running to make me feel better, which made me cry harder. He’s not always going to be there for me.

    Gods Jenny, I’m so sorry!! *hugs* and meaningless drivel about the Rainbow bridge and how Posey’s happy and healthy again.

    I’m sorry for your loss.

  380. So sorry dear! I saw your tweet and my heart sank. May you find some peace in knowing he spent his life with someone who loved him as much as you did. So many are not so lucky.

  381. I’m so, so sorry Jenny. Hugs and a hand holding being sent your way.

  382. That sucks. I’m sorry. I wished they lived at least as long as we did.

  383. It’s so hard to have the gentle furkids who so willingly and carefully and lovingly carry our damaged and fragile hearts on their four furry paws through this world sigh their last sigh and tiptoe right on out.

    Posey knew only love from you, Jenny. I’m pretty certain he also knew all your secrets and kept all of them close to his heart. Be very gentle with yourself. Extra special gentle. There are extra treats and scratches and hugs for all the furry animals here at Chez Naked tonight.

  385. I’m sorry you lost Posey. :'( Love and hugs. I am glad she had you to love her so much, and I am thankful that you had her to love you.

  386. My mrow, Chubbs, cannot figure out why I won’t let him off my lap and I keep hugging and kissing him. My heart aches for you, Jenny, and for all of us who’ve lost special furbabies. Chubbs and I send hugs….

  389. So sorry and thinking of you on this sad day. I would hug my cat Phoebe for you but she would probably tear my face off. So instead I will hug the hell out of my dog (and she will want a cookie for having to endure my hugs….).

  393. I am so very, very sorry. RIP Posey. I will try to hug my cat, but she may rip my face right off. She is not quite so cuddly as Posey, bless his heart.
    I lost my dog a couple of months ago, and I still cry every day for his loss. They leave such big empty spaces when they go.
    Hugs to you.

  394. So sorry about your loss, and the rest of your horrible day. Huddle up with the rest of the family and you will get each other through it. Hugs.

  395. I’m so sorry! But I’m very glad that Posey made an appearance on your recent bookclub sessions and we got to hear the purring.

  397. I’m so sorry for you and your whole family. It’s heartbreaking. When my dog, Callie died in March
    it was a very rough time. I cried a lot. I ended up adopting another rescue dog and while she
    will never be like Callie, I love her. But differently. Love, Laurie F.

  398. I am so sorry for your loss. Pets are priceless companions, and become family the moment you adopt them… or they adopt you. Good thoughts to you! <3

  403. I’m so sorry, Jenny! When I lost my beloved kitty, my best friend comforted me by telling me that my kitty went to be with her real kitty mommy who would take care of her until I got there. I know it hurts now but it gets easier day by day. Many hugs!

  405. I am so sorry for your loss.

    That is one of my favorite videos of all time – I seriously pull it up and watch it whenever I’m in a bad mood. You can just see the love you both have for each other.

  406. I am so, so sorry for your loss, Jenny. Pets are family, and losing a kitteh who was in nearly 1/2 of yours, is hard. (((HUG))) Thank you for sharing him with us as well, through the years.

  407. I am so sorry for your loss – you can tell Posey adored YOU in this video. {{hugs}}

  408. Fuck… omg… I blogged about my cat this morning….please delete my previous. Comment love…. ugh I’m so embarssed… for the love of God delete these commentstoo

  410. Oh, Jenny… I am so sorry. We had a cat who lived 22 years. I thought she was immortal. She died when I was 30. She was pure love covered in fur. It’s hard to say goodbye. Have a large sippy cup of wine and a big bag of Hershey kisses.

  411. Jenny, I’m so sorry for you loss I can’t even imagine losing one of my fuzzy babies. Much love and hugs to you.

  412. I am so sorry for your loss Jenny. RIP Posey. I wish there was something I could write that would ease the pain and loss. My thoughts are with you.

  413. *hugs* I’m sorry. Losing fur kids is always hard. Hopefully Ferris Mewler won’t be too sad and lonely without his canine companion. 🙁

  414. So sorry about Posey 🙁 That video made me tear up a little…my 17 year old cat, Lucky, died recently and it’s so much harder then you think it’s going to be…even when you think you’re prepared because they’re old.
    And, for the record, that song was my favorite song in elementary school choir. I still sing it sometimes when it pops into my head…but I thought I was crazy because no one else remembered it. Thanks for making me feel not so crazy.

  416. Oh Jenny, I’m so very sorry. I’ll light a candle for Posey tonight. You’ll be in my thoughts and I’m send lots of love and hugs for you and your family. I’ll also make sure I give my kitty, Meekoli Catsvinski, lots and lots of cuddles…and I’ll tell him they are all from you.

  417. Jenny, so sorry to hear about Posey. Sending love to you and your family.

  420. i’m so sorry Jenny 🙁 Having lost more than my share of four foots in my life… i know how hard it is. Those little fuzzy feet leave gaping holes in our hearts.

    i did hug my fuzzy baby very tightly after reading this… and she thumped her tail very angrily against my legs, but she put up with it. Then when i started to let her go, she pretty much launched herself across the room and gave me this glare of DOOM. And my face and shirt were *covered* in long fine grey Maine Coon Boo-hair. But i wouldn’t have it any other way, really.

    i know it’s cold comfort right now… but Posey had a lovely life, and that long life is a testament to your love and care you took of him. Remember those good times.

  422. I will sleep with my eyes open tonight to honor your precious Posey. (not really) but if I could I would. Thinking of you and your family tonight.

  423. Must read Jon Katz’s book about dealing with a pet’s death. It’s remarkable and will make you feel better. I lost my two beloved dogs, Ming, the pug and Hannah the retriever this year and I am still heart broken, but Jon showed me how to deal. Check it out. It will make you feel better. Hugs, Rose

  424. I’m so sorry! It’s so hard when you lose a furry family member! We haven’t had any animals since we had to put down our dog four years ago- it was just too sad…hope you get some comfort from your people!

  426. I loved him too. We all loved him very very very much. And you know what? He knew it. He knew that you loved him with every fiber of your being. And he probably thought, “That’s right, bitch, I OWN you. I am the KING.”

    So, what I am trying to say is, you loved each other, and he was a happy little man and you treated him so so well, and he’s looking down on you from kitty heaven going, “I totally won at life.”

  428. My heart is broken for you as I sit in a puddle of tears at my desk while my coworkers look at me like I am crazy. *Hugs to you, Ferris and Victor*

  430. I’m so sorry… no words can really help, but I’m off to hug my puppy.

  431. I am so sorry, Jenny. Pets are our “fur children” and are so very special. I’ll hug my pups extra hard for you. : )

  432. Oh so very sorry. Animals are the only things that give you unconditional love. Very sorry about Posy, loved your posts about her.

  434. So sorry for your loss, Jenny. It is really difficult to lose a friend that you love. I’m sending positive thoughts your way!

  435. I’m so sorry for your loss! My dogs mean the world to me! Big hugs!

  438. Hugely sorry to hear. I can only hope that you find a little comfort from knowing how many of us here understand how important she was…
    *hugs* Mx

    (and when I say “here”, you know I mean all across the damn planet, right?!)

  439. Just today I finished reading your archives, with (among the heaping piles of awesome) all the Posey-Love therein. I am SO sorry for your loss; he was a very very special kitty who had a terrific life, and he’ll be missed by many. Sending you, Hailey and Victor lots of love and positive thoughts. {{{{{}}}}}

  441. You really have a beautiful singing voice, Jenny. So sorry for your loss. Remember the happy times with Posey.

  442. 🙁 I’m so sorry, Jenny. My little pack of cats (and dog) will be sending you cuddly vibes.

  445. 🙁 so sorry for you loss. have an extra long snuggle with your other babies – both furred and non-furred.

  446. So sorry to hear about Posey! What a sweet kitty he was to sit through ALL of “Senor Don Gato”. That was one of my favorites when I was a kid, too, and my son used to love to hear it at bed time. (I used to lose my place, too.) Hugs to you.

  447. Oh, Jenny, I’m so very sorry. I’m glad, though that you and Posey had each other for so many wonderful years. Sending you much love tonight.

  448. Oh Jenny, I’m so, so sorry! I know how much it hurts to lose a beloved pet! Thinking of you in this difficult time and sending you hugs! Going to give my elderly dog an extra big hug now…

  450. D’oh! I meant “he” not “she”, of course. Sorry for stupid unintentional irony, there…

  452. I’m so sorry for your loss! Losing someone so special is so hard. Sending hugs your way!

  454. I’ve been through your pain more times than I wish to remember. So sad when we lose a fur-person. And I JUST finished reading the chapter in your book about your bunny-forehead pug, to. It gets a little easier each day, Jenny.

  456. I’m glad you and Posey had each other for such a long time. Take care of yourself and I hope you feel less sad soon.

  457. Love and light. I have a few to meet him at the bridge. (virtual hug)

  459. Oh, Jenny… I am so, so very sorry. I froze when I read he wouldn’t wake up. Posey was very special and he had such a good life with you…. I will hug every single one of my cats a little tighter tonight (even the ones who don’t like it) And I send you virtual hugs across the miles (even if you don’t like it)

  462. I’m so sorry, Jenny. Miles will scoot over so Posey can sleep on the bed. I’m convinced that it’s a very big bed, with soft covers.

  463. So sorry for your loss. What a lovely memory you have captured in that video. It is so hard to lose our fluffy family.

  465. So so so sorry for your loss. Your beautiful video made me cry.

    Thinking of you

    Temple Clan

  467. So sorry about Posey Jenny. Hugs to your family, my nine year old daughter sends Hailey a hug too.

  471. Losing a friend is hard. So sorry. Sending love and hugs to you!

  472. Oh, I’m so sorry Jenny. I never know what else to say here – I’ve lost enough fur babies myself to understand how painful it is. Take care sweetie, we love you.

  473. I wish I could do more than offer hugs, love and booze through the internet. We send our love.

  474. I’m so sorry. 🙁 It’s an incredibly hard thing, to lose a family member. Thank you, though, for sharing the video and reminding me of Don Gatto (meow meow meow).

    Hugging my kitties tightly tonight, even though they will protest.

  475. My boyfriend just asked me why I was upset, and I said “My friend’s cat died.” And then I remembered that we’ve never met. Anyway .. I’m very sorry about your cat. Hopefully he’s getting a good ear scratching from Andy Griffith right now.

  476. So sorry. Losing a beloved pet never seems to get any easier with age or experience. Thinking of you now in your time of grief.

  478. My favorite little fur friend died in December. He was the BEST cat. Pets love unconditionally and ask for nothing in return. Losing them is like losing a family member. I’m so sorry for your loss. My heart breaks for you 🙁

  479. So so sorry sweetie. You gave Posey a wonderful life of adventure, comfort, and lots of love. He will be missed by all of us who never met him, but loved him just the same. ((HUGS))

  480. I’m so sorry for your loss. It is so hard to lose a furry family member. Hugs.

  481. Hugs to you…I know you loved him. It’s a sad time and it is overwhelming. You are loved.

  482. I have been a lurker for a long time but I had to come out to say, I’m so sorry. Losing a pet is so, so hard. Much love to you and yours.

  483. Soo sorry for your loss. Posey was such a wonderful cat (based on all the things you shared with us). I shall open a can of tuna in his honor.

    What a beautiful video, too.

  484. Oh honey….I am so sorry to hear about this. =( Sending you and the rest of the family so much love to get you through this heartbreaking time. <3 <3 <3

  485. Big hugs. I lost my own ancient baby, Silhouette, who lived with us for twenty years, so he had to be closing up on 22 years old. We let him go in April, when he started to bleed — we couldn’t keep holding onto him. I miss him all the time.

    How we love those little darlings in fur! Feel better, Jenny!

  487. What an amazing buddy he must have been. What a terrible loss… May you find comfort in the memories of his love for you. I’m sorry beyond words…

    gordon

  488. I cried a little. I still miss my Sidney Vicious. I hope they are together in cat heaven, draped over a ratty couch looking nonplussed.

    Love.

  489. My Miss Kittty passed, more than 6 years ago, and I still miss her every day. My heart goes out to you and the family. Rest in Peace, Posey. I’ll ask Miss Kitty to meet him at the Rainbow Bridge, too. Posey will be one of the most well met kitties there.

  490. So, so sorry for your loss. My heart hurts for you and your family. It’s not fair that they leave us so soon… 🙁

  491. I’m so sorry. Condolences from a house with as many – sometimes more -furry family members than peopley ones (that’ll happen with childless animal lovers) Extra hugs all around.

  493. I am so sorry for your loss. You and Posey were lucky to have each other. I am going to hug my kitty cats now:(

  494. Jenny, I’m so sorry for your loss. I learned that song when I was in fourth grade, and I have sung it many times since then, but none of my kitties would join me in the performance. You and Posey were lucky to have each other.

  495. Oh honey, I’m so sorry. What a sweet kitty. My two precious kitties send prrrrt-prrrts and headbutts your way.

  496. I’m so sorry, Jenny. My heart aches for you. Most people don’t understand how special cats are. I was never a proponent of cats but my Baby Kitty changed my heart and mind. I lost him earlier this year. It’s hard. And unexpected. Buck up, cupcake. We’ll survive this.

  497. I am so sorry for your loss… I will squeeze my girls tight tonight in Posey’s honor..

  498. ooh, jenny. i’m so sorry about posey. i know there isn’t anything i can say that will make it better, easier, whatthefuckever. you’ll cross the rainbow bridge with him one day <3

  499. Loved hearing tales of Posey, I’m sad to hear this. Rest in peace Posey.

  500. I’m so sorry, I cry just thinking about the day my two pugs are no longer with us. I will hug them especially close and I am hugging you and Posey in my heart.

  501. I’m so sorry and my heart is breaking with yours. Cats are the embodiment of joy, pleasure, and love. Posey was loved and he knew it, and he’ll send another cat your way when you’re ready. Cats always know what’s best for their people.

  502. Oh Jenny, I’m so sorry!
    I know how special Posey was (in so many ways)
    my heart goes out to you!

  503. Sorry for your loss. Our cat is getting to be an old man. It makes me sad to think of losing him. My wife and I used to talk for him in the voice of Eric Cartman, before we had kids.

  505. So, so sorry Jenny. Losing a pet, especially one you’ve had for a long time, is just as devastating as losing a human family member – particularly if you tend to turn to your pets for comfort. Who will comfort you, when the one you usually turn to is gone? I hope your human family and Ferris Mewler give you lots of love and support to help you through the worst of it. *Hugs*

  507. I’m so, so sorry. My dogs are getting really up there in age, and every day I’m terrified that the older one is just going to suddenly stop breathing. The death of a pet is so unbelievably hard.

  509. So sorry for your loss. My fids (feathered kids) and I will say a little prayer for you and Posey.

  510. I’m so sorry for your loss :(. At least you have lots of great memories with Posey and shared so many of them with all of us, thank you for that. My kitties, Shyla, Orko, Cringer, and Noah send their purrs and kitty kisses to you.

  515. I am so sorry for your loss of Posey. What a beautiful cat!

  517. Am going to go hug furry friend.
    Can’t decide if it will be my cat or creepy neighbor (who never met a razor) down the road.
    Either way may come back missing an eye but in respect for Posey I will risk it.
    I’m not a hugger so I won’t send one but maybe a salute to Posey and all other furry soldiers will suffice.

  518. From one cat-lover to another, I feel for you and your family right now. You are wonderful to take care of your pets with such love and affection. Hugs to you and prayers to Posey.

  519. Sometimes there are no words except, I’m sorry and this sucks. You were lucky to have each other for so long, but no matter *how* long that is, it is always too soon to have to say goodbye.

    God bless Posey and her furless mom, Jenny.

    >^..^<

  520. Jenny, I am so sorry. I used to call my Bigfoot (cat, not a real Bigfoot) a furry little person. It is so hard when they leave us.

    Andrea

  525. Oh I am so sorry for you and your family. You gave Posey so much love and such a wonderful home and family to be in. It’s hard, terribly hard.

  527. I’m so sorry, Jenny. Love and hugs from us, and Purrs and headbutts from Napster, Calli and Arya. When Napster, 19, joins Posey in kitty heaven, they can be bestie beasties 🙂

  528. My 10-week old kitten is probably going to claw the shit out my face for this, but I’m going to give her all the lovin’s today. And it will be worth it, because any cat-cuddlin’ time is worth it, clawed-face or no clawed-face. I really hope there’s no clawed-face, though.

  529. I am so sorry for your loss. I know it hurts. Keep focusing on the happy memories!

  530. Posey was such an easygoing little pooter! I feel your loss, especially at the end of such a crummy day. I hope tomorrow brings some smiles.

  531. So, I loved Don Gato when I was a kid too… and it’s only appropriate for us all to celebrate Posey with a song telling the tale of a zombie kitty.

  534. I’m so, so, so Sorry for your loss Ms. Jenny. Losing a pet is probably one of the hardest things a person goes through.

  538. Oh, Jenny, I am so sorry for your loss. :many hugs: Posey had a good, long life.

  542. Posey had a great Moma and he gave hundreds and hundreds of people laughs, can’t think of a better life.

  543. I went to give my cats their bedtime snack, and I remembered Posey again. So each time I dropped a (bigger than usual) spoonful in a dish, I said, “A big bedtime snack in honor of Posey Lawson.” My cats are extra happy tonight, thanks to Posey.

    And then I cried. (not really past tense)

  545. So sorry! Know how that feels. Lost Butch the cat when he was 16, and his brother Sundance two years later. We got them when they were four months old, before we had children.

  548. so, so sorry. 🙁 i’d like to think kitty heaven is a little happier now that posey is there.

  549. Sending virtual love your way. And on another note – Don Gato was by far my favorite elementary music class song. Must have been a Texas staple.

  550. This is my favorite posting of yours because of Posey…and your adorable singing voice.
    Condolences.

  551. I am so sorry. The loss of a furry person is so painful. Many virtual hugs. I truly believe in kitty heaven, where St. Francis takes them to frolic in a giant sunny meadow filled with birds to chase or mice to hunt.

    Also, I know of only one other person on the planet that knows the Don Gato song. I learned it in elementary school (we had a Mexico Program one year… which was even more hilarious since we didn’t have a single hispanic person in our entire school – elite white kids!). It’s like you know the secret handshake of awesome people.

  552. So, so sorry. Your past writings of Posey have been a real joy (and hoot.) It is so very sad to lose a furball, especially one that’s been with you so long.

    My furbabies send their condolences too. Even my nuts-oid doggies.

    I also have to say that your TALENTS never cease to surprise and delight me. You have a LOVELY voice!

  555. Oh Jenny I actually cried when I read the tweet, I’m devastated for you. I’m terrified of loosing my little dog Lola, it was so hard when my first dog died I said I would never have another pet again. They become your family, it’s so hard to say goodbye. It was obvious how much you adore posey in your posts. I really hope you are ok, what a horrible end to a shitty day! I’ll be thinking of you and cuddling my Lola to bits tonight! xoxo

  556. Sorry for your loss. I would definately encourage 2 things for you. 1. make a remembrance at Rainbow Bridge 2. join us all in an at home candle-light vigil each monday evening at sunset. It can be very theraputic. Take care, morn at your own speed. And for christs sake, don’t even taxidermy Posey.

  557. That cat must have had an awesome life, and somewhere in cat heaven is thanking you for that life. And then running off to find a mouse in mouse heaven that’s wearing a cape and neck ruffle.

    {{hug}}

  559. I’m so very very sorry. Hugs for all of you.

    PS Wow – your voice is wonderful. I’d love it if you sang to us more often 🙂

  560. I am so sorry, Jenny – I know how much that hurts. I gave an extra hug to each of the youngsters, Dottie (4), Henry (3), and Esme (1) then two extra hugs and a cuddle to the old man, Willie (15).

  561. P.S. I suspect that Posey is now in very good company down at the fishing hole with Andy Griffith.

  562. Jenny, I’m so sorry, its so very hard. Virtual hugs for you as well.

  564. I’m so sorry. But I’m also glad Posey had you for her human. And lived a fantastic, long life, from the sound of it.

  565. I’m so sorry. Losing a furry baby is never easy. Losing Posey, who has been in your life for so long, has to be just awful. Internet hugs and good thought on the way.

  566. I’m so sorry for your loss, Jenny. I know exactly how difficult it is to lose your pet soul mate. I lost my Peaches last December after 16 wonderful years together and still think of her every day. I know that it will be difficult for a while, but the sense of loss will recede in time. Before you know it, you’ll be smiling instead of crying each time you think of your beautiful little Posey.

  567. My condolences on the loss of your fur-child. I can bring myself to tears just thinking about losing my Rocket or Spanky.

  568. I’m so sorry for your loss Jenny. Loosing a pet is so hard. We lost our life long friend Daphne a year and a half ago. Since then we’ve filled the house with two kittens that are a joy, but I till miss Daphne. ((HUGS)) to you!

  569. I’m so sorry that Posey is no longer there to cuddle you 🙁 But… what an amazing song! I love it! It’s a great tribute to him… furry cuddles for you, dear.

  570. So very sorry that your fur baby has passed over. Worse possible aspect about being owned by an animal is that they leave you way too soon. Huge hugs of comfort and healing to you <3 See ya at the bridge Posey!

  571. Just this side of heaven is a place called Rainbow Bridge.

    When an animal dies that has been especially close to someone here, that pet goes to Rainbow Bridge.
    There are meadows and hills for all of our special friends so they can run and play together.
    There is plenty of food, water and sunshine, and our friends are warm and comfortable.

    All the animals who had been ill and old are restored to health and vigor; those who were hurt or maimed are made whole and strong again, just as we remember them in our dreams of days and times gone by.
    The animals are happy and content, except for one small thing; they each miss someone very special to them, who had to be left behind.

    They all run and play together, but the day comes when one suddenly stops and looks into the distance. His bright eyes are intent; His eager body quivers. Suddenly he begins to run from the group, flying over the green grass, his legs carrying him faster and faster.

    You have been spotted, and when you and your special friend finally meet, you cling together in joyous reunion, never to be parted again. The happy kisses rain upon your face; your hands again caress the beloved head, and you look once more into the trusting eyes of your pet, so long gone from your life but never absent from your heart.

    Then you cross Rainbow Bridge together….

    Author unknown…

  573. Sending thoughts of peace and comfort your way. I liked reading about Posey and his loving family. Losing our furry little family members is a hard, hard thing to go through. Today, my kitty’s vet said we need to prepare ourselves for the idea that he isn’t going to walk again and we’d have to make some hard decisions.
    Hugs and prayers to you and your family.

  574. I am very sorry for your loss. You will keep a special place in your heart for him.

  575. So sorry for your loss, Jenny 🙁 I had to say goodbye to my furry friend, and it’s heartbreaking. My heart goes out to you <3

  577. I’m so sorry to hear about Posey. My dog, Lily, has recently gotten very old. I cannot imagine life without her, but one day it will.

  580. Oh, Jenny! I’m so sorry for the loss of your little friend! Keep good thoughts and happy memories close to you and they’ll help heal your heart. You’re such a good person…..

  581. I am so sorry for your loss. It’s so difficult to lose a furry friend. Our beloved cat, Jack, died suddenly last fall and I still find myself looking for him some days. Many hugs from me and loving murples from Abi and Oliver, current kitties in residence.

  582. So sorry to hear that Posey has crossed the bridge. But glad he waited until you came back from vacation. He will be missed.

  583. I am so sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you and my kitties send some purrs and massages your way.

  584. Glad you had this extra time with Posey, but I’m so sorry you lost your furry little friend. 🙁

  585. I am so, so sorry for your loss. The video made me cry because it’s evident how much you love Posey and i can only imagine how your heart aches. It makes my heart ache. All our love to you, Victor and Hailey.

  586. So sorry to hear this. They’re family members, and the loss is so painful. Wishing you a speedy path to the point when you can smile at his memory instead of cry (it’s coming, I promise).

  588. I’m so so sorry, Jenny. My pets are always a big part of my heart, so I know how hard this is for you. Big hugs to you all. xo

  589. So sorry for your loss. Our cat Casey is getting up there in years. We lost our fourteen year old cat several years ago. I know how it hurts to lose a family member. Hugs to all of you

  591. I’m crying a lot right now, and I didn’t even watch the video because my computer is messed up like that. But my cats are old, so… you know. My brain goes to the place where they’re already gone.

    Lots and lots of hugs for you and Victor and Hailey. It totally sucks when our friends leave us like that. 🙁

  592. I’m so sorry Jenny! I know the pain that you are going through from past experiences and I can’t even imagine going through it again even though I know that one day I will! Big hugs from up here in Dallas

  593. Oh, dear Posey, you are a much loved cat and fulfilled your kitty destiny. I picture you in kitty heaven, with a never-ending supply of cat treats and still sleeping with your eyes open. Rest in peace, Posey-gal.

  594. Aw, Jenny. So sorry. I still miss my kitty who passed away 6 years ago. Pets make life that much happier. I’m so sorry you’re hurting. {hugs}

  595. I have a lump in my throat and tears in my eyes. Many hugs. So so sorry.

  596. So sorry, Jenny. Thinking of you. {{{{joining in the group hug}}}}

  597. My heart breaks for you. Such sadness when we lose one of our family members.
    My thoughts are with you and the family. Much love.

  599. When I saw the title of this post I was afraid that he had passed away. Many hugs and much love to you all. Loving a pet is so rewarding but having them leave is possibly one of the most difficult things to bear. I lost my best friend of 18 years almost 2 years ago now and there are still times I cry because I miss her spotted little whisker face. He and Barnaby Jones Pickles are totally kickin’ it across the rainbow bridge.

  601. My sincere condolences. Posey and I were friends. He was spectacular in his own awesome Posey way. Nothing will ever replace him, and he will be sorely missed.

    The Mama formerly known as Stephanie

  603. I’m so sorry about Posey. He looked like one of the coolest cats ever.

  605. So sorry about Posey 🙁 I hope he’s sleeping comfortably in kittie heaven

  606. Been feeling sad about this all day. Thinking kind thoughts your way.

  607. Oh honey, I am so sorry. I am currently owned by 4 furbabies myself, and have lost several others over my life. It hurts like hell when they die. Allow yourself to grieve and tell anyone who says you are being silly about an animal to get bent.

  609. So sorry you lost your buddy. I lost Merlin, my furry buddy of 22 years this week. Always hard to lose a member of your family. Give Ferris an extra hug today.

  611. Posey had an amazing “Mom” and it’s obvious how much she loved/was loved. Sending warm thoughts your way.

  612. So sorry for your loss. I know that your little furry family member will be missed –

  613. Oh, Jenny– I am so sorry. Going to hug my Milo. Rest in peace, Posey. ?

  614. I am so sorry for your loss. As a HR professional (as I know you were), there should be bereavement leave when you lose a pet. They are your immediate family.

  615. I’m so sorry. Posey was an awesome kitty and I know y’all will miss him terribly. Thinking of you.

  616. Here’s to Posey, and the many stories inspired by such a fantastic feline. I’m so sorry that you have lost your loyal friend. Take care of yourself!

  617. I’m so sorry. He seemed to be a very special boy, indeed. I loved the way he looked at you in the film. And the way you gave him such ongoing love. What a terrible pain it is to lose someone so dear. I truly am sorry.

  618. Awww! I’m so sorry for your loss. My first dog , Barney, passed away suddenly, last year, after only having him for 3 years. I still get teary eyed when I think about it, even now. Passing along a BIG cyber hug to you today.

  619. Oh goodness, I am so very sorry for your loss! Posey was an awesome cat that will be very missed. Sending positive thoughts your way!

  620. They really become family members, don’t they? I’m so sorry for your loss. Will be sure to snuggle my pup extra tight, in remembrance of Posey.

  621. Sorry to hear about the cat-sized hole in your heart, Jenny. We have lost two crack puppies in the last 3 years and the 14 yr old Moosedawg is about out of gas. Sigh. Easy to love them. Way hard to let them go. Hugs.

  622. sigh. thinking of Mewk and Spider. Wish I could have cats again. Gonna hug our fur bat, Two Bite, a little longer tonite.

  624. They break your heart every time, but I wouldn’t want it any other way. Bye Posey!

  625. Am a ling time reader and big fan, but have never commented before. I am terribly sorry for the loss of your beloved Posey. Our four legged family members are so very important. My sincerest condolences to you and your entire family.

  627. I’m so sorry. We lost our big, psychotic orange tabby a year and a half ago and it still hurts. Sometimes me and The Bastard will start reminiscing, like I’ll say, “Hey, remember when Andy took a flying leap at your mom’s curtains? That was HILARIOUS once she wasn’t mad anymore!” or he’ll go, “Remember when Andy stole that plastic grocery bag when we weren’t looking and got the handle stuck around his waist? That thing was in SHREDS when he finally stopped running around the house!” Then we’ll look at each other and get all sad and change the subject. So yeah… big hugs from us! Maybe Posey and Andy can start their own shenanigans together.

  628. Oh Jenny! I am so sorry to hear about Posey. Words are never sufficient when you lose a furbaby. Poca Pea will get extra snuggles tonight.

  630. I’m so sorry for your loss, Jenny. My friend lost her beloved dog a few years ago and in coping with his death create dthe website http://www.letterstopushkin.com, as a place where you can write a letter to you furry companion to cope with the grief. Once you get to a point you can write again, you might want to consider posting a letter to Posey. Hugs.

  634. I’m so sorry Jenny! 🙁 I lost two cats in the past 8 months, and so I feel your pain. I still get teary-eyed thinking about them. *hugs*

  635. I’m so sorry Jenny. My 19 year old cat, Annie, died last September. So hard to lose part of your family, be they furred or otherwise. Much love and happy Posey memories to help you through this rough time.

  636. Oh bless your heart. It is always so hard to let go of those you love. I’m all emotional just sitting here and watching this video. These are the memories you want to treasure that you had with your wonderful little pal. I’m thinking of you, dear, and wishing that you get some peace tonight because I know it’s been an extra difficult day for you.

  637. I’m really sorry to hear about Posey…I loved reading about him in your book. It’s hard to lose a fuzzy friend like that, even for the best reasons.

    Take care,
    MsMaus.

  638. I’m sorry.
    Dear, dear pets.
    They absorb our
    tears and sorrows,
    and throw up hairballs
    to show us how to overcome,
    and laugh.
    Dear, dear pets… they purr
    and endure, and make us
    better people.
    God blessed dear Posey,
    and you.

  639. Sometimes little paw prints leave a bigger impact than anything else. I will hug my irritating, shedding, noisy ball of fur really tight, and remember that deep down, I do love her…..even when she poops in my shoes.

  641. Oh, Jenny, I’m so sorry. I lost one of my cats in April and I still think I see him out of the corner of my eye from time to time. It’s hard, even when they’ve had a good long life and you’ve loved them to pieces, it’s still hard.

    Hang in there. We’ll be here to listen when you feel like writing again.

  644. Oh hon, I’m SO sorry for your loss. :o( What a horrible thing to come back to after a fun weekend. I’m so sad for you right now. He lived such an amazing and long life with you. He was a lucky kitty to have someone who loves him so much. He’ll be waiting over the Rainbow Bridge for you, Jenny dear. And you’ll always have your Don Gato video (this may be highly inappropriate at the moment but, you have a very nice singing voice… I loved the song) with him. Thank the stars for that. R.I.P Posey. We’ll miss you.

  646. I wanted to pass along my condolences to you. I had to take my shoulder kitty to the vet for a final visit a few years ago. I still miss her snuggling against me.

  647. Pardon the happy face…. It was actually supposed to be 🙁 but I have a bad habit of doing smiley/frowny faces like : o ( or : o ) so it came out wrong… Sorry about that…

  650. I had a cat that my sister brought home when I was only days old. The kitten was small enough to fit in her palm. The two of us grew up together, played together, she slept with me every night. Until I was 15. That year she died and when she left, a part of me left with her.

    My heart goes out to you and your family. I watched part of the video, but then I almost started crying so I had to stop. All I could think was how I would feel if it was one of my two babies. So now, as you’ve suggested, I’m going to go and hold them and hug them and tell them how I’ll love them forever.

  651. I love my little furry child Wolfie (an orange tabby) with my whole heart…I cannot even imagine the pain you are suffering through right now. I am so very sorry for your loss, and hope your other furry children will help you get through this difficult time.

    On a completely different note, I remember singing that song in elementary chorus, and being struck by the many emotions it contained. I was delighted to hear it again, and you have a delightful, natural singing voice (I’m a music teacher,btw)!

  653. So sorry to hear this… losing a furbaby just stinks. If Posey won’t mind that my fur people are of the canine variety, I’ll be sure to give them extra kibble and butt rubs tomorrow.

  654. There are no words to express the sadness that you and your family must be feeling. I am so sorry for your loss. The worst part of having a pet is having to say goodbye when they leave us. Just know that Posey is in a better place now.

  655. I am very sorry for your loss. Reading your stories about Posey made it obvious the love you had for him.

  656. I’m so sorry for your loss. I really loved reading about Posey. :'(

  657. Oh sadness, Jenny! Hearts (fuzzy, finny, and fleshy) are all sending you happy memory vibes. xxx

  658. I’m so, so sorry for your loss. I don’t have a furry friend so I’m sending the hugs your way.

    *hugs*

  659. I am so sorry for your loss. It doesn’t matter how long they have been with you, losing a pet hurts. Sending you love and healing thoughts. Gotta hug my fur kids now…

  663. *hugs you tight* I’m so sorry. But if you’re lucky, Posy will hang around as a non-corporeal entity. Some of our cats did, to hang with the ghost cats that were already there when my parents moved in.

    People think I’m joking about things like this. I’m really not.

    However, I am so so sorry for your loss. Posy was an awesome person in this world, and whatever world he’s in now, he’ll be awesome there too.

    I hate death. It sucks. But I love cats and I love you even though you don’t even know me. So…much much much love for you and Posy.

  664. So sorry to hear of your loss Jenny. Sending you loads of hugs from Australia. Now I’m off to hug my furballs, Zac & Sebastian.

  665. I’m so sorry Posey passed away. My deepest sympathies. I’ve had my cat, Arwen, since she was 5 weeks old, she’s my furry daughter.

  667. Just sad probably does not begin to cover the feelings of losing Posey. Half your life and all of Posey’s. All of us (out here in cyber world) are feeling our own versions of losing Posey today. When you are ready, we do want to hear your version, funny or not.
    We all love you, A LOT. (some of us a little too much . . . )

  668. Living with you he must have had a great life. Try to smile when you think of him.

  670. So sorry about Posey-but she will live forever in the stories you tell us!

  671. so very sorry about Posey, Jenny. no matter how many times you go through it, it always hurts like hell to say goodbye. hugs to you and your family from me and my dog.

  672. So sorry about Posey-but he will live forever in the stories you tell us!

  673. I’m so sorry for your loss it’s always terrible losing our fuzzy children *big hugs*

  674. Jenny, I am so sorry to read about Posey. What is so wonderful about the video is everyone of us feel the soul of Posey and how much you two loved each another. Take care of yourself. I really am sorry.

  675. Aw, this makes me so sad! What a sweet way to remember Posey by though. Hugs to you and your family. Posey will be missed.

  676. I am so sorry to hear of your loss, you have my deepest sympathies. {{{{hugs}}}}

  679. Jenny, I am so sorry about Posey. It is so hard when they go, I’ve been there. Consider my kitties hugged harder in honour of Posey today. And I will ask my late, great Oscar Mercury to show Posey where the sushi grade tuna and Pellagrino water are in kitty heaven tonight. {{{HUGS}}}

  680. i’m so, so sorry. i lost my sweet first born (a kitty as well) 2 years ago, and i still dream about her. i send cuddly hugs of condolence your way.

  681. So sorry, Jenny! Sending major hugs your way. I’m glad you and Posey had each other.

  682. I am so sorry Jenny 🙁 I often think about your post on posey and the repair guy. I am so sad she’s gone and hope you’re hangin in there :/

  684. So sorry for your loss. May his memory always be a blessing to you and all who know him.

  686. What a sweet video. You have a beautiful voice! I’m so sorry for your loss. 🙁 Hugging my fablabulous Lab, Pearl, now. She’s my world.

  687. I’m so sorry for your loss Jenny. Hugs to you and your family. My boy Blitzkrieg is leaning against me in lieu of pets.

  689. Oh no- I’m so sorry for the loss of Posey. Glad you shared your kitty and song again- it was very cute. Posey will always be on the web 😉

  690. I’m so sorry about Posie. My sweet kitty, Willie J. Blackfoot Ewing sat up very tall and listened and watched intently when I played Don Gago and I got teary. He gets it too.

  691. I did just as you said and gave my kitten Jade a good long pet today. I know in my heart that all fur babies go to heaven, and Posey is in a better place with all the catnip he could ever want. Sending you strength in your time of grief. I bet he lived a more interesting and exciting life as your kitten than most, lucky little guy 🙂

  692. I’m so sorry for your loss. I’ve been there before an it’s alway hard. Thanks for sharing the video, Posey was a good sport. I remember the Senior Don Gato song fondly from when I was a kid, and I haven’t heard it anywhere since 3rd grade (and that was in 1970)!

  693. I am a fan of your blog and wanted to express my sadness for your loss.

  694. I am so so sorry for your loss. My cats are precious to me, and it is always hard when they go. I am hugging my babies Charlie and Lucy as I write this. Hugs to you.

  695. So sorry for your loss today… Many virtual hugs to you and your family.

  696. That video was one of the sweetest things I’ve seen & a perfect tribute to Possey. I’m so sorry for your loss! I will definately hug my fur babies a little tighter tonight & we will say a prayer for Possey & your family.

  699. So sorry for your loss. People don’t realize how hard it is to lose a pet. I lost my cat Eek last year and my beautiful dog Kellie this year. I was a mess. I know Eek and Kellie will be looking after Posey where ever they may be.
    BIG hugs for you xoxo
    And I’ll give my 5 angels a hug too.

  700. so sorry for your loss. I had no idea that you have such a beautiful singing voice!

  701. Hugs to you and your family. Our “furbabies” really are part of our lives. I know you have been through so much with Posey, but still…

  702. Sad day. Posey looks so much like a hybrid of my kitties. Will go give them extra treats in his honor.

  703. I found this because we just had to have my cat put down tonight (his tumor ruptured) and I thought I would check your site to cheer me up. Strangely, it did. I feel less alone now.

  705. I’m really sorry to hear about Posey.

    Damn, though: that’s an awesome rendition of Don Gato.

  711. I hope those orphans in Africa appreciated that video.

    Watched it with my sleeping doberman’s head atop my knee. I do love Posey’s expression throughout!

  712. *runs off to hug Her Imperious Highness the Fuzzy Butt*
    *gets batted away*

    Oh, well.

    I’m sorry for your loss.

  713. Sweet dreams Posey, Love and light Jenny.

    And many snuggles for my 18 year old kittens too.

  714. Went through this earlier in the year with my old tomcat Boris. Your song sent me over the edge, I’m afraid. It’s partly your very sweet singing voice (it’s exceptionally good) and the poignant verse, but mostly it was the idea that the cat came back to life, and how much I wish that was possible. I miss my Boris so much it’s still painful to remember him, even months later. Sorry for your loss, truly.

  716. Just let them both in AND immediately back out the door. Both of them. Twice. Without cursing either one of them. I told them “you’re welcome” for you.

  719. Dear Jenny,
    I’m so sorry to hear about Posey. My cat of 17 years died in May of just being damn old. He had the same thyroid problem your kitty had. My cat’s name was Baby Kitty. My brother named him when he was 3 or 4. My family identified so much with you and your love for Posey. We even called him Posey as a nickname sometimes. The pain does go away. And the sadness that you feel is probably mixed with relief that he’s no longer suffering and the sadness that no cat will ever take his place. I’m terribly sorry to hear of his passing. I’m just very happy for you that you have videos to remember him by
    We are all thinking of you today.
    -Mel

  720. Hugs and love from me and my furkids to you and yours. I will light a candle for him tonight, in memory of the light Posey brought the world. Love and peace my sweet.

  721. This is so sad. When I lost the cat I’d had for 15 years, it took weeks before I could smile again, so I know how you must be feeling. Sending hugs from myself and my bitty.

  725. I am so sorry you lost Posey. He had a very nice singing voice, by the way.

  726. I’m so sorry to hear this. When my cat died almost seven years ago, I cried almost everyday for a week. I still cry sometimes and I’m crying now, as a matter of fact. I know that there aren’t any words to fill this void, but I hope that all these comments help you feel better. Mourn him like the family member that he was and know that he’ll be in your heart forever. Hugs.

  728. I’ve been following for some time now and the first sentence of this post hit me immediately. My kitty Stinky is old(er) and I often think of him when you write about Posey. I’m so sorry, but I know you made each others lives better and I like to think those things mean we’re doing something right in life.

  730. A horrible ending to an awful day. I am so sorry to hear of your loss.

  733. I’m very sorry to hear about Posey. I enjoyed reading about his adventures. Your love for him and your magnificent sense of humor will carry you through this dark time. I offer this for that humor: My friend’s father recently passed away and his obituary is hilarious (http://www.legacy.com/obituaries/courierpress/obituary.aspx?n=emil-becker&pid=158270266). I hope it gives you comfort to know that we all loved Posey because YOU loved him first. Today sucks. Tomorrow holds hope.

  734. So sorry for your sad news. I know that he had an excellent life and we should all be focusing on that happy fact, but it doesn’t keep it from sucking for you. My cat was two months short of her 21st birthday when she died – I’d had her since sixth grade. That’s a loss that just sucks. SUCKS.

    Oliver and Obi and The Boy and I send our condolences. And the fuzzies send some long distance purr therapy, just for you.

  736. I’m so sorry. If I lived anywhere near you I’d be over in an instant with a casserole. My dog passed away last year and it broke my heart. We had decided to go ahead and put her to sleep though, she was in pain after having a surgery and was only getting worse. She passed away on her own right before I walked in the door to say goodbye. I hated that I hadn’t been there when it happened. I hugged her and cried and cried. I was shaking and sobbing… She’d been there through so much.

    Again I’m so sorry for your loss. If you need anything… say the word.

  737. So many tears right now. There was on one like Posey. Holding BooBooKitty and Tasha a little closer tonight. You are loved Jenny. and Posey knew you loved him.

  738. You’ve got this stranger’s sympathies. Your song made me have to pause it cause I’m hormonal, tired and a wuss when it comes to dead cats. Had to say goodbye to my miracle lazarus cat last fall (seriously, he’d had diabetes for almost a decade, was almost 20 and kept trying and failing to die from other things throughout the past decade.) I’m sorry. I knew it was coming, so the initial shock was muted, but it hurt all the same. I still miss his rib-butts. I like to think (though I don’t really believe it) that he made sure I got my next cat before he went so that I and his buddy would have a distraction. She’s sure proven to be that! The freakin’ crazy little girl keeps us all busy.

  739. Oh, Jenny, I am so sad for you and your sweet Posey. The video you made makes a nice tribute (and you have a lovely voice) to this gallant cat. Oh, that the smell of fish could reanimate your Posey. This is why I don’t have pets. If they only lived longer. . . .

    Sending many, many hugs your way.

  741. That was the cutest song, you have a BEAUTIFUL voice. So very sorry to hear about Posey, what a CUTIEPIE and that video is such a happy memory. Hold it near and dear. You deserve your mourning time. We’ll wait…

    Cathy in Shrewsbury, MA

  742. I see I’m not alone in saying this but I am just so sorry for your loss. It breaks my heart. I am crying for you.

  743. Toonces was so moved by the video that he asked me to type out our condolences, mostly by sticking his claws in my leg. We are so sorry for your loss.

  744. Oh no! I’m so sorry. I know it’s tough when we lose our little fuzzy babies. My Speck and Ibsen will both get extra cuddles tonight. Speck hates cuddles and Ibsen tries to eat me half the time, but I hope they’ll understand this time around.

  745. My heart breaks for you. I’m so sorry. You were both blessed to have each other.

  747. I’m so sorry for you loss. Will hug all my cats and tell them about your beautiful Posey.

  749. I’m very sorry for your loss. Our little furry friends really come to mean a lot over the years. They have been there through ALL the crap, and they never love us less. You’re in my thoughts and prayers.

  753. Jenny I am so sorry. And I am sure it is too soon to think of anything else right now but when you are ready, please take a moment to realize your amazing song is about a zombie cat. Nicely played. You also have a beautiful voice. Be in peace Posey.

  756. I am so sorry for your loss. It was devastating when my cat died last year. I still talk about her all the time

  757. I’m so sorry to hear about your loss of Posey. I loved hearing about your kitty. You’re in my thoughts.

  758. Blogess,

    I’m so sorry for your loss. That video was a beautiful way to honor Posey, albeit very bittersweet to watch. Thank you for sharing such a beautiful memory. I’m hugging my Monino and Yaya right now.

    Ileana

  760. I’m so sorry – I had a wonderful cat, Max, who I had for all of my adult life. He died about 5 years ago, but it was at least 2 years before I could think or speak of it without crying. Hugs and a few tears with you tonight. Tess

  761. 1- You have the most lovely singing voice I have heard in a long time. 2 – I loved Don Gato as a kid, too, and was singing along with you. 3 – I remember when I lost my Madison three years ago and it still can make me cry. Our fur-kids are our babies, too. I’m sorry you lost Posey today.

  762. 🙁 Today was a terrible day for you on so many levels (Re: your twitter account)! My heart goes out to you, Haley and Victor…I lost my cat of 19 years recently and it was one of the hardest things to imagine life without him. I hope that you find peace in the memories of the times you spent with such a wonderful cat! I’ll miss the stories of your Posey too :(!!

  763. I am so sorry for your loss. Every time a pet passes over to the other side I swear I will stop giving my heart to creatures with shorter life spans than me. But I never do – another fur person comes along and I love them with a different part of my heart. Just like I can be too full to eat but still have room in my ” dessert tummy” my heart can be owned by a fur person who is no longer here – only to discover that when another comes along, somehow there is room for them. NOT replacing the other but different in some way.

  764. wow. I haven’t been on the computer much lately and specifically went looking for your blog today..and saw this. I’m SO sorry. Words aren’t enough. I had one like Posey. It’s been 10 years and I still miss him. Sending you hugs and love and good juju… <3

  765. Condolences on the loss of your furry friend. 🙁 On a brighter note, your video transported me back to elementary school where I remember singing that song in music class. (What a lovely singing voice you have, BTW!)

  766. So, so sorry. I lost my 18 year old Talula last month. She was a little calico lioness, and I’ll never find her equal… It just plain sucks. Sending hugs…

  767. I’m so sorry to hear about losing your kitty. I know how difficult it is to lose a pet. My condolences…:(
    Tara

  768. I felt like Posey was my cat too. I am so sad to hear that he passed away. The video seemed very appropriate since it ended with you having us all tell Posey goodbye. Goodbye sweet Posey you were loved by millions and now we will all mourn your passing.

  772. My deepest condolences to you and your family. It’s always too soon when our four legged friends leave us. I keep thinking I don’t want anymore but then some fur face shows up needing help and they end up joining the crowd.

    I keep telling God if he’s going to keep sending these blessing he has to 1)Make sure I have the money to care for them and 2)Make my heart a little tougher when it’s their time to join him. So far I manage to get everyone what they need (human and fur faces) but I’m still waiting for the tougher heart.

  773. Crappity crap, that sucks. At least he can be memorialized with big pretty fireworks and sparklers and such, which seems like an appropriate Bloggess’ cat funeral to me.

    Hugs to you and your entire family (fur family included!)

  774. I’m really sorry to hear about Posey. I am an ardent cat-lover and one of my favorite things about your blog (aside from the incredible and touching humor) is that you include your kitty-cats. I’m gonna go hug Huxley extra tight now and be thankful for the time I have with him. Again, I am so sorry for the loss in your family. I know how hard it is.

  775. Jenny I am so very sorry. He was such a good cat and I know that you all loved him very much as did we. Just take comfort in knowing that he is happy and healthy and waiting for you on the Rainbow Bridge. He’s only gone from your sight…not from your heart.

  776. Ohh- such a lovely tribute to your beloved cat. I’m so sorry and I am totally learning that song for my cat!! 7888888888888888888888888888888888888t That was from my cat. I am so very sorry for your loss.

  777. Nooooooo, oh no. :*( So so so very sorry. Much loved kitty knew he was loved. *somebody moved the damn kleenex* Hugs and purrs to y’all.

  780. I’m sorry you lost your Posey today. I lost my cat of 11 years last night. It’s hard but you have people all around you that care and want to help you keep your spirits up. ((hug))

  781. I’m so sorry 🙁 It has been nearly ten years since I lost my childhood cat and I still miss her like crazy 🙁

  782. Your video brought tears to my eyes. I’m so, so sorry – I know what horrible pain and sadness losing a pet family member brings.

    I’m sure he’ll keep himself busy playing with and/or picking on your pug while he waits for you.

  783. So very sorry for your loss. Wishing you comfort and warm memories of your yeat Posey. Loved the.video. you have a great voice.

  785. I’m in a holding pattern for my 18-19 yr old cat (lost the other one last year) who is failing step by step and every day I come home and she’s not dead yet, I take a deep breath and hug her. As I know you did with Posey – you had a bunch of the same ‘false starts’ as we have. The best I can do, which you did as well, is let these furry little monsters know that they are loved and that they are welcome. And to thank them for how warm, loving and furry they made our lives.

    And at the same time, remind yourself how rich and wonderful you made Posey’s life compared to so many wild, un’owned’ and shelter cats and take solace in how happy you made him.

    I know it sucks. But he was lucky to have you and you to have him. So when the pain fades a bit, let the love and joy shine through.

  786. I’m so sorry to hear that. Our Bijou is 16 and we know our time with him is almost up.
    Your song was wonderful, and your singing voice is excellent. I’m sure Posey appreciates it. The only song I sing to Bijou is the “Soft Kitty” song from Big Bang Theory. He’s not a fan.

  788. I am really, really sorry to hear that. I lost my cat last year and it took me four weeks to get through a whole day without crying.

    My pets get hugs enough, so I’ll send one in your direction instead.

  789. ::hugs:: It’s rough, but it’ll get better. It took months before I could stop crying about my cat, who was 18.5. It’s been a little less than a year now, and I can think of him and mention him without crying now, even though I miss him. Posey was awesome, we’ll miss him, too.

  790. Sorry to hear that. It sounds like he was a fighter, though. 🙁
    You definitely did all you could for him.

  791. I’m so sorry for your loss. Your video was so sweet and made me cry (in a good way, I think).
    I’ll be hugging Rextavius Alonso Gallifrey, the Duke of Cadbury extra hard tonight.

  793. Oh God, I’m so sorry Jenny:( I know how awful it feels to lose a pet. I’m sending you a virtual hug right now.

  794. I’m so sorry to hear this. I have prayed for you and I hope you can find peace and comfort, even while you’re grieving.

  795. I am so sorry to hear this! Your Posey always reminded me of my 19 year old cat Tissi. She even has the same thyroid issues and all. I feel like a lost a part of Posey as well, as I can empathize with losing a kitty you’ve had for so long. No need to try and talk about Posey right now. Just go and grieve and cuddle Ferris. I will always love your Don Gato duet.

  796. I am so sad for you, Jenny. I wish I could think of something funny to say to make you feel better for all the bazillions of times you’ve done that for me. Peace and love to you. <3 <3 <3

  797. Oh Jenny, I’m so sorry. Cat hugging will happen here in Posey’s memory tonight.

  798. Dearest Bloggess, I just became a fan and wanted to say how sorry I was about your furry feline friend. I have my own Doña Gata that I love more than most humans and my heart goes out to you.

  799. I’m so sorry for your loss. Losing a pet is really hard, especially as some people think you should be over it in a week. Not these people here. xxxxx

  800. I’m so sorry Jenny, I’m sending lots of love your way. It’s so hard to lose someone who has been in your life for so long. I lost my 15 yr old cat 2 years ago – she was my buddy since highschool. I wish I had such an awesome video of her like you have if Posey! xoxo

  802. 704 seems irrelevant somehow but all the same I am sorry you lost your friend, Posey was fortunate to count you among his. I can only wish you something resembling peace.

  804. I’m so sorry for you loss. I dread the day I will have to deal with my kitties dying. I hope you’re ok.

  805. Cry, yell, go scarily quiet, hide in a closet, punch things that deserve it like any type of diet food, run outside without shoes and find a green, shaded spot alone and keen and shake until you exhaust yourself. Wash, rinse, repeat as needed. For as long as it takes. Then watch as Ferris starts to insinuate himself more into your orbit, because he will. Cats hate vacuums- all kinds. They fill any available space, and soon, or whenever it happens, you will have available emotional space, and he will be happy to claim it. And the Posey shaped part of your heart is there for good. You need a special place for pictures, memories, stories and all things Posey. That’s where they go. I lost my Ginger on Friday and this strategy seems to be helping me. I ache for your loss and send love.

  807. Oh Jen you poor thing! I had my Chloe for 18 years and when she passed I felt so lost and empty. She was in my life longer than any friend or sibling. It’s terribly hard, as these little fur babies seem to be cleaved from our very being and soul. It is simply the worst feeling. I have a pumpkin sized lump in my throat reading your post and all the comments. Will go look through all the pooch pics of my dear departed and think of all the good times. I’m sure all our little ones are playing and causing mischief together. Love and hugs to you and everyone who is missing their babies.

  811. truly sorry to hear of your loss. also, can someone let us know when it is the appropriate time to HIGH FIVE your singing skills?

  812. Tears for Posey. Hugs for you. Cuddles for Miss Zilla.

    From Miss Zilla’s Staff

  813. Dear Jenny,

    I am deeply sorry for your loss. Hug Ferris, and I’m going to go hug my lovely dog, Emma. The time we have with our animals is precious and often all-together too brief in our minds, and I know you embraced every day with Posey. Take comfort in that.

    Thinking of you and your family,
    Lady Macbeth

  814. Horribly sad for you. Saying goodbye to an old friend and member of the family is heartbreaking. They leave an awfully large furry hole in your life. Sending huge sympathy vibes across the ocean to you.

  815. So, so sorry. Hope you/you’re family are okay.
    Patch the cat was my baby from childhood until a few years ago, and when he died I wept for days.
    x

  816. I am so sorry to hear that your heavenly vacation has been followed by a day from hell. The kidney stone shall pass, the car can be repaired but I am sure your heart is going to take a while to recover. Just remember, it too will heal and soon you will again be able to say… “I don’t know what’s up the ass of the universe lately but I’ve HAD IT. I AM GOING TO BE FURIOUSLY HAPPY, OUT OF SHEER SPITE.” And your almost a quarter of a million followers, fans and friends will be right here for you the whole time. You help us feel less alone and see the rainbows behind the clouds, know that each of us wants to do the same for you.

  817. I’m sorry for your loss. I think many of us here know the kind of hurt that you feel when you lose a furry loved one. THNK YOU for sharing Posey with us over the years. Hearts.

  819. I’m so sorry for your loss. Our little furries are part of our families and are loved and missed just the same. Posey looked like a very lovey and happy cat. He’ll be watching over you at night protecting you from Copernicus.
    I’m going to give my two furries extra hugs and treats tonight.
    I hope Ferris Mewler is doing well.

  821. Oh, I’m so sorry! My heart hurt for you when I saw your tweet. Give Ferris Mewler lots of hugs and scratches. *hug*

  823. The one sucky thing about having pets (totalty typed kids at first, but no) and it actually stoped me from having any for years. Eventually I just said ‘fuck it’ and got a cat. When we eventually had to put her to sleep I ceried for two days straight because she was just awsome and my baby. Now I can totalty type about this though without getting all weepy.
    Really sorry for your loss. Hugs, K

  824. Oh Sweetness. So sorry. I know what you are going through, I lost my little black girl (a cat, in case that wasn’t obvious;) late last year. It doesn’t matter how old they are, it just ain’t fair that you can’t hug them every day.
    Be comforted by the fact that you were special to him, that you gave him a fantastic existence and all the pats and snacks a cat can want.
    *hugs*

  825. He’s in kitty heaven now, eating fresh salmon and chasing grasshoppers.

    Hope you feel better soon.

  828. Jenny,

    Sad to hear about Posey honey.

    Pussy heaven is a little bit nicer, and possibly a lot nuttier now.

    Huggles to the whole family.
    Brea x x x

  831. I’m so sorry for your loss, Jenny. Posey was a wonderful kitty. Thank you for posting that video – I remember that song from my own childhood. Giving my 2 beasties extra snuggles because of you.

  832. Wow. You have had a really shitty day. You know what would cheer you up. TOWELS. Lots and lots of towels.

  834. I am currently pet-less, so I am sending you heaps of virtual love and healing powers.

    Chin up buttercup!

  836. We’ve lost one of my cats a year ago, unexpectedly through a heart attack. We still miss her fiercely and can’t even watch her pics without crying. Some days, we still expect to see her walking down the stairs. :'(

    I am SO sorry for your loss, cats can be closer to us than any human being and their loss can leave you heartbroken.
    But in time, the tears will slowly turn to smiles, when you remember their weird habits, their cuddles, their miauws, and most of all their devotion to you.

    And now I’m gonna cuddle my cats until they start protesting, and then cuddle them some more…

  837. So sorry to hear of Posey’s passing. Our furry little people leave pawprints on our hearts that never fade.

    My big lumbering baby Fry will get extra snuggles tonight.

  843. I’m so sorry for the loss of such a loved member of your family. I will keep all of you in my thoughts and prayers. I know that he will be waiting for you on the other side of the Rainbow Bridge.

  845. Posey reminds me of my late, great Mercury – so sorry for your loss…

  847. I’m so sorry to hear this sad news. Virtual unfinished strangles to you, Hailey, Ferris Mewler, and Rolly. I’ll let Victor grieve in whatever manly way he’d like.

  848. I’m so sorry for your loss. I will be a basket case when my kitty and puppy go. 🙁 I’m going to go hug them now. 🙁

  849. I am so sorry to hear about Posey! My thoughts are with you. Our furry friends are definitely part of our families and losing them is heartbreaking. HUGS!!!

  850. I’ve cried for you this morning. Posey was SUCH a character and such a part of you. I know you knew this was coming but I am so so sorry it came now.

  851. Our cats are so precious… I’m sorry for all your pain, but hope your memories of Posey are a greater joy.

  852. Sorry. I loved your tribute and the patience of your sweet kitty who helped “perform” the song.

  855. I am so sorry lovely lady. Losing a pet is like losing a child. A lot of people don’t get that but I sure do having lost my first ‘child’ 2 years ago now 🙁

  857. So sorry, Jenny. Our little furry friends are such an important part of our lives and it’s hard when we lose them. Sending virtual hug.

  858. Ooooh, Jenny, I am so very very sad for you. I put down my beloved Cody who had been my best friend in a fur suit for 12 years (Rottweiler, not cat) last Monday and I’m still waking up with my face covered in tears. I know they say the pain eventually changes but they can suck it because it hurts RIGHT. FUCKING. NOW.

  859. Rest in peace dear Posey. You can come love on my crazy cats anytime you’d like.

  861. Oh Bloggess, I am so so sorry for your loss. Friday marks seven years since my beautiful first horse, Willow, was put to sleep and I still miss him. For months after he died, I fell asleep holding his lead rope and even brought one of his horse shoes with me all the way to Japan, where I live today. Cherish your memories of Posie and know we’re all thinking of you today. *internet hugs and kleenex delivery*

  862. Jenny,, I’m so sorry for your loss. Lord knows I’ll give Ruthie a couple extra snuggles today after hearing this sad news. (If she lets me. She is 13 after all and rather cranky about everything.)

    I always loved the Don Gato song in school and Posey was the perfect assistant for your rendition!

  865. Oh Jenny…. I’m so very sorry! I had to have my kitty, Hunter, put to sleep 2 weeks ago and it was so very heartbreaking. I know what you’re going through, Hunter was 15, I’m 32, so I’ve had him nearly half my life. My heart breaks for you…. I also have to say, you have a beautiful voice!!

  868. Really really sorry – our pets are such a big part of our lives – they’re part of our family. If you’ll accept it, here’s a hug from a caring stranger.

  870. Tears for you and Posey. You now have a little furry angel watching over you. Sleep sweetly Posey.

  871. I am so sorry to hear about Posey. It must be a difficult time so be kind to yourself.

  872. I’ve no words. “I’m sorry for your loss” always seems so hollow. And this will sound cliched and saccharine but I believe it’s true: they’re always with you. Love never dies. Take care, sweetie.

  873. I’m so sorry Jenny. I know you are devastated and your heart is broken. I’ve been through this twice before and it doesn’t get any easier. Posey knew he was loved and you were a great forever home for him. He is looking down on you so grateful to have had you as his mom. *hugs* from me Mr. Pink and Dora (my two people in fur suits).

  874. So sorry for your loss, I hope he’s waiting for you at the Rainbow Bridge. Sending warmth and healing your way..blessed be.

  877. Sorry to hear about your kitty. I had a cat, Rusty, who passed away at 19. She was my childhood pet. I still miss her terribly, 20+ years after she died. Your kitty was very lucky to have a best friend like you. Sending you hugs at this time of pain.

  879. Pets are beloved members of our family. I’m sure Posey had a wonderful life as part of yours. Run free, Posey!

  880. I’m so so sorry. Losing a pet is like losing a member of your family and I know how awful it did. I did hug my little friend a little tighter today, and I’m sending a big hug to you too. xx

  885. I am so very sorry for your loss. Only people who have cats themselves can understand.
    Hold strong – sending good vibes

  886. I am so sorry to hear about Posey. My 18month old (whom you signed and obviously can’t read just yet) was in my lap when I read this post and she said “Nooooooooooo”. I think she is just as devastated. We will hug all of our pets today and think of Posey.

  887. I’m so sorry for your loss. My husband and I foster rescue dogs and I’ll be snuggling extra with the one in our care today.

  888. I’m so sorry! I lost one of my cats two weeks ago, and I completely understand how you feel. I’m hugging my cats today (again), and thinking of the ones that are gone as well.

  889. I’m so sorry for your loss. You were both so lucky to have been blessed with each other while you could be. I would talk about that rainbow bridge thing, but that just makes me cry and think about the furry friend I lost in March.

    *hugs*

  891. I’m so, so sorry. We need immortal pets. And family. And friends.

  895. I’m so sorry, Jenny. It’s been a little over a year since I lost my baby (since I was 14) and I still miss her every day. Here’s wishing Posey an eternity of dreams filled with fish and you, and you a quiet place to mourn your loss.

    Sending hugs and ice cream.

  896. Jenny,

    You have my heartfelt sympathies. I have a very old cat and I live in fear of this. They are good friends and companions.

    Kelly

  897. So sorry for your loss. Pets are family too … you and Posey shared the gifts of friendship & love. I hope your memories of that special friendship bring you some comfort at this difficult time.

  898. i cried a little, poor Posey. He sounds like he’s got an impressive legacy of stories over his long happy life! I lost my puppy last year (well he was 14) and I didn’t realise how attached I was to him. *Hugs*

  899. So sorry, Jenny. Losing family members is never easy. We’re all thinking of you.

  900. Hugs to you and your family. It’s so hard losing a beloved fur baby. They bring us so much joy and love.

    xoxo

  901. I believe that all my animals are waiting for me in heaven; it is the only thing that ever gets me through. Posey had an amazing life. He was one lucky kitty, except for the whole girl”s name thing…..

  903. I’m so sorry Jenny, sending many many hugs to everyone in the family.

  906. (That showed up as a heart when I posted it – I’m so sorry!)

  907. That song was beautiful and reminded me of my BFF in a fur suit who has been gone for 5 years now. *sniff* Hugging my Don Gato kittehs right now.

  908. I’m so so sorry. Feeling so sad for you today and missing my kitty I lost a few years back. Pets become parts of our family.

  909. No jokes today. I am so sorry for your loss. Posey was a kick ass cat that is probably sitting on Andy Griffith’s lap.

  910. I am so sorry to hear about Posey. The video you posted was a wonderful tribute and it is so very clear how much you loved him.

  911. My condolences on your loss of Posey. He lived a long life full of love and purse flotsam shenanigans. I will scritch and squeeze my kittehs once they cease chasing each other all over the house. Extra squeezes for you and your family. By the way, you have a lovely singing voice 🙂

  913. I’m so very sorry, Jenny. My thoughts are with you and your family today.

  915. Sending you big hugs. It’s always so hard when they’ve been part of your life for so long. xoxo

  917. Last week I lost my cat too. Olivia was 12 years old. Typically my cats live so long they look worse than Posey did. I’ve enjoyed all your cat posts and you have all my thoughts and prayers right now. No matter how old they get it’s still hard when they are gone… all that time you used to use to check them life signs over the past 10 years is now so empty. Posey was a rock star and is now kicking ass in another realm.

  919. That video is so sweet in every way. May every creature be so loved. Jenny and Posey, true love always. Always.

  921. I am so very sorry for your loss. Posey was a beautiful (and apparently very patient 😉 kitty. It’s obvious from your video how much love you shared.

  922. Wow…Jenny, I’m so very sorry. Losing a fur baby is one of the hardest things in the world. They love us unconditionally and always make us feel better no matter what’s wrong. Your video was a perfect tribute to Posey. I, too, learned that song in grade school and have never forgotten it. Your beautiful voice and your beautiful Posey made it a wonderful way to remember your little furry love. My thoughts and those of my fur babies…past and present…are with you.

  924. I inherited my cat after my roommate died and have grown to love her in part because I read your blog and laugh at stories about your cats. My roommate struggled with mental illness most of her life and at first it was hard to love Baby (the cat), but she’s grown on me and cracks me up all the time. She’s 12 so this was a wake up call to appreciate her, thank you and bless your heart, I know you are hurting. xo

  927. So very sorry for your loss. My Cadence is the same color as your Posey, just not as fluffy. Posey looked like such a good, sweet kitty. I have you on my blog list and when I saw you had a new post entitled “Posey” my heart sank. I had a feeling what it was about before I clicked on it. So sad. He was lucky to have you and had a great long life. RIP Posey.

  928. I am so sorry for your loss, Jenny. I know this won’t make it hurt less, but today I will honor Posy’s life with some pretty sparklers and fireworks. Posy was a very special kitty.

  930. I am so sorry for your loss, it hurts when we lose our furry family members.
    I have been living with a cats almost my entire life and every time I have to say good-bye to one it kills me a little.
    They are, loving, secretive, comforting, funny, independent balls of love wrapped in fur.

  931. Aw, I am so very sorry about your loss. I’m sure someone else has already said this – being an animal lover means getting your heart broken so many times. Sending you and your family good thoughts.

  932. I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my dog in March and it hurts every single day. Pets are family and I feel sorry for those who don’t understand that love. I’m thinking of you. Hugs xoxoxo

  933. I am so, so sorry. Posey seems like a very special cat. I hope Ferris is coping well.

  934. Oh, the poor baby. Well, at least he had a loving home while he lived. I’m so sorry for your loss. /hugs

  935. I’m sorry for your loss. What a beautiful performance from the two of you. Thank you for sharing that so we can feel as if we know Posey a little better. Thinking of you.

  936. So sorry for your loss. Pets are family and often times more loving and comforting than our actual family. Especially in-laws.

  937. I’m so sorry, Jenny. Fur-persons occupy such a special place in our lives, and it’s so hard when they go. I grieve with thee.

  938. I’m so sorry to hear about Posey, especially after your already bad day. Fur people are so special in our lives. Posey looks like a wonderful cat and I know will be sadly missed. *hugs*

  939. Having just lost a pet of my own, I know how hard this is. I’m so sorry for you and your loss. May the mice in kitty heaven be slow and fat, sweet Posey!

  940. The love they give us in life makes it so painful when they go. *hugs hugs hugs* I’m so sorry.

  941. RIP Posey, Jenny we are all with you in our hearts in your time of need. We just went through this ourselves. My husband dealt with the loss of his “sister” (a cat his mother had for 20 years) just 2 weeks ago. It is tough and hard and it may seem like the hurt won’t end but it will. Your readers love you and we are all here to support you.

  942. Oh, Jenny. I’m so sorry. I keep watching for the tributes on television, but traditional media outlets seem to be snubbing sweet Posey. This is probably why people get their news from the internet now.

  945. I am so, SO very sorry to hear that. I lost my beloved cat more than a year ago, and it still hurts (of course). I wish you many good memories of Posey, and strength in dealing with the many cat-shaped holes I’m sure he’s left behind.

    It’s so very, very hard.

  948. I’m so sorry… I know what you’re going through… We’re preparing for the end for Jake the mutant calico, and it’s not easy even with the foreknowledge..

    Out thoughts are with you.

  949. I’m so sorry for your loss. My brother’s 10 year old lab passed away on Friday, so we’re feeling the loss here as well. Hope your other loving pets can help to fill the void.

  950. You have no idea how eerie this is. Just hours I after I finish an incredibly heartbreaking book about a 13 year old prostitute (Lullabies for Little Criminals) you post this video of you singing the very song the girl danced down the street singing with one of the few characters who connected with her. I’m so sorry about Posey.

  952. *sniff* I’m sorry, Jenny (and Victor & Hailey). 🙁 That’s all I got – I’m just sorry.

  954. I’m so sorry. I have now given Aslon the Magnificent a good petting and a hug, and Kona the Krazed a neck scratch and a kiss. They also got a big pile of catweed (catnip) apiece in Posey’s honor.

  955. I’m so sorry for your loss. Our pets touch our hearts like no other can…I lost my kitty Hemmy earlier this year – 15 years of love, fun and magic (I called her my magic kitty because she always appeared out of nowhere) Many hugs and much love to you.

  957. I’m sorry Posie is no longer with you. My thoughts are with you and your family.

  958. I recently lost my older dog after 11 years, so I understand your pain. My deepest sympathies to you and your family.

  959. Oh, sweet Posey. So sorry for your loss, and thank you for sharing the video. That was incredibly sweet and a fitting example of what an awesome cat you had.

    I know it is off topic, but you have a lovely singing voice!

    Give Ferris many, much hugs.

  960. Phoebe the Cat has been cuddled. So sorry about Posey….so hard to let them go. Sending hugs from San Francisco.

  961. I’m so, so sorry to hear about Posey. I know how much it hurts at the time when you lose a beloved furbaby and also how you get “sneaker grief” moments for a long time after, when you look at a favorite napping place or walk in the front door and have that second or two of expecting to see a sweet little face before you remember that they are gone. Hopefully your many memories of Posey’s long and happy life with you will give you some consolation.

    As an aside, that “Senor Don Gato” song popped into my head over the weekend, but I had completely forgotten one of the verses. Listening to you sing it – especially with your wonderful Posey there – was a real gift for me. Thank you!

  962. I’m so sorry about Posey. I know he was very loved through his whole life, and obviously loved you back, which I hope helps. It’s never easy to lose a beloved pet.

  963. She was a very, very good kitty.
    My childhood cat was also very good, and sometime after he passed he became Saint Kitty. I hope Saint Kitty and Saint Posey get to meet up in Cat Heaven, where maybe they will be fruitful and multiply and send us down baby Saint Posey Kitty babies. I hope so.

  964. Posey dances (and sings) in your heart now. So sorry for your loss.

  965. I am so sorry. One of our cats is FIV positive so I know he will leave us sooner than he should but I try to focus on the fact that while he is still here we are making his life as good as it gets. I’m sure Posey had a pretty amazing life with you too.

  966. I’m just so sorry to hear this, Jenny. Going to hug my cat now, maybe sing a song with him on my lap, though my voice isn’t as beautiful as yours.

  967. I know this won’t make you feel any better, but I got drunk last night and made my husband end every sentence with “meow, meow, meow”.

  968. Oh Jenny, I’m so sorry. Long time reader and never commented before, but I had to send hugs for this! *hugs* *hugs* *hugs* I’m going to go cuddle my furbabies for the second time today!

  969. I’m so sorry, Jenny. Sending you and your family my best sloth-hugs. It’s so hard to lose a fuzz-person. Elsie and Angus (my cow-kitties) send headbutts and purrs.

  970. I don’t have anything new to say, just the usual… I am so sorry for your loss. ::hugs::

    I know how hard it is to lose a beloved animal friend. I completely broke down when my cat KC died several years ago. Fortunately, my husband was there to help me get through it. And you have Victor and your beautiful daughter to help you. Don’t be afraid to lean on them for mutual support. They probably miss him almost as much as you do. Again, I am so very sorry for your loss.

  972. I’m so sorry.

    Both our dogs growing up died within 2-3 years. One was hit by a stranger in the middle of the night on the rural highway outside our house and the other was hit by my brother’s teacher. I was young and both were very much here today gone tomorrow sort of things. And being an AFBrat, I was used to friends leaving after a couple years.

    Last year my husband and I got the first dog of our adult lives (we are both over 30). Melody Puddles isn’t even a year old yet, and already I can’t imagine how I’ll feel when I have to say goodby to her…

    Excuse me while I go get her some duck jerky and throw the frisbee awhile…

  973. So very, very sorry to hear about Posey. We lost our dog, Pep, last night. Believe me, I know how you’re feeling.

    Michelle

  975. i just watched that video and cried my eyes out – my sweet little kweli kitty suddenly showed signs of being sick on saturday – I woke up at 8:30am that morning and the horrible whirlwind ended at 1:00pm when I buried her 🙁

    so strongly I feel your loss of posey. huge hugs to you.

  977. My heart hurts for you and your family. I am so sorry for your loss. I know words cannot change things but know that you are in my heart and prayers (as always). I’m going to love on Adolf now and cry my eyes out. *hugs*

  978. It’s amazing how such small animals can leave such huge holes in our hearts. So sorry for your loss.

  979. So sorry for your loss. Sending you many hugs.
    Btw I’d never heard that song before but it is awesome.

  980. I’m sorry for your loss and loved the prank. I also am totally thrilled that you sang Don Gato. I haven’t heard that since I was in Elementary school. You have a pretty voice.

  983. Wishing to you all the love, comfort and strength at this awful time. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. x x x

  984. Jenny, I’m so sorry! Losing a pet is excruciating and I am truly sorry you have to go through it.

  985. I watched the Posey video and cried. This may seem kind of lame since I am a total stranger to Posey…and you. I have 3 fab feline boys and one looks just like Posey. His name is Leon and I will hug him extra tight, tonight. Tears for Posey and hugs to you. He was lucky to be yours.

  987. I’m so sorry. I cried a little for you and gave my kitties all a little tuna in memory. Hugs and happy thoughts being sent your way.

  988. I’m sorry to hear about Posey:( My cat was almost 19, when we lost her. One of the hardest things I ever had to deal with. Sending lots of love and hugs your way:)

  989. So sorry for your loss and you are the first person I’ve ever come across that knows the Don Gato song. I sing it all the time to my kids and cats. I sang it with you while watching the video! Posey will be missed.

  997. I’m so sorry, Jenny. I lost my kitty almost a year ago. It leaves such a huge void. Love to you.

  998. I am so sorry for your loss Jenny. Like so many have said, my heart truly does hurt for you. We had to put our 18 year old cat, Toby down at the end of April. Losing him was like losing a child, we had had him for 14 years, and we still miss him terribly. All I can say is that it gets a bit better with time, but Posey will always have a special place in your heart. God bless.

  1000. I really hate that 🙁 I lost my best friend and first son Zeke last year. He was a lab mix and ten years old. Making the decision to put him down was the most painful decons o of my life. I’m so sorry that you had to lose her.

  1001. I wanted to send my condolences to you…I had to put my big kitty down last year as he had injured his spine and it was obvious he wasn’t going to get any better or walk without a whole lot of pain so the vet and I chatted and he said it was time. I cried for a week and my boss wouldn’t let me go home and bury him…I cried all day…it’s like losing a limb. Hugs to you and yours, but mostly you.

  1004. Oh God, I’m so sorry. I know this pain, and I’m just so sorry you’re going through it now. It’s such a sad thing.

  1005. So far down the comments, don’t know if you’re still reading… but my sincerest hugs and loves to you.

  1006. So sorry to read about Poesy. My furry baby is 19 years old. He’s a little cranky anymore but he’s getting extra loving from me tonight.

  1007. Booooo… :'( We’re all very sad for you, Manson, Dita, and I. Hugging on my kitties right now. So sorry.

  1008. So sad for you 🙁 we lost 3 of our old kitties in less than a year, and I think of them every single day. Hugs to you.

  1009. I’m so sorry for your loss! We lost my dog, Lady, a few months ago and Im still recovering from the grief. It’s amazing how they truly become part of our family. I pray peace and love for your family during this time.

  1010. I am so, so sorry to hear about your cat. I love that video, and when we found it a few weeks ago, we spent considerable time watching it over and over (and over) because my toddler loves it too and demanded repeats. It was very clear that Posey was a dear, sweet snuggleblug. I know she’s leaving a big furry hole right now. Tearing up for you, and sending big hugs.

  1012. See you across the Rainbow Bridge Posey! SO sorry to hear of your loss Jenny. I have to find the posting about the repair guy thinking Posey was dead & having the crap scared out of him. My very favorite “Posey Moment”.

  1013. Sending you big sloth-hugs. Those furry little people leave BIG holes when they leave us. It’s been over a year since I had to tell my sweet Tigger goodbye. Big Hugs!

  1015. I am so sorry about Posie. We have an almost 15-year old cat, Peaches, who is actually the owner of our home. He lets us live there (begrudgingly). We are almost to the point that you have been and it worries me. They are definitely part of the family. I am thinking of you!

  1016. So sorry about your Posey baby. 🙁 I actually burst into tears at your first sentence. Only positive wishes to you.

  1017. Oh, Jenny, I am so, so sorry. I know how hard it is to go through something like this. I’m still aching from losing my mom’s beautiful lab last year. I wish I could do something to ease the pain from this loss. *hugs*

  1018. I’m so sorry Jenny, pets truly do become family members and it’s so difficult to lose them. *hug*

  1019. Oh Jenny, I am so sorry! I lost my cat, Boo, a couple of years ago and he was 16. It’s hard to lose someone you love like that.

  1020. So sorry about your kitty friend. However, I MUST say, you have such a lovely singing voice! I’m sure Posey appreciated all of his (oh crap, I just assumed he was a him, and hope I’m not giving him an identity crisis in Heaven) serenades.

  1021. First of all, Kismet (my kitten) and I are so very, very sorry for your loss. We don’t have the words to express it, really. *virtual hugs!*

    Your singing voice is lovely, by the way.

  1022. Hi Jenny,
    I’m so sorry about Posey. Pets are truly the only beings that love you without question. They are wonderful parts of our lives. Remember the good times with Posey. Big hugs from a big fan!
    Rachel

  1025. ((hugs)) I’m so sorry. It’s hard to do, but you made the right decision.

  1026. Jenny, I hope this brings you some comfort…it was the sentiment that helped me when I lost Kuma. “We, who chose to surround ourselves with lives more temporary than our own, live within a fragile circle, easily and often breached. Unable to accept its awful gaps, we would still live no other way. We cherish memory as the only certain immortality, never fully
    understanding the necessary plan.” ? Irving Townsend
    Holding you in our highest thoughts.

  1027. Jenny, my heart goes out to you, I am so sorry for your loss. Sending you peace and love.

  1028. I’m so sorry for your loss. I’ve still got a Sweet-Fe shaped hole in my life and it’s been nearly 6 months. Hugs.

  1029. Aw, crap.
    Now who will freak people out by pretending to be dead while sleeping with eyes open?
    Dammit. And I am very sorry. And I can’t believe he ran out of souls to suck to prolong his life even further (because that was obviously working for him. Either that or he was Mr. Burns in cat form)
    I am sorry you have to have that emptiness now, but I think it’s awesome you have a video of him helping you sing. That’s a song I still sing all the dang time, btw.

  1031. I’m so sorry! You gave him such a great life and in return he gave you so much love!

  1032. I’m so sorry for your loss! I know how much it hurts to lose a furry family member. I’m glad that you had him for a long time, though, and that you have lots of happy memories of him to warm your heart in his absence. RIP, Posey.

  1034. I’ve been reading your blog for about a year and never posted, but I just wanted to share that I was so saddened to read your tweets and blog about Posey. So, so sorry for your loss.

  1035. I don’t have any great words of wisdom, I wish I did. I’ll certainly miss your Posey stories. My only wish for times like this is that old, but still applicable saying of, I hope the day comes soon that thoughts of Posey will bring a smile to your lips before they bring a tear to your eye.

  1036. Jenny, I’m so very sorry for your loss. It’s so very very hard to lose one of our most special people (because cats are people too).

  1037. Just had to add my voice (and Kashka and Mushu’s – my fur babies) to the many offering their condolences… we feel your loss too. Think of the ‘soft kitty’ song from The Big Bang Theory and know we’re sending some ‘purr purr purrs’.

  1038. Oh nosssss! I am so sorry to hear that Jenny! Posey has likely already found my best friend growing up, Jake, (He’s the giant tabby cat with an asshole personality at first, but you’ll really like him after a little while, Posey… just say you’ve purred over the interwebs for Heather, and he’ll be your friend). Jake was my Don Gato. I got him around the same time I was learning that song in school for a play (2nd grade), so I’d run around with him in my arms, singing that song at the top of my lungs…

    Even after I left for college, I’d still come back home to visit and serenade him, and even after I got married, I’d still hum that song as he’d lay CAT-atonic in my lap… by the time I got married, Jake looked much like Posey did towards the end… skinny, matted, but boy could he purr. He never purred as an adult cat, i think because I tormented him so, but as soon as he started losing his marbles, his eye sight, and his hearing, I just think he didn’t realize he was purring. 🙂 Jake passed away on July 13, 2009. I wasn’t able to be there in person, but my mom had me on the phone the whole time… I miss him so much, but I am so thankful for the 18 years we got to spend together. My parent’s house just isn’t the same without his awesomeness. His ashes now sit on the mantle next to a collage I made of photos of him throughout his fantastic life.

    Sorry for the tangent… and sooooo incredibly sorry for your loss. That’s the only thing I hate about dogs and cats… their lifespan is so much shorter than ours. My future children will never get to know the legend that was Jake Keller III, but the’ll have photos. 🙂

    My heart goes out to you and your family!

  1039. Oh, how sad–I’m so sorry. I thought Posey was the coolest cat on the Internet, and there are a lot of cool cats on the Internet.

  1040. Oh Jenny I’m so sad to hear about Posey. 🙁 I hope you can take comfort in the knowledge that you gave him a most interesting life. Very few cats have had the pleasure of a human as wildly entertaining and as loving as you.
    I have two furbabies of my own & I know the heartbreak that loss can bring, my heart goes out to you and your family.

  1041. So sorry that Posey has passed. I’m glad he got to be a part of your little book tour. He will be missed and was loved by all.

  1042. Oh no…I’m so very sorry for your loss, Jenny. The day we lost our little cocker spaniel was one of the saddest days of my life…and the first time I ever saw my husband cry. You did a wonderful job immortalizing the amazing Posey here on your blog, which means a part of her will live on forever. 🙂 *Hugs*

  1043. I am so incredibly sorry to hear about Posie – those little furballs become more a part of you than you can ever possibly imagine. I’ll be thinking about you – big, sloth-y hugs!!

  1044. I am so sorry to hear about Posey. Such a sweet little love. I shall cuddle the living crap out of my Lelia and tell her it’s for a friend who’s lost her fur-baby.

    She’ll understand.

  1045. aww no! so sorry for your loss! hug all your furry babies until their kisses make it bearable. <3

  1046. So sorry about Posie. I’d like to think he’s hanging out with my guy Pookie causing some serious hi-jinks in Kitty Heaven…

  1047. I’m so sorry you lost your lovely little gentleman. He was very loved.

    I love your video and that song, oh man, that SONG! I thought I was the only person singing that. No one ever seems to know it. I always wonder where those people went to school. Probably rich, hoity-toity private schools that turned their noses up at Espanol. Ay carumba!

    Hugs to you and your family. RIP, dear Posey.

  1049. I am so sorry for your loss, Jenny. I hope that Posie is in a better place, and that soon it won’t feel so sad anymore. Lots of love to you and your family.

  1050. So sorry Jenny. Bye Posey. Say hi to my Olive, Scooter, Speed, Missy, Tramp, Midnight, James and Mr. Smith when you get over the bridge.

  1052. I’m sorry for the loss of your wonderful Posey. Been there with 3 17+ kitties and it totally sucks! Hugs coming your way.

  1053. Crying for you and little Posey. I’m so sorry for your loss <3

  1054. I cried a little for you and your friend. They are just so wonderful.
    I’m so sorry for your loss.

  1055. You have a beautiful voice. I sing this song too, but I only know one line, and I apparently have it wrong. All I sing is “Ole El Gato was a cat MEOW MEOW MEOW”. The end.

    I am sorry for your loss. 🙁

  1060. So very, very sorry. 🙁

    Our cat died in January and I still keep seeing her out of the corner of my eye. Honestly, I kind of enjoy the possibility of a ghost cat stalking the house, continuing to be exasperated by human stupidity, and enraged that when she tries to bite us on the ankles we don’t feel it. 🙂

    Yes, I know it’s not actually the case, but. . . I miss her, so Imaginary Ghost Angry Cat is better than nothing. 🙂

  1062. I’ve never even met your sweet Posey and I’m teary, but I’ve had an Annabelle sized hole in my heart when my lab died, so I understand the sadz you’re feeling. Many, many hugs for you. I hope Posey is reanimated somewhere enjoying fragrant fish. 🙂

  1063. I am so very sorry 🙁 Virtual hugs to you… I know how much your heart hurts. Furry babies are just as big a part of a family as the human ones. RIP, Posey.

  1064. Virtual hugs, Jenny! Posey had that classic “I’m gonna kill you” look in the video, and I’m so sad for you. Crying with you, too .

  1066. Posey I can relate to losing the most genuine love in your life – I lost my cat Lacey – my little florence nightingale – this past Friday. She was the love of my life for a short 15 years and I miss her.

  1067. Posey I am very sorry for your loss and I can relate to losing the most genuine love in your life – I lost my cat Lacey – my little florence nightingale – this past Friday. She was the love of my life for a short 15 years and I miss her.

  1068. First, I’m so sorry about Posey. After having read your book and lurked on your blog for some time, I’ve read a lot about her.

    Second, I remember singing Don Gato in a school concert in 3rd grade. I sang it to my husband one day, and he thought I’d made it up. Thank you for sharing it.

  1069. One of my all time favorite posts on your site is when you and Posey scared the shit out of the exterminator who thought Posey was dead. He will be surely missed. My condolences.

    The end

  1070. I’m so sorry that Posey is gone. In the video, Posey had the most wonderful I’d-like-to-kill-you-but-I-don’t-have-opposable-thumbs face. My cat frequently has the same expression, especially when he’s shooed away from whatever he’s currently scratching that isn’t a scratching post.

  1071. I’m so sorry. That Posey-sized hole in your heart is filled with his heart, it will always be there. Hugs.

  1072. Im so sorry about your fur-kitty 🙁
    Ive hugged and cuddled my furkids extra today in his memory xo

  1073. So sorry for your loss! I lost a cat (also an orange male) a few years back and it was heartbreaking.
    He was lucky to have you as his person.

  1074. Oh, Jenny, I am so sorry about Posey. I have loved reading about him. What a life he had with your family. Sending lot of warm wishes your way. I hope you get to keep the sloth!

  1075. I’m so sorry for your loss… Just got home from a few days in Berlin and gave my kitty some extra big hugs.

  1076. Very sad to read about your loss of the wonderful Posey 🙁
    Hugs for you and your family x

  1077. So sorry for your loss Jenny. We lost our poppa Basset 2 yrs ago just this time of year. It’s hard when they go and they do leave a hole in your heart. You will always miss Posey, but you will always have those good memories too.

    So glad you had the awesome crowd of animals at your house today. And that you got that most wondrous hug from the sloth.

  1078. What a nice sweet kitty he was. I’ve had both my cats for half my life and I am dreading the day they can’t go on anymore. Just sending all the huggy thoughtwaves your way.

  1080. I’m so sorry for your loss. But you shared so many good snuggles and that’s the most important part! And your rendition makes me love an already-favorite song even more.

  1081. Grieve not,
    nor speak of me with tears,
    but laugh and talk of me
    as if I were beside you…
    I loved you so —–
    ’twas Heaven here with you.

    by Isla Paschal Richardson

    Rest in peace sweet Posey <3

  1082. I’m so sorry to hear about Posey. Losing a fur baby is very difficult. My thoughts are with you.

  1083. Jenny i am so sorry. there is really nothing like girl kitty love for a girl/woman. i can say this because there is still a big hole in my heart from my last girl kitty. i rescued two boy kitty brothers, and they are great, but sometimes i just miss her. maybe because when she died i was holding her in my arms. took her very last breath. i know that might sound cruel that i did not have the vet put her to “sleep”, but i had promised her that i would not let her die in a vet office or cat hospital. it takes awhile, maybe forever, to be a little more healed than you are now. i pray for you to find some laughter through your tears. it sounds so meaningless at the moment, but you had her for half your life and those years were full of posey-awesomeness. : ‘ (

  1084. Jenny,

    I’m back to offer a helpful quote from the Bible “At least you don’t have your hand stuck up a cow’s vagina.”

    Love (again)
    Brea x x x

  1085. Really, truly sorry about Posey.

    I’m still missing my Scooby Doo, 2.5 years after having to let her go.

    They love us unconditionally, they don’t talk back (generally), and I couldn’t imagine life without pets.

    Hope your heart feels lighter soon.

  1086. I am sorry to hear about your precious Posey. Virtual Hugs are being sent and I know he is now a furry Angel on your shoulder to watch over you and his human family.

  1087. I hope you are doing well with your new fur baby but I so sorry you lost your little old man. But he was loved and I’m sure he knew it. HUG

  1088. I’m so sorry darling. I know Posey had a wonderful life with your family and left you with many happy memories.

  1090. I’m so sorry. (I am crying now. Every time I hear of a friend losing someone they love, it makes me think of my own little people. I try to think of that as a good thing – the place they have in my heart is still strong :-)) And Posey was kick-ass – a true Don Gato! xoxo

  1092. So sorry, Jenny. I have a 17 year old cat who has also been my friend for over half my life, and your stories about him always made me laugh. I am so sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you. *hugs*

  1093. I have a friend who is 12 years old now. . . . her sister passed away last year. I had to feed them with syringes when I got them. . . it is so very heartbreaking to lose a friend who loves you so unconditionally! Friends with fur are the best by far. You have my sincere sympathy.

  1094. I just got finished brushing my 14 year old cat right before reading this post. I’m really sorry. He was adorable and you clearly loved one another greatly.

  1095. I am sorry for the loss of Posey. I just lost my best friend- Lucky, a 12 year old Siberian Husky who i have had all but the first 6 months of my marriage. We just had our 13 anniversary and my husband almost never, or actually never likes or uses any gifts i get him. if i had your imagination maybe he would remember what i got him at least, but i don’t. and i miss lucky a lot – so i join you in your posey sadness. I am about to go to the bookstore to find something real to read, not just kindle app books. This might be my first comment to you, i gave your book to my daughter who jus turned 20 yesterday.

  1096. I am so very sorry.. We had to put down our Chloe (16 years) on my birthday over a year ago. I’m still not over it.

  1097. Oh Jenny … I haven’t “visited” your blog in a while. I am so so so sorry to read about your loss. I feel for you. We lost our Ursula last year at 11 years old, but we still have her sister Squeaky. The pain gets less and less every day but the memories last for ever.

    Hug and kisses !!!!

  1098. Oh cats. It is amazing how they wiggle their way into our hearts. It’s been several days now; I hope you are feeling alright. Posey was indeed a special one.

  1100. It always hurts when we lose them-I am so sorry for your loss. I had to put my buddy Rufus down six weeks ago-and I still hurt for for Darth Rufus…many happy memories of Posey to you!

  1101. I am so sorry to hear about your loss….what an amazing keepsake you have with this video though!!! A beautiful well behaved cat enjoying the attention and love of a devoted Mum xox

  1103. You are a truly beautiful person with a kind soul.
    I foster animals, in addition to my own farm, and we lost a little black kitten a month or so ago. I was able to save his sister and we have smothered that little one with love. Even my two evil doublemint twin cats have taken to her, so it will make it that much harder to adopt her out.

    With all that said, I will leave you with a favorite quote from the movie “Blow”, I know…scary drug movie, but totally brilliant.
    “Throughout my lifetime I have left pieces of my heart here and there. And now, there is almost barely enough to stay alive”
    That pretty much sums up how I feel about all the animals I have had, known, fostered, adopted and above all…Loved.

    I’m so sorry for your loss. They really do become a part of us. Hopefully Thomcat will help fill that hole with a new love.

  1104. I’m sorry for your loss. On a positive note, I just watched this video. Two things: I’m jealous because I wish I could sing, and my 7 year old said, “Who is that?” And I told her and she said, “Do you know her?” And I said, “Not really, but I feel like I do,” to which she replied, “She seems nice!” I just thought that was sweet. I bet you *are* nice.

  1107. Aw, this totally sucks the donkey dick. I am so sorry for your loss and your heartache.

  1108. So sorry to hear about Posey. My 21 year old kitty, Sarah, just passed to the Rainbow Bridge a month ago.

    BTW, You have a lovely voice.

  1113. My first time to visit your blog, love it. I’m so sorry for your loss. They always live on in our hearts.

  1114. I know I’m late, but I was really sad to see this post 🙁 I hope all of you are holding up okay.
    Best wishes to you and yours.

  1115. I’ve been out of the loop for about a month, but am catching up. Just saw this, and Jenny, I’m so very sorry…I know how it hurts….My four legged kids are sending puppy love and hugs to you right now…

  1116. My heart hurts with you. I am so sorry for your loss. I slipped into a two-month depression when my Bianca died. Actually, she didn’t die die. My parents had her put to sleep while she was in their care. She had stopped peeing, eating, and had grown tumors on her chin in the short week I was gone. It was awful. Thoughts are with you…

  1117. Catching up after being away for a while. Sorry to hear about Posey. Sending virtual hugs your way, as I know the hurt doesn’t go away quickly…

  1118. catching up after an absence, so sorry about Posey. I have an 18yo furperson that has had her claws in ymheart for all of her years. It’s hard to say goodbye. {{{Jenny}}}

  1119. This was the sweetest video that I have every seen. You have a lovely voice, btw. I’m so glad that you have this to keep forever. On another note, my local library recommended your book in a newsletter they sent out. (in Beverly, MA)

  1120. So Sorry! I hope your new kitten has taken some of the sting away. 🙁

  1121. Watched your video and cried, thinking of my own lost kitty. It takes a long time not to be sad, but we go on. Though we never forget, we find other kitties to love. So sorry for your loss.

  1122. I’m so very sorry to hear that. Losing a furry person after being together for so long is very painful.

  1123. Shortly after I posted a picture of my “Time Lord” kitteh Annie on your fbook page, she too died. I kept waiting for her to regenerate, still waiting.

    My heart breaks for you, I feel keenly your pain.

  1124. I’m a few days behind, but wanted to share my condolences, that I’ve been there, too.

    Also that I totally love this video. Meow, meow, meow.

  1125. it’s been a crazy mad few weeks and i was here catching up and saw this. i am so very sorry. they are such little creatures, but leave such big holes behind them when they are gone.

  1126. I have been working crazy hours the past 2 weeks and today finally sat down to catch up on your blog. So this is my belated HUGE ((((((((HUGS))))))) to you. I am so sorry about Posey and that video made me teary eyed.

  1127. I took my golden retriever to be put to sleep about 7 years ago. Hardest thing Ive ever had to to do. When I was new to this town she was my only friend. I cried like a baby in the parking lot and some random stranger (another guy) let me sob on his shoulder. He must have been at least 50 and I was 37ish at the time.

    Still breaks my heart to think about it but its good to know to very grown men can comfort each other about a pet and it not be all weird.

  1128. Oh, I am so sorry. I lost my little girl, Cutie, in June. She was with me most of my life, as well. I am sure Cutie and her sister, Sunny (who passed 2 years ago) were waiting to greet Posey. I still expect her to meow at my door in the morning or when I get home. :o( I’m a bit late, but big hugs to you and your family from me and my Kitty. <3

  1129. Jenny, I doubt very seriously that you read all the many comments left to you daily, but wanted to share my consolances and sadness in losing such an important loved one in your life. I too laid my own down on July 5th and it was one of the hardest things I’ve ever done. My sweet Fritz, a white poodle, was fourteen. I’m so sorry your sweet Posey had to go too! Much love and happy thoughts!

    Tami

  1130. hi jenny! so sorry to hear about Posey’s passing. i loved that video the first time and i loved it more today.
    big mushy virtual hugs and <3

  1131. When I was 10 years old, my cat got killed by a car right before school. It was horrific finding his mangled body in the street. That day at school, the teacher taught us this song and no one quite understood when I began to cry uncontrollably and had to leave the classroom. It was humiliating. But, you sing it so nicely. (Much better than a bunch of rowdy 5th graders!) Thanks for the memory and I am sorry about Posey. May he find my Lunk and be happy.

  1132. So so sorry about Posey (I too am catching up on posts this week and just saw this). As it turns out, we found out our cat Sid has kidney disease and we have to put her down this week. This will be the first cat that I have had to put down and I don’t know how I’m going to do it — I feel your pain because they truly are little furry family members. Hugs!

  1133. Anyone can see that kitty was a most special fluff who loved you to bits. He did a marvelous job with Don Gato!

  1134. I don’t know if it’s a testament to my hypersensitivity, instability, love of all felines or just your lovely singing voice, but I’m weeping over my coffee for the loss of Someone Else’s Pet. I’m new here, and slowly catching up…

  1135. Thank you for keeping this post available. We just put our cat to sleep yesterday, and I used to sing this to him (well, just the first 2 verses.)

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