Deep breath. My upcoming book (How to Be Okay When Nothing is Okay) is coming out next month and I am going on book tour! I am both terrified and excited in equal measures because my last book came out during covid so I have not been on a real book tour in over aContinue reading “HOW TO BE OKAY WHEN NOTHING IS OKAY ON BOOK TOUR”
Author Archives: thebloggess
Just tell me I don’t have Frankenstein.
Today Victor and I were driving home and I said, “The other day I saw an iguana sunning himself on our neighbors fence” and Victor looked at me like I was crazy but I know what I saw. And when we turned it I was like, “THERE IT FUCKING IS! DO YOU NOT SEE THATContinue reading “Just tell me I don’t have Frankenstein.”
February catch-up.
Sorry I’ve been MIA. I sort of fell off the world but I’m back today with actual energy and slightly less depression. YAY FOR LESS DEPRESSION! Just dropping a few notes here to catch up on life, the universe and everything. Some of you have asked if I’m making the audiobook for HOW TO BEContinue reading “February catch-up.”
Some happy book news and library love.
How To Be Okay When Nothing Is Okay got a starred review from Library Journal! (Starred reviews are rare as hen’s teeth and denote a “book of distinction” and I’ve only gotten a few in my life so I am literally am sitting here with the biggest dumb smile on my face and thought IContinue reading “Some happy book news and library love.”
Sometimes it’s hard, but it’s worth it.
I wasn’t going to write anything today because I’m in a depression and that makes my head into mush, but then I looked at a comment on my last post that was utterly infuriating and I started to highlight it and scream about how terrible people can be and then I stopped and took aContinue reading “Sometimes it’s hard, but it’s worth it.”
NO NEW CANCER
Y’ALL. I just heard from my doctor and the stomach biopsies they did last week came back showing no additional cancer! WHOOP! He’s so optimistic about my prognosis that instead of doing to biopsies every 4 months I don’t have to do another one until the end of the year, which means that I don’tContinue reading “NO NEW CANCER”









